Ngaba wakha wabona ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo osenyongweni elwa notywala okanye ezinye iziyobisi? Okanye mhlawumbi nawe ujongene nale ngxaki. Le yimeko enzima kakhulu kwaye ibuhlungu. Ngexesha elinje, kuyinto entle ukufumana uncedo kumntu onolwazi olukhethekileyo noqeqesho ukukunceda woyise le ngxaki. Umcebisi wokulutha yingcali enika uncedo olunjalo.
Ngubani uMcebisi woBukhoboka bokuXhatshazwa?
Ngamafutshane, umcebisi wokulutha ngugqirha onika ukhathalelo olukhethekileyo kunye nenkxaso kubantu abanengxaki yokusebenzisa iziyobisi (ii-SUD), ezifana nengxaki yokusebenzisa utywala okanye ingxaki yokusebenzisa i-opioid.
Ezi ziyobisi zinokuqala kancinci zize zifikelele kwinqanaba elinzima. Kwaye indlela ezichaphazela ngayo umntu ngamnye yahlukile. Okokuqala kufuneka siqonde ukuba oku akusiyo nje imikhwa emibi, kodwa yimeko enzima yempilo yengqondo efuna unyango . Ngoko ke, aba bacebisi benza ntoni kukuqonda umntu ngamnye kakuhle, benze isicwangciso sonyango esikhethekileyo kuye, kwaye basilungelelanise nemeko yakhe.
Abacebisi abaneelayisenisi ziingcali ezinolwazi olunzulu ngezizathu eziphambili zokulutha. Basebenzisa amaqhinga kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango ukunceda ukujongana nezinto ezininzi ezikhokelela ekusetyenzisweni komntu kwaye zigcine umlutha wakhe.
Kutheni sisebenzisa igama elithi 'umlutha'?
Ngaphambili, aba ngcali babesaziwa ngokuba "nguMcebisi woBundlobongela bokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi". Oko kukuthi, umntu onika iingcebiso "ngokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi." Kodwa ngoku, iinkqubo zempilo kunye nemibutho kwihlabathi liphela ziyekile ukusebenzisa amagama anje "ngokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi."
Kutheni kunjalo? Kuba kukho ukugxekwa okukhulu kunye neembono ezimbi ezinxulumene nala mazwi. Khawucinge nje, kwanakuluntu lwethu, umntu oxhomekeke kutywala ubizwa ngokuba "ngumnxila" kwaye umntu oxhomekeke kwezinye iziyobisi ubizwa ngokuba "ngumnxila." Ukuva amazwi anjalo kunokwenza loo mntu azive eneentloni kwaye enomsindo ngaye. Kunokumenza angakulungeli ukufuna unyango. Izifundo zide zibonise ukuba olu hlazo lwentlalo lwenza abantu bangafuni ukufuna uncedo.
Oku kufana nokugxeka umntu ngokuba nomkhuhlane. Umlutha yimeko enokunyangeka. Ngoko ke, ukusebenzisa ulwimi olufanelekileyo nolunentlonipho linyathelo elibaluleke kakhulu kuhambo lwaloo mntu lokuchacha.
Injani indima yomcebisi?
Zininzi izinto ezenziwa ngumcebisi wokulutha. Kufana nokubonelela ngeenkonzo ezininzi phantsi kophahla olunye. Makhe sijonge ukuba zeziphi ezo misebenzi ziphambili.
| Indima | Ukuchaza ngokulula... |
|---|---|
| Uvavanyo | Baza kuqala bathethe nawe baze baqonde impilo yakho yengqondo neyomzimba, uhlobo kunye nobunzima bomlutha wakho. Baza kuvavanya ukulungela kwakho utshintsho kunye nokuba unayo nayiphi na eminye imiba yempilo yengqondo (ukuxilongwa kabini) ukongeza kolu mlutha. |
| Ucwangciso Lonyango | Isicwangciso sonyango esilungiselelwe wena siqu senzelwe ukuhambelana neemfuno zakho kunye neenjongo zakho. Oku kungabandakanya unyango, unyango , iinkqubo zokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo , amaqela enkxaso, nokunye. |
| Ukudluliselwa kwiinkonzo eziyimfuneko | Umcebisi usebenza njengebhulorho phakathi kwakho neenkonzo zangaphandle ozifunayo. Umzekelo, banokukuthumela kugqirha, kwiqela lenkxaso, okanye nakwindawo enokukunceda ufumane umsebenzi. |
| Ungenelelo | Bayangenelela kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo xa umntu ezama ukuzilimaza okanye ukwenzakalisa abanye. Bayangenelela nakwiimeko ezingezizo ezingxamisekileyo, ngesicelo samalungu osapho, ukukhuthaza umntu onengxaki yokulutha ukuba afune uncedo. |
| Ingcebiso | Banyanga umlutha ngonyango lokuthetha, nokuba ngabanye okanye ngamaqela. Oku kukwabizwa ngokuba yi-psychotherapy okanye "unyango lokuthetha." Ingcebiso ayinikwa kuphela umntu onengxaki yokulutha, kodwa nakwiintsapho zakhe nakubahlobo bakhe. |
| Imfundo | Sifundisa usapho kunye nabahlobo ngesi sifo, sibafundisa indlela yokuxhasa abantu ababathandayo kulo lonke unyango, kwaye siququzelela iinkqubo zokwazisa uluntu. |
| Ukubhala phantsi inkqubela phambili | Ukugcina ezi rekhodi kubalulekile ukuze kujongwe inkqubela phambili yonyango. Ngamanye amaxesha, iiarhente zomthetho okanye inkqubo yezomthetho nazo zisenokufuna ukubonelela ngezi ngxelo zenkqubela phambili. |
Olu hambo alukho kuwe wedwa. Aba bacebisi badla ngokusebenza njengeqela nezinye iingcali. Aba baquka oogqirha bengqondo, oogqirha bengqondo, abasebenzi bezentlalo, kunye nogqirha wosapho lwakho.
Basebenza phi aba bacebisi?
Kukho iindawo ezininzi apho unokufumana khona iinkonzo zomcebisi onjalo.
- Izibonelelo zokulungisa imeko yokugula: Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezi. Ezinye zizibonelelo zokuhlala; oko kukuthi, uhlala apho kwaye ufumana unyango phantsi kokhathalelo lweeyure ezingama-24. Ezinye zifana nezibonelelo zangaphandle; oko kukuthi, ungena imini yonke kwaye ufumane unyango kwaye ugoduke.
- Izibhedlele: Izibhedlele zinecandelo elikhethekileyo lokulawula iimpawu zokurhoxa (Ukususa ityhefu). Ngenxa yoko, aba bacebisi basebenza nakwizibhedlele.
- Iindlela zokusebenza zabucala:Abanye abacebisi baneendawo zabo. Ezi zilungile kakhulu kwabo bakwinqanaba lokuqala lokulutha, abo bagqibe uninzi lwesicwangciso sabo sonyango, kunye neentsapho ezifuna iingcebiso .
- Izibonelelo zokulungisa izinto ezifana neentolongo: Aba bacebisi bakwabonelela ngononophelo, inkxaso, kunye nemfundo kumabanjwa avalelweyo.
Ukucela uncedo luphawu lwamandla.
Ukulwa nomlutha kunzima. Ukukuvuma nokucela uncedo kunokuba nzima nangakumbi. Kodwa eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwazi ukuba awuwedwa . Kukho iingcali ezinokukunceda, kwaye zinolwazi kweli candelo.
Cinga ngako oku, ukuba waphuka umlenze, uza kubona ugqirha wamathambo . Ukuba unesifo seswekile , uza kubona ingcali. Ngokufanayo, ukuze ube likhoboka, kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo kumcebisi onolwazi olufana nalo. Asinto yokuba neentloni ngayo, kwaye yenye yezona nyathelo zinamandla onokuzithatha ukuze ubuyisele ubomi bakho. Ukuba wena okanye umntu omthandayo ufuna olu hlobo loncedo, thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho kuqala . Uya kukwazi ukukukhokela kwindawo efanelekileyo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Umcebisi wokulutha yingcali eqeqeshiweyo enceda abantu ukuba baphile kwizifo ezinxulumene nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi.
- Umlutha awulobuthathaka bokuziphatha okanye umkhwa ombi, yimeko yezonyango enzima efuna unyango.
- Abacebisi baphuhlisa izicwangciso zonyango ezenzelwe umntu ngamnye, kwaye basebenza njengeqela nabanye oochwephesha bezempilo.
- Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo ngenxa yamagama amabi abekwa kuwe luluntu ("unxilile," "umlutha weziyobisi"). Ukufuna uncedo linyathelo lokuqala nelinesibindi sokuphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo.
- Ukuba wena okanye umntu omaziyo ufuna uncedo, thetha nogqirha wakho wosapho uze ufumane isalathiso kumcebisi ofanelekileyo. Awuwedwa.
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