Kanye nenjabulo efika engqondweni yakho uma uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe, umbuzo wokuqala ofika engqondweni yakho uthi "Uzomzala nini umntwana?". Ukwazi lolu suku kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe nomndeni wakho. Ukwazi lolu suku kuwusizo olukhulu ekulungiseleleni konke nasekulungiseleleni ngokwengqondo ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afike. Ngakho-ke namuhla, ake sixoxe ngendlela yokubala usuku lokuzalwa, okungukuthi, 'Usuku lwakho lokuzalwa'.
Kalula nje, luyini usuku lokugcina?
`Usuku Lokuzalwa` luwusuku olulinganiselwe lapho kulindeleke ukuthi ingane yakho izalwe khona. Ngokuvamile kuthatha amasonto angu-38, noma cishe izinsuku ezingu-266, ukuthi ingane ikhule ngokugcwele. Ngakho-ke, `Usuku Lokuzalwa` lwakho lunqunywa ngokusekelwe kulesi sikhathi.
Kodwa nansi into ebaluleke kakhulu okufanele uyikhumbule . Lolu 'Suku Lokuzalwa' luwukulinganisela nje . Uma sikhuluma iqiniso, cishe u-4% wezingane kuphela ozalwa 'ngoSuku Lokuzalwa' lwazo. Iningi lezingane lizalwa ngaphambi noma ngemva kwalolu suku. Ngakho lolu akulona usuku oluqondile njengoba lubekwe etsheni.
Kungani kubaluleke kangaka ukwazi usuku lokugcina?
Ukwazi usuku olulinganiselwe kubalulekile ngezizathu eziningana.
- Lungela: Uzoba nesikhathi esanele sokulungisa izinto ezifana nezingubo zengane, izinto ezidingekayo, kanye nesikhwama sesibhedlela osidingayo.
- Yazisa umndeni: Uma unezinye izingane, lokhu kuzosiza ekuzilungiseleleni usuku ilungu elisha elijoyina ngalo umndeni.
- Ngokwelashwa: Lolu suku lubaluleke kakhulu kudokotela wakho. Lolu `Usuku Lokuzalwa` lusetshenziselwa ukuhlela izivivinyo, amaskeni, njll. okudingeka zenziwe emavikini ahlukene ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kubalulekile futhi ukuqhathanisa inani lamasonto ukuze ubone ukuthi ingane ikhula kahle yini.
Silubala kanjani lolu suku lokugcina?
Kunezindlela eziningana ongathola ngazo umbono oqondile ngalokhu ekhaya. Kodwa khumbula, usuku olunembile kakhulu luzonikezwa wena ngemva kokuskena kwe-'Ultrasound' okwenziwe udokotela wakho . Manje ake sibheke izindlela eziyinhloko ongazisebenzisa ekhaya.
| Indlela yokubala | Ungakwenza kanjani? | Izinto okufanele uzikhumbule |
|---|---|---|
| Ngokusho kosuku lokuqala lwesikhathi sokugcina sokuya esikhathini (i-LMP) | Engeza amasonto angu-40 (izinsuku ezingu-280) osukwini owaqala ngalo ukuya esikhathini kwakho kokugcina ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe. Abantu abaningi basebenzisa le ndlela. | Lena yindlela ethembeke kakhulu ongayisebenzisa ekhaya, kodwa uma umjikelezo wakho wokuya esikhathini ungajwayelekile, lokhu kubalwa kungase kube okuphansi kancane. |
| Ngosuku lokukhulelwa | Uma wazi usuku lokukhulelwa ngokuqiniseka okungu-100%, bala phambili amasonto angu-38 (izinsuku ezingu-266) kusukela ngalolo suku. | Le ndlela ayinembile kakhulu ngoba isidoda singaphila ngaphakathi emzimbeni izinsuku ezifika kwezi-5, ngakho-ke kunzima ukusho usuku oluqondile lokukhulelwa. |
| Uma kwenzeka ukwelashwa nge-IVF | Uma ukhulelwe ngokwelashwa kwe-In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), ungabala usuku ngokusekelwe osukwini lokudluliselwa kombungu. Udokotela wakho uzokuchazela lokhu ngokuningiliziwe. | Le ndlela isebenza kuphela kulabo abaye bathola ukwelashwa nge-IVF. Isinqumo sokugcina senziwa udokotela. |
Yini okufanele uyenze uma ungakhumbuli isikhathi sakho sokugcina sokuya esikhathini (i-LMP)?
Ungakhathazeki. Abantu abaningi abakhumbuli lolu suku oluqondile. Lokho akuyona inkinga. Uma uya kudokotela, uzokwenza i-'Ultrasound' scan bese elinganisa usayizi wengane, bese ekutshela ukuthi ukhulelwe isikhathi esingakanani nokuthi 'usuku lokuzalwa' lunini. Usuku udokotela alunikezayo luwusuku olunembe kakhulu.
Ingabe usuku lokugcina olunikezwe udokotela lungashintshwa?
Yebo, kuvamile. Ngezinye izikhathi "Usuku Lokuzalwa" olunikezwa ekuhlolweni kwakho kokuqala lungaba izinsuku ezimbalwa zokuphumula ekuhlolweni okulandelayo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi udokotela kungase kudingeke enze ushintsho oluncane osukwini lokuzalwa olunikezwe ekuqaleni ngokusekelwe esilinganisweni sokukhula kwengane kamuva.
Cabanga nje, ucabanga ukuthi usunezinsuku ezingu-8 kusukela ku-LMP yakho. Kodwa uma ukuhlolwa kukhombisa ukuthi ingane isinezinsuku ezingu-7 kusukela kusayizi wayo, udokotela wakho angase ahlehlise 'Usuku Lokuzalwa' lwakho cishe ngesonto. LokhuKujwayelekile kakhulu, ungakhathazeki ngakho.
Ukukhulelwa kuvame ukubhekwa "njengesikhathi esigcwele" uma kufinyelela amasonto angu-37 . Ngakho-ke ingane yakho ingazalwa ngaphambi 'kosuku olufanele', okusho ukuthi noma nini phakathi kwamasonto angu-37 no-40.
Ingabe usuku lokuzalwa luhlukile kumawele?
Yebo, ngezinga elithile. Ekukhulelweni ngamawele noma amawele amathathu (ama-multiples), 'Usuku Lokuzalwa' lubalwa ngendlela efanayo nakwabanye. Okusho ukuthi, ngokusekelwe ku-LMP kanye ne-'Ultrasound' scan.
Kodwa umehluko lapha ukuthi ekukhulelweni kwamawele, izingane zivame ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi . Yingakho odokotela bevame ukuhlela ukubeletha izingane emavikini angu-36 noma angu-37. Ngakho-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubala kanjani usuku lwakho lokuzalwa, udokotela wakho uzokutshela ukuthi ulindele ukuthi izingane zizalwe kusenesikhathi.
Ukukhulelwa kungahlala kanjani amasonto amane yize sekuphele amasonto amabili kusukela ekukhulelweni?
Lona umbuzo abantu abaningi abanawo. Kulula kakhulu. Ukukhulelwa akuqali ngosuku owakhulelwa ngalo , kuqala ngosuku lokuqala lwesikhathi sakho sokugcina sokuya esikhathini (i-LMP) .
Cabanga ukuthi umjikelezo wakho wokuya esikhathini uyizinsuku ezingu-28. Ukuvuthwa kuvame ukwenzeka cishe ngosuku lwe-14. Ukukhulelwa kwenzeka ngemva kwalokho. Kodwa-ke, ukuze kube lula ukubala futhi njengomkhuba ojwayelekile, odokotela babala kusukela osukwini lokuqala lokuya esikhathini kwakho. Ngakho-ke lapho ukuya esikhathini kwakho kuphela futhi uthola ukuthi ukhulelwe, yize usukhulelwe cishe amasonto amabili kuphela, usuvele ukhulelwe amasonto amane .
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Usuku lokuzalwa kwengane yakho luyisilinganiso nje . Zimbalwa kakhulu izingane ezizalwa ngalolo suku.
- Ungabala usuku lwakho lokuzalwa ekhaya ngokusekelwe esikhathini sakho sokugcina sokuya esikhathini (i-LMP), kodwa usuku olunembile noluthembekile kakhulu luzonikezwa wena ngemva kokuhlolwa
Ultrasoundngudokotela wakho . - Ukwazi usuku lokuzalwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela ukufika komntwana kanye nokwenza izivivinyo zezokwelapha ezidingekayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
- Ungakhathazeki uma usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lushintsha ngezinsuku ezimbalwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kujwayelekile kakhulu .
- Uma unemibuzo mayelana nokukhulelwa kwakho, ukukhula komntwana wakho, kanye nosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, khuluma ngokukhululekile nodokotela wakho ngakho.
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