Umncancisa njani umntwana wakho xa uphuma? (Ukuncancisa esidlangalaleni) Masithethe ngale miba!

Xa usandul’ ukuba ngumama, izinto ezininzi zintsha kuwe, akunjalo? Kuqhelekile ukuba novalo noloyiko xa uphuma emva kokuba nomntwana, ingakumbi ukuba kufuneka uncancise umntwana wakho. Imibuzo efana nokuthi "Umntu uza kucinga ntoni?" kunye nokuthi "Ngaba ndiza kukwazi ukwenza oku ngendlela efanelekileyo?" mhlawumbi ifika engqondweni. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, wakuba uqhele kancinci, wakuba wazi amaqhinga ambalwa amancinci, nawe ungamncancisa umntwana wakho ngokuzithemba nangokulula, nokuba ngaphandle. Ngaba singathetha ngaloo nto namhlanje?

Umncancisa njani umntwana wakho ngaphandle kokuba kukho mntu uqaphelayo xa uphuma?

Le yinto yokuqala efika engqondweni yoomama abaninzi. Akukho namnye kuthi othanda ukuba neentloni. Ngoko ke, kukho iindlela ezimbalwa onokumncancisa ngazo umntwana wakho ngobulumko.

Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo xa usebenzisa nayiphi na kwezi ndlela kukujonga rhoqo ukuba umlomo nempumlo yomntwana azigqunywanga na kwaye ukuba bayakwazi ukuphefumla kakuhle . Iintsana ziphefumla njengathi, ngoko ke kufuneka silumke kakhulu ngaloo nto.

Nazi izinto ezimbalwa onokuzizama:

• Sebenzisa ingubo encinci okanye itshali: Ungayigquma ingubo encinci, ekhaphukhaphu okanye itshali entle egxalabeni lakho, ugqume ibele ecaleni apho umntwana wakho encancisa khona. Ngale ndlela, umntwana akayi kubonakala kwabanye xa encancisa. Abanye oomama bade bayisebenzisele ukugquma intloko yomntwana kuphela. Kodwa njengoko kukhankanyiwe, kungcono ukungakwenzi oko ukuba kwenza kube nzima kumntwana ukuphefumla, akunjalo?

• Yenza isigqubuthelo ngeempahla zakho zangaphandle: Ukuba unxibe i-T-shirt okanye ijezi, ungayiphakamisa uze usebenzise loo mpahla ukugquma intloko yomntwana wakho kancinci emva kokuba umntwana eqalise ukuncancisa. Nangona kunjalo, awuyi kubona mqolo wakho kakhulu.

• Sebenzisa i-sling yomntwana: Le yindlela elula kakhulu. Kwi-sling, ungabamba umntwana wakho kwindawo yokubeleka ngelixa uncancisa. Kukho iintlobo ezininzi ze-sling ezenzelwe ukwenza ukuncancisa kube lula. Ngale ndlela, umntwana wakho uya kuxhonywa emzimbeni wakho kwaye afudumale, kube mnandi kuwe, kwaye umqolo wakho awuyi kubonakala kangako.

Khawuzithelekelele ukwindawo yokutyela. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, cela isihlalo esikufutshane kancinci, apho ungabonwa khona ngabanye abantu, mhlawumbi i-booth. Kukwangumbono omhle ukuhlala phantsi ujonge abanye abantu.

Xa usevenkileni okanye kwindawo yokuthengisa, buza ukuba kukho "igumbi lokuncancisa." Iindawo ezininzi ngoku zinezi ndawo zoomama. Ungancancisa umntwana wakho kwindawo enjalo, ngokukhululekileyo nangokulula. Okanye, ukuba unokuhlala ukhuselekile kwaye ucocekile kwindawo efana negumbi lokutshintshela, okanye nangaphakathi emotweni yakho, ungancancisa umntwana wakho apho. Khumbula, intuthuzelo nokhuseleko lwakho nosana lwakho zezona zinto zibalulekileyo.

Zeziphi iimpahla ezilula ukuncancisa?

Ewe, oku kukwayingxaki nakoomama abaninzi. Kufuneka sicinge kancinci ngeempahla esizinxibayo xa sincancisa. Kuba ukukhetha iimpahla ezikuvumela ukuba uncancise umntwana wakho ngokukhawuleza nangokulula kuya kwenza ubomi bakho bube lula kakhulu.

Iibras zokonga

Ezi ziluncedo kakhulu. Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeebra zokuncancisa ezenzelwe ngokukodwa ukuncancisa.

• Ezinye zineziqhoboshi okanye izikhonkwane ezinokuvulwa lula phakathi kwamabele okanye kwiibhanti zebra.
• Ezinye zineziphelo onokuzishukumisa phezulu nasezantsi ukuze ususe ibele.

Ungakhetha leyo ikhululekileyo, engaxineneyo kakhulu, kwaye oyithandayo . Kusenokufuneka uzame iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ukuze ufumane leyo ikulungeleyo.

Khumbula: Ukuba unxiba ibra enje ngaphambi kokuba ube nomntwana, amabele akho anokukhula abe makhulu emva kokuba ube nomntwana aze aqale ukuncancisa. Ubungakanani bunokutshintsha kancinci emva koko, nangexesha lokuncancisa. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukhethe enendawo ethile kwaye ingaxinene kakhulu.

Iitops

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukwenza oku nangoku.

• Iimpahla zokuNceda: Ezi zenzelwe ukwenza ukuncancisa kube lula. Zisenokuba neeziphu okanye imingxunya engabonakaliyo.
• Iihempe okanye iiblawuzi ezinamaqhosha ngaphambili: Ezi ziluncedo kakhulu. Ungamncancisa umntwana wakho ngokulula ngokumkhulula amaqhosha amabini okanye amathathu.
• IiT-shirts okanye iisweta ezilula ukuzitsala phezulu okanye ezantsi: Ingubo ethambileyo kancinci enokutsalwa phezulu okanye ezantsi ilungile. Abanye oomama banxiba iiT-shirts ezimbini. Batsala engaphantsi ezantsi nengaphezulu ephezu ngelixa bencancisa. Ngaleyo ndlela, isisu siyagqunywa.

Nokuba unxiba luphi uhlobo lwelokhwe, ungasoloko unxiba ubungakanani obukhulu kancinci kunobungakanani obunxitywe ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe. Oku kungenxa yokuba amabele akho aba makhulu kunesiqhelo xa uncancisa . Ngoko ke, ngaba kulungile ukuqwalasela loo nto xa ukhetha impahla?

Ingaba kuqhelekile ukuvuza ubisi?

Ewe ngokwenene! Le yinto eyenzeka koomama abaninzi, ngoko ungakhathazeki ngayo. Enyanisweni, ukuvuza kobisi luphawu lokuba umzimba wakho ukulungele ukondla umntwana wakho.

Cinga ngale ndlela,

• Xa ubona omnye umntwana,
• Xa usiva umntwana ekhala,
• Xa ubona ifoto yomntwana wakho,
• Okanye ndicinga nje ngomntwana...

Ngamaxesha anje, amabele akho anokuvuza ubisi. Oku sikubiza ngokuba yi-instinct yomama . Ngamafutshane, umzimba wakho ngokwemvelo ufuna ukunyamekela umntwana wakho nokubonelela ngobisi. Iihomoni zakho ziyasebenza, zilawula i-reflex yokuvumela ukuba umntwana ayeke. Ngoko ke le yinto yendalo.

Kwakhona, xa uncancisa umntwana wakho kwelinye ibele, ubisi lunokuvuza kwelinye ibele. Oku kuqhelekile kakhulu. Xa oku kusenzeka, ungabeka itawuli encinci, ilaphu elirhabaxa, okanye i-cotton diaper ecocekileyo phezu kwelinye ibele.

Yintoni enokwenziwa ngokuvuza kobisi?

Zikhona nezisombululo koku.

• IiPads zokonga: Ungazithenga ezi kwiikhemesti okanye kwiivenkile zabantwana. Zifumaneka kwiipastiki ezilahlwayo (ezo zisetyenziswayo nezilahlwayo) okanye kwikotoni (ezo zinokuhlanjwa kwaye zisetyenziswe kwakhona). Xa ufaka enye yezi pads kwibra yakho, ifunxa ubisi oluvuzayo. Oku kuya kuyithintela impahla yakho ukuba ingabi manzi kwaye awuyi kuziva ungakhululekanga.
• Abanye oomama basebenzisa ezi pads ngalo lonke ixesha bencancisa. Abanye bazinxiba kuphela xa bengekho. Ungazisebenzisa nangayiphi na indlela oyifunayo.
• Kwimeko engxamisekileyo, ungagcina iziqwenga zethishu ezicocekileyo nezigobileyo ngaphakathi kwibra yakho.
• Iipads ezifakwe ngeplastiki azilunganga kangako: Zama ukungazisebenzisi ezi. Azivumeli umoya ukuba ufikelele kwiingono zakho ngokufanelekileyo. Kubalulekile ukugcina iingono zakho zomile kwaye zinomoya ococekileyo. Ukungaphumeleli ukwenza njalo kunokukhokelela kwizilonda, ukuqhekeka, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha usulelo lwefungus.
• Ukuba ngequbuliso uvuza ngaphandle kwephedi: Ukuba ngequbuliso uqala ukuvuza ubisi ngelixa ungaphandle kwaye uhambahamba ngaphandle kwephedi, nqamleza iingalo zakho esifubeni sakho uze ufake uxinzelelo olwaneleyo ukuze usibambe endaweni yaso. Oku kuya kunceda ukulawula ukuvuza okwethutyana.
• Nxiba iitopu ezineepateni: Ukuba unxiba itop enepateni encinci yeentyatyambo okanye enemigca, endaweni yokuba inombala oqinileyo, nokuba ngempazamo ufumana ibala elincinci lobisi, aliyi kubonakala kangako.

Khumbula, konke oku ngamava amatsha kuwe njengomama omtsha. Uza kuqhela konke oku kwiintsuku ezimbalwa. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuncancisa umntwana wakho ngexesha nangendlela afuna ngayo.

Okokugqibela, kufuneka ndithi... (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Khangela, nangona ukuncancisa umntwana wakho xa uphumile kungabonakala ngathi ngumceli mngeni ekuqaleni, akufuneki kube njalo.

• Kubalulekile ukuqhela oku: Wakuba ukuqhelile kancinci, kwaye ugcine la macebiso engqondweni, oku kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kuwe.
• Cinga ngentuthuzelo yakho neyengane yakho: Khetha indlela ekhululekileyo nekhuselekileyo kuwe nakwingane yakho.
• Musa ukoyika, cela uncedo: Ukuba usaxhalabile okanye awuqinisekanga ngale nto, buza ugqirha wakho, uMbelekisi wezeMpilo yoSapho, okanye umama onamava. Baza kukunika iingcebiso ezingcono.

Khumbula, ukuncancisa sesona sipho sixabisekileyo onokusinika umntwana wakho. Ngoko ke, qhubeka nolo hambo ngokuzithemba. Ungakwenza oko!

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