Ngaba unayo nayiphi na into ehlekisayo okanye engathintithayo kwintetho yakho? Masifunde ngeengxaki zokuthetha ngokutyibilikayo!

Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha ukhe ubambeke kumagama xa uthetha? Okanye uzive ngathi awukwazi ukuqonda into ozama ukuyithetha ngokuvakalayo, aze amazwi akho abonakale edida? Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho unengxaki yokuqala igama, okanye uqaphele ukuba uthetha iindawo ezithile zegama elinye izihlandlo ezininzi. Ezi azizozinto nje ezingaqhelekanga, zibizwa ngokuba ziingxaki zokuthetha ngokutyibilikayo. Makhe sithethe ngale nto ngokweenkcukacha namhlanje, kuba kunokuba luncedo kakhulu kuwe nakubantu obathandayo ukuba nikwazi oku.

Yintoni i-Fluency Disorder?

Ngamafutshane, ukutyibilika yindlela ethambileyo ahamba ngayo amazwi xa uthetha. Njengomjelo wamanzi uhamba kakuhle nangokucacileyo, xa sithetha, sithi sityibilika kakuhle xa amagama ehamba ngokucacileyo, ngaphandle kokunamathela, nangokuqhubekayo. Ingxaki yokutyibilika lula kuxa olu tyibiliko luhlala luphazamiseka xa uthetha.

Xa umntu onesifo esinjalo ethetha, ezi zinto zilandelayo zinokwenzeka:

• Kukho ukunqumama rhoqo xa uthetha.
• Ezinye izandi zithatha ixesha elide kunokuba kufuneka .
• Izandi, oonobumba, okanye amagama adla ngokuphindwa .
• Isantya okanye isingqisho sentetho siba yinto engaqhelekanga .

Ezi zinto zibizwa ngokuba ziingxaki zokuthetha ngokutyibilikayo zixhaphakile kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kuba kungengabo bonke abantu abazixelayo, kunzima kubaphandi ukwazi ukuba bangaphi abantu abanezi ngxaki.

Ezi ngxaki zihlala ziqala ebuntwaneni . Oku ngamanye amaxesha kunokukhokelela kwimingeni yokwenza abahlobo, izifundo, kwanempilo yengqondo. Kodwa iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba ngonyango olufanelekileyo , ungafunda ukulawula ezi mpawu.

Kukho iintlobo ezimbini eziphambili zezi ngxaki zokuthetha:

Ukuphazamiseka kokuthetha kakuhle kunokwahlulwahlulwa zibe ziintlobo ezimbini eziphambili:

1. Ukuthintitha : Oku kuxa uzama ukubiza unobumba okanye igama, kodwa lingaphumi emlonyeni wakho. Kuvakala ngathi into ozama ukuyithetha ibambekile.

2. Ukuxinana : Kule meko, ungathetha ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Xa uthetha ngolu hlobo, amagama anokudityaniswa okanye iinxalenye zamagama zinqunyulwe.

Ukuthintitha kuqheleke kakhulu kunokungakhathali. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba abanye abantu banokuhlangabezana nazo zombini ezi meko ngaxeshanye.

Zithini iimpawu zale meko?

Ukuthintitha kunye nokuxinana kwentetho kuneempawu ezahlukeneyo eziphazamisa ukuhamba kakuhle kwentetho. Masizijonge ngokwahlukeneyo.

Iimpawu zokuthintitha

Ukuba unesifo sokungathethi, izinto ezinjalo zinokwenzeka:

• Xa uzama ukuqala isivakalisi, kufuneka uthule okwethutyana ngaphandle kokwenza isandi sokuqala.Kuyenzeka. Khawuthelekelele indlela ebekuya kuba neentloni ngayo ukuba oku kwenzeke xa kufuneka uthethe into ngokukhawuleza.
• Ezinye izandi zikhutshwa ixesha elide kunokuba kufuneka . Umzekelo, "Into endiyibonileyo yayiyi..."
• Oonobumba okanye amagama ayaphindwa . Umzekelo, "Ndinike loo ncwadi ye-po-po-po" okanye "Ngubani-ngubani-ngubani obethetha?"

Iimpawu zokuxinana

Ukuba unesifo esibizwa ngokuba yi-"Cluttering", izinto ezinje ngezi zinokwenzeka:

• Ukudibanisa amagama amabini kunye nokuwabiza njengegama elinye . Umzekelo, ukuthi "i-televisoff" endaweni yokuthi "cima ithelevishini."
• Isantya okanye isingqisho sentetho sinokuba sikhawulezileyo kakhulu, singahambelani, okanye sixakeke . Kusenokuba nzima nokuba umphulaphuli aqonde.
• Xa bethetha, basebenzisa amagama amaninzi angafunekiyo afana no-"um," "ah," "so," kunye no-"uyazi."
• Ukutshintsha ithoni yelizwi ngequbuliso phakathi kwesivakalisi. Umzekelo, ukubuza imibuzo emibini ilandelelana, njengokuthi "Ndifuna ukuhamba, ndingahamba?"
• Ungabona "iipateni zemaze" kweli bali. Oko kukuthi, ukuhambahamba ukuze ufikelele kwingongoma, uxuba izinto. Umzekelo: "Ndifuna ukuya kuthenga ilokhwe... Ndiyaphuma ngoLwesihlanu, kwaye andinanto yokunxiba... Ndiya kuthenga ukuze ndifumane into yokunxiba ngalo mhla."
• Ukuthetha ngoonobumba okanye amagama ashiyiweyo . Umzekelo, endaweni yokuthi "ngethamsanqa", ukufinyeza kube ngu-"wasakata".
• Ukumisa incoko ngokungalindelekanga phakathi kwesivakalisi. Umzekelo, "Uyafuna... ukuza kubukela imuvi?"

Ngenxa yezi mpawu, ungenza izinto ezithile ukufihla isiphako sakho sokuthetha. Umzekelo:

• Ziphephe ezinye izinto ocinga ukuba ziyadida okanye ziyadida.
• Bazama ukuphazamisa abanye ngokukhohlela, ukucofa umphimbo, okanye ukungqunga ngexesha lencoko.
• Bazigquma imilomo, baqengqele amehlo abo, okanye banikine iintloko zabo .
• Benza ngathi balibele into ababeza kuyithetha.
• Ukuphepha amathuba okuthetha .

Ezi zinto zinokubangela uxinzelelo olukhulu lwengqondo. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela oku kwaye ufumane uncedo xa kuyimfuneko.

Kutheni oku kusenzeka? Zithini izinto ezibangela umngcipheko?

Enyanisweni, izazinzulu azikayazi kakuhle into ebangela ezi ngxaki zokuthetha. Nangona kunjalo, iingcali zichonge ezinye izinto ezibangela umngcipheko wokufumana ezi meko. Umngcipheko yinto ebangela umngcipheko wokufumana imeko ethile.

Nazi ezinye zezinto ezibangela umngcipheko:

• Ukuba umntu okwintsapho yakho unengxaki yokuthetha, isenokuba yimfuza.
• Eya kuweUkuba kukho ukulibaziseka kokukhula okanye ukukhubazeka kokufunda.
• Ukuba unesifo semithambo-luvo esifana ne-'ADHD' (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) okanye i-'Autism Spectrum Disorder' .
• Ukuba ungumfana (le meko ixhaphake kancinci kubafana kunakumantombazana).

Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu onayo le nto oza kuba nengxaki yokuthetha. Ukuba ucinga ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho unengxaki yokuthetha, bonana nogqirha wakho ngoko nangoko . Unokukunceda.

Uyibona njani le nto?

Oogqirha badla ngokuxilonga ezi ngxaki zokuthetha ngokutyibilikayo ngokujonga iimpawu zazo. Banokukubuza imibuzo efana nale:

• "Ngaba kukho umntu onengxaki yokuthetha kusapho lwakho?"
• "Le nto yokungakwazi ukuthetha ichaphazela njani ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla?"
• "Zeziphi iingxaki ezithile ekufuneka uzisombulule?"
• "Bekunjani kuwe?"

Ugqirha wakho angakuthumela kwiNgcali yezifo zolwimi lokuthetha (SLP) . Ii-SLP ziingcali ekunyangeni iingxaki zokuthetha, ulwimi, kunye nonxibelelwano. Zinokwahlula phakathi kweengxaki zokuthetha ngokutyibilikayo kunye nezinye iingxaki zokuthetha. Emva koko zinokuqulunqa isicwangciso sonyango esifanelekileyo kuwe .

Ukuba umntwana wakho urhanelwa ukuba unale ngxaki, i-SLP ingathetha nootitshala bomntwana kunye namanye amalungu osapho. Oku kunokunceda ukuba abone ukuba kukho naziphi na iziphumo ekufundeni komntwana, kubudlelwane bakhe nabantu, okanye kwimpilo yengqondo (njengokuxhalaba). Banokucebisa nonyango lokuthetha ukunceda umntwana alawule iimvakalelo ezinzima ezinokuhamba nengxaki yokuthetha.

Iphathwa njani?

Oogqirha banyanga ezi ngxaki zokuthetha ngobuchule bokuthetha . Olu nyango lubandakanya ukuziqhelanisa nokuthetha nokuphuhlisa amaqhinga ahlukeneyo anokusetyenziswa ngexesha lencoko.

Unyango lweengxaki zokuthetha kakuhle lunokukunceda kwizinto ezifana nezi:

• Lawula ukuphefumla kwakho ukuze uxhase intetho yakho .
• Sebenzisa ukuphumla ngokwemvelo xa uthetha, okukunceda uqhubekele kwinxalenye elandelayo yegama okanye isivakalisi.
• Nciphisa ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezinxulumene nale ngxaki, ezinje ngokukhohlela nokuqhwanyaza amehlo.
• Nciphisa uxinzelelo kunye neemvakalelo ezimbi ezinxulumene nokuthetha.
• Yehlisa isantya kwaye ugxile kwizandi zomntu ngamnye, iisilabhili, kunye namagama .
• Thetha ngokutyibilikayo nangokutyibilikayo .
• Baxelele indlela ofuna ngayo abanye bakuncede unxibelelane ngcono (umzekelo, ubacele ukuba bakunike ixesha lokugqibezela izivakalisi).
• KaninziSebenzisa izivakalisi ezimfutshane nezicacileyo.

Khumbula, unyango lokuthetha yinkqubo efuna umonde nokuzinikela. Kungathatha ixesha ukubona iziphumo, kodwa ungayeki!

Ngaba le meko ingathintelwa?

Ekubeni unobangela ochanekileyo wezi ngxaki zokuthetha kakuhle ungaziwa, akukho ndlela yokuzithintela ngokupheleleyo . Nangona kunjalo, njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, unyango lunokunceda kakhulu ekuphuculeni ukuhamba kakuhle kwentetho yakho.

Kuza kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ndinesi sifo?

Ukuphazamiseka kokuthetha kuchaphazela wonke umntu ngokwahlukeneyo. Iimpawu zingahluka ukusuka kwezincinci ukuya kwezinzima . Unyango lokuthetha lunokukunceda woyise naziphi na iingxaki zokuthetha, kuquka ukuthintitha okanye ukungathethi kakuhle.

Ngamanye amaxesha, ingakumbi ngamaxesha oxinzelelo oluphezulu , iimpawu zinokuphinda zibuye. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqhubeka nokuziqhelanisa namaqhinga afundwe kunyango lokuthetha.

Ufanele ufune nini ingcebiso kagqirha?

Ukuba unengxaki yokuthetha echaphazela ukuzithemba kwakho okanye ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla , thetha nogqirha wakho. Angathetha nawe ngeenjongo zakho aze akuncede ufumane apho ungaqala khona.

Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho unengxaki yokuthetha, thetha nogqirha wabantwana womntwana wakho . Yena angagqiba ukuba intetho yomntwana wakho iyahambelana neminyaka yakhe kwaye angakuthumela kwi-SLP ukuze ufumane unyango.

Yeyiphi imibuzo omele uyibuze ugqirha?

Ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho unengxaki yokuthetha kakuhle, nantsi eminye imibuzo onokuyibuza ugqirha wakho:

• "Luhlobo luni lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo endinalo?"
• "Zeziphi izinto ezinokubangela ukuba iimpawu zam zibe zimbi ngakumbi?"
• "Ucebisa uhlobo luni lonyango?"
• "Ndingalindela ntoni ngexesha leeseshoni zam zonyango lokuthetha?"
• "Ngaba kukho izixhobo okanye amaqela enkxaso endinokufumana uncedo kuwo?"

Musa ukoyika ukubuza le mibuzo. Okukhona usazi ngakumbi ngemeko yakho, kokukhona kuya kuba lula ukujongana nayo.

Singamnceda njani umntu onje?

Ukuba umntu omaziyo unengxaki yokuthetha kakuhle, nazi ezinye iindlela onokumxhasa ngazo:

• Yiba nobubele nomonde . Banike ixesha lokugqibezela izivakalisi kunye neengcinga. Musa ukubagweba okanye ukubahlekisa.
• Fumana izixhobo ezinokunceda . Umzekelo, izikolo zikarhulumente zibonelela ngeenkonzo ezikhethekileyo kubantwana abanengxaki yokuthetha.
• Nceda ufumane amaqela enkxaso , nokuba uthethe ngqo okanye uthethe kwi-intanethi. Ekubeni iingxaki zokuthetha ngokutyibilikayo zixhaphakile, kukho amaqela anceda abantu abathintithayo, abo banengxaki yokuthetha, kunye nabantu ababathandayo.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwenza loo mntu azive ngathi akayedwa. Umonde wakho nokuqonda kwakho kuya kuba namandla amakhulu kuye.

Kunokuba nzima kakhulu xa unento ofuna ukuyithetha engqondweni yakho kodwa ungakwazi ukuyithetha ngamazwi. Nokuba unomdla wokuzibandakanya kwincoko, oku kunokukwenza uzive unexhala kwaye woyika. Olu hlobo loxinzelelo lunokuba nefuthe elikhulu kwimpilo yakho yengqondo neemvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, unyango lokuthetha lunokunceda kule meko. Ukuba ucinga ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho unokuba nengxaki yokuthetha kakuhle, qiniseka ukuba uxelele ugqirha wakho. Baza kukunika isikhokelo sokuba wenze ntoni emva koko.

Ngoko ke, masizikhumbuze ngezona zinto zibalulekileyo esifanele sizithathele ekhaya kweli bali? (Umyalezo Wokubuyela Ekhaya)

• Ukuphazamiseka kokuthetha kakuhle ziingxaki eziphazamisana nokuhamba kakuhle kwentetho. Ukuthintitha nokuxinana ziintlobo ezimbini eziphambili.
• Ezi zinto zinokuqala ebuntwaneni kwaye zinokuchaphazela ubomi bemihla ngemihla, ukufunda, kunye nempilo yengqondo.
• Nangona unobangela ochanekileyo ungaziwa, izinto ezibangela imfuza, ukulibaziseka kokukhula, kunye nezinye iingxaki zemithambo-luvo zinokuba zizinto ezibangela umngcipheko.
• Unyango lokuthetha yeyona ndlela iphambili yonyango. Lunokunceda ukuphucula izakhono zokuthetha nokulawula imingeni.
• Ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho unezinye zezi mpawu, musa ukulibazisa ukufuna ingcebiso kagqirha . Ukufunyanwa kwangoko kunye nonyango kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu.
• Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphatha umntu onesi sifo ngomonde, ububele, nokuqonda .

Ndiyathemba ukuba olu lwazi luza kukunceda. Khumbula, awuwedwa, kwaye kukho iindlela zokufumana uncedo!

Ukuthintitha , iingxaki zokuthetha, unyango lokuthetha, intetho engacacanga, ubunzima bonxibelelwano, iingxaki zokuthetha zabantwana, ukuthintitha