Indlela ethi 'Pull Out', eyaziwa ngokuba yindlela yokurhoxa, yindlela esetyenziswa kakhulu ngabanye njengendlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa. Ngamafutshane, ibandakanya iqabane lakho ukuba likhuphe ipenis yalo kwilungu lobufazi ngaphambi kokuba liphume . Kodwa le ndlela isebenza kangakanani ngokwenene? Ngaba ungathembela kuyo ukuthintela ukukhulelwa? Makhe sixoxe ngezi nyaniso ngokukhululekileyo nangokucacileyo namhlanje kwiNirogi Lanka.
Isebenza njani indlela ethi 'Phuma'?
Ukuze ukhulelwe, isidoda seqabane lakho kufuneka sidlule kwilungu lobufazi lakho size sifikelele kwiqanda elingaphakathi kwimibhobho ye-fallopian . Le nkqubo ibizwa ngokuba kukuchumisa.
Kwindlela ethi 'Khupha', iqabane lizama ukuthintela isidoda ukuba singangeni kwisini ngokusikhupha ngaphambi kokuba siphume. Injongo ephambili kukuthintela isidoda ukuba singafiki kwindlela yokuzala.
Isebenza kangakanani le ndlela, kwaye ungayithemba?
Le yeyona ngongoma ibalulekileyo: Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' isebenza kakuhle nge-80% kuphela. Xa kuthelekiswa nezinye iindlela zokuthintela ukukhulelwa ezinokuthenjwa, ezifana neekhondom, iipilisi zokulawula ukukhulelwa , okanye ii-IUD , izinga layo lempumelelo liphantsi kakhulu.
Ngamafutshane, kubafazi abahlanu abaxhomekeke kuphela kule ndlela yokulawula inzala, omnye kubo unokukhulelwa kungekapheli nonyaka.
Usenokucinga, "Sisebenzise le nto iminyaka emininzi ngaphandle kweengxaki," kodwa oko akuniki siqinisekiso sexesha elizayo. Impazamo encinci eyenziwe liqabane lakho inokwanela ukukhokelela ekukhulelweni okungacwangciswanga.
Kutheni indlela ethi 'Phuma' ingaphumeleli rhoqo?
Kukho umahluko omkhulu kwiimpazamo zabantu ngale ndlela. Makhe sijonge izizathu eziphambili zokungaphumeleli.
| Isizathu Sokusilela | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Ubunzima ngexesha | Kunzima ukuqaphela elona xesha lichanekileyo lokukhupha i-ejaculation. Ukukhupha i-ejaculation kudla ngokuvela xa ulonwabo lwesondo luphezulu, nto leyo eyenza kube nzima kakhulu engqondweni ukuba ikwazi ukukhupha i-ejaculation ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Kwanabantu abanamava banokungaqiqi kakuhle ngenxa yokuphazamiseka, uxinzelelo, okanye utywala. |
| Ulwelo olungaphambi kokukhupha i-ejaculate (Pre-cum) | Abantu abaninzi abaqondi ukuba ulwelo olucacileyo oluphuma kwilungu lobudoda ngaphambi kokuphuma komchamo (ngaphambi kwe-cum) lunokuba nenani elincinci lesidoda. Nokuba inani lesidoda liphantsi, lisanele ukubangela ukukhulelwa. |
| Unxibelelwano lwangaphandle | Nokuba iqabane lakho lirhoxa ngexesha, ukuba i-seed ichithekile kufutshane ne-vulva okanye amathanga akho, i-sperm iyakwazi ukudada. Ukuba kukho ukufuma okukhoyo, ingangena kwi-vaginal ize ikhokelele ekukhulelweni. |
Ziziphi iingxaki eziphambili zale ndlela?
Kufuneka kucace ngoku ukuba olu asilohlobo lokuthintela ukukhulelwa oluthembekileyo. Kukho ezinye iingxaki ezongezelelweyo:
- Ukubeka uxanduva kuwe: Umthwalo wokuthintela ukukhulelwa uxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane lakho. Ukuba aliyi kurhoxa ngexesha elifanelekileyo okanye ligqiba ekubeni lingarhoxi, nguwe ojongene nemiphumo. Awunalawulo luninzi okanye awunalo kwaphela ngelo xesha.
- Ukuxhalaba ngokwesondo: Uxinzelelo lokuba kufuneka "uphume ngexesha elifanelekileyo" lunokubangela uxinezeleko olukhulu kumaqabane omabini, nto leyo enokunciphisa ulwaneliseko lwakho ngokwesondo.
- Imfuneko yokuthintela ukukhulelwa okungxamisekileyo: Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba kwenziwe impazamo, kuya kufuneka ufune ukuthintela ukukhulelwa okungxamisekileyo. Oku kubangela uxinzelelo lwengqondo olungeyomfuneko. Ukuqala ngendlela ethembekileyo kusoloko kungcono.
- Akukho khuselo kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngesondo : Le yeyona ngozi ibalulekileyo neyingozi.
Khumbula, indlela ethi 'Phuma' ayiniki khuselo kwizifo ezithelelanayo ezifana ne-HIV, iGonorrhea, okanye iChlamydia. Kuphela kukusebenzisa iikhondom rhoqo okunokukukhusela kwezi zifo.
Kutheni abantu abaninzi besayisebenzisa?
Nangona kukho iingozi, izibini zinokukhetha le ndlela ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo:
- Ayihlawulelwa.
- Ukungazi kakuhle ezinye iindlela zokuthintela ukukhulelwa zanamhlanje nezithembekileyo.
- Ukungonwabi ngokusebenzisa izixhobo okanye iihomoni.
- Kulula ukungadingi kulungiselelwa kwangaphambili.
- Bekungekho ezinye iindlela ezikhoyo ngelo xesha.
Abanye abantu basebenzisa oku njengomaleko owongezelelweyo wokukhusela kunye nenye indlela, njengepilisi.
Ukuba uyayisebenzisa le ndlela, ungayinciphisa njani ingozi?
Nangona ukhuseleko oluthile lungcono kunokungabikho, ukuba uzimisele ukusebenzisa indlela ethi 'Pull Out', unganciphisa iingozi ngokulandela la manyathelo:
1. Yisebenzise kunye nenye indlela: Le yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokunciphisa umngcipheko. Ukusebenzisa indlela ethi 'Phuma' kunye nekhondom kwandisa kakhulu ukhuseleko kwaye kunika umqobo kwizifo ezithathelwana ngesondo.
2. Lumka kakhulu ngexesha lokuvuthwa kweqanda: Umngcipheko wokukhulelwa uphezulu kakhulu phakathi komjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni (malunga neeveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba uye exesheni elilandelayo). Kububulumko ukuphepha ukuthembela kuphela kule ndlela ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwakho.
3. Chama ngaphambi kokuba ulale nomntu: Ukuba neqabane lakho lichame ngaphambi kokuba ulale nomntu kunokunceda ukukhupha isidoda esiseleyo kwi-urethra, nangona oku kungasebenzi ngokupheleleyo.
4. Gcina uthintelo lokukhulelwa olungxamisekileyo lusecaleni: Kulungile ukuba nothintelo lokukhulelwa olungxamisekileyo ukuba kwenzeke impazamo. Ezi pilisi zisebenza kakhulu ukuba zithathwe zingadlulanga iintsuku ezintlanu emva kokwabelana ngesondo ngendlela engakhuselekanga. Nceda uqhagamshelane nomboneleli wakho wezempilo ukuze ufumane isikhokelo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' (yokurhoxa) ayiyondlela ithembekileyo yokuthintela ukukhulelwa. Inezinga eliphezulu lokungaphumeleli.
- Le ndlela ayiniki khuselo kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngesondo. Ukuze uzikhusele kwizifo ezitshintsha ubomi njenge-HIV, ukusebenzisa ikhondom kuyimfuneko.
- Ixesha elingafanelekanga, ulwelo olungaphambi kokukhupha i-ejaculate, kunye nokudibana kwangaphandle kwenza le ndlela ibe lula kakhulu ukungaphumeleli.
- Ukuze ufumane indlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa ekhuselekileyo nethembekileyo ekufaneleyo wena neqabane lakho, nceda udibane nogqirha wakho okanye iklinikhi yezempilo yasekuhlaleni ukuze ufumane iingcebiso zobungcali.
