ʻAʻole hiki i nā huaʻōlelo ke wehewehe i ka hauʻoli āu e manaʻo ai ke hiki mai kahi malihini hou i kou ola a me kāu kāne, ʻeā? Me kēlā hauʻoli, aia kekahi mau kuleana liʻiliʻi e hele pū me ia. I waena o lākou, ʻo ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa no ka pēpē he kumuhana ia e ʻike ai nā mākua he nui he mea hopohopo iki a i kekahi manawa ke kumu o nā paio liʻiliʻi. ʻŌlelo nā kūpuna i hoʻokahi inoa, ʻōlelo nā hoaaloha i kekahi inoa ʻē aʻe, aia kekahi i kou manaʻo... I ka hopena, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka mea e koho ai. No laila i kēia lā, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa no kēia pēpē.
ʻAʻole he huaʻōlelo wale nō ka inoa!
Manaʻo pinepine mākou he huaʻōlelo nani ka inoa no kahi pēpē liʻiliʻi. Akā e noʻonoʻo i kēia ʻano. ʻO ka inoa āu e koho ai e noho mau loa me kāu keiki. Ke hele kēlā keiki i ke kula, pāʻani me nā hoaaloha, hoʻomaka i kahi hana, loaʻa iā ia kahi ʻohana ponoʻī ... ʻo kēia inoa kona ʻano ma kēia mau wahi a pau.
Wahi a Laura Wattenberg, nāna i kākau i kahi puke e pili ana i nā inoa pēpē, ʻo ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa, "E noʻonoʻo i ka inoa āu e hāʻawi nei iā ʻoe iho." Inā ʻoe e hoʻomaka ana i kou ola i kēia lā, makemake anei ʻoe e hōʻike kēia inoa iā ʻoe? Inā ʻo ka pane he "ʻae," aia ʻoe ma ke ala kūpono. Inā ʻo ka pane he "ʻaʻole," ua hiki i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo hou ai i ka inoa.
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, e noʻonoʻo i kāu keiki he kanaka makua me ka inoa āu i koho ai, ʻaʻole ʻo kāu pēpē nani.
Mai hahai i ke au hou loa.
I kekahi manawa ʻike mākou i nā inoa ʻē a kū hoʻokahi. ʻOi loa aku ma nā ʻāina ʻē, ʻo nā keiki a nā mea hana keaka a me nā mea hana keaka he mau inoa e like me Apple lāua ʻo Blue Ivy. I kēia manawa, aia kahi ʻano ma ko mākou ʻāina e ʻimi i ia mau inoa kū hoʻokahi. Hoʻāʻo ka poʻe he nui e ʻimi i kahi inoa e makemake ai nā mea a pau, akā ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe e hoʻohana.
Akā, ʻo kahi inoa i kaulana i hoʻokahi makahiki e lilo paha i mea kahiko i ka makahiki aʻe. Eia kekahi o nā ʻano inoa i kaulana i kēia mau lā.
| ʻAno Au | Nā Laʻana |
|---|---|
| Nā inoa o nā kūlanakauhale | ʻO Austin, Brooklyn (ʻoiai ma Sri Lanka ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻohana i nā inoa e like me Kandy lāua ʻo Dambulla, he manaʻo like ia) |
| Ke hoʻopili nei i nā inoa inoa i nā inoa mua | ʻO Parker, ʻo Coleman (ma ko mākou ʻāina, ʻaʻole hoʻohana pinepine ʻia nā inoa ʻohana e like me Perera lāua ʻo Silva no nā inoa) |
| Ke hoʻohana hou nei i nā inoa kahiko a kuʻuna | Pearl, Ruby (ma Sri Lanka, nā inoa e like me ka momi a me ka ruby) |
| Nā inoa e pili ana i ke ʻano | Muliwai, Skye (e like me ka muliwai, ka lani) |
Eia kekahi, he mea kaulana loa ia ma ko kākou ʻāina ke kapa ʻana i kahi keiki ma hope o kekahi lālā o ka ʻohana, hoahānau, a i ʻole kekahi mea a kākou e mahalo ai. Hōʻike kēia mau mea a pau i ka nui o ka mana o ke kaiāulu a puni kākou iā kākou i ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa.
Hiki mai nā manaʻo maikaʻi loa i ka wā āu e manaʻo ʻole ai.
I kekahi manawa, ʻaʻohe mea nui ka nui o nā puke a me nā pūnaewele āu e heluhelu ai, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi inoa e kūpono i kou makemake. Akā hiki i ka manaʻo maikaʻi loa ke hele mai mai kahi a me kahi manawa i manaʻo ʻole ʻia.
- He inoa i loaʻa mai ka moʻolelo ʻohana: Ua ʻimi ʻo Melanie lāua ʻo Brian i inoa no kā lāua keiki kāne. I kekahi lā, i ko lāua hele ʻana i ka hale o nā mākua o Brian, ua haʻi aku ka makuakāne o Brian i ka inoa ʻo "Preston" i ko lāua kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kona kupuna kāne. I kēlā manawa, ua nānā lāua kekahi i kekahi a minoʻaka. Ua loaʻa iā lāua ka inoa a lāua e ʻimi nei. Ma ko mākou ʻāina, he mea maʻamau loa ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi inoa i loaʻa mai kahi kupuna kāne, kupuna wahine, a i ʻole ka moʻokūʻauhau .
- He inoa a nā mākua ʻelua i aloha ai: Hoʻohui kekahi mau mākua i nā leka o ko lākou mau inoa ʻelua e hana i kahi inoa nani. He mea hana noʻeau loa ia, a i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e lohe ai i kēlā inoa, hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ʻoe i ke aloha ma waena o nā mea ʻelua.
- He inoa i loaʻa mai kahi hoʻomanaʻo kūikawā: Ua kapa aku kekahi makuahine i kapa ʻia ʻo Joan i kāna keiki kāne ʻo "Benny" no ka mea ʻo ia ka inoa o kāna hale ʻaina punahele āna i hele ai i kona wā hāpai. "Ua ʻai mau au ma laila i koʻu wā kamaliʻi, a i kēia manawa ʻo ia kahi punahele a kaʻu keiki," wahi āna.
Minamina no kahi inoa - 'Minamina i ka inoa pēpē'
I kekahi mau ʻohana, hiki i ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa ke lilo i kumu o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa nui. ʻAʻole makemake ka wahine i ka inoa o ke kāne, a ʻaʻole makemake ke kāne i ka inoa o ka wahine. He mea maʻamau loa kēia. No ka mea, ma hope o ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa, nui nā mea e pili pono ana, e like me ko mākou mau manaʻo, ko mākou ʻohana, ka lāhui, a me ka hoʻomana.
He makuahine i kapa ʻia ʻo MaryI kona haʻi ʻana aku iā ia ʻo "Stella" kona inoa punahele, ʻaʻole makemake iki kāna kāne. ʻĪ maila ʻo ia, "Ke hana kaʻu kaikamahine i kahi mea kolohe, ua like wau me Marlon Brando ma 'A Streetcar Named Desire.'" I ka hopena, ua hana lāua i kahi papa inoa o nā inoa a lāua i ʻaelike ai a koho i nā mea ʻelua maikaʻi loa. ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ka mahalo i ko lāua mau manaʻo a koho i kahi inoa e hiki ai iā lāua ʻelua ke hauʻoli.
I kekahi manawa, ma hope o ka hoʻolilo ʻana o nā mākua i ka manawa nui i ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa, manaʻo lākou ʻaʻole kūpono ka inoa i ka pēpē ke hānau ʻia ke pēpē. Ua kapa ʻia kēia he mihi o ka inoa pēpē .
Ua kapa aku kekahi makuahine i kapa ʻia ʻo Kelsey i kāna kaikamahine ʻo "Presley," akā mai ka manawa i hānau ʻia ai ʻo ia, ua manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole kūpono ka inoa iā ia. Ma hope mai, ua hāʻawi lākou iā ia i inoa hou, ʻo "Summer," a ua hoʻololi kū kānāwai ʻia.
"He manaʻo maikaʻi paha ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka inoa i ka wā ʻōpiopio o ke keiki, ma mua o ko lākou maʻa ʻana i ka inoa, inā ʻae nā mākua ʻelua. Akā inā ua ʻoi iki aʻe ke keiki a ʻaʻohe ʻaelike ma waena o lāua ʻelua, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka maʻa ʻana i ka inoa e kū nei. I ka wā pinepine, i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, lilo ka inoa i ʻāpana o lākou," wahi a nā loea.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo? Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo hou aku
Inā ʻoe e paʻa nei i ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa, e kōkua kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo iā ʻoe.
- E kamaʻilio me kekahi mau kānaka hilinaʻi: E haʻi aku i kekahi mau hoaaloha āu e hilinaʻi nei a e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻano hoʻomākeʻaka maikaʻi e pili ana i nā inoa ʻelua a ʻekolu paha āu a me kāu kāne e noʻonoʻo nei. E kiʻi i ko lākou manaʻo. Inā ʻaʻole makemake kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha i ka inoa āu i koho ai, he hōʻailona ia e hōʻike ai .
- E pela me ka maʻalahi: Ke hoʻāʻo nei kekahi mau mākua e hana i kahi inoa maʻamau i mea kūikawā ma o ka pela ʻana i kahi ʻokoʻa. No ka laʻana, ua pela ʻokoʻa ka inoa "Mihiri", e like me "Mihiry". E hoʻomanaʻo, hoʻohana mākou i ka hapa nui o ko mākou ola e heluhelu ana i nā inoa, ʻaʻole e pela iā lākou. Ke ʻano ʻē ke pela ʻana, pono ke keiki e pela a wehewehe i ko lākou inoa ma ke kula a ma ka hana paha. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i mea hoʻopilikia no lākou.
- E kamaʻilio me kāu kauka: Inā pilikia ʻoe i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ke kaumaha o ke koho ʻana i kahi inoa a i ʻole nā hakakā ma waena o ʻolua, hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me kāu kauka ʻohana e pili ana i ia mea a loaʻa ke kōkua, e like me ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo psychological.
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- I ke koho ʻana i inoa no kāu pēpē, e noʻonoʻo ʻaʻole wale i kona wā kamaliʻi, akā pehea hoʻi e pili ai kēlā inoa iā ia i kona wā makua.
- Mai hahai wale i ke au hou loa. I kekahi manawa, hiki i kahi inoa maʻalahi a kuʻuna ke lilo i mea waiwai nui i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa.
- He hoʻoholo kēia ma waena ou a me kāu hoa. E kamaʻilio a koho i kahi inoa āu e hauʻoli ai.
- I kekahi manawa hiki ke hiki koke mai ka inoa maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe ke pilikia ʻoe i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ia. No laila, mai hoʻokau nui i ke kaomi ma luna ou iho.
- E mālama i ka pela ʻana o ka inoa maʻalahi. He mea pono nui ia no ke keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
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