Ubulili Nobulili. Abantu abaningi bayadideka kancane uma bezwa la magama amabili, akunjalo? Abanye abantu bacabanga ukuthi afana. Abanye bayesaba ngisho nokukhuluma ngakho. Empeleni lesi yisihloko esiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu nesibaluleke kakhulu. Zonke lezi zindlela ezintathu, okungukuthi, Ubulili, Ubulili kanye Nokuthambekela Kobulili, zibalulekile ekuqondeni ukuthi ungubani. Ngakho-ke namuhla, ake sixazulule lokhu kudideka futhi sikhulume ngakho kalula, njengokungathi abangani ababili bayakhuluma.
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Ake siqale sibone ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuthi 'ucansi' (ucansi lwemvelo).
Kalula nje, ucansi luyizimpawu zebhayoloji esinazo lapho sizalwa . Odokotela banquma ukuthi umntwana "uyintombazane" noma "umfana" ngokusekelwe kulobu bulili. Lokhu kunqunywa yizici ezintathu eziyinhloko.
- Ama-chromosome: Lezi izinto ezincane ngaphakathi kwamaseli ethu. Ziqukethe lonke ulwazi lwethu lwezakhi zofuzo (i-DNA). Kukhona umbhangqwana okhethekile walezi chromosome obizwa ngokuthi 'ama-chromosome ocansi'. Owesifazane uvame ukuba nama-chromosome amabili angu-X (XX), kanti owesilisa une-X eyodwa kanye ne-Y eyodwa (XY).
- Ama-gonad: Lawa yizitho eziyinhloko ezihilelekile ekuzaleni. Abesifazane banezibeletho kanti abesilisa banezibeletho. Lawa ma-gland akhipha ama-hormone adingekayo ekuzaleni.
- I-Anatomy: Lapho ingane ikhula esibelethweni, ubulili bunqunywa indlela izitho zangasese zangaphandle ezikhula ngayo. Lezi yizici eziyinhloko. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izici zesibili ezifana namabele, ukuma komzimba, kanye nentshebe nazo ziyingxenye yalesi sigaba.
Yiziphi izinhlobo eziyinhloko zobulili?
Izici esixoxe ngazo ngenhla azifani kuwo wonke umuntu. Ngezinye izikhathi kungaba nomehluko omncane. Ngakho-ke, ngokwezokwelapha, izinhlobo ezintathu eziyinhloko zobulili zitholakala lapho kuzalwa. Ake sibheke lokhu ukuze sikuqonde kahle lokhu.
| Isigaba | Izimpawu ezivame ukubonakala |
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| Owesifazane |
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| Owesilisa |
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| Ubulili obuhlukile | Lokhu kuchaza abantu abaningi abangangeni ngokuphelele emabhokisini angenhla kwabesilisa noma abesifazane. Bazalwa benezici noma bathuthukisa ngokwemvelo ezingaqondile kwabesilisa noma abesifazane. Lokhu kungafani kungaba kuma-chromosome, izitho zangasese zangaphandle, noma uhlelo lokuzala. |
Lokhu kusibonisa ukuthi ucansi akuyona into emnyama nemhlophe, kodwa kukhona ukwehlukahlukana kulo.
Ucansi aluyona i-sex!
Uma kukhulunywa ngocansi nobulili, kuvela elinye igama elenza izinto zidideke nakakhulu. Lokho ucansi. Kodwa akulona inkimbinkimbi njengoba ungase ucabange.
Ubulili buwukuthi uthandana nobani noma uthandana naye. Buhlobene nemizwa yakho, ubudlelwano bakho, kanye nobuntu bakho. Into ebalulekile ukuthi ukuthambekela kwakho kobulili akunqunywa ubulili bakho begazi. Isibonelo, umuntu wesilisa ngokwegazi angase akhangwe omunye wesilisa. Lokho kuyinto ehluke ngokuphelele.
Nazi ezinye amagama achaza ukuthambekela kocansi:
- Ungqingili
- Owesifazane othandana naye
- Ubulili obubili
- I-Pansexual
- I-Queer
Kulungile, ngakho-ke kuyini 'ubulili'?
Yilapho abantu abaningi bebhajwa khona. Ubulili akuyona into yemvelo. Kuyinto yezenhlalo namasiko. Okusho ukuthi, lokho ozizwayo ngaphakathi nendlela okuveza ngayo emphakathini. Akunqunywa ubulili owazalwa nabo. Ake sikuchaze lokhu.
Izindima Zobulili
Kuwo wonke umphakathi kanye namasiko, kukhona okulindelwe okuthile kokuthi "abesifazane kufanele babe kanje" nokuthi "amadoda kufanele abe kanje." Kunemibono ethile emphakathini mayelana nendlela yokugqoka, indlela yokukhuluma, imisebenzi okufanele yenziwe, kanye nendlela yokuziphatha. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi Izindima Zobulili. Lokhu kuyahlukahluka kuye ngezwe kanye namasiko.
Ubunikazi Bobulili
Lena yingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yobulili. Ukuzazi ngokobulili umuzwa wakho wangaphakathi wokuthi ungubani. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungowesilisa noma ungowesifazane, noma cha.
- I-Cisgender: Lokhu kubhekisela kubantu abanobulili babo obufanayo ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kanye nobunikazi babo bobulili. Isibonelo, umuntu owazalwa engowesifazane kodwa ozibiza ngowesifazane u-cisgender.
- Ubulili Obushintshile: Lokhu kubhekisela kubantu ubulili babo obubizwa ngokuzalwa kanye nobunikazi babo bobulili obungafani. Isibonelo, uma umuntu ezalwa eyindoda kodwa ezizwa futhi eziveza njengowesifazane, lowo muntu uyisigungu sobulili obushintshile.
- Okungeyona eyesibili: Lokhu kubhekisela kubantu abanomuzwa wokuthi ubulili babo abufaneleki kahle ebhokisini "labesifazane" noma "labesilisa". Leli futhi igama elibanzi elihlanganisa ububanzi bobunjalo.
Ukuvezwa kobulili
Lena yindlela owethula ngayo ubuwena bakho emhlabeni. Lokho kusho izinto ezifana nezingubo ozigqokayo, isitayela sezinwele ozigqokayo, indlela oziphatha ngayo, indlela okhuluma ngayo. Isimo somuntu singaba yindoda, owesifazane, noma inhlanganisela yakho kokubili (i-androgynous). Lokhu kuyahlukahluka kakhulu kumuntu nomuntu.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ubulili yizimpawu zebhayoloji (umbala, izingxenye zomzimba) ezinikezwa lapho kuzalwa.
- Ubulili yilokho okuzwayo ngaphakathi kanye nobuntu bakho obuveza emphakathini. Kungokwenhlalo kanye nokwangasese.
- Ubulili bungukuthi uthandana nobani noma uthandana naye ngokocansi.
- Le mibono emithathu ihlukile futhi ayizimele . Omunye awunqumi omunye.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonipha ubunjalo babanye abantu nokuzama ukubaqonda.
- Uma uzizwa udidekile, unemibuzo, noma ukucindezeleka ngalezi zindaba, ungesabi ukukhuluma ngakho nomuntu omdala omethembayo, umngane, noma udokotela wakho.
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