Ake sifunde ngokukhula nokuphepha kwengane yakho encane. (Izinyathelo Zokukhula Nokuphepha Kwengane Encane)

Ingane yakho encane ikhula kancane kancane, akunjalo? Ifunda izinto ezintsha nsuku zonke, futhi kuyajabulisa kakhulu ukubona. Kunezinyathelo ezibalulekile ekukhuleni kwayo phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Futhi kudingeka siqaphele kakhulu ngokuphepha kwayo. Namuhla, sizokhuluma ngakho konke lokhu kalula, ngendlela ongayiqonda.

Ubani ingane encane?

Uma uzwa igama elithi "ingane encane," ungase ucabange ukuthi ingane ineminyaka emingaki. Ngokuvamile sibiza izingane eziphakathi kweminyaka eyi-1 neyi-3 ngokuthi "izingane ezincane." Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, uzobona ingane yakho iqala kancane kancane ukwenza izinto yodwa . Izoqala ukubonisa ukuzimela okuncane. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi sobuntwana, ingane yakho izofunda uku:

• Yidla wedwa.
• Hamba ngaphandle kosizo lwamuntu.
• Sebenzisa amagama amasha, phinda amagama owezwayo, bese usho igama lawo nesibongo sawo.
• Qonda imiyalo elula efana nokuthi "cha" kanye nokuthi "yeka".
• Gqoka ngaphandle kosizo oluningi.
• Yabelana ngamathoyizi nabanye futhi ubavumele bashintshane ngokudlala.

Kodwa khumbula, yonke ingane ikhula futhi ifunde ngesivinini sayo . Ezinye izingane kungenzeka ukuthi azikakwazi ukwenza lezi zinto lapho zineminyaka emi-3. Akuyona into yokuncintisana.

Kunini lapho ingane yami encane idinga ukuhlolwa kwezokwelapha?

Ngonyaka wokuqala wengane yakho, udokotela wakho cishe uzokwenza ukuhlolwa njalo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho ikhula kahle futhi ihlangabezana nezigaba zonyaka wokuqala. Njengoba ingane yakho ikhula, lokhu kuhlolwa kuvame kakhulu. Ungakhuluma nodokotela wengane yakho ukuze wakhe isimiso sokuhlolwa esizosebenzela ingane yakho eneminyaka ephakathi kuka-1 no-3. Ukuhlolwa kuvame ukuhlelwa ngalezi zikhathi:

• Ngineminyaka eyi-1 ubudala.
• Uma unezinyanga ezingu-15 kanye nezingu-18.
• Ngineminyaka emibili ubudala.
• Ezinyangeni ezingu-30.
• Ngineminyaka emi-3 ubudala.

Yini ongayilindela ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa kwezokwelapha?

Njengokuhlolwa kwezokwelapha ngesikhathi sobuntwana, ukuhlolwa kwengane kahle kugxila ekukhuleni kwengane yakho. Lokhu kuhlolwa kungafaka:

• Ukulinganisa isisindo sengane yakho, ukuphakama, kanye nobubanzi bekhanda . Kanye nokuhlolwa komzimba wonke, okuhlanganisa amehlo, izindlebe, amazinyo, inhliziyo, namaphaphu.
• Ukuhlinzeka ngemigomo edingekayo.
• Ukuhlola izinyathelo ezibalulekile zentuthuko .
• Ukuphendula noma yimiphi imibuzo noma ukukhathazeka ongase ube nakho mayelana nengane yakho ekhulayo.
• Ukukhuluma ngezinyathelo ezilandelayo ekuthuthukisweni kwazo.
• Uma kudingeka, cela ukuhlolwa kwegazi ukuze kuhlolwe amazinga aphansi e-hemoglobin (i-anemia) kanye nobuthi be-lead .

Yiziphi izinyathelo ezibalulekile zokukhula kwezingane ezincane?

Izinyathelo zokukhula yizinto ingane yakho engazenza eneminyaka ethile. Lezi zinyathelo ziyindlela esibona ngayo ukuthi ingane yakho yenza kanjani:

• Kuyini ukuhamba?(Imisebenzi yemisipha emikhulu nemincane - `Amakhono Okunyakaza Okuphelele Nokuhle`).
• Ukukhuluma (Amakhono Okuthuthukisa Ulimi).
• Ukufunda (Amakhono Okuqonda).
• Ukudlala (Amakhono Ezenhlalo Nangokomzwelo).

Khumbula, ingane ngayinye ikhula ngesivinini sayo . Lokhu akuyona umncintiswano, kodwa ukuhlolwa kokuthi ingane yakho ifinyelela ngokushesha kangakanani kulezi zigaba ezibalulekile. Ezinye izingane zifinyelela kulezi zigaba ngaphambi kwezinye. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho yephuze ukufinyelela kulezi zigaba ezibalulekile, qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma nodokotela wakho . Ngaleyo ndlela, ungakwazi ukubona noma yiziphi izinkinga bese uzixazulula.

Ukuthuthukiswa Nokuphepha Kwezingane Ezincane Ezinezinyanga Eziyi-15-18

Phakathi kwezinyanga ezingu-15 kuya kwezingu-18, ingane yakho encane ifunda ukuveza imizwa yayo ngamakhono ayo olimi asanda kuwathola. Ukuthukuthela kuyinto evamile ezinganeni ezikule minyaka. Kuyindlela yokuthi zikutshele ukuthi azijabuli lapho zingakutholi ezikufunayo. Ungasiza ukuzola ingane yakho encane ngokuyiphazamisa ngamathoyizi nemidlalo. Isibonelo, uma ingane yakho encane ikhala esitolo ifuna ithoyizi, ungayiphazamisa ngokuyibonisa into enhle noma ngokucula ingoma eyithandayo.

Kule minyaka, ingane yakho kufanele idle etafuleni kanye nomndeni wonke. Ifunda ukusebenzisa izitsha ezifana nesipuni nefoloko, futhi ifunda ukuyeka ukuphuza ibhodlela bese iphuza inkomishi.

Izimpawu zentuthuko ezibonakala kule minyaka:

• Ukubonisa imizwa ehlukahlukene , kusukela ekwenzeni ngokunganaki kuya ekuboniseni uthando kulabo obaziyo.
• Ukuveza imibono ngamagama alula, ahlukile (isib., umama, ubaba, ingane, ukudla).
• Uqonda imiyalo elula, yesinyathelo esisodwa njengokuthi "hlala."
• Ukuqala ukuhamba nokugijima .
• Ukuphuza ngenkomishi bese udla ngesipuni .

Uvikela kanjani ingane yale minyaka?

Yenza lezi zinto ukuze uvikele ingane yakho eneminyaka ephakathi kwengu-15 nengu-18:

• Vala izitebhisi ngamasango , kungenjalo ingane encane ingawa.
• Uma uhamba ngemoto, beka ingane esihlalweni semoto esibheke ngemuva .
• Gcina ikhaya lakho lingenabo ubuthi . Qaphela kakhulu amakhabethe aphakeme ngokwanele ukuthi izingane ezincane zingawafinyelela. Ungalokothi ugcine ubuthi ezitsheni ezibukeka njengamabhodlela okudla noma eziphuzo noma amabhodlela ejamu . Uma ingane yakho iphuza into enobuthi, thatha ibhodlela uye esibhedlela esiseduze ngokushesha noma ushayele i-1990 Ambulance Service .
• Unganiki ukudla okungaklinya, njengeziqathi ezingavuthiwe, ama-apula angakahlutshwa, amagilebhisi, amakinati, amasoseji, ama-popcorn, namaswidi aqinile.Izinto ezifana no-avokhado abavuthiwe, amazambane acutshunguliwe, imifino ephekiwe, utamatisi, nezithelo ezihlutshiwe noma eziphekiwe zingcono kakhulu. Njalo sika ukudla okuyisiyingi noma okufana nohlamvu lwemali kube yizicucu ezincane ukuze ugweme ukuminyana.

Ukuthuthukiswa nokuphepha kwengane eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala

Izingane ezineminyaka emibili ubudala zigcwele imizwa futhi zilangazelela ukukhombisa imizwa yazo kwabanye. Zibonisa uthando, injabulo, intukuthelo, kanye nokubhikisha.

Ukuqonda kwengane yakho imithetho kungase kuhluke kakhulu kulokho okulindele. Ngalesi sikhathi, beka imingcele eqinile nengaguquguquki ekuziphatheni . Iningi labantwana abaneminyaka emibili ekugcineni lifuna ukujabulisa abazali babo. Ngakho-ke, qiniseka ukuthi uyayincoma ingane yakho uma iziphethe kahle noma ifunda okuthile okusha.

Ungathola ukuthi ingane yakho ikhuluma kakhulu, ithanda ukwazi, futhi ikhuthele kakhulu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, isilulumagama sayo sikhula ngokushesha . Ukufundela ingane yakho izincwadi kungayisiza yandise isilulumagama sayo, ithuthukise ukukhuluma kwayo, futhi ithuthukise amakhono ayo okulalela.

Nakuba izingane ezineminyaka emibili zithanda ukuba nezinye izingane, zivame ukudlala zodwa . Indlela eyinhloko yokufunda kwazo kule minyaka iwukulingisa .

Ingane yakho ingase iqale ukubonisa izimpawu zokuthi isilungele ukuqeqeshwa kokugobhoza . Ingase ihlale yomile isikhathi eside emini, noma ingase ibe nesikhathi esibekiwe sokuhamba kwayo kokukhipha isisu. Ingase futhi ibe nelukuluku ngendlu yangasese futhi iqaphele imisebenzi yayo yomzimba. Izingane zivame ukufunda ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese uma sezikulungele. Khuthaza ingane yakho futhi uyisize lapho kudingeka . Kuvamile ukuthi izingane zibe nekhono lokuqeqesha ngokugobhoza ngezinyathelo ezincane.

Izimpawu zentuthuko ezibonakala kule minyaka:

• Ukulingisa abanye, ikakhulukazi abantu abadala nezingane ezindala .
• Ukuhlala nokudlala eduze kwezinye izingane bese kancane kancane uqala ukufaka abanye ekudlaleni kwabo.
• Ukhuluma ngemisho elula yamagama amabili kuya kwamane . (isib. "Ingane ifuna ubisi", "Nginike ibhola")
• Ukuhlonza izimo nemibala .
• Ukulandela imiyalelo enezinyathelo ezimbili , njengokuthi "thatha amathoyizi akho uwafake ebhokisini."
• Ukukhuphuka nokwehla ezihlalweni nakumatafula.
• Ukuma ngezinzwane .

Uvikela kanjani ingane yale minyaka?

Landela lawa macebiso ukuze uvikele ingane yakho eneminyaka emibili ubudala:

• Ukuze ugweme ukusha , gcina izinga lokushisa lompompi wamanzi ashisayo lingaphansi kwama-degree Celsius angu-49 (120°F) .
• Faka izinto zokuthola intuthu kanye ne-carbon monoxide kuzo zonke izitezi zendlu yakho, kuzo zonke ikamelo lokulala. Hlola izinto zokuthola intuthu kanye ngenyanga, bese ushintsha amabhethri njalo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha.
• Izibhamu ezenziwe ekhayaUma kufanele ubagcine, bagcine bevalelwe, ngaphandle kwezinhlamvu .
• Vikela izintambo zikagesi ngokuzinamathisela phansi bese uvala izikhala zikagesi . Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu njengoba izingane ezincane zizozama ukufaka iminwe yazo noma ezinye izinto kuzo.
• Ungalokothi ushiye ingane yakho yodwa endlini yokugezela, ebhavini, echibini lokubhukuda, noma kuphi lapho kunamanzi khona . Qaphela kakhulu uma kunamabhakede amanzi endlini yokugezela.
• Ungalokothi ushiye ingane yakho yodwa ngaphandle . Hlala ucela umuntu omdala ayigade lapho ewela umgwaqo noma edlala egcekeni.

Ukuthuthukiswa nokuphepha kwengane eneminyaka emi-3 ubudala

Ingane yakho eneminyaka emithathu ubudala iba nobudlelwano nabantu kule minyaka, njengoba amakhono ayo okukhuluma kanye nokunyakaza komzimba ethuthuka ngokushesha. Ingane yakho iyafuna ukwazi, ivame ukubuza ukuthi "kungani?" futhi ngezinye izikhathi ibuza into efanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe.

Izingane ezineminyaka emithathu ubudala zithuthukisa umuzwa wazo oqinile . Ingane yakho iyaqaphela umehluko phakathi kwabafana namantombazane, futhi ilingisa izibonelo zayo zabantu abadala. Uma idlala, ingane yakho ixhumana kakhulu nontanga yayo. Amagama ayo akhula abe ngamakhulu amagama. Ngisho noma indlela yokubiza amagama ingaphelele, abanye bangaqonda cishe u-75% walokho okushiwo yingane yakho.

Amakhono okunyakaza komzimba abonisa ukubambisana okuhle . Ingane yakho ingase ithande ukusika ngesikele, ibeke izinto phezu komunye nomunye, futhi idwebe izindilinga.

Izimpawu zentuthuko ezibonakala kule minyaka:

• Ukuvumela ukujika ngesikhathi udlala.
• Ukubona izinto ezijwayelekile ezibazungezile.
• Ukukhuluma ngokucacile ukuze abanye baqonde futhi usebenzise imisho emibili noma emithathu engxoxweni .
• Ukusebenzisa kahle umcabango . Ngingaqamba izindaba bese ngizixoxa, ngenze amathoyizi aphile futhi ngiwenze akhulume.
• Ukukwazi ukukhuphuka nokwehla izitebhisi ngonyawo olulodwa esitebhisini ngasinye .
• Ukukwazi ukugijima nokukhuphuka .

Uvikela kanjani ingane yale minyaka?

Yenza lezi zinto ukuze uvikele ingane yakho eneminyaka emithathu ubudala:

• Prakthiza ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma kwenzeka umlilo ekhaya (Fire Drills) .
• Zenze umkhuba wokugqoka isigqoko sokuzivikela uma ugibela ibhayisikili.
• Khuluma ngendlela yokuzivikela kubantu ongabazi (Ukuphepha Kwabangaziwa) .
• Uma upheka, phendula izibambo zamabhodwe namapani ukuze zingabonakali phambi kwesitofu , ukuze ingane encane ingakwazi ukuzithinta.
• Fundisa ingane yakho igama layo, ikheli kanye nenombolo yocingo . Kungumqondo omuhle futhi ukuyifundisa ukuthi ingashayela kanjani ku-119 (amaphoyisa) noma ku-1990 (i-ambulensi) uma kunesimo esiphuthumayo.

Yiziphi izinto okufanele ingane izazi ngaphambi kokuya esikoleni samabanga aphansi?

Ukuqala isikole samabanga aphansi kuyisinyathelo esikhulu empilweni yengane yakho. Lokhu kungaba yingxubevange yemizwa kuwe nakwangane yakho. Kodwa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho isikulungele kungasiza ekwenzeni ushintsho lube lula. Nazi ezinye izinto okufanele uziqonde ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho iqale isikole samabanga aphansi:

• Ukwabelana nabanye .
• Ukukwazi ukukhuluma ngezidingo zabo kanye nezinto abazifunayo .
• Ikhono lokulalela nokunaka ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
• Ikhono lokubona izinhlamvu nezinombolo ezithile .
• Ukusebenzisa imikhuba emihle njengokuthi “ngicela” nokuthi “ngiyabonga”.

Ingane yakho izofunda okuningi ekilasini, futhi akuwona wonke la makhono okudingeka aphelele ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala. Indlela ebaluleke kakhulu ongayilungiselela ngayo ingane yakho ukuyifundisa ukulawula imizwa yayo ekilasini . Lokhu kusho ukuthi kudingeka ikwazi ukuthi "Ngizobuya khona manje" uma uyishiya, futhi ikhulume nothisha uma idinga usizo.

Yimaphi amathoyizi asiza ekukhuleni kwengqondo ezinganeni?

Esinye isenzakalo esibalulekile esisibhekayo njengoba ingane yakho ikhula ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo . Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yindlela ingane yakho esebenzisa ngayo ubuchopho bayo ukuze ifunde ngezwe eliyizungezile. Phakathi kweminyaka eyi-1 neyi-3, ingane yakho encane ithuthukisa amakhono amaningana amasha okuqonda, njengokucabanga ngokuzimela, ukuqonda imiyalo, ukuxhumana nabanye, nokusebenzisa umcabango wayo. Nazi ezinye imidlalo nemisebenzi engasiza ingane yakho ukuthuthukisa amakhono ayo okuqonda:

• Ukusebenzisa umcabango ngokuxoxa izindaba nokudlala.
• Ukudlala ngonodoli, izilwane ezigcwele izinto, namathoyizi .
• Ukudlala ngamaphazili anezingcezu ezintathu noma ezine.
• Ukudweba ngamapensela anemibala .
• Ukwakha umbhoshongo ngamabhulokhi .
• Ukusebenzisa amathoyizi anezingxenye ezihambayo njengezinkinobho nama-lever.
• Ukudlala ngokucashelana .
• Ukuhlunga izimpahla ngobukhulu nombala .
• Ukucula izingoma nemilolozelo .

Yiziphi izinkinga zempilo okufanele zicatshangelwe uma kukhulunywa ngokuthuthukiswa kwezingane?

Kulinganiselwa ukuthi cishe u-17% wezingane e-United States zinokukhubazeka noma ukubambezeleka kokukhula. Izimo ezifanayo zingabonakala naseSri Lanka. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuqaphela lokhu.

• I-Autism Spectrum Disorder: I-Autism iyisifo sokukhula kwezinzwa.Lokhu kuthinta indlela abantu abaxhumana ngayo, abaziphatha ngayo emphakathini, kanye nezindlela zabo zokuziphatha. Izici ze-autism ezinganeni zifaka: izinkinga ngamakhono okuxhumana nabantu, ukubambezeleka ekuthuthukisweni kolimi kanye namakhono okuxazulula izinkinga, izinkinga ngamakhono okunyakaza okuhle kanye nokuxhumana, kanye nokuntuleka kokunaka.
• Ukukhubazeka Kwengqondo: Ukukhubazeka kwengqondo kunciphisa ikhono lengane lokufunda nokusebenza ngesivinini esifanayo nontanga yayo. Izimpawu zokukhubazeka kwengqondo ezinganeni zifaka: ukungakwazi ukuveza izidingo zayo, ubunzima bokukhumbula izinto, ukuxazulula izinkinga, kanye nokwehluleka ukuqonda imithetho yezenhlalo. Ukukhubazeka kwengqondo kungabonakala ezimweni ezifana ne -Down syndrome, i-fetal alcohol syndrome, kanye ne-Fragile X syndrome .
• Ukulibaziseka Kokukhula: Ukulibaziseka kokukhula yilapho ingane yakho ithatha isikhathi eside ukufinyelela ingqophamlando ethile yokukhula. Lezi zigaba zisetshenziselwa ukunquma ukuthi ingane yakho idlala kanjani, ifunda kanjani, ikhuluma kanjani, inyakaza kanjani, futhi iziphethe kanjani. Izibonelo zifaka phakathi ukulibaziseka kwenkulumo okuvezayo, ukulibaziseka kwenkulumo yokwamukela, ukulibaziseka kokucubungula imisipha noma imizwa, noma ukulibaziseka okukhulu kokunyakaza .

Uma kutholakala ukuthi ingane yakho ibambezelekile ekukhuleni, ukwelashwa kusenesikhathi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokubuyisela ingane yakho endleleni efanele. Uma ukubambezeleka kungatholakali kusenesikhathi, ingane yakho ingase ibe nobunzima bokufunda lapho iqala isikole. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ibambezelekile ekukhuleni, qiniseka ukuthi ubona udokotela .

Kufanele ngimbone nini udokotela?

Umazi kangcono ingane yakho. Uma usola ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngokuziphatha kwayo noma indlela efunda ngayo, khuluma nodokotela ngokushesha .

Lezi yizimpawu zokuthi ingane yakho ingaba nokubambezeleka kokukhula:

• Ulahlekelwa amakhono akhe angaphambilini . Isibonelo, wayevame ukusho amagama ambalwa, kodwa manje akasawasho nokuwasho.
• Ukungayisebenzisi imisho enamagama amabili (njengokuthi 'phuza ubisi') ngisho nangemva kweminyaka emibili.
• Ukungaqondi ukuthi zisetshenziswa kanjani izinto ezivamile njengesipuni nefoloko.
• Ukungalandeli imiyalelo elula efana nokuthi “cha” noma “yeka.”
• Ukungazinzi lapho uhamba .
• Ubunzima bokuxhumana nabanye abantu abadala noma izingane noma ukungababoni emehlweni .

Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho inokuphazamiseka kokukhula , kubalulekile ukuthatha isinyathelo ngokushesha . Lokhu kuvumela udokotela wakho ukuthi ahlole ingane yakho futhi elaphe noma yiziphi izinkinga zokukhula.

Imibuzo okufanele uyibuze udokotela

Uma uvakashela udokotela, ungabuza imibuzo efana nale:

• Ingabe ingane yami ikhula kahle ngokweminyaka yayo?
• Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ingane yami encane iphuthelwa yizinyathelo ezithile zokukhula?

Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya

Ingane yakho ikhula ngokushesha okukhulu, futhi ixhumana kakhulu nomhlaba ozungezile. Qaphela izigaba zayo zokukhula eziphakathi kweminyaka engu-1 no-3. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho yephuze ukufinyelela izigaba zayo zokukhula, ungesabi ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho . Ingane ngayinye ihlukile, kodwa ukuyinika ukwesekwa ekudingayo ngesikhathi esifanele kuzoyinika isikhuthazo esikhulu sekusasa layo. Uthando lwakho, ukunakwa, kanye nesikhuthazo yizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ezingaba nazo!

Ukuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezincane , izinyathelo ezibalulekile zokukhula, ukuphepha kwengane, izinyanga eziyi-15-18 ubudala, iminyaka emi-2 ubudala, iminyaka emi-3 ubudala, ukulungela isikole sabantwana abancane