Wakambobuda munjodzi kwenguva pfupi here mwana wako obva anyangarika kamwe kamwe? Kunyange zvazvo izvi zvichigona kuitika kune chero mubereki, zvinowanzoitika kumwana ane autism spectrum . Mukurapa, tinodana chirwere ichi kuti 'Autism Elopement'. Zvichitaurwa zviri nyore, ndepaya mwana paanongoerekana atiza mumwe munhu ari kumutarisa, kunyangwe ari kutariswa. Njodzi huru pane izvi ndeyekuti vamwe vevana ava vanokwezvwa nemvura zvinoshamisa. Ndosaka vachiedzwa kuenda kudhamu riri pedyo, rwizi, rukova, kana dziva rekushambira. Nekuda kwechikonzero ichi, chikonzero chikuru cherufu rwevana vakadaro vanorasika kunyura.
Sei mamiriro ezvinhu aya ane njodzi? (Autism Elopement)
Vana ava vanogona kunyangarika chero nguva yegore. Asi njodzi yacho inotowedzera munguva yezhizha, apo zuva rinopisa zvikuru. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti tinopedza nguva yakawanda tiri panze uye tichifamba. Fungidzira, kana mhuri yese iri kunwa BBQ, ichitamba panze, kana kuti iri pazororo pahotera iri pedyo negungwa, mwana anogona kungonyangarika kamwe kamwe.
Vanhu vazhinji, pamwe kunyange vari mumhuri dzine mwana ane autism, havazivi nezvenjodzi iyi. National Center for Missing and Exploited Children muUnited States yakaita tsvakiridzo panyaya iyi. Vanoti 84% yevana vane autism vanofa netsaona inokonzerwa nekunyura mumvura .
Ongororo yakaitwa muna 2012 mumagazini yePediatrics yakawana kuti ruzhinji rwevabereki vane vana vane autism ( vanoda kusvika 50%) vakati vana vavo vakaedza kunyangarika mushure memakore mana. Zvakare, 24% yevana vakanyangarika vaive munjodzi yekunyura . Vamwe 65% vaive munjodzi yekupinda mutsaona yemotokari . Vana ava vanogona kunge vachifarira mvura pamwe nemotokari, zvitima, injini dzemoto, nezviratidzo zvemugwagwa.
Sei vana ava vachitsvaga nzvimbo dzakanyarara, kunyanya mvura?
Zvakaoma kutaura kuti sei chaizvo zviri kuitika, asi nyanzvi dzinoti pane zvimwe zviratidzo.
"Chimwe chinhu chatinoona ndechekuti vana ava vari kuedza kubva munzvimbo dzine zvinovanetsa, kureva nzvimbo dzine ruzha, dzine vanhu vakawanda, kana kuti dzine vanhu vakawanda. Vanoenda kunzvimbo yakanyarara. Mvura inowanzova nzvimbo yakanyarara uye ine rugare. Ndosaka vachikwezvwa nazvo."
Kwete mvura chete, vanogona kuedzwa kuenda chero kwakanyarara, senge musango kana mukati memotokari yakasiyiwa.
Chiitiko chinoshungurudza mwoyo
Amai vanonzi Beth Dilg, vaigara kuMaryland,Savannah, musikana ane autism ane makore manomwe, akanyura mumvura. Rimwe zuva kuchitonhora, Beth akaenda kuchimbuzi kwemaminitsi mashoma apo mwanakomana wake ane makore gumi nerimwe akakumbirwa kuti atarisire vana vaviri vadiki. Asi Savannah akabuda mumba nemukoma wake ane makore maviri.
Beth paakabuda, vana vaviri vakanga vasipo. Akatsvaga Savannah muchivanze chose, uyo aisagona kutaura zvakanaka, asi haana kudzoka. Akamhanyira kudziva riri pedyo ndokuona vana vaviri vari mumvura. Kunyange zvazvo mwanakomana wake ane makore maviri ekuberekwa akaponeswa nengowani yake yebhasikoro, Savannah akanga afa paakamuburitsa mumvura.
Izvi zvinogona kuitika kumhuri chero ipi zvayo. Pasinei nekuti vabereki vanotora matanho akawanda sei ekudzivirira, mwana anogona kunyangarika nekukuruma kweziso.
"Vana ava vane autism vakangwara zvikuru. Vangasakwanisa kutaura, asi vane njere dzakasiyana. Saka nguva dzose unofanira kuva pamberi pavo ." - Beth Dilg
Unoita sei kana mwana akarasika?
Kuwana mwana asipo seizvi kwakaoma. Havataure, saka havazopinduri kana mumwe munhu akadana zita rake. Saka, kana mwana wako akashaika, usamutsvaga wega.
Fonera mapurisa nhamba yekukurumidzira 119 nekukasika.
Yeukai, sekondi yega yega inotarisa kana mwana asipo. Mapurisa nevanhu vanotanga kupindura vakadzidziswa kutsvaga vana vakarasika. Vanotanga vatarisa nzvimbo dzine mvura dziri pedyo, madziva, nehova.
Zvinhu zvatinogona kuita kudzivirira tsaona
Pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvaunogona kuita kudzivirira mwana wako kubva munjodzi yerudzi urwu. Kutevera mazano aya kunogona kuita mutsauko mukuru.
| Nzira yekuchengetedza | Zvekuita zviri nyore. |
|---|---|
| Kuchengetedzwa kwemba | Isa maaramu anoita ruzha kana magonhi nemahwindo akavhurwa. Kiya pamusoro kuitira kuti asasvikwe nevana. Isa chiratidzo chekuona, senge chiratidzo chekuti 'Mira', pamusuwo. |
| Kadhi reID remunhu | Pfeka kadhi rine zita remwana wako, mamiriro ake e autism, uye nhamba yefoni yemubereki. Kana usingakwanise kuripfeka, unogona kurinamira patambo yeshangu. Asi yeuka kuti mwana wako anogona kusapfeka shangu. |
| Kuziva Zvinokonzera | Tsvaga chikonzero nei mwana wako ari kuedza kutiza pamba. Imhaka yeruzha here? Imhaka yekuzvidya mwoyo here? Kana ukaona chikonzero chakadaro, unogona kudzikamisa mwana wako kana kumupa mahedhifoni kana akanzwa ruzha runokanganisa. |
| Unyanzvi hwekuchengetedza (kushambira) | Kudzidziswa kushambira kwakakosha. Ruzha nekufara kwekirasi yekushambira nguva dzose zvinogona kunge zvisingatsungiririki kumwana. Saka, dzidza zvidzidzo zvekushambira wega kubva kune mumwe munhu anonzwisisa vana vane autism. Muchidzidzo chekupedzisira, dzidzira kushambira wakapfeka zvakakwana uye wakapfeka shangu. Nekuti vana vazhinji vanosvetukira mumvura vasina kupfeka mbatya dzavo. |
| Kutarisa kweboka | Kana paine vanhu vakuru vakawanda, sepamusangano wemhuri, munhu wese anofunga kuti pane achachengeta mwana. Asi muchokwadi, zvakapesana zvinoitika. Saka, ipai basa rekuchengeta mwana kumunhu mumwe chete panguva. Mushure mechinguva, tumirai basa racho kune mumwe munhu. Nenzira iyi, mumwe munhu achagara achiteerera mwana. |
Gadzirirai dambudziko pachine nguva.
Kana mwana wako akangoerekana anyangarika, gadzirira zvinhu izvi pachine nguva kuti zvikubatsire kumuwana nekukurumidza.
- Ramba uchiziva nezvemifananidzo yazvino: Chengeta mifananidzo mishoma yemwana wako pafoni yako inoratidza kumeso kwake kwese nemusoro wake. Kana mwana wako akashaika, unogona kutumira mifananidzo iyi kumapurisa nekukasika.
- Gadzira bepa reruzivo rwekukurumidzira: Izvi zvinofanira kusanganisira zita remwana, zera rake, mamiriro ake ezvinhu, kana achigona kutaura kana kusataura, zvinhu zvinogona kumukwezva (semvura, mota), uye ruzivo nezve chero madhamu, madziva, kana hova dziri pedyo nemba. Izvi zvinokutendera kuti upe ruzivo urwu kumapurisa nekukurumidza.
Kana muine mimwe mibvunzo nezvenyaya iyi, taurai nachiremba wemhuri yenyu. Iye anogona kukupai mamwe mazano.
Mharidzo Yekuenda Nayo Kumba
- Kurega autism injodzi chaiyo uye yakakomba.
- Nekuti vana ava vanokwezvwa zvakanyanya nemvura, njodzi yekunyura mumvura yakanyanya.
- Kudzivirira ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekudzivirira tsaona. Chengetedza imba yako, ita kuti mwana wako apfeke kadhi reID, uye ita kuti adzidzire kushambira.
- Kana mwana wako akashaika, fonera mapurisa nekukasika panhamba 119 pasina kunonoka. Usamutsvaga uri wega.
- Pazviitiko zvemhuri nepanze, ipai basa rekutarisira mwana kumunhu mumwe chete.
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