Ingabe ingane yakho encane isiqalile ukukhuluma? Akakagijimi futhi adlale njengabanye abantwana? Noma ingabe kukhona ushintsho ekuziphatheni kwakhe ongakwazi ukuluqonda? Njengomama noma ubaba, kuyinto evamile ukuthi uzizwe ukhathazekile kakhulu ngezinto ezinjengalezi. Wonke umzali ufuna ukubona ingane yakhe ikhula iphilile, ijabule, futhi ifana nezinye izingane. Ngakho-ke, namuhla sizokhuluma ngodokotela onganikeza usizo lochwepheshe kulezi zinkinga, futhi othole ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile emkhakheni ofanayo.
Ubani lo dokotela wezingane othuthukisa ukuziphatha?
Kalula nje, lo udokotela ogxile kwezokwelapha izingane. Kodwa wenza okungaphezu nje kodokotela wezingane ojwayelekile, efunda ngokujulile izinkinga ezihlobene nokukhula kwezingane, ukufunda, nokuziphatha kwazo , futhi ethola ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile okwengeziwe ngalokho.
Cabanga nje, lapho ingane yethu inomkhuhlane noma umkhuhlane, siya kudokotela wezingane. Futhi, uma ubona noma yikuphi ukubambezeleka kokukhula, ubunzima bokufunda, noma izindlela zokuziphatha ezingajwayelekile enganeni yakho, lochwepheshe ukhona ukuthola izixazululo, ukuthola izimbangela, nokuhlanganisa ukwelashwa. Bahlola intuthuko yengane, amakhono okuxhumana nabantu, kanye nokuziphatha kwayo. Baphinde babheke izimbangela zezokwelapha nezengqondo ezingase zithinte lezi zinguquko futhi basize ekwakheni uhlelo lokwelapha olufanela kahle ingane.
Laba bantu bachithe iminyaka eminingi esikoleni sezokwelapha, baba odokotela, base beqeqeshwa iminyaka eminingi ukuze babe odokotela bezingane, bese beqeqeshwa ngokukhethekile kakhulu kule ndawo yentuthuko nokuziphatha. Ngakho-ke banolwazi oluningi nolwazi kulesi sifundo.
Kungani sidinga uchwepheshe onjalo?
Akuzona zonke izingane ezifanayo. Izinga lokukhula kwawo wonke umuntu lihlukile. Cabanga ngakho, ezinye izingane azikhahleli ngesikhathi esifanele, kodwa ziqala ukuhamba kusenesikhathi. Ezinye zihamba sekwephuzile, kodwa ziqala ukukhuluma kahle ngokushesha okukhulu. Umehluko omncane njengalona uvamile.
Izikhathi eziningi, izingane eziphuza kancane ukufinyelela izigaba zokukhula, okukhathaza abazali, ekugcineni zikhula zibe nempilo enhle futhi ezingenazinkinga. Kodwa-ke, ungakushayi indiva noma yikuphi ukubambezeleka kokukhula okubonakalayo ngoba nje kunjalo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ayenzi izinto ezifanele iminyaka, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nodokotela wezingane ngakho.
Ukuziphatha kuyafana. Kuvamile ukuthi ingane eneminyaka emithathu ilale phansi, ikhale, futhi ithukuthele. Yilokho okujwayelekile kuleyo minyaka. Kodwa-ke, uma ingane eneminyaka emihlanu noma eyisithupha iqhubeka nokuziphatha ngendlela efanayo, kungaba yinto okufanele uyinake.
Uchwepheshe wokuthuthukiswa kwengane kanye nokuziphatha angakusiza ukuthi uhlukanise phakathi kwalezi zinguquko ezivamile ekukhuleni nasekuziphatheni kwengane yakho futhi athole ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga ezinkulu kakhulu. Bangakusiza ukuthi ubone ukuthi kunenkinga yini futhi, uma kudingeka, uqale ukwelashwa ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ngaphandle kokukwethusa ngokungadingekile.
Yiziphi izinhlobo zezimo laba ochwepheshe abasiza ngazo?
Kunezimo eziningi lapho kudingeka khona ukwesekwa kwalaba ochwepheshe. Ake sibheke ezinye zazo.
| Inkinga / isimo | Incazelo elula |
|---|---|
| Izinkinga Zokufunda | Ubunzima ngomsebenzi wesikole. Isibonelo, izinkinga zokufunda (i-dyslexia) , ubunzima ngezibalo, kanye nobunzima bokubhala. |
| Ukulibaziseka Kokuthuthukiswa | Ukubambezeleka ekukhulumeni, ekuhambeni, ekucabangeni, kanye namakhono okuxhumana nabantu afanele ubudala. |
| Ukunaka Nokuphazamiseka Kokuziphatha | Isifo sokungakwazi ukugxilisa ingqondo (ADHD) , ukucasuka, ukukhathazeka , ukucindezeleka , kanye nokuziphatha okuphikisayo. |
| Izinkinga Zemikhuba | I-Tics kanye ne-Tourette Syndrome . |
| Izinkinga Zokuthuthukiswa Kwezinzwa | Izimo ezifana ne -Autism Spectrum Disorder , i-Cerebral Palsy, ukukhubazeka kwengqondo, kanye nokukhubazeka kokuzwa/ukubona. |
| Izinkinga Zokulawula | Izinto ezifana nokuchama embhedeni, izinkinga zokulala, ubunzima bokuqeqeshwa endlini yangasese, kanye nokungakwazi ukuzibamba (i-encopresis) . |
| Izinkinga ngezinye izifo | Izinkinga zokukhula kanye nokuziphatha ezihambisana nezimo ezingamahlalakhona ezifana nesifo sikashukela , i-asthma , kanye nomdlavuza . |
Lochwepheshe welapha kanjani?
Lona umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu. Ukwelapha izinkinga zokukhula nezokuziphatha ezinjengalezi kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Akunakwenziwa udokotela oyedwa eyedwa. Kungumzamo weqembu . Uchwepheshe wentuthuko nokuziphatha wengane yakho uzosebenza njengomholi, noma umxhumanisi , waleli qembu. Uzonquma ukuthi yibaphi abanye ochwepheshe ingane yakho ebadingayo bese ebathumela kubo.
Lelo qembu lingafaka abantu abafana nalaba:
- Izazi Zengqondo Zezingane
- Odokotela Bezinzwa Bezingane
- Odokotela Bezifo Zengqondo Bezingane
- Odokotela bezokwelapha umzimba
- Ochwepheshe Bezokwelapha Emsebenzini
- Izazi Zezifo Zenkulumo Nolimi
Uchwepheshe wakho wokuthuthukiswa kwengane uzohlanganisa ulwazi oluvela kuyo yonke le mithombo bese edala uhlelo lokwelapha olufanela kahle ingane yakho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, bazokwenza izivivinyo ezahlukahlukene ukuthola imbangela eqondile yenkinga yengane. Lokhu kungafaka phakathi ukuskena kwe-MRI yobuchopho, ukuhlolwa kofuzo, kanye nokunye ukuhlolwa kwegazi. Uma sekutholakale ukuxilongwa okuthile, kuzoba usizo olukhulu ekunikezeni ingane izinsizakalo ezidingayo kanye nokuvimbela izinkinga zesikhathi esizayo.
Uyini umsebenzi wakho njengomzali?
Unomthwalo wemfanelo omkhulu kulolu hambo. Ukwelashwa kwalezi zimo ngokuvamile akuxhomekile emithini. Kunalokho, ukuqeqeshwa, imfundo, kanye nokuguqulwa kokuziphatha kubalulekile. Ngakho-ke, kuthatha isikhathi ukubona imiphumela. Udinga isineke nokuzinikela .Lokho okushoyo kuyadingeka ngempela.
Khumbula, imiphumela kulolu hambo iza kancane kancane, ngezinyathelo ezincane. Ungalindeli izinguquko ezinkulu ngobusuku obubodwa.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulandela imiyalelo kadokotela wakho ngqo, ukuthi ingane yakho ihlanganyele ezifundweni zokwelapha ngqo, futhi wenze izivivinyo onikezwe zona ekhaya ngqo.
Uma ukhathazekile ngobunzima bokufunda noma bokuziphatha kwengane yakho, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukukhuluma nodokotela wezingane womndeni wakho. Uma ezwa isidingo, uzothunyelwa kuchwepheshe wokukhula kwengane nokuziphatha. Uma engelashwa, izingane ezinalokhu kukhubazeka zingaba nezinkinga zengqondo njengokukhathazeka kanye nokungazithembi. Ngakho-ke, ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe olufanele ngesikhathi esifanele kungenza ingane yakho ibe nenzuzo enkulu.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Uma unenkinga mayelana nokukhula noma ukuziphatha kwengane yakho, ungazinaki. Khuluma nodokotela wezingane kuqala.
- Udokotela Wezingane Othuthukisa Ukuziphatha Ngudokotela othole ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile ngalezi zinhlobo zezinkinga.
- Ukwelashwa kwalezi zimo ngokuvamile akusekelwe emithini. Ukwelashwa kokuziphatha, izindlela ezahlukene zokwelapha, ukuqeqeshwa, kanye nemfundo yizona zinto eziyinhloko.
- Le nqubo yokwelapha iwumzamo weqembu. Udokotela wakho, abelaphi, kanye nawe kudingeka nisebenzisane.
- Ukubekezela nokuzinikela kwakho kungamandla amakhulu ingane yakho ezoba nawo kulolu hambo. Awuwedwa, kunethimba lochwepheshe abanamakhono abangakusiza.
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