Ingabe lokhu kuyenzeka kubantu obathandayo asebekhulile? (Ukuxhashazwa Kwabadala) Ake sixoxe ngalokhu!

Uma ubheka abazali bakho asebekhulile, ugogo nomkhulu, noma amanye amalungu omndeni, ingabe ngezinye izikhathi uzibuza ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngabo noma ukuthi kukhona umuntu obadelelayo? Nakuba kuyinto ongafuni ukuyicabanga, izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuxhashazwa ezenzeka kubantu asebekhulile, ezaziwa ngokuthi ukuxhashazwa kwabantu asebekhulile, ziyisihloko okudingeka sikhulume ngaso. Ngoba ngezinye izikhathi, lezi zinto zingase zenzeke kubo ngaphandle kokuthi siqaphele.

Kuyini Ukuxhashazwa Kwabantu Abadala?

Kalula nje, ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu asebekhulile kuwukulimala ngokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo ngamabomu , ukunganakwa, noma ukusetshenziswa kabi komuntu oneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-60. Lokhu kungababangela ukulimala okukhulu nokuhlupheka. Cabanga ukuthi akulungile kangakanani ngomuntu oye wakhonza izingane zakhe nomphakathi kukho konke ukuphila kwakhe ukuba lokhu kwenzeke kuye esekhulile.

Lokhu kuxhashazwa kungenzeka noma kuphi, kunoma ubani. Ngokudabukisayo, ngokuvamile abantu abaseduze nabantu asebekhulile abenza lokhu kuxhashazwa. Kungaba yilungu lomndeni, umnakekeli, noma umuntu ocabanga ukuthi angaxhashazwa. Uma wena noma othile omaziyo ebhekene nalokhu, kufanele nakanjani ubike lokho eziphathimandleni.

Ingabe kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zalokhu kuxhashazwa?

Yebo, lezi zinhlobo zokuhlukumeza zingafika ngezindlela eziningi. Ake sibheke izinhlobo eziyinhloko:

• Ukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba: Lokhu kuwukulimala ngokomzimba okuqondile. Cabanga ngezinto ezifana nokusunduza, ukushaya, ukukhahlela, noma ukubamba umuntu endaweni engafuni. Lokhu kungabangela ukuba alimale noma abe sebuhlungwini.
• Isibonelo, kweminye imizi, umzali osekhulile uvalelwe ekamelweni futhi umnyango uvaliwe, akavunyelwe ukuphuma. Noma, uma engalaleli lokho akushoyo, uyashaywa futhi akhahlelwe. Lokhu kuwukuhlukumeza ngokomzimba.

• Ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi: Lokhu kuyinto embi kakhulu ukucabanga ngayo. Kuhilela ukuphoqa umuntu ukuthi enze ucansi, noma abukele noma ahlanganyele emisebenzini enjalo. Kudingeka sikhumbule ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka nakubantu abadala.

• Ukunganaki: Lokhu ukwehluleka ngamabomu ukuhlinzeka ngezidingo eziyisisekelo zomuntu omdala - njengokudla, indawo yokuhlala, imithi, izingubo, njll. Ukunganaki kwenzeka lapho umuntu okufanele amnakekele ehluleka ukuhlinzeka ngalezi zinto ngendlela efanele.
• Cabanga nje, umama osekhulile unesifo sikashukela, futhi udinga ukuthatha imithi yaso nsuku zonke. Kodwa uma umuntu omnakekelayo engamuniki imithi ngesikhathi, kuwukunganaki. Noma, ukungahlanzi umuntu olele embhedeni ngendlela efanele, ukungamniki ukudla ngesikhathi, kuwela ngaphansi kwalesi sigaba.
• Kukhona futhi into ebizwa ngokuthi ukuzidebeselela . Okusho ukuthi, abanye abantu abadala bafinyelela eqophelweni lapho bengakwazi ukuzinakekela. Abazigezi, abadli, abaphuzi imithi yabo. Lokhu kuyingxenye yokunganakwa.

• Ukuxhashazwa noma ukuxhashazwa ngokwezimali: Lokhu kuyinto evame kakhulu emphakathini wethu. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukweba imali noma impahla yabantu abadala, ukwenza amasheke ngamasignesha abo, ukusebenzisa amakhadi abo asebhange, noma ukuthatha impesheni yabo, izinzuzo zokuphepha komphakathi, njll. ukuze kuzuze wena.
• Ngezinye izikhathi, umuntu osekhulile uyasatshiswa, aphoqwe, noma anikwe izithembiso ezingamanga zokumthatha umhlaba noma indlu yakhe. Konke lokhu kuwela ngaphansi kokuhlukunyezwa ngokwezimali.

• Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokwengqondo: Lokhu kuyinto engase ingalimali ngokomzimba, kodwa ingabangela ubuhlungu obukhulu ngokomzwelo. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukumemeza othile, ukumsongela, ukukhuluma ngendlela eyesabekayo, ukumhlukanisa, nokungazinaki lokho akushoyo.
• Isibonelo, uma uhlala usho izinto ezinjengokuthi, "Awusenamsebenzi manje," "Kuyinkinga enkulu kimi ukukunakekela," noma "Thula!", lokho kuwukuhlukumeza ngokwengqondo. Lokhu kungabhubhisa ukuzethemba kwabo futhi kubabangele ukuhlupheka okukhulu.

• Ukulahlwa: Ukulahlwa yilapho umuntu osekhulile futhi ongakwazi ukuzinakekela eshiywa yedwa ngumnakekeli wakhe, ngaphandle kwesizathu. Cabanga ngakho njengokungeniswa esibhedlela futhi ungaphinde ubuye uzomvakashela.

Into edabukisayo ukuthi, ngokuvamile umuntu omdala ofanayo angabhekana nokuhlukunyezwa okungaphezu kolulodwa lwalolu hlobo.

Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi athinteke yilokhu? (Izici eziyingozi)

Eqinisweni, lolu hlobo lokuhlukunyezwa kwabantu asebekhulile alubandlululi ngokohlanga, inkolo, ubulili, isiko, noma isimo sezenhlalo nezomnotho. Kungenzeka kunoma ubani. Kodwa-ke, kwabanye abantu, ingozi iphakeme kancane.

• Abantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-60 ubudala.
• Abantu abanesimo sezokwelapha (isib. isifo sohlangothi, isifo sikaParkinson) esithinta ukuhamba, ukucabanga, noma ukusebenza kwezinzwa.
• Abantu abanenkinga yokwenza umsebenzi wabo futhi abadinga usizo kwabanye, noma labo abahlala ezindaweni zokuhlala zomphakathi (isib. emakhaya asebekhulile).
• Labo abathandanayo, labo abangenabani bokusiza, labo ababodwa.

Ikakhulukazi, izifundo zikhombisile ukuthi abesifazane banamathuba amaningi okuhlukunyezwa kunabesilisa . Abantu abanenkinga yokukhumbula njenge-dementia nabo basengozini enkulu, njengoba bangase babe nobunzima bokuqonda okwenzekayo kubo noma ukukuxoxa nabanye.

Kuvamile kangakanani lokhu?

Lokhu kuvame kakhulu kunalokho ongase ucabange. Isibonelo, e-United States, cishe oyedwa kwabayishumi abantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-60 uthi uke wabhekana nohlobo oluthile lokuhlukunyezwa. Lesi simo singase sibe khona naseSri Lanka ngezinga elithile. Nakuba cishe wonke amazwe enemithetho emelene nalokhu, izehlakalo eziningi azibikwa. Leyo yinkinga enkulu.

Zivelaphi lezi zinto kakhulu?

Nakuba ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu asebekhulile kungenzeka noma kuphi, kunezindawo ezimbalwa lapho kuvame ukwenzeka khona:

• Emakhaya abo:Isikhathi esiningi, kuvela elungwini lomndeni noma kothile omkhathalelayo.
• Emakhaya amaqembu.
• Ezikhungweni zokunakekelwa kwasebekhulile noma ezindaweni zokunakekelwa kwesikhathi eside.

Yiziphi izimpawu zokuxhashazwa? Sizibona kanjani?

Ngezinye izikhathi lezi zimpawu zisobala, ngezinye izikhathi zingase zicashe kancane. Ngakho-ke kudingeka siqaphele lokhu:

• Uma ubona izilonda zombhede ezingachazeki, imihuzuko, ukusha, ukusikeka, imihuzuko, amanxeba amadala, izibazi, namathambo aphukile.
• Uma uzihlukanisa nezinto owawuzenza, ekuxhumaneni nabantu, uma uzihoxa.
• Uma uhlushwa ukungakwazi ukulala, uma uhlala ukhathazekile.
• Uma kukhona ushintsho oluzumayo ekuziphatheni, uma behlala bedabukile, becindezelekile, noma bethukuthele noma becasukile njalo.
• Uma wehlisa isisindo ngaphandle kwesizathu.
• Ubuthakathaka, umuzwa wokungabi nampilo.
• Uma bengakwazi ukusebenzisa izinto abazisebenzisayo, njengezibuko, izinto zokuhamba, kanye nezinsiza zokuzwa.
• Uma uhlala endaweni engcolile nengenampilo.
• Uma kwenzeka ushintsho oluzumayo nolungachazeki emalini noma empahleni yabo. (Isibonelo, imali eningi iyanyamalala ngokuzumayo, kufakwa igama elisha empahleni.)
• Uma isimo sakho sempilo siba sibi njalo futhi kufanele uye ekamelweni lezimo eziphuthumayo noma ulaliswe esibhedlela.

Iyini imiphumela yalokhu kuhlukunyezwa?

Uma umuntu omdala ehlukunyezwa, kungaba nemiphumela yesikhashana neyesikhathi eside empilweni yakhe yomzimba kanye nempilo yakhe yengqondo. Cabanga ngalokhu:

• Izifo zengqondo ezifana nokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka zingaba khona.
• Kungase kube nokwesaba nokungathembi abanye.
• Kungase kube nokucindezeleka okukhulu.
• Ukulimala ngokomzimba ngezinye izikhathi kungaholela ekukhubazekeni.
• Uma izifo ezikhona zingelashwa kahle, zingaba zimbi kakhulu futhi zibe yingozi ngisho nasekufeni.

Amanye amacala okuhlukunyezwa kwabantu asebekhulile angathi sína ngokwanele ukuba asongela ukuphila. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi wena noma othile omaziyo usengozini esheshayo, shayela u-119 (amaphoyisa) noma u-1990 (insizakalo ye-ambulensi) ngokushesha, noma uye egumbini lezimo eziphuthumayo esibhedlela esiseduze.

Singayivimbela kanjani into efana nale?

Kunezinto eziningana esingazenza ukuvimbela ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu abadala. Into eyinhloko ukuqaphela.

• Lungisa amadokhumenti asemthethweni, njengencwadi yakho yokugcina yefa kanye nencwadi yefa kanye negunya lommeli wezempilo, nomuntu omethembayo. Ungacela iseluleko kummeli ngalokhu.
• Vakashela amalungu omndeni nabangane abasengozini njalo, bese uhlola impilo yabo. Ngisho nokushaya ucingo olulodwa nje kungaba umthombo omkhulu wamandla kubo.
• Hlela ukuthi ukuthengiselana kwebhange kwenziwe ngqo kwi-akhawunti kunokwenza ngamasheke. Ngaleyo ndlela, mancane amathuba okuba abameli basebenzise imali ngendlela engalungile.
• Gcina irekhodi lezentengiselwano zakho zezimali. Uma ubona noma yini esolisayo, yiphenye.
• Ungalokothi unikeze ulwazi lwakho lomuntu siqu noma imininingwane yasebhange uma othile ekufonela ngocingo. Lena indlela abakhohlisi abaningi abakhohlisa ngayo abantu abadala.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuqaphela. Uma wazi okwengeziwe ngezimpawu zokuxhashazwa, izici eziyingozi, kanye nomthelela okunawo kothile, kulapho uzokwazi kangcono ukuthatha isinyathelo uma ubona into efana nale.

Uma ungumnakekeli womuntu osekhulile, nawe ungase uzizwe ukhungathekile futhi ubhekene nenselele ngezinye izikhathi. Ungalokothi ube namahloni okucela usizo. Ungacela usizo emndenini wakho, kubangani, noma ezinhlanganweni ezinikeza izinsizakalo zokusekela. Kunezindawo eSri Lanka ezinikeza iseluleko nosizo mayelana nokunakekelwa kwasebekhulile.

Ubazisa kanjani iziphathimandla ngento efana nale?

ISri Lanka nayo inemithetho yokuvikela asebekhulile. Kodwa-ke, njengoba sixoxile ngaphambili, izehlakalo eziningi azibikwa. Uma usola ukuthi othile uyahlukunyezwa, ungabika esiteshini samaphoyisa esiseduze, isikhulu sezinsizakalo zomphakathi e-Divisional Secretariat, noma kwi-National Elderly Secretariat .

Uma ucabanga ukuthi othile omaziyo usengozini esheshayo (ngisho nawe uqobo), shayela u-119 (amaphoyisa) ngokushesha.

Uma othandekayo wakho ebonisa izimpawu zokuxhashazwa, sicela uthathe isinyathelo. Ngeshwa, izimo ezinjengalezi azixazululi zona ngokwazo. Ngakho nguwe okudingeka ukhulumele lowo muntu.

Okokuqala, zama ukukhuluma nomuntu omthandayo ngomoya ophansi bese uthola imininingwane. Ungabuza imibuzo efana nokuthi, "Ingabe kukhona okukukhathazayo?" noma "Ingabe usezinhlungwini?" Kodwa-ke, kungaba nzima ngomuntu ohlukunyezwayo ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngakho ngokushesha. Bangase babe namahloni, besabe, noma bazizwe benecala ngakho, okwenza kube nzima ukukhuluma iqiniso.

Uma usenokungabaza ngemva kokukhuluma, kubike nakanjani. Akudingeki ube nobufakazi bokufakazela ukuthi uyahlukunyezwa ukuze ubike. Iminyango efanele izophenya ngalolu daba. Ulwazi olunikezayo luzogcinwa luyimfihlo.

Udokotela angahlola nothile futhi anikeze isiqondiso uma kukhona izinsolo zokuxhashazwa.

Uma wena noma othandekayo wakho ninenkinga ngesikhathi nithola ukunakekelwa komunye umuntu noma ngenkathi nisesikhungweni sokunakekelwa kwesikhathi eside, ninelungelo lokukhuluma. Ezinye izikhungo zokunakekelwa zinoMlamuleli noma uMlamuleli.Kungase kube khona isikhulu esikhethekile esingakumela futhi singenelele. Ungakhononda nangokuxhashazwa eziphathimandleni zendawo nezesizwe.

Inothi elincane mayelana nokubiza ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu abadala ngokuthi "ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu abadala"

Abanye abantu bakubiza nangokuthi lokhu “ukuxhashazwa kwabantu asebekhulile.” Kodwa-ke, indlela efaneleke kakhulu nenenhlonipho yokukuchaza ukusebenzisa amagama anjengokuthi “ukuxhashazwa kwabantu abadala,” “ukuxhashazwa kwabantu abadala,” noma “ukuxhashazwa komuntu omdala osengozini.”

Isizathu ukuthi igama elithi "asebekhulile" lingaba nencazelo engemihle kancane kwabanye abantu. Akuwona wonke umuntu oneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-60 ocabanga ukuthi "umdala." Ngakho-ke, ukusebenzisa amagama ahlobene nobudala kungaba yinto ecasulayo. Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi yiliphi igama okufanele ulisebenzise, ​​ungamane uthi "ukuhlukumeza." Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lisetshenziswe liphi igama, uma kwenzeka ukuhlukumeza, kubalulekile ukukubika ngokushesha.

Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya

Ngakho-ke, lokho ebesikhuluma ngakho ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu abadala, okuyinto engathi sína ngempela. Kungaba nomthelela omkhulu empilweni yomuntu engokomzimba nengokwengqondo, kanye nekhwalithi yempilo yakhe.

Lokhu kuyinto evamile kubantu abadala abasengozini abakuthola kunzima ukuzikhulumela noma ukufuna usizo ngokwabo. Ngakho-ke, sonke sinomthwalo wemfanelo wokuqaphela lokhu.

Uma ubona izimpawu zokuxhashazwa, noma uma ubona othile ephatha kabi umuntu omdala, sicela ungathuli. Qiniseka ukuthi ukubika lokho kuziphathimandla zendawo, noma ushayele u-119 (amaphoyisa) noma u-1990 (i-ambulensi).

Kungumsebenzi wethu ukunakekela abadala bethu abathandekayo nokubasiza baphile impilo ephephile nehloniphekile.

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