Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha ucinga ukuba, "Kufuneka ndizilolonge ukususela namhlanje," okanye "Kufuneka ndiyeke ukutya ukutya okunamafutha kunye neziselo ezineswekile ngoku?" Kodwa ke, emva kosuku olunye okanye ezimbini, loo mdla uyaphela kancinci kancinci, uze ubuyele kwimikhwa yakho yakudala, akunjalo? Oku kuyinto eyenzekayo kubantu abaninzi. Sonke siyazi ukuba sifuna ukuba sempilweni, kodwa eyona nto inzima kukwenza utshintsho olufunekayo ebomini bethu. Ngamaxesha anje, uMqeqeshi wezeMpilo (ngamanye amaxesha obizwa ngokuba nguMqeqeshi wezeMpilo kunye neMpilo) ngumntu onokukunika uncedo, akukhuthaze, aze ahlale nawe njengomhlobo ukuze akuncede ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho zempilo.
Ngamafutshane, ngubani lo Mqeqeshi wezeMpilo?
Cinga ngoMqeqeshi wezeMpilo njengomcebisi wakho wezempilo, umkhokeli, kunye nenkxaso. Njengokuba umdlali enomqeqeshi, bakunceda wenze utshintsho olusempilweni kwindlela ophila ngayo. Olu tshintsho lubalulekile kwimpilo yakho yomzimba kunye nempilo yakho yengqondo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ugqirha wakho wosapho unokucebisa ukuba usebenze nomqeqeshi wezempilo. Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukulawula isifo sakho seswekile, ukunciphisa umzimba, okanye ukulawula amanqanaba akho e-cholesterol, banokukunceda ufezekise ezo njongo. Unokufumana nethuba lokusebenza nomqeqeshi wezempilo ngenkqubo yokuphila kakuhle emsebenzini kwinkampani yakho.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uqala njani, uMqeqeshi wezeMpilo uza kukunceda uthathe uxanduva lwezinto ezinje:
- Umsebenzi womzimba: Zimisele ukwenza umthambo imihla ngemihla kwaye uqhubeke nokwenza.
- Isondlo: Yitya ukutya okunempilo kwaye unciphise ukutya okungenampilo.
- Ukulawula ubunzima: Yehlisa okanye ugcine ubunzima obusempilweni.
- Ukulawula uxinzelelo: Fumana iindlela zokunciphisa uxinzelelo.
- Ukutshaya nokusebenzisa icuba: Lahla le mikhwa mibi.
- Ukulala: Yakha imikhwa efunekayo ukuze ulale kamnandi ebusuku.
Cinga ngayo, zonke ezi zinto zidibene. Ukuba awulali kakuhle, awuyi kuziva ufuna ukuzilolonga ngosuku olulandelayo. Uza kuziva unqena ukupheka kuba udiniwe kwaye ufuna ukuthatha into evenkileni. Xa konke oku kuhlangana, kunokuba nzima ukwazi apho uqala khona. Kulapho uMqeqeshi wezeMpilo aza kuthetha nawe aze akuncede ufumane indawo apho ungaqala khona ngokulula. Ukuqala ngotshintsho oluncinci, luya kuvula indlela yeenjongo ezinkulu ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Yintoni kanye kanye eyenziwa nguMqeqeshi wezeMpilo?
Umsebenzi ophambili woMqeqeshi wezeMpilo kukuzibekela iinjongo ezifanelekileyo.Ukukunceda ubeke iinjongo kwaye wenze isicwangciso sokuzifezekisa. Kwakhona kukunceda ubone imiqobo endleleni.
Umzekelo, cinga ngoku:
- Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba, "Andinakuze ndikwazi ukwenza olu tshintsho ugqirha andixelela ukuba ndilwenze."
- Okanye mhlawumbi ucinga, "Kuthekani ukuba ndenza olu tshintsho luncinci?"
- Mhlawumbi usebenza imisebenzi emibini kwaye awunalo ixesha lokuzilolonga emva kosuku olude emsebenzini.
Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo uza kuthetha nawe aze ajonge zonke ezi zinto zichaphazela imikhwa yakho yempilo. Emva koko, kunye, nobabini niya kwenza isicwangciso eninokusenza ngokwenene kwaye esingenaxinzelelo .
UMqeqeshi wakho wezeMpilo uza kuqhagamshelana nawe rhoqo. Mhlawumbi nge-imeyile, umnxeba, okanye intlanganiso ekwi-intanethi. Le nkqubo idla ngokuqhubeka ubuncinane iinyanga ezintathu. Ngexesha lezi ncoko, uza kukubuza imibuzo. Le mibuzo ikunceda ufumane iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakho.
Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo akakuniki mithetho. Ababeki mithetho ethi, "Yenza oku, yenza okuya." Endaweni yoko, bakunceda ucinge ngemeko okuyo ngoku kwaye bakukhokele ekwenzeni utshintsho ocinga ukuba lufanelekile kuwe nolufuna ukulwenza.
Khawucinge ukuba ugqirha wakho ukuxelele ukuba utye imifuno neziqhamo ezininzi. Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo unokubuza imibuzo efana nale:
- "Ukuba besiza kunika amanqaku ukusuka ku-1 ukuya kwi-10, kubaluleke kangakanani kuwe ukwenza olu tshintsho?"
- "Ucinga ukuba oku kungenziwa njani lula, ukuba uqala?"
- "Zeziphi iingxaki onokudibana nazo ngelixa usenza oku? Usapho lwakho luza kukunceda njani?"
- "Luhlobo luni lwesicwangciso esinokulwenza ukongeza imifuno neziqhamo kwisidlo sakho?"
Uyaqonda? Akaphenduli. Ufumana impendulo kuwe. Kuba impendulo oyifumanayo yindlela ekuphela kwayo onokuqhubeka ngayo.
Ukuqonda imiqobo ebomini bethu
Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo uyazi ukuba izigqibo zobuqu ziyinxalenye encinci yengxaki. Awunakuthi nje, "Ndiza kutya imifuno." Kukho izinto ezininzi ebomini bethu ezingaphaya kwamandla ethu. Ezi sizibiza ngokuba zizinto eziqhuba impilo yoluntu .
Ukuba sicinga ngayo ngendlela efanela ubomi bethu eSri Lanka:
- Ukufikelela ekutyeni okunesondlo: Mhlawumbi awunakufikelela kwiziqhamo nemifuno esemgangathweni kwindawo okuyo, okanye isenokuba ibiza kakhulu ukuba ungayithenga.
- Ukungabikho kwendawo ekhuselekileyo: Ukuba akukho zindledlana zabahambi ngeenyawo esitalatweni apho indlu yakho ikhoyo, akukhuselekanga ukuphuma uye kuhambahamba.
- Eminye imisebenzi:Mhlawumbi unabazali abalupheleyo omele ubanyamekele ekhaya, okanye mhlawumbi unomntwana omncinci. Ngazo zonke ezi mbopheleleko, awunalo ixesha lokucinga ngempilo yakho. Emva kosuku olude emsebenzini, awufuni ukuzilolonga xa ufika ekhaya uvela ebhasini.
Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo uyaziqonda ezi ngxaki. Akayi kukugweba okanye akugxeke. Endaweni yoko, uya kukunceda ufumane izinto ezincinci onokuzenza nangona kukho le miqobo. Yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukhululeke kwaye unyaniseke kuye malunga nemeko yokwenyani ebomini bakho.
Zithini izibonelelo zokuba nguMqeqeshi wezeMpilo?
Ukusebenza noMqeqeshi Wezempilo kunokukunika iingenelo ezininzi, zengqondo nezomzimba. Ezi zingqinwe ngokwesayensi.
| Utshintsho lwengqondo oluvayo | Utshintsho olunokulinganiswa emzimbeni |
|---|---|
| Uza kuqonda ukuba ziintoni izinto okwaziyo ukuzenza. | Ulawulo loxinzelelo lwegazi. |
| Uza kukwazi ukusebenzisa loo mandla ukuze ufezekise iinjongo zakho. | Amanqanaba e-cholesterol ayaphucuka. |
| Ukuzisebenzela kuyanda, oko kuthetha ukuba "Ndingakwenza oku." | Ukulawula amanqanaba eswekile egazini. |
| Uya kukwazi ukwenza isicwangciso onokuqhubeka naso ngokuzithandela. | Ukulawula ubunzima bomzimba. |
| Izakhono zokwenza izigqibo nezokusombulula iingxaki ziyaphucuka. | Ukomelela komzimba okwandisiweyo (ukomelela komzimba okushukumayo). |
Ngokwesiqhelo,Iinkqubo zoqeqesho ezisekelwe kubungqina zezona ndlela zilungileyo zokufumana ezi ziphumo. Umqeqeshi wezempilo, owaziswa kuwe ngugqirha wakho okanye kwindawo yakho yokusebenza, uhlala elandela ezi ndlela zamkelekileyo.
Yintoni umahluko phakathi koMqeqeshi wezeMpilo noGqirha?
Le yinto abantu abaninzi abayidideyo. Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo akangogqirha. Akakuniki amayeza okanye akuxilonge. Iindima zabo zahlukile ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa zombini zibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yakho.
| Indima | Ugqirha / omnye umntu oqeqeshiweyo kwezempilo | Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo |
|---|---|---|
| Ingqwalasela ephambili | Ukuchonga izifo, ukucwangcisa unyango, kunye nokunika amayeza. | Ikunceda utshintshe indlela oziphethe ngayo kunye nemikhwa yakho. |
| Kwenziwe ntoni | Ukunika iingcebiso "ngendlela omele uyenze." (umz., "thabatha eli yeza," "ungatyi oku kutya"). | Isikhokelo sokufumanisa "indlela onokuyenza ngayo". |
| Ubuchule | Amayeza, izifo. | Ingqondo yokutshintsha kokuziphatha, inkuthazo. |
Ngamafutshane, ugqirha ukuxelela athi, "Kufuneka unciphise umzimba." Umqeqeshi wezeMpilo uza kukunceda ufikelele kuloo njongo.
Ungayikhetha njani iQeqesho lezeMpilo elilungileyo?
Ekubeni eli candelo liselitsha eSri Lanka, nabani na angabeka ibhodi ethi "Umqeqeshi Wezempilo". Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha umntu ofanelekileyo nothembekileyo ngaphambi kokuba uchithe imali nexesha lakho.
Ukuba ufuna uMqeqeshi wezeMpilo wedwa, ungoyiki ukubuza le mibuzo:
- Loluphi uqeqesho olunalo? (Ngaba ufumene uqeqesho kwiziko elivunyiweyo?)
- Zeziphi iziqinisekiso zobungcali onazo? (Isiqinisekiso esaziwayo kwihlabathi liphela siyakhethwa).
- Ingakanani imida yeenkonzo zakho? (Oko kukuthi, fumana ukuba zeziphi iinkonzo abanokubonelela ngazo ngokusemthethweni. Umzekelo, abanakukunika amayeza.)
- Luluphi uhlobo lophando lwesayensi olusekelwe kulo indlela yakho yoqeqesho?
- Ndingafumana iireferensi kubantu abakhe bafumana iinkonzo ngaphambili?
Ukuba umntu akafuni ukunika iimpendulo ezicacileyo kule mibuzo, okanye ukuba unamathandabuzo ngeempendulo, kungcono ukufumana omnye umntu. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo nekhuselekileyo kukubuza ugqirha wakho ngale nto uze uye kumntu amcebisayo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Umqeqeshi Wezempilo sisikhokelo somntu siqu esikunceda ufikelele kwiinjongo zakho zempilo kwaye sikukhuthaze.
- Abakunyanzeli, kodwa bakunceda ufumane izisombululo ezikufaneleyo kwaye onokukwazi ukuzenza.
- Abangoogqirha, kodwa icebiso elinikwa ngugqirha liluncedo olukhulu onokulifaka ebomini bakho.
- Ungafumana uncedo lwabo ngezinto ezininzi, ezinje ngokulala kakuhle, ukutya okunesondlo, ukuzilolonga, kunye nokulawula uxinzelelo.
- Xa ukhetha uMqeqeshi wezeMpilo, kubalulekile ukuphanda ngononophelo uqeqesho lwabo kunye neziqinisekiso zabo. Ukuba unamathandabuzo, soloko uqhagamshelana nogqirha wakho.
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