Ngaba umntwana wakho ufikisa emva kokufikisa? (Ukufikisa emva kokufikisa okulibazisekileyo) Masithethe ngale nto!

Ngamanye amaxesha usenokucinga, 'Owu, umntwana wam usengumntwana omncinci, akayi kukhula njengabanye abantwana?' Okanye ukuba nawe uselula, 'Bonke abahlobo bam batshintshile, yintoni ingxaki ngam?' Lo unokuba ngumbuzo okhathazayo kubazali abaninzi, kunye nabantwana abancinci. Namhlanje, masithethe ngokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukufikisa, kutheni kuhlwile, kunye nento ekufuneka yenziwe ngexesha elinje. Ungakhathazeki, siza kuchaza yonke into ngokulula.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukufikelela ebudaleni?

Ngamafutshane, ukufikisa lixesha apho umzimba wakho utshintsha ukusuka kowomntwana ukuya kowomntu omdala. Ngeli xesha, umzimba wakho udlula kwiinguqu ezininzi. Uqala ukuqaphela ezi nguqu. Ngokwesiqhelo, amantombazana aqala ezi nguqu phakathi kweminyaka esi-8 neli-14. Abafana baqala phakathi kweminyaka esi-9 neli-15. Ngoku, jonga ukuba olu luhlu lweminyaka lubanzi kangakanani. Oko kuthetha ukuba abanye abantwana baqala ukufikisa kwangethuba, abanye emva kwexeshana. Oku kuqhelekile kakhulu. Ngoko ungakhathazeki ukuba umzimba wakho uqala ukutshintsha kwiminyaka embalwa ngaphambili okanye emva kwexesha kubahlobo bakho, akunjalo? Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kukho iimeko apho umzimba wakho ungaqali ukutshintsha kwaphela nasemva kwale minyaka iqhelekileyo. Yiloo nto siyibiza ngokuba yi-`(Delayed Puberty)` okanye "delayed puberty". Kodwa akukho mfuneko yokukhathazeka, kuba uninzi lwexesha, oogqirha banokunceda abantwana abancinci kule minyaka yokufikisa ebambezelekileyo baze babakhulise ukuze balingane nabanye.

Ziziphi iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokufikisa?

Kulungile, ngoku masibone ukuba loluphi utshintsho olwenzekayo emzimbeni xa sifika ekufikiseni.

Utshintsho kumantombazana:

Ukuba uyintombazana, ungazibona ezi zinto zilandelayo:

• Amabele akho aqala ukukhula .
• Iinwele zasesibelekweni ziqala ukubonakala kwiindawo zangasese.
• Ngequbuliso uba mde, nto leyo ethetha ukuba "ukhula ngokukhawuleza".
• Usexesheni , oko kuthetha ukuba ixesha lakho liqala.
• Imo yomzimba iyatshintsha, indawo yesinqe iyanda.

Umahluko kubafana:

Ukuba yinkwenkwe, ungabona olu tshintsho:

• Uboya obusesibelekweni nasebusweni buqala ukubonakala kwiindawo zabucala.
• Kwakhona ngequbuliso ukhula ube mde (ukukhula ngokukhawuleza).
• Amasende akho kunye nepenis yakho ziqala ukukhula.
• Imo yomzimba iyatshintsha – amahlombe aba banzi, umzimba ufumana ubunzima bemisipha, kwaye inkangeleko iba yindoda ngakumbi.

Zonke ezi nguqu zenzeka ngenxa yeehomoni zesini emizimbeni yethu. Ihomoni ebizwa ngokuba yi-'Testosterone'' kubafana kunye ne-'Estrogen'' kumantombazana iqala ukuveliswa ngobuninzi kakhulu ngeli xesha kunangaphambili. Yiyo loo nto zonke ezi nguqu zenzeka.

Kwenzeka ntoni ngexesha lokufikisa okulibazisekileyo?

Ngoku makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi iimpawu zokufikisa okulibazisekileyo. Ezi ziimpawu nje eziqhelekileyo, kodwa ungoyiki ukuba unenye okanye ezimbini kwezi. Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukufuna ingcebiso kagqirha.

Iimpawu zokufikisa emva kwexesha kumakhwenkwe:

• Ukuba ipenis kunye namasende azikaqali ukukhula xa uneminyaka eli-14 ubudala.
• Ukuba kuthatha iminyaka engaphezu kwemi-5 ukuba uphuhliso lwezitho zangasese lugqitywe.
• Ukuba umfutshane kunabanye abahlobo bakho, kungenxa yokuba bakhula ngokukhawuleza ngeli xesha.

Iimpawu zokulibaziseka kumantombazana:

• Ukuba amabele akho akakaqali ukukhula xa eneminyaka eli-14 ubudala.
• Ukuba awukaqali ukuya exesheni kwiminyaka emi-5 emva kokukhula kwamabele, okanye xa uneminyaka eli-16 ubudala.

Khumbula, ezi ziimpawu nje eziqhelekileyo. Ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho ninenkxalabo malunga noku, kungcono ukubona ugqirha.

Kutheni ukufikisa kufikelele kade kangaka? Zithini izizathu?

Njengokuba iintyatyambo ziqhakaza ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, nabantu bayadubula. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunokubakho izizathu ezikhethekileyo zokulibaziseka.

Ingaba imbali yosapho ibalulekile? (Imbali yoSapho)

Oku kudla ngokuba yinto ezuzwa njengelifa. Ngokuchanekileyo, yindlela yophuhliso eyenzeka kusapho. Umama wakho, utata, umalume, umalumekazi, umnakwenu, udadewenu, umnakwenu omncinci, udadewenu omncinci, okanye ezinye izalamane zisenokuba zifikelele ebuntwini emva kwexesha. Oku kubizwa ngokuba "kukulibaziseka ngokomthetho", okanye "ukuqhakaza emva kwexesha". Oku kudla ngokungadingi unyango. Abantwana abancinci abanjalo bafikelela ebuntwini ngexesha, nokuba emva kwexesha kunabanye, kodwa ngendlela eqhelekileyo.

Ngaba ezinye izifo nazo zingayichaphazela? (Iingxaki zezonyango)

Ewe, ezinye izifo zinokulibazisa ukufikisa.

• Ezinye izifo ezingapheliyo, ezifana nesifo seswekile , i-cystic fibrosis , isifo sezintso , okanye i-asthma, zinokulibazisa ukufikisa. Ezi meko zinokuchaphazela ukukhula kwazo. Nangona kunjalo , ukuba ezi meko zinyangwa kwaye zilawulwa ngokufanelekileyo, zinokunceda ukunciphisa umngcipheko wokufikisa okulibazisekileyo .
• Ngokufanayo, umntu ongondlekanga – oko kukuthi, umntu ongafumani kutya kwaneleyo nezakhamzimba – unokufikelela ebuntwini emva kwexesha kunontanga yakhe abatya ukutya okunempilo nokunesondlo. Umzekelo, abantu abaselula abaneengxaki zokutya, ezifana ne-anorexia nervosa, ngamanye amaxesha baba mncinci kakhulu kangangokuba imizimba yabo ayikhuli kakuhle.
• Ukuba amantombazana enza umthambo kakhulu aze adlale imidlalo, imizimba yawo inokuba mncinci kakhulu, nto leyo enokulibazisa ukufikisa. Umzimba wentombazana udinga inani elithile lamafutha ukuze afikelele ekufikiseni aze aqalise ukuya exesheni.
• Enye into kukuba iingxaki ze-pituitary gland engqondweni yethu kunye ne-thyroid gland entanyeni yethu nazo zinokulibazisa ukufikisa. Ezi gland zivelisa iihomoni ezibalulekileyo ekukhuleni nasekuphuhliseni komzimba.

Iingxaki zeChromosome

Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu abangafiki ngexesha lokufikisa banokuba neengxaki ngee-chromosomes zabo. Ii-chromosomes zifana neziqwenga ze-DNA eziqulathe isicwangciso sendlela imizimba yethu eza kukhula ngayo. Iingxaki ngezi chromosomes zinokuchaphazela uphuhliso oluqhelekileyo.

• Umzekelo, imeko ebizwa ngokuba yi -`(Turner Syndrome)` . Oku kubangelwa kukungaqheleki okanye ukulahleka kwenye yee-chromosomes ezimbini zentombazana. Oku kuchaphazela ukukhula kwentombazana, uphuhliso lwama-ovari, kunye nokuveliswa kweehomoni zesondo. Abafazi abanganyangwanga abane-`(Turner Syndrome)` bafutshane kunesiqhelo, basenokungafiki kwixesha lokufikisa ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye banokuba nezinye iingxaki zempilo.
• Kwimeko ebizwa ngokuba yiKlinefelter Syndrome , echaphazela amakhwenkwe, azalwa ene-chromosome eyongezelelweyo ye-X (XXY endaweni ye-XY). Le meko inokubangela ukulibaziseka kokukhula ngokwesondo. Amakhwenkwe anale meko adla ngokuba made kuneminyaka yawo, anokuba neengxaki zokufunda, kwaye anokuba nezinye iingxaki zempilo.

Zininzi izizathu zoku, yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukubona ugqirha ukuze ufumane unobangela ochanekileyo.

Ifunyanwa njani into yokuba umntu ufikisa emva kokufikisa?

Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba ukuba kukho ingxaki, oogqirha banokubanceda abantwana abancinci abafikisayo emva kwexesha elide baze babuyisele uphuhliso lwabo endleleni. Ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho ninenkxalabo malunga noku, qiniseka ukuba nenza idinga nabazali bakho ukuze nibone ugqirha. Ugqirha uza:

• Okokuqala, uza kuhlolwa (uvavanyo lomzimba).
• Buza ukuba kukho umntu kusapho lwakho okhe waba nolu hlobo lokukhula (imbali yezonyango).
• Bayakubuza ukuba unawo na amayeza omawuwasebenzise.
• Bajonga itshathi yakho yokukhula baze bajonge ukuba kukho na ipateni ebonisa ingxaki.

Ukongeza, ugqirha angenza iimvavanyo ezifana nezi:

• Uvavanyo lwegazi lunokufuneka ukuze kuhlolwe iingxaki ze-thyroid, i-pituitary, i-chromosome, okanye ezinye iingxaki.
• "I-X-ray yeXesha Lamathambo" ingacelwa ukuze kubonwe ukuba amathambo akho akhula ngendlela eqhelekileyo na.

Iphathwa njani le nto?

Uninzi lwexesha, oogqirha abakwazi ukufumana naziphi na iingxaki zomzimba ezifihlakeleyo. Uninzi lwabantu abaselula abafikisayo emva kwexesha elide bakhula emva kwexesha eliqhelekileyo. Badibana nabanye ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba oogqirha bafumana ingxaki, banokukuthumela kwi-endocrinologist yabantwana - ugqirha ochwephesha ekunyangeni abantwana kunye nabantu abancinci abaneengxaki zokukhula - okanye kwenye ingcali ukuze avavanywe okanye anyangwe ngakumbi. Kwabanye "abakhula emva kwexesha," oogqirha banokukunika nonyango lweehomoni:

• Kumakhwenkwe, unyango lwexesha elifutshane ngehomoni ethi "Testosterone" (edla ngokunikezelwa njengenaliti yenyanga kangangeenyanga ezi-4-6) lunokunikwa ukuqala utshintsho lokufikisa.
• Kumantombazana, iidosi eziphantsi zehomoni ethi ``(i-Estrogen)'' zinokunikwa malunga neenyanga ezi-4-6 ukuqala uphuhliso lwamabele.

Emva kokuba olu nyango lugqityiwe, iihomoni zomzimba wakho zihlala ziqala ukusebenza kwaye uza kugqiba inkqubo yokufikisa. Ukuba akunjalo, ugqirha wakho uza kuthetha nawe malunga nokuthatha iihomoni zesondo ixesha elide.

Uphila njani nale meko? Uzimisela njani isigqibo?

Kunokuba nzima ukwamkela ukuba awunguye wedwa xa bonke abahlobo bakho bekhulile kwaye bahlukile. Usenokuvakalelwa kukuba awusoze ufane nabanye abantu. Nokuba ugqirha okanye abazali bakho bakuxelela ukuba, "Yonke into ilungile," akulula ukulinda ukuba kwenzeke into ekuchaphazelayo.

Ukuba uziva ulusizi, unesizungu, okanye ukhathazekile, okanye ukuba oko kuchaphazela umsebenzi wakho wesikolo okanye ezinye iingxaki, ngokuqinisekileyo thetha nomama wakho, utata wakho, ugqirha, okanye omnye umntu omdala omthembayo. Banokukunceda ufumane umcebisi okanye ingcali yezonyango onokuthetha naye. Banokuqonda iimvakalelo zakho kwaye bakufundise iindlela zokujongana nazo.

Ukufikisa okulibazisekileyo kunokuba yinto enzima ukujongana nayo, nokuba uyavuma kangakanani na. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo yingxaki enokunyangeka. Ukuba uneengxaki malunga nokukhula kwakho, akukaze kube kudala ukufuna uncedo.

Okokugqibela, izinto ekufuneka uzikhumbule

Ngoko ke, nazi izinto ezibalulekileyo kuwe kwizinto esithethe ngazo:

• Kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi zokulibaziseka kokufikisa.
• Oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo eyenzeka kusapho ("i-late bloomer").
• Kwiimeko ezininzi, uncedo lwezonyango luyafumaneka.
• Ukuba wena okanye umntwana wakho ninamathandabuzo ngale nto, musani ukuthandabuza ukubona ugqirha.
• Ukuze unciphise uxinzelelo oluvayo ngeli xesha, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha nomntu omthembayo.

Awuwedwa, uncedo luhlala lukhona!

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