Isini kunye nesini. Abantu abaninzi bayadideka xa besiva la magama mabini, akunjalo? Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba ayafana. Abanye bayoyika nokuthetha ngawo. Oku ngenene yingongoma enzima kakhulu nebaluleke kakhulu. Zonke ezi ngcamango zintathu, oko kukuthi, Isini, Isini kunye noQondiso lweSini, zibalulekile ekuqondeni ukuba ungubani. Ngoko ke namhlanje, masisombulule olu kudideka size sithethe ngalo ngokulula, ngokungathi ngabahlobo ababini bathetha.
Masiqale sibone ukuba kuthetha ukuthini 'ukwabelana ngesondo' (ukwabelana ngesondo ngokwebhayoloji).
Ngamafutshane, isondo ziimpawu zebhayoloji esinazo ekuzalweni . Oogqirha bagqiba kwelokuba umntwana "yintombazana" okanye "yinkwenkwe" ngokusekelwe kwesi sini. Oku kugqitywa zizinto ezintathu eziphambili.
- Iichromosome: Ezi zizinto ezincinci ngaphakathi kwiiseli zethu. Ziqulathe lonke ulwazi lwethu lwemfuza (i-DNA). Kukho isibini esikhethekileyo sezi chromosomes ezibizwa ngokuba yi-'sex chromosomes'. Ibhinqa lidla ngokuba nee-X chromosomes ezimbini (XX), ngelixa inkunzi ine-X enye kunye ne-Y enye (XY).
- Iigonads: Ezi zezona zitho ziphambili ezibandakanyekayo ekuzaleni. Iimazi zine-ovari kwaye iinkunzi zine-testes. Ezi gland zikhupha iihomoni ezifunekayo ekuzaleni.
- I-Anatomy: Xa umntwana ekhula esibelekweni, isini simiselwa yindlela amalungu angaphandle esibelekweni akhula ngayo. Ezi ziimpawu eziphambili. Ukongeza, iimpawu zesibini ezifana namabele, imilo yomzimba, kunye neendevu nazo ziyinxalenye yolu didi.
Ziziphi iintlobo eziphambili zesini?
Iimpawu esizixubushe apha ngasentla azifani kuye wonke umntu. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokubakho umahluko omncinci. Ke ngoko, ngokwezonyango, iintlobo ezintathu eziphambili zesini zichongwa ekuzalweni. Makhe sijonge oku ukuze sikuqonde kakuhle oku.
| Udidi | Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo |
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| Ibhinqa |
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| Indoda |
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| Abantu besini esinye | Oku kuchaza uluhlu olubanzi lwabantu abangangeni ngokupheleleyo kwi-100% kwiibhokisi ezingasentla zendoda okanye ibhinqa. Bazalwa beneempawu okanye ngokwemvelo ezingafaniyo nezendoda okanye ibhinqa. Olu mahluko lunokuba kwiichromosomes, kwi-external genitalia, okanye kwinkqubo yokuzala. |
Oku kusibonisa ukuba isondo asinto imnyama nemhlophe, kodwa kukho ukwahlukahlukana kuso.
Ukwabelana ngesondo akusiyo isondo!
Xa kuthethwa ngesini kunye nesini, kuvela elinye igama elenza izinto zidideke nangakumbi. Yiyo loo nto kuthiwa sisini. Kodwa ayinzima njengoko unokucinga.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kukuba uthandana nabani okanye uthandana naye. Kunxulumene neemvakalelo zakho, ubudlelwane bakho, kunye nobuwena bakho. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukuthanda kwakho ngokwesondo akumiselwa sisini sakho semvelo. Umzekelo, umntu oyindoda ngokwendalo unokutsaleleka kwenye indoda. Loo nto yahlukile ngokupheleleyo.
Nazi ezinye amagama achaza indlela umntu athandana ngayo ngokwesondo:
- Isini esifana nesomntu othandana nesini esinye
- Isini esithandanayo
- Abantu abathandana nabesilisa nabesifazane
- I-Pansexual
- I-Queer
Kulungile, ngoko ke yintoni 'Isini'?
Kulapho abantu abaninzi banamathela khona. Isini asiyonto yendalo. Yinto yentlalo neyenkcubeko. Oko kukuthi, into oyivayo ngaphakathi nendlela oyiveza ngayo eluntwini. Ayimiselwa sisini ozelwe naso. Masiyihlalutye le nto.
Iindima zesini
Kuyo yonke intlalo nenkcubeko, kukho izinto ezithile ezilindelekileyo zokuba “abafazi mababe ngolu hlobo” kwaye “amadoda afanele abe ngolu hlobo.” Kukho izimvo ezithile kuluntu malunga nendlela yokunxiba, indlela yokuthetha, imisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe, kunye nendlela yokuziphatha. Ezi zibizwa ngokuba yiMisebenzi yesini. Ezi zahluka ngokwamazwe ngamazwe nangokwenkcubeko.
Isazisi Sesini
Le yeyona nxalenye ibalulekileyo yesini. Ukuzazi ngesini yindlela oziva ngayo ngaphakathi ukuba ungubani. Nokuba ungowaluphi na uhlobo lwesini, ukuzazi kwakho kukuba ungumfazi, uyindoda, okanye akukho namnye kubo.
- I-Cisgender: Oku kubhekisa kubantu abanesini sabo semvelo ekuzalweni kunye nobunikazi babo besini obuhambelanayo. Umzekelo, umntu ozelwe engumfazi kodwa ozibiza ngokuba ngumfazi yi-cisgender.
- Isini esitshintshe isini: Oku kubhekisa kubantu abanesini sabo sebhayoloji esabelwe ekuzalweni kunye nobuni babo obungafaniyo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu wazalwa eyindoda kodwa eziva kwaye ezichaza njengomfazi, loo mntu utshintshe isini.
- Okungekuko okwesibini: Oku kubhekisa kubantu abavakalelwa kukuba ubuni babo besini abungeni kakuhle kwiibhokisi "zobufazi" okanye "zobudoda". Eli ligama elibanzi eliquka uluhlu olubanzi lobuni.
Ukubonakaliswa kwesini
Le yindlela obonisa ngayo ubuni bakho bobulili kwihlabathi. Oko kuthetha izinto ezifana neempahla ozinxibayo, indlela yokwenza iinwele ozinxibayo, indlela oziphatha ngayo, indlela othetha ngayo. Imbonakalo yomntu inokuba yeyobudoda, yobufazi, okanye indibaniselwano yazo zombini (i-androgynous). Oku kuyahluka kakhulu kumntu nomntu.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Isondo ziimpawu zebhayoloji (umbala, amalungu omzimba) ezinikwa ekuzalweni.
- Isini yinto oyivayo ngaphakathi kunye nobuwena bakho obubonakalisa eluntwini. Bububuntu kunye nobomntu ngamnye.
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngumntu omthandayo okanye omthandayo ngokwesondo.
- Ezi ngcamango zintathu zahlukile kwaye azixhomekekanga kwenye. Enye ayichazi enye.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonela ubuwena babanye abantu nokuzama ukubaqonda.
- Ukuba uziva udidekile, unemibuzo, okanye uxinezelekile ngale miba, ungoyiki ukuthetha ngayo nomntu omdala omthembileyo, umhlobo, okanye ugqirha wakho.
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