Unyango lunokunceda njani umntwana wakho one-ADHD? Makhe sithethe ngayo!

Ngaba ugqirha ukuxelele ukuba umntwana wakho une-ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder)? Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive usoyika kwaye ukhathazekile xa oko kusenzeka. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. I-ADHD yimeko apho, ukuba ilawulwa ngokufanelekileyo, ingathinteli impumelelo yomntwana wakho. Unyango olubalulekileyo koku lunyango. Namhlanje, masithethe ngendlela olu nyango olunokunceda ngayo umntwana wakho.

Luluphi olu nyango lomntwana one-ADHD?

Ngamafutshane, "Unyango" luqeqesho olukhethekileyo olunceda abantwana abane-"ADHD" ukuba balawule ngcono imisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla, izifundo, kunye nobudlelwane nabanye. Kule nto, umntwana udibana rhoqo nogqirha wengqondo aze athethe, efunda izinto ezahlukeneyo. Cinga ngomntwana oya eklasini ukuze afunde into entsha. Kodwa le klasi yahlukile kancinci. Apha, umntwana ufunda izinto ezinje ngendlela yokunikela ingqalelo, indlela yokumamela, kunye nezinye izinto ezinceda ukoyisa ubunzima obubangelwa yi-"ADHD".

Abanye abantwana abane-ADHD banokufuna olunye unyango olukhethekileyo olubizwa ngokuba yi-Occupational Therapy. Oku kunceda ngezinto ezifana nokubhala kakuhle nokuphucula ibhalansi. Kuba ngamanye amaxesha, nokuba yi-ADHD okanye ukukhubazeka kokufunda kunokubangela ubunzima ngezi zinto.

Kutheni umntwana wethu edinga unyango lwe-ADHD?

Ngoku usenokuba uzibuza, 'Kutheni umntwana wam efuna olu hlobo lwe-'(Therapy)'? Enyanisweni, oku kuneenzuzo ezininzi kumntwana. Olu nyango luluncedo olukhulu kubantwana abane-'ADHD' ukuze bagqibe ngempumelelo umsebenzi wesikolo kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya . Jonga ukuba ezi zinto zibaluleke kangakanani :

• Uqhela ukucwangcisa izinto: Umntwana ufunda ukugcina iincwadi zakhe, amathoyizi, nomsebenzi wesikolo uhlelekile, kunye nokucwangcisa usuku lwakhe.
• Ungagxila ngcono kumsebenzi wesikolo: Oku kukunceda ugxile kwizifundo zakho eklasini kwaye ugqibezele umsebenzi wakho wesikolo ngokufanelekileyo.
• Ukumamela nokulandela imiyalelo: Abantwana bafunda ukumamela nokwenza ngokufanelekileyo. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu esikolweni nasekhaya.
• Ungahlalisana kakuhle nabanye abantu kwaye uhlalisane kakuhle: Kukunceda ugcine ubudlelwane obuhle nabahlobo kunye nosapho.
• Bafunda ukuba nomonde ngelixa belinde ithuba labo: Olu monde lubalulekile, nokuba kuxa bedlala okanye belinde emgceni.
• Ufunda ukuveza intlungu yakho nomsindo ngamazwi, ngaphandle kokukhwaza okanye ukukhwaza: ufunda ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho nokuziveza ngokufanelekileyo. Oku kunciphisa iingxaki ezininzi ezingeyomfuneko.
• Ndifunda ukuba nomonde.
• Kukunceda ukuba ucinge ngaphambi kokuba wenze into: Oku kukunceda ukuba wenze izigqibo ezicingisisiweyo ngaphandle kokungxama.

Akupheleli nje apho, abanye abantwana kufuneka balwe neengxaki zengqondo eziza ne-'ADHD'. Khawucinge nje, xa i-'ADHD' igxekwa rhoqo, kwaye xa umntwana engakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ngokufanelekileyo, unokuziva edanile aze aphelelwe kukuzithemba . Iingcinga ezinje 'Andinakukwenza oku', 'Andinamsebenzi' zinokufika engqondweni. Kwakhona, i-'ADHD' inokubangela iimvakalelo ezifana nosizi, ixhala, umsindo, kunye nokukhungatheka ukuba zivele rhoqo.

Ngoko ke, kule `(Therapy)`, umntwana ufunda indlela yokujongana nezi mvakalelo. Xa umntwana efunda iindlela zokunceda nge-`ADHD`, umntwana uyakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe ngempumelelo. Emva koko uzive ekhululekile ngaye, abe nokuzithemba . Umntwana uqala ukuba onwabile kwaye azithembe .

Kule `ADHD (Therapy)`, umntwana akafundi njengezifundo encwadini, kodwa ngokwenza imisebenzi, ukudlala, nokuziqhelanisa. Ingcali yezonyango isebenza nomntwana kwaye imfundisa oko akufunayo, njengokuba angahlala egxile njani, imikhwa emihle yokufunda, njalo njalo, ngemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Konke oku kwenziwa ngokukhuthaza umntwana nokumnika inkxaso ayidingayo.

Kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye kule nyango ye-ADHD?

Okokuqala, ingcali yezonyango iza kudibana nawe kunye nabazali bakho ukuze baxoxe ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo malunga ne-ADHD. Emva koko, kunye, niya kubeka iinjongo zento ofuna ukuyiphucula ngonyango.

Emva koko, kwiseshoni yonyango, wena kunye nogqirha wengqondo nenza izinto ezinje:

Ukuthetha

Iingcali zonyango zifundisa abantwana ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zabo. Umntwana ufunda ukuveza intlungu yakhe, umsindo, novuyo ngamazwi, ngaphandle kokukhwaza okanye ukukhwaza. Xa ethetha ngolu hlobo, aze amamele oko kuthethwa ngomnye umntu, umntwana uyaqonda ukuba kukho umntu omqondayo. Emva koko banokufunda izinto ezintsha. Kwakhona, ngale ncoko, umntwana ufunda ukumamela abanye nokuba nenkathalo.

Ukudlala

Iingcali zonyango zisebenzisa imidlalo eyahlukeneyo ukufundisa abantwana izinto ezibalulekileyo. Umzekelo, abantwana bafunda izinto ezinje ngokulinda ithuba labo, ukulandela imithetho, kunye nendlela yokujongana nokuphumelela nokuphulukana . Zikwanceda abantwana bafunde ukusebenza kancinci nangokuzibamba .

Imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo (Imisebenzi efundisa izifundo)

Iingcali zonyango zisebenzisa izifundo ezahlukeneyo kunye nemisebenzi ukufundisa abantwana ngeemvakalelo, indlela yokucwangcisa umsebenzi wabo wesikolo, iindlela zokufunda, kunye nendlela yokuqonda abanye. Ezi zifundo zenziwa zibe mnandi ngakumbi ngokusebenzisa imisebenzi efana namaphepha okusebenzela .

Ukuziqhelanisa nezakhono ezintsha

Ingcali yezonyango ifundisa umntwana izinto ezintsha, umzekelo , ukuphefumla ngokuzilolonga.Izinto ezinje zingafundiswa. Ezi zinto zinceda ekuqeqesheni ingqalelo nasekuzoliseni ingqondo nomzimba. Iingcali zonyango zikwanceda abantwana ukuba baziqhelisele oko bakufundayo.

Ukulungisa ingxaki

Ingcali yezonyango iza kukubuza ngeengxaki ezibangelwa yi-ADHD esikolweni nasekhaya. Baza kuthetha nawe ngendlela yokusombulula ezo ngxaki baze bakuncede ufumane izisombululo zazo ngokwakho.

Olu nyango lufanele lwenziwe ixesha elingakanani?

Ixesha olidingayo unyango lixhomekeke kwiinjongo zakho. Ngokwesiqhelo, ingcali yezonyango iya kudibana nawe kube kanye ngeveki kangangeenyanga ezimbalwa . Emva koko, ungabuya uye kubona ingcali yezonyango rhoqo ngendlela othanda ngayo.

Ungakunceda njani ngale nto usuka ecaleni kwakho? (Kubazali nakubantwana)

Ukuba ne-ADHD akuyongxaki yomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, zininzi izinto onokuzenza ukunceda umntwana wakho adlule kule nkqubo ngoncedo lonyango. Njengomzali, unokunceda umntwana wakho kolu hambo. Nantsi indlela yokwenza oku:

• Ziqhelise kakuhle izinto ozifundayo: Kwi-`(Therapy)`, umntwana ufunda izinto ezininzi ezixabisekileyo. Ezi zinto ziyaphucuka imihla ngemihla kuphela xa ziqheliswa rhoqo. Khuthaza umntwana ukuba azenzele ezo zinto ekhaya.
• Kholelwa kuwe/kumntwana wakho: Wena/umntwana wakho kufuneka kuqala ukholelwe ukuba abantwana abane-ADHD banokuphucula ingqalelo yabo, ukuzibamba , kunye nokuziphatha. Imvakalelo yokuba 'ndiyakwazi' ibaluleke kakhulu.
• Cela uncedo: Baninzi abantu abazimisele ukukunceda/umntwana wakho. Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo kubazali, kootitshala, nakubagqirha xa ulufuna.
• Yenza izinto wena/umntwana wakho anobuchule kuzo: Mhlawumbi wena/umntwana wakho unobuchule kwezemidlalo, kumculo, ekuzobeni, ekufundeni, ekwenzeni into ethile. Mhlawumbi wena/umntwana wakho uhlekisa, unobuchule, unetalente, unobubele. Cinga ngeetalente kunye neempawu ezilungileyo zomntwana wakho/wakho. Zama ukusebenzisa ubuncinane enye yazo yonke imihla.
• Zikhathalele/zinakekele umntwana wakho: Fumana ixesha lokudlala, lokubaleka, nokonwaba ngendlela eyenza umzimba wakho ushukume. Oku kuya kusebenzisa amandla akho/omntwana wakho kakuhle. Emva koko kuya kuba lula ukugxila kumsebenzi wesikolo nezifundo.

Kubalulekile: I-ADHD ayibobuthathaka bomntwana. Lutshintsho nje oluncinci kwindlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo yakhe. Njengomntu ofuna iiglasi, umntwana one-ADHD unokufuna uncedo oluncinci kwizinto ezithile, okanye uhlobo olwahlukileyo loqeqesho.

Okokugqibela, izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzikhumbule

Ngoko ke, unyango lunyango oluxabisekileyo kakhulu kumntwana one-ADHD. Lunokuphucula kakhulu ubomi bomntwana bemihla ngemihla, ukufunda, kunye nokusebenzisana kwakhe nabantu. Khumbula, umntwana ngamnye wahlukile, kwaye umntwana ngamnye uneziphiwo zakhe ezizodwa.Ukuba i-ADHD ilawulwa ngokufanelekileyo, akukho mqobo kumntwana wakho ukuba oyise ihlabathi ngamandla akhe onke. Umonde, uthando, kunye nesikhokelo esifanelekileyo zezona zinto zibalaseleyo onokumnika zona umntwana. Ungaze ungathandabuzi ukufuna iingcebiso zonyango ezifunekayo kunye nenkxaso yonyango ngexesha lohambo lomntwana wakho lwe-ADHD. Yonke into iza kulunga!

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