Ingaba ukuya kwakho exesheni ngenyanga, okanye "ukuya exesheni," akufiki ngexesha? Ngaba kuza kwezinye iinyanga hayi kwezinye iinyanga? Okanye kuza ngeentsuku ezahlukeneyo? Amantombazana nabafazi abaninzi abancinci "abaya Irregular Periods " banombuzo omkhulu ezingqondweni zabo, mhlawumbi uloyiko, "Ngaba ndiza kuba nomntwana? Okanye ndiza kuba nomntwana kwaphela?" Ngoko ke namhlanje siza kuthetha ngale nto, oko kukuthi, unxibelelwano lokwenyani phakathi kokuya exesheni okungacwangciswanga Pregnancy , ngendlela onokuyiqonda.
Yintoni " Irregular Periods "?
Ukuze sikuqonde oku, kufuneka siqale sijonge ukuba yintoni "umjikelo wexesha eliqhelekileyo lokuya exesheni". Umjikelo wexesha lokuya exesheni womfazi osempilweni uhlala phakathi kweentsuku ezingama-21 ukuya kwezingama-35. Oko kukuthi, inani leentsuku ukususela kusuku lokuqala ukuya kusuku lokuqala kwenyanga. Ukuba eli nani leentsuku lifana kakhulu inyanga nenyanga, siwubiza ngokuba ngumjikelo wexesha eliqhelekileyo lokuya exesheni.
Ngoko ke, ukuya exesheni ngokungacwangciswanga kuthetha:
- Ukuba inani leentsuku kumjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni liyatshintsha rhoqo (umzekelo, iintsuku ezingama-25 kwinyanga enye, iintsuku ezingama-40 kwinyanga elandelayo).
- Ukuba ukuya exesheni akusayi kubakho ngokupheleleyo kwezinye iinyanga.
- Ukuba ixesha lakho liyadida kangangokuba awunalo nofifi lokuba liza kufika nini kanye kanye.
- Ngamanye amaxesha, emva kweenyanga ungenanyanga, ifika ngequbuliso.
Kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi zokuba umntu abe sexesheni elingacwangciswanga. Ebuntwaneni, izinto ezifana namanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo (ezifana novavanyo, iingxaki zobuqu), utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela yokutya, ukuzilolonga kakhulu, kunye nokwehla okanye ukuqina komzimba ngequbuliso kunokuphazamisa umjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni. Ukungalingani kwamahomoni, njenge- Polycystic Ovary Syndrome - PCOS ), kunye neemeko zempilo ezisisiseko ezifana Thyroid Disorders , nazo zinokubangela ukuba afike exesheni elingacwangciswanga. Ukuba awekho exesheni angacwangciswanga rhoqo, kubalulekile ukubona ugqirha ukuze ufumane ukuba yintoni ebangela oko.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokukhulelwa: Masiqonde ngokuchanekileyo Ovulation
Ovulation kubalulekile xa ukhulelwe. Ngamafutshane, oku kukukhululwa kweqanda elivuthiweyo ( Ovum ) kwi Ovary yomfazi. Eli qanda lihamba liye kwi-fallopian tube (Ukukhulelwa kwenzeka kuphela xa idibana Sperm ngexesha lohambo lwayo ngetyhubhu yeFallopian.
Ixesha apho umfazi enokuthi akhulelwe kakhulu libizwa ngokuba yi " Fertile Window ." Oku kudla ngokuqala ngomhla wokukhutshwa kweqanda kwaye malunga neentsuku ezintlanu ngaphambi koko. Oku kungenxa yokuba isidoda sinokuphila ngaphakathi emzimbeni womfazi malunga neentsuku ezi-3-5. Ngoko ke, nokuba ulala nomntu iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokukhutshwa kweqanda, isidoda sinokulinda iqanda lifike lize lilichumise.
Yintoni ubudlelwane phakathi kokuya exesheni okungaqhelekanga kunye nokukhutshwa kweqanda?
Le yeyona ngxaki inkulu abantu abaninzi abanayo. Ukuba nje ukuya kwakho exesheni akuhambelani akuthethi ukuba awuyi Ovulation . Uninzi lwexesha, umhla okhupha iqanda ngawo uyahamba. Oko kukuthi, akwenzeki ngokwekhalenda ethile.
Ukuba unemijikelo eqhelekileyo yokuya exesheni, unokuqikelela ukuba uza kukhupha amaqanda nini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni awuhambelani, kunzima ukwazi ukuba uza kukhupha amaqanda nini, nokuba kuza kwenzeka ekuqaleni, phakathi, okanye ekupheleni kwenyanga, okanye nokuba uza kukhupha amaqanda kwaphela na phakathi kwenyanga. Ngenxa yoko, awuyi kukwazi ukwazi ukuba uza kukhupha Fertile Window nini na.
Ngoko ke, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe nokuba ixesha lakho lokuya exesheni alihambelani? Impendulo ecacileyo yile: Ewe!
Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo ungakwenza! Le yeyona mpendulo imfutshane necacileyo onokuyinika.
Khawucinge nje, nokuba umjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni awuhambelani, ngenye imini iqanda liya kukhutshwa kwii-ovari zakho (ukukhutshwa kweqanda). Ukuba wenza isondo esingakhuselekanga (ngaphandle kocwangciso lokuzala) ngexesha lokukhutshwa kweqanda, kukho ithuba lokuba isidoda siza kujoyina elo qanda size sibangele ukukhulelwa.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba, "Ixesha lam lokuya exesheni aliqhelekanga, ngoko ke andizukukwazi ukuba nomntwana ngokulula." Le yingcamango ephosakeleyo enkulu. Nokuba unexesha elingaqhelekanga, ukuba ulala nomntu kwaye awusebenzisi ucwangciso lokuzala, ungakhulelwa nangaliphi na ixesha.
Iingxaki zokukhulelwa ezibangelwa kukuya exesheni ngendlela engaqhelekanga
- Kunzima ukwazi ixesha elichanekileyo lokuchuma:Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, kunzima ukwazi ukuba uza kuzala nini kanye kanye, ngoko ke kunzima ukufumana umbono ochanekileyo ngefestile yakho evundileyo. Iindlela zokulawula ukuzala zendalo ezifana "nokubalwa kwemini" okanye "
Rhythm Method" azithembekanga kakhulu kwabo banexesha elingacwangciswanga. - Akukho mhla uchanekileyo wokulinda ixesha lakho lokuya exesheni: Xa ukhulelwe, ixesha lakho liyaphela. Lolo luphawu lokuqala abantu abaninzi abacinga ukuba bakhulelwe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ixesha lakho liza ngequbuliso emva kweenyanga ungekho, kunokuba nzima ukwazi ukuba ukhulelwe okanye ukhulelwe. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kunokuba semva kwexesha ukwazi ukuba ukhulelwe.
Isondo esingakhuselekanga: kusoloko kukho umngcipheko ophindwe kabini!
Nokuba uya exesheni rhoqo okanye rhoqo, kusoloko kukho iingozi ezimbini ezinxulumene Unprotected Sex esingakhuselekanga:
- Ukukhulelwa okungafunekiyo: Yiloo nto besithetha ngayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.
- Izifo/usulelo oludluliselwa ngesondo (
STDs/STIs): Akukho budlelwane phakathi kokuya kwakho exesheni rhoqo kunye nomngcipheko wokufumanaSTDs. Ukuba ulala nomntu ongakhuselekanga, unokufumanaSTDseziyingozi ezifanaChlamydia,Gonorrhea, intsholongwane yeHPV ebangela iintsumpa zesini, okanyeHIV.
Ungazikhusela njani ? Ukukhetha okulumkileyo!
Ngoko ke, yintoni onokuyenza ukuze uzikhusele kwezi ngozi?
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Abstinence: Eyona ndlela iqinisekisiweyo yokuzikhusela ngokupheleleyo ekukhulelweni nakwiiSTDskukuzila ukwabelana ngesondo. -
Condoms: Ukuba ulala nomntu, ukusebenzisa ikhondom entsha ngokuchanekileyo ngalo lonke ixesha ulala nomntu yindlela entle yokuzikhusela ekukhulelweni okungafunekiyo kunyeSTDs. - Ulawulo lokuzala oluthembekileyo: Ukuba awulindelanga ukukhulelwa konke konke, ingakumbi ukuba ukuya kwakho exesheni akuhambelani kwaye awukwazi ukugcina umkhondo weentsuku zakho, iipilisi
Birth Control Pills, izixhobo zangaphakathi kwesibeleko (IUDs), okanyeContraceptive Implants) zingasetyenziswa.), thetha nogqirha malunga nendlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa ethembekileyo, efana nokufaka inaliti kwiihomoni. -
Dual Protectionoluphindwe kabini: Izibini ezininzi zisebenzisa iikhondom kunye nolunye uhlobo lolawulo lokuzalwa (njengepilisi) ukuzikhusela ngakumbi ekukhulelweni nakwizifoSTDs. Le yeyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo.
Makhe sicinge ngesiganeko esincinci?
Khawucinge nje, umhlobo wakho uNethmi ufika exesheni ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Ucinga ukuba akayi kuba nomntwana. Ngoko ke ulala neqabane lakhe ngaphandle kokusebenzisa naluphi na uhlobo lokuzikhusela. Ngenye imini, uNethmi waziva ediniwe kakhulu kwaye enesicaphucaphu, ngoko waya kugqirha. Kulapho wafumanisa khona ukuba ukhulelwe! Uyabona, lo ngumzekelo omhle wendlela onokukhulelwa ngayo ngesondo elingakhuselekanga, nokuba unexesha elingavumelekanga.
Ufanele uye nini kugqirha malunga nokuya exesheni okungacwangciswanga?
- Ukuba ixesha lakho lokuya exesheni aliqhelekanga rhoqo (umz., ukuba awuzange uye exesheni kangangeenyanga ezingaphezu kwe-3, okanye ukuba uye exesheni kabini okanye kathathu ngenyanga, ukuba uphuma igazi elininzi, okanye ukuba unentlungu enganyamezelekiyo).
- Unethemba lokuba nomntwana, kodwa uvakalelwa kukuba ukuya exesheni okungacwangciswanga kuyakuthintela.
- Thetha ngendlela yokulawula inzala ekufaneleyo.
- Fumana uvavanyo
STD.
Umyalezo Wokugqibela Wokuya Ekhaya
Ngoko ke, ngokwezinto esizithethileyo namhlanje, kufanele kucace kuwe ukuba ukukhulelwa kunokwenzeka nokuba unexesha elingacwangciswanga.
- Nokuba ungenaxesha
Irregular Periods,Pregnancykuba ukwenzekaOvulation. - Ngenxa yokuba ixesha lokuvuthwa kweqanda aliqinisekanga, kunzima ukwazi ukuba leliphi
Fertile Window. - Ukwabelana ngesondo okungakhuselekanga kunomngcipheko wokukhulelwa kunye nomngcipheko wokufumana izifo ezidluliselwa ngesondo (
STDs). - Ukuba ulala nomntu, ukusebenzisa indlela yokulawula ukukhulelwa ethembekileyo kunye neekhondom zezona ndlela zibalaseleyo zokuzikhusela.
- Ukuba unemibuzo okanye iinkxalabo malunga nomjikelo wakho wokuya exesheni okanye impilo yakho yesondo, ungabi nantloni okanye ungoyiki ukuthetha nogqirha.
Lumka ngomzimba wakho, impilo yakho. Yenza izigqibo ezikrelekrele ngokusekelwe kulwazi oluchanekileyo. Lulolona tyalo-mali lukhulu onokulwenza kwikamva lakho!
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