Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' yinto ethethwa kakhulu ngayo, kwaye abanye abantu bayisebenzisa njengendlela yokulawula inzala. Abanye bayibiza ngokuba yi 'Withdrawal Method'. Ngamafutshane, ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo, iqabane lakho likhupha ipenisi yalo kwilungu lobufazi ngaphambi kokuba likhuphe i-ejaculation. Ngoko ke, isebenza kangakanani le ndlela? Ngaba licebo elihle ukuthembela kuyo ukuthintela ukukhulelwa? Makhe sithethe ngale nto ngokukhululekileyo nangokucacileyo namhlanje.
Isebenza njani inkqubo ethi 'Pull Out'?
Ukuze ukhulelwe, isidoda seqabane lakho kufuneka sidlule kwilungu lobufazi lakho size sidibane neqanda kwimibhobho yakho ye-fallopian . Oku kubizwa ngokuba kukuchumisa.
Kwindlela ethi 'Tsala', iqabane lizama ukuthintela ukuba isidoda esinesidoda singangeni kwilungu lobufazi. Oku kuthetha ukuba i-penis iyakhutshwa ngaphambi kokuba iphume kwaye isidoda sikhutshwe emzimbeni. Eyona njongo iphambili yoku kukunciphisa indawo yokuba isidoda singene kwilungu lobufazi.
Isebenza kangakanani le ndlela? Ngaba inokuthenjwa ngokwenene?
Nantsi into ebalulekileyo. Indlela ethi 'Phuma' isebenza nge-80% kuphela. Le ndlela ayisebenzi kangako kunezinye iindlela zokulawula ukukhulelwa , ezifana neekhondom, iipilisi zokulawula ukukhulelwa , okanye ii-IUD .
Ngamafutshane, umfazi omnye kwabahlanu abasebenzisa le ndlela yodwa yokuthintela ukukhulelwa uza kukhulelwa kungekapheli nonyaka.
Usenokucinga, "Besisoloko sisebenzisa le ndlela iminyaka emininzi kwaye ayizange ibe nangxaki." Kodwa oko akuqinisekisi ukuba awuyi kukhulelwa kwixesha elizayo. Kwanempazamo encinci eyenziwa liqabane lakho inokukhokelela ekukhulelweni .
Zithini izizathu zokungaphumeleli kwendlela ethi 'Pull Out'?
Kukho indawo enkulu yeempazamo kule ndlela. Makhe sijonge izizathu eziphambili.
| Isizathu sokungaphumeleli | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Ukungakwazi ukuyisusa ngexesha elifanelekileyo | Akulula ukwazi ixesha elichanekileyo lokukhupha i-ejaculation. Ukukhupha i-ejaculation kudla ngokuvela ngexesha lokonwaba okukhulu ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Ngelo xesha, kunzima kakhulu ukunika ingqondo isilumkiso sokuba "ikhuphe ngoku". Umntu onamava amancinci usenokungakwazi ukuqaphela eli xesha. Kwakhona, nomntu onamava unamathuba amaninzi okwenza iimpazamo ngenxa yezinto ezinje ngoxinzelelo kunye notywala. |
| Ulwelo olungaphambi kokukhupha i-ejaculate | Into abantu abaninzi abangayiqondiyo kukuba ulwelo olucacileyo oluphuma kwilungu lobudoda ngaphambi kokuphuma komchamo (pre-cum) lunokuba nenani elincinci lesidoda. Nokuba ubungakanani besidoda kolu lwelo buphantsi, busenokwanela ukubangela ukukhulelwa. Ngoko ke, nokuba ukhupha ilungu lobudoda ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kukho umngcipheko wokuba olu lwelo lungene kwilungu lobudoda ngaphambi kokuphuma komchamo. |
| Ukutshiza isidoda kwilungu lobufazi | Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho lingakhupha ipenisi yalo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba imbewu ifika emathangeni akho okanye ijikeleze i-vagina yakho (i-vulva)? I-sperm ziiseli ezinokudada kakuhle. Ukuba kukho ukufuma okujikeleze i-vagina, i-sperm ingangena kwi-vagina ngayo ize ibangele ukukhulelwa. |
Ziziphi iingxaki eziphambili zale ndlela?
Ngoku mhlawumbi uyaqonda ukuba le ndlela ayithembekanga ekulawuleni inzala. Ukongeza, kukho nezinye iingxaki ezininzi.
- Ukubeka uxanduva lokukhulelwa ngokupheleleyo kumfazi: Kule ndlela, iqabane lendoda linolawulo olupheleleyo lokuthintela ukukhulelwa. Ukuba aliyisebenzisi kakuhle ixesha, okanye ligqiba ekubeni lingarhoxi ngenxa yolonwabo lwalo mzuzu, kuya kufuneka uthwaxwe yimiphumo yoko. Awunalawulo koku.
- Isondo linokuba luxinzelelo: Ukuba nesondo uxinezelekile "lokunyanzeleka ukuba uphume ngexesha elifanelekileyo" kunokuba luxinzelelo kumacala omabini. Oku kunokunciphisa ulonwabo nolwaneliseko lobomi bakho besondo.
- Imfuneko yokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungxamisekileyo:Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba kukho into engalunganga, kuya kufuneka ubaleke ujonge iindlela zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ezingxamisekileyo. Loo nto ibangela uxinezeleko olukhulu. Ukusebenzisa indlela ethembekileyo kwasekuqaleni yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphepha olu hlobo lwengxaki.
- Ukunqongophala kokhuseleko kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngesondo : Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo neyingozi.
Khumbula, indlela ethi 'Phuma' ayikhuseli kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngesondo (ii-STI) ezifana ne-HIV, iGonorrhea, kunye neChlamydia. Eyona ndlela yokuzikhusela kwezi zifo kukusebenzisa ikhondom.
Kutheni ke abantu abaninzi besebenzisa le ndlela?
Nangona kukho ezi ngozi, kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba izibini ezininzi zisebenzisa le ndlela:
- Kuba ayibizi nto.
- Kuba abazi ngokupheleleyo ezinye iindlela zokulawula ukukhulelwa (iipilisi, ii-IUD, iinaliti).
- Kuba andifuni ukufaka nasiphi na isixhobo okanye ihomoni emzimbeni wam.
- Kuba ungenza isigqibo ngesiquphe xa usabelana ngesondo, kwaye akufuneki ucwangcise kwangaphambili.
- Kuba akukho nto inokwenziwa xa kungekho ndlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa ekhoyo ngelo xesha.
Abanye abantu basebenzisa le ndlela yokukhusela ngakumbi kunye nenye indlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa (umz., iipilisi).
Ukuba usebenzisa le ndlela, ungayinciphisa njani ingozi?
Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' ingcono kancinci kunokungabi nayo kwaphela indlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa. Kodwa ukuba ugqibe ekubeni uyisebenzise, kukho izinto onokuzenza ukunciphisa iingozi.
1. Yisebenzise nenye indlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa: Le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokunciphisa umngcipheko wokukhulelwa. Ukusebenzisa indlela ethi 'Phuma' kunye nekhondom kwandisa kakhulu ukhuseleko. Ikwakhusela kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngesondo.
2. Lumka kakhulu ngexesha lokuvuthwa kweqanda: Umngcipheko omkhulu wokukhulelwa uphakathi komjikelo wakho wenyanga (malunga neeveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuya exesheni). Kububulumko ukuphawula ezi ntsuku kwikhalenda kwaye ungaxhomekeki kuphela kule ndlela ngelo xesha.
3. Cela iqabane lakho ukuba lichame ngaphambi kokuba lenze isondo: Oku kunokunceda ukunciphisa inani lesidoda kulwelo olungaphambi kokuphuma komlomo ukuya kwinqanaba elithile. Nangona kunjalo, asiyondlela isebenzayo eyi-100%.
4. Gcina izinto zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ezingxamisekileyo kufutshane:Kungumbono omhle ukugcina ipilisi yokuthintela ukukhulelwa ekufutshane xa uphoswa yidosi. Le pilisi inokuthintela ukukhulelwa ukuba ithathwa kwiintsuku ezintlanu emva kokwabelana ngesondo ngendlela engakhuselekanga. Buza ugqirha wakho ngale nto.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' (Withdrawal) ayilondlela ithembekileyo yokuthintela ukukhulelwa. Inezinga eliphezulu lokungaphumeleli.
- Le ndlela ayiboneleli ngokhuseleko kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngesondo (ii-STI). Ukuze ukhusele kwizifo eziyingozi ezifana ne-HIV, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ikhondom.
- Le ndlela inokungaphumeleli lula ngenxa yezinto ezifana nexesha elingalunganga, ulwelo olungaphambi kokukhupha iqanda, kunye nongcoliseko lwangaphandle lwesidoda.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubonisana nogqirha wakho wosapho ukuze ukhethe indlela yokulawula inzala ekhuselekileyo nethembekileyo efanelekileyo kuwe nakwiqabane lakho.
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