Masipheke ekhitshini nomntwana wakho omncinci? (Ukupheka Nabantwana Abasaqalayo) – Uza kumangaliswa kukufunda ngeenzuzo eziziswa koku kumntwana wakho!

Xa ucinga ngokwenza imisebenzi emincinci ekhitshini nomntwana wakho omncinci, unokucinga, "Owu, ikhitshi liza kuba yingxaki, umsebenzi uza kuba mkhulu, kwaye uza kuba yingxaki." Liyinyaniso elokuba, kufuneka ube nomonde xa usebenza nabantwana abancinci. Kodwa, ungandikholelwa ukuba bendingakuxelela ukuba izibonelelo zalo msebenzi kumntwana wakho zingaphezulu kwengxaki encinci? Ewe, liyinyani. Le yinto edlula ukupheka nje isidlo. Makhe sijonge oku ngokweenkcukacha, njengokuthetha nomhlobo.

Zithini iingenelo zokwenyani zokupheka nabantwana?

Ikhitshi yindawo emangalisayo yabantwana abancinci. Yonke imibala, yonke ivumba, yonke isandi... zonke ezi zinto zizinto ezintsha kubo. Ngoko ke, ukubasa ekhitshini nokubabandakanya kwimisebenzi yokupheka emincinci kunokubanceda ngeendlela ezininzi. Makhe sibone indlela, nganye nganye.

Ukuzilolonga kwengqondo, indlela yokuphuhlisa izakhono ezisisiseko

Khawuthelekelele, xa uqhekeza amaqanda ukuze wenze ikhekhe, uxelela umntwana wakho, "Nyana/ntombi, bala la maqanda." Xa ebala inye, ezimbini, ezintathu, oko kuyamnceda aphuhlise izakhono zakhe ezisisiseko zezibalo . Xa esenza into esebenzayo efana nale, inamathela engqondweni yakhe ngcono kunokufunda nje amanani. Ungatsho nezinto ezifana nokuthi "Le yisiqingatha" kunye nokuthi "Le yisiqingatha" xa ubeka amanzi ekomityini.

Enye into kukuba, xa sifunda iresiphi kunye. Xa sisithi izinto ezinje "Masibeke umgubo kuqala", "Emva koko iswekile", amagama amaninzi amatsha ayongezwa kwisigama somntwana. Kukwanceda ukwandisa izakhono zakhe zolwimi kunye nomdla wokufunda . Xa elandela amanyathelo kwiresiphi ngokulandelelana, ufunda ngokuzenzekelayo "ukumamela ngononophelo oko kuthethwa ngumama/tata". Oko kuthetha ukuba ukwaqhelana nokukwazi ukumamela ngononophelo (izakhono zokumamela) .

Valelisa kwiinkanuko zokutya uze ugxile kwiincasa ezintsha.

Abantwana abaninzi abasaqalayo esikolweni bayathandabuza ukutya, akunjalo? Kukho amaxesha apho bajonga kude imifuno neziqhamo ezithile. "Andinakukutya oku, andinakukutya okuya," yingoma yabo. Kodwa, into emangalisayo kukuba, xa ubasa ekhitshini kwaye ubancede benze into ngezandla zabo, bayakonwabela ngokwenene ukungcamla oko kutya.

Khawuthelekelele ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka emithathu ubudala ujoyine wena ekukrazuleni amagqabi elettuce aze ongeze ezinye iziqwenga zekherothi ukwenza isaladi. Umntwana, othi akanakuyitya isaladi ngenye indlela, uyitya ngomdla, esithi, "Le yisaladi endiyenzileyo." Kuba, unegalelo kuyo. Ngoko ke, eli lithuba elihle lokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba azame izithako ezintsha. Thetha ngezinto ezinje, "Jonga umbala omhle wale kharothi," "Ingaba le kharothi ayinavumba?" kwaye uvuse umdla wabo. Cacisa ngokulula indlela oku kutya okulungileyo ngayo emzimbeni kunye nendlela okunceda ngayo umzimba ukuba ukhule.

Indawo entle yokuhlola ihlabathi usebenzisa zonke iimvakalelo ezintlanu.

Abantwana abancinci bafana nabahloli abancinci. Bafunda ngehlabathi ngeemvakalelo zabo ezintlanu.– Oko kuthetha ukusebenzisa zonke izivamvo zakho – ukubona, ukuva, ukuvumba, ukungcamla, ukuchukumisa. Ikhitshi yindawo entle yokusebenzisa zonke ezi zivamvo.

• Ukuva: Isandi somxube ojikelezayo, isandi esitshisayo sento eqhotsiweyo epanini yeoyile...
• Ukuchukumisa: Ukuthamba kwentlama yesonka xa uyichukumisa, okanye ukuphola kwamanzi xa uhlamba imifuno...
• Umbono: Imifuno enemibala, iziqhamo, imilo yesonka...
• Ivumba: Ivumba lekhekhe elibhakwa ehovini, ivumba leziqholo...
• Incasa: Okokugqibela, iincasa ezimnandi, ezimuncu, ezinetyuwa ozifumanayo xa ungcamla into oyenzileyo...

Konke oku ngamava amatsha kumntwana. Ukuba ukutya kunuka kamnandi, kukhangeleka kumnandi, kwaye kulula ukukutya , ngokuqinisekileyo baza kuzama!

"Nam ndingakwenza!" – Ukuzithemba (`(Ukuzithemba)`) phezulu

Abantwana abasaqalayo esikolweni bayakuthanda ukubonisa abanye into abanokuyenza, baze bacinge, "Ndingumntwana omkhulu." Ukusebenza ekhitshini kubanika uluvo lokuba baphumelele , indlela entle yokwakha ukuzithemba.

Khawuthelekelele ukuba bakuncedile ukwenza ipizza (`(iPizza)`). Emva koko, baxelele, "Nyana/ntombi, le pizza iphume imnandi kwaye intle ngenxa yoncedo lwakho." Benze bazive ukuba uncedo lwabo lubaluleke kangakanani. Ungabhala igama lomntwana wabo ekutyeni abakwenzileyo. Xela into efana nale, "Namhlanje sisitya iinoodles ezikhethekileyo zeChamodi" okanye "iipancakes ezinkulu zikaKavindu." Emva koko ubone ukuba baziva njani bonwabile! Nokuba ukutya akuhambanga ngendlela obuyilindele, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ngumzamo wabo. Qiniseka ukuba uyayixabisa.

Thetha izinto ezinje, "Nyana, usebenze nzima kakhulu. Kulungile ukuba phumle kancinci. Masenze ngcono kwixesha elizayo, kulungile?" Oko kuya kubakhuthaza nangakumbi.

Luhlobo luni lomsebenzi olunokunikwa abantwana abancinci ekhitshini? Ngelixa begcina ikhitshi likhuselekile?

Kukho imisebenzi eliqela enokwenziwa ngabantwana abancinci abaneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5 ekhitshini, kwaye ifanelekile kubo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo apha kukubanika "umsebenzi" ohambelana neminyaka yabo, ubuchule babo, kunye nabo banandiphayo ukuwenza. Kwakhona, kufuneka ucinge ngokhuseleko kangangoko unako. Kufuneka ubagcine kude nezinto ezibukhali, umlilo, kunye namanzi ashushu.

Nazi ezinye izinto ezilula ezinokunceda abantwana abancinci:

• Ukuxuba: Xuba intlama yepancake ngecephe lomthi. (Iza kutyibilika kancinci, kodwa oko kuqhelekile!)
• Ukukrazula/ukuqhekeza: Bavumele bakrazule izinto ezinje ngamagqabi elettuce ngesandla ukuze benze iisaladi. Bavumele baqhekeze iziqwenga zesonka.
• Ukongeza: Bancede balinganise izithako ezinje ngomgubo neswekile kwisitya. Bavumele bongeze imifuno kunye netshizi kwipizza.
• Ukucola: Bavumele bacole izinto ezifana neetapile ezibilisiwe kunye neebhanana ngecephe.
• Ukutshiza:Fafaza iswekile ye-icing phezu kwekhekhe, okanye wongeze amagqabi ekhari kwintlama ukuze uncede.
• Ukujika amaphepha: Xa ujonge incwadi yeresiphi, bancede "bafunde" ngokujika amaphepha. (Oku kwakha umdla kwiincwadi.)
• Ukuhlamba: Hlamba imifuno neziqhamo ezingayi kuphuka. (Kulula ngokuchaphaza amanzi!)

Uqala njani kanye kanye lo msebenzi? Iingcebiso ezimbalwa

Ukususela ekukhweleni ibhayisekile enamavili amathathu ukuya ekunxibeni izihlangu zabo, abantwana abasaqalayo bafunda ukuba banokwenza okungakanani ngokwabo. Olu luvo lokuba "ndingakwenza" lubalulekile ekukhuleni kwabo.

Ngoko ke, khumbula ezi zinto xa uqala ukupheka:

• Qala ngokulula: Musa ukuzama ukwenza isidlo esikhulu nesintsonkothileyo ngaxeshanye. Qala kancinci, njengokusasaza ijam encinci kwibhisikithi okanye ukongeza iziqwenga ezimbalwa zeziqhamo kwiyogathi.
• Cinga ngexesha: Abantwana abancinci abanalo ixesha elide lokunikel’ ingqalelo. Nokuba yimizuzu emi-5 okanye eli-10 inokwanela kubo. Musa ukubanyanzela ukuba baqhubeke bade bakruquke.
• Ulonwabo kuqala: Oku kufanele kube mnandi kumntwana. Yenze ibe ngumdlalo. Kulapho ke baya kujoyina khona ngomdla.
• Yenza indawo ekhuselekileyo: Nika umntwana indawo apho anokusebenza khona, kwindawo ephakame ngokwaneleyo, kwaye engatyibiliki. Nokuba kusetyenziswa isitulo, masiqine singagungqi.
• Yiba nomonde: Xa usebenza nabantwana, yonke into ayenzeki kakuhle okanye ngokukhawuleza. Umgubo othile uza kuwa phantsi, amanzi athile aza kuchitheka. Musa ukucaphuka ngaloo nto. Yinxalenye yenkqubo.

Njengoko abantwana bekhula, izakhono zabo, ixesha labo lokunikel’ ingqalelo, kunye nomdla wabo uyakhula. Emva koko banokwenza imisebenzi enzima ngakumbi, njengokucudisa ijusi kwilamuni, ukulinganisa izithako ngeekomityi kunye neepuni, ukubetha amaqanda, kunye nokucola iitapile.

Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, kufuneka uhlale usekhitshini nabo, ujonge kwaye ujonge oko bakwenzayo. Kuba ukhuseleko luza kuqala.

Ngokuchitha ixesha ekhitshini nabantwana bakho ngolu hlobo, ungenza ukuba babe nomdla ophilileyo ekutyeni nasekuphekeni kwaye babe nemikhwa emihle ubomi babo bonke!

Okokugqibela, ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzikhumbule

Ngoko ke, ngoku uyaqonda ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukusebenza ekhitshini nabantwana kwaye banokufunda lukhulu kangakanani kuko. Oku kungaphezulu kakhulu kunokupheka nje!

• Le yindlela entle yokuphuhlisa ingqondo yomntwana, izakhono zezibalo kunye nolwimi. Izinto ezenziwayo ngokoqobo zigcinwa ngcono engqondweni yakhe kunezo zifundwe ezincwadini.
• Lithuba elihle kubantu abakhetha ukutya ukuba baqhele ukunambitha izinto ezintsha. Beneqhayiya "lokutya endikwenzileyo," baya kuhendeka ekutyeni ukutya abangakutyiyo ngokuqhelekileyo.
• Ikhitshi lifana nelebhu yesayensi yanamhlanje, apho ungasebenzisa khona izivamvo zakho ukufunda nokuzama izinto ezintsha.
• Ukuzithemba okuthi, "Nam ndingakwenza!" Kwakhelwe emntwaneni. Oku kuyinto exabisekileyo ebomini bakhe bonke. Qiniseka ukuba uyayincoma imizamo yakhe, nokuba mincinci.
• Qala ngemisebenzi elula efanelekileyo kumntwana. Musa ukumnyanzela ukuba enze izinto ade akruquke. Mvumele azenze ngendlela eyonwabisayo nedlalayo.
• Ukhuseleko luza kuqala! Yiba nomntwana wakho ngamaxesha onke, umjonge. Mgcine kude nezinto ezibukhali, umlilo, nezinto ezishushu.
• Xabisa umzamo nexesha elichithwe kunye ngaphezu kwesiphumo. Yonke into akufuneki iphume kakuhle ngokungathi isevenkileni. Okubalulekileyo kukuba nenza oku kunye, amava kunye novuyo umntwana wakho aza kuba nalo.

Ukusebenza ekhitshini nabantwana bakho ngale ndlela kuya kuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwenu. Kwakhona, ungongeza iinkumbulo ezintle eziya kuhlala ubomi bonke kwi-albhamu yakho yosapho. Ngoko ke, ngomso, thatha umntwana wakho umse ekhitshini uzame ukwenza iibhisikithi okanye isaladi yeziqhamo! Kuya kuba ngamava angalibalekiyo kuwe nakumntwana wakho!

Ukupheka nabantwana , abantwana abasaqalayo, umsebenzi wasekhitshini, uphuhliso lomntwana, imikhwa yokutya okunempilo, ukuzithemba, izakhono ezisisiseko