Dzeɖoɖo kple viwò si xɔ ƒe 6-12 – mina míasrɔ̃ nu vevi siawo.

Viwòa le suku dem fifia. Vivivi la, wova le dɔ wɔm le wo ɖokui si, eye wole ɣeyiɣi geɖe zãm le aƒea godo, si fia be le suku, kple wo xɔlɔ̃wo. Ðewohĩ àsusu be, "Oo, fifia etsi, anɔ eɖokui si." Gake, be kadodo si le mia kple viwòa dome nasẽ ɖe edzi la, egahiã kokoko be nàɖɔli susuwo, nukpɔsusuwo, kple nyatakakawo, alo? Dzeɖoɖo sia mee ɖevia tua kakaɖedzi ɖo be ate ŋu agblɔ nusianu si le eƒe susu me, eƒe dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ, blanuiléle, kple kuxiwo na wò.

Aleke nàte ŋu ana dzeɖoɖo kple viwòa nanyo ɖe edzi?

Eyata, nu suesuesue ʋɛ aɖewo li míate ŋu awɔ be dzeɖoɖo kple ɖevi si le suku dem nakpɔ dzidzedze geɖe wu. Na míakpɔ nusiwo wonye ɖa.

• Di ɣeyiɣi nàbia nya tso viwò ƒe ŋkekea ŋu: Esiae nye nu vevitɔ kekeake. Ne viwòa tso suku gbɔ va aƒeme, alo le fiẽnuɖuɣi la, bia be, "Aleke wò ŋkekea nɔ?" Mègabia ko eye nàɖe ŋku ɖa o. Ele be viwòa nase le eɖokui me be ètsɔ ɖe le eme ŋutɔŋutɔ eye nèle to ɖom. Ta ʋuʋu ɖe nya si gblɔm wole ŋu, alo ŋuɖoɖo kple nyabiase suesuesuewo abe, "Oo, alo?" alo "Nukae dzɔ emegbe?" ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu ŋutɔ.

• Ƒo nu kple viwò, mègaɖe gbeƒã na viwò o: Esia nye nusi dzila geɖe wɔna. Míele aɖaŋuɖoɖo kotoku aɖe nam mía vi be "mègawɔ esia o", "wɔe nenema". Gake, ɖe ema teƒe la, ƒo nu kple ɖevia le ɖoɖo si sɔ nu. Ðe mɔ nɛ be eƒe nukpɔsusuwo nanɔ esi. Bu eŋu kpɔ, ne Nimal gbɔ tso suku la, viaŋutsu Amal biaa nya vovovowo abe, ‘Nukae akɔntabubufiala la gblɔ egbea? Ðe nèŋlɔ wò sukudɔdasiwo katã? Ðe mèdo go yi ɖafe oa?’ Amal ɖo eŋu be ‘ẽ’, ‘ao’ eye wòyi eƒe xɔ me. Gake, ne Nimal bia le mɔ si to vovo vie nu be, ‘Vinye, aleke wò ŋkekea nɔ egbea? Ðe nu tɔxɛ aɖe dzɔ le sukua?’ kple alɔgbɔnukoko la, Amal hã sena le eɖokui me be yeagblɔ yeƒe nuwo na ye fofo. Aleae wòle be míaƒo nu na mía viwoe.

• Bia nya siwo yi ŋgɔ wu "ẽ/ao": Biabia ko be, "Ðe suku nyo egbea?" "ẽ" alo "ao" ƒe ŋuɖoɖo koe axɔ. Ke boŋ bia nya siwo ana viwòa nadi be yeaɖe nu me tsitotsito vie. Le kpɔɖeŋu me:
• "Nukae nye nu tɔxɛtɔ kekeake si dzɔ le suku egbea?"
• "Nusɔsrɔ̃ kae do dzidzɔ na wò wu egbea? Gblɔ nusitae la nam."
• "Èdo go xɔlɔ̃ yeye aɖe egbea?"
• "Èkpe ɖe ame aɖe ŋu egbea?"

Ne èbia nya siawo tɔgbi la, edzroa ɖevia be yeagblɔ nya bubuwo tsitotsito, alo?

• Wɔ ɣeyiɣi suetɔ kekeake gɔ̃ hã ŋudɔ: Àte ŋu asusu be, "Oo, ɣeyiɣi mele asinye maƒo nu kple vinye o." Gake mègabu tame nenema o. Àte ŋu aƒo nu kple viwòa ne èle ʋu kum yina suku, ne èle fli me lalam le fiase me, alo ne èle amagbewo kɔm gɔ̃ hã. Ɣeyiɣi sue mawo sɔ kple woƒe kpekpeme le sika me.

• Miwɔ dɔ eye miafe ɖekae:Yi viwòa ƒe suku kamedefefewɔƒewo kple kɔnsɛtwo. Miƒo ƒu le aƒeme eye miawɔ fefe vi aɖe, ada nu, alo aɖa nu. Ne èwɔ nusiawo la, dzeɖoɖo kplɔnɛ ɖo le dzɔdzɔme nu. Àte ŋu aƒo nu tso nusiwo le edzi yim le xexeame ŋu, nane si nèkpɔ le nyadzɔdzɔgbalẽ me gɔ̃ hã.

• De dzi ƒo na viwòa be wòaxlẽ agbalẽ siwo sesẽ vie wu ƒe si wòxɔ: Ne èɖe mɔ na wo be wòaxlẽ agbalẽ kple ŋutinya siwo sesẽ vie wu woƒe gɔmesese ƒe seƒe la, akpe ɖe eŋu wòatu nyagbɔgblɔ kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete ɖo. Gake mègazi wo dzi o. De dzi ƒo na wo be woaxlẽ nu kple dzonɔameme.

Aleke ɖevi siwo xɔ ƒe sia ƒe nyawo zazã kple dzeɖoɖo ƒe ɖoɖowo trɔnae?

Ne ɖeviwo dze suku gɔme la, woƒe gbegɔmesese kple wo zazã ƒe ŋutete va nyona ɖe edzi vivivi. Ne míagblɔe tututu la, woƒe nuƒoƒo va zua nusi me kɔ eye susu le eme.

Zi geɖe la, ɖevi siwo xɔ ƒe sia sea nya kple nukpɔsusu geɖe gɔme wu alesi woate ŋu agblɔe kple nu. Ele be viwòa nate ŋu agblɔ ŋutinya aɖe le ŋutinya me azɔ , si fia be wòaɖɔ nudzɔdzɔ aɖe ɖe wo nɔewo yome tso gɔmedzedze vaseɖe nuwuwu. Ele be woate ŋu agblɔ woƒe tamesusuwo kple nukpɔsusuwo hã eme nakɔ eye woase egɔme le mɔ si nu ame bubuwo ate ŋu ase nu le nu. Nya siwo wozãna hã le dzidzim ɖe edzi, eye woƒe nyagbewo le didim vie.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be míadi kpekpeɖeŋu? Aleke míewɔna kpɔnɛ dzea sii be kuxi aɖe li?

Menye ɖeviwo katãe le ɖeka o. Ðevi aɖewo bi ɖe nuƒoƒo kple woƒe susuwo gbɔgblɔ kaba me. Bubuwo xɔa ɣeyiɣi didi vie wu. Ke hã, nanewo li siwo ŋu wòle be míaɖɔ ŋu ɖo vie.

Nu vevitɔ kekeakee nye be nàƒo nu kple viwòa ƒe sukunufiala edziedzi tso woƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutetewo ŋu, si nye ale si wòƒoa nu hesea nuwo gɔmee. Elabena ɖevi siwo gbegbɔgblɔ gɔmesese kple wo zazã me kuxiwo le la ate ŋu akpɔ kuxiwo le sukudede me wu .

Nɔ kadodo me kple nufiala la.

Sukunufialae kpɔa ale si viwòa wɔa nui le klass, ale si wòwɔa nu kple ɖevi bubuwo, kple ale si wòsea nusɔsrɔ̃wo gɔmee wu. Eyata ƒo nu tso viwòa ƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete kple ŋgɔyiyi ŋu na nufiala la edziedzi. Ne kuxi aɖe li la, akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàde dzesii kaba.

Ðe nèhiã kpekpeɖeŋu tso Nuƒoƒo kple Gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe Dɔléleŋutinunyala gbɔa?

Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ne nuƒoƒo sesẽ aɖe koŋ le viwòa ŋu, abe kukɔkpakpa , alo vovototo le ŋɔŋlɔdzesi aɖewo yɔyɔ me, le kpɔɖeŋu me, ŋɔŋlɔdzesi ‘s’ ɖina abe ‘th’ ene, alo ŋɔŋlɔdzesi ‘r’ yɔyɔ sesẽna (lisp) , ele be nàtsɔ wo ayi Nuƒoƒo-Gbegbɔdɔŋutinunyala gbɔ le suku. Amesiawo nye eŋutinunyala bibi siwo daa nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe kuxiwo kpɔna hedaa wo. Woate ŋu anya nusi tututu ɖevia ƒe kuxia eye woaŋlɔ atike kple kamedede siwo sɔ na wo.

Ne nenemae la, ƒo nu kple atikewɔla la edziedzi tso atikewɔwɔa ƒe taɖodzinuwo, gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe dɔwɔna siwo wòle be nàwɔ le aƒeme, kple alesi viwòa le ŋgɔ yim ŋu. Wò kpekpeɖeŋu le vevie na viwòa ŋutɔ.

Nɔnɔme siwo me wòahiã be woado wo kpɔ bliboe le

Ne viwòa ƒe nufiala susui be gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxi aɖe le ye ŋu , la, ahiã be woawɔ dodokpɔ geɖe siwo kplɔ wo nɔewo ɖo atsɔ aku nyaa me. Esiawo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàde dzesi viwòa ƒe ŋutetewo kple gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔwo. Zi geɖe la, esiawo dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Tosese dodokpɔ: Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ate ŋu asesẽ na ɖevi be wòaƒo nu alo ase nu gɔme le esi mete ŋu sea nu nyuie o ta. Esia tae dodokpɔ sia le vevie ɖo.
• Susuŋutinunya me dodokpɔ: Esia bia be woalé ŋku ɖe ɖevia ƒe nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe atsyã kple nunya ƒe ɖoɖowo ŋu to dodokpɔ siwo woɖo ɖe ɖoɖo nu me. Esia ate ŋu ana ɖevia ƒe ŋutetewo kple gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔwo nadze ƒã.
• Nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe dodokpɔ: Nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ŋuti dɔdala doa ɖevia ƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutetewo kpɔna le mɔ vovovowo nu.

Nyatakaka siwo woxɔna tso dodokpɔ siawo me dzie wotua nyametsotso le kpekpeɖeŋu tɔxɛ si ɖevia hiã ŋu.

Kuxi kawoe woate ŋu akpɔ le dzeɖoɖo me?

Azɔ na míalé ŋku ɖe kuxi aɖewo siwo ate ŋu ado mo ɖa le ɖevi ŋu le nuƒoƒo gome. Ne ède dzesii be esiawo dometɔ ɖeka alo eve le viwòa ŋu la, anyo be nàtsi dzi vie ahaƒo nu kple nufiala alo ɖɔkta.

• Tosese ƒe kuxiwo.
• Toɖoɖo kple mɔfiamewo dzi wɔwɔ le sukuxɔ me sesẽ (e.g., edze abe mele to ɖom nusi nufiala le gbɔgblɔm o ene).
• Gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ le ŋkuɖoɖo nusiwo wose kple nya siwo wogblɔ dzi me.
• Nyagbewo ƒe ŋgɔyiyi menyo kura o, eye wometsɔ ɖeke le nya yeyewo sɔsrɔ̃ me o.
• Kuxi siwo le gbeŋutise kple nyagɔmeɖegbalẽ ŋu . Eyae nye be esesẽna be woaƒo nu kple nyagbe siwo sɔ.
• Susuwo gbɔgblɔ alo ŋutinya aɖe gbɔgblɔ ɖe ɖoɖo nu ƒe sesẽ (Nartive discourse) . Ne wole ŋutinya aɖe gblɔm la, wogblɔnɛ le afisia kple afima ɖoɖo aɖeke manɔmee.
• Kuxi siwo le nusɔsrɔ̃ me, vevietɔ nuxexlẽ kple nuŋɔŋlɔ.
• Ŋutinya la me mekɔ o, si wɔe be esesẽna na ame bubuwo be woase egɔme.
• Kuku alo lisp atraɖii .

Ne dzesi siawo dometɔ ɖeka alo esi wu nenema gakpɔtɔ li la, anyo wu be nàdi eŋutinunyalawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo.

Ðe wòhiã be míatsi dzi ɖe gbeɖiɖi ƒe nyonyome ƒe kuxiwo ŋua?

Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, àte ŋu ade dzesi tɔtrɔ le viwò ƒe gbe me. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, gbea ate ŋu azu ɣlidodo (ɣeyiɣi ƒe ɖiɖi) , gbɔgbɔtsixe ƒe ɖiɖi (gbɔgbɔ si le ƒoƒom) , alo gbeɖiɖi si me gbagbã alo ƒuƒlu (raspiness).. Enye nusi sɔ be nu siawo tɔgbe nadzɔ zi ɖeka alo zi eve ne dzamezã le ŋuwò. Gake ne gbe le tɔtrɔm atraɖii abe esia ene la, anyo wu be nàyi toŋutinunyala gbɔ eye nàdi atikewɔla ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo. Elabena ate ŋu anye gbeɖiɖikawo ƒe dɔléle sue aɖe.

Eyata nukae nye nu vevitɔ kekeake si dzi wòle be míaɖo ŋkui? (Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme)

Kpɔ ɖa, ne ède dzesii be nuƒoƒo le sesẽm na viwòa vie la, mègatsi dzodzodzoe o. Menye xexeame ƒe nuwuwue o. Nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe dɔléleŋutinunyalawo , atikewɔla bubuwo, kple wò ƒomea ƒe ɖɔkta le klalo be yewoakpe ɖe mia kple viwòa ŋu miaɖu kuxi siawo dzi.

Nu vevitɔe nye be nàde dzesi kuxi aɖe kaba eye nàtsɔe ayi na ame si sɔ. Azɔ hã, nuƒoƒo na viwòa ɣesiaɣi kple lɔlɔ̃, ɖetsɔleme, kple dzigbɔɖi le vevie ŋutɔ menye na woƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi ɖeɖeko o, ke na woƒe amenyenye ƒe tsitsi bliboa hã. Wò nyawo, wò toɖoɖo ate ŋu ana ɖevi ƒe xexeame nanya kpɔ wu. Eyata, tso egbe dzi la, mina míagaƒo nu kple mía viwo viea?

Dzeɖoɖo, ɖeviwo, dzeɖoɖo, gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi, ƒe si woxɔ le suku, nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ, nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxiwo