Ma ke ʻano he makuahine a makua paha, ʻike ʻoe he hopena nui nā ʻike mua a kāu keiki i ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana. ʻO ke aloha a me ka mālama āu e hāʻawi ai i kāu keiki ke kumu o kēia mau mea a pau. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo kekahi wahi e hoʻopilikia ai i ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki ʻo ia ka Day Care, a i ʻole kahi kikowaena mālama keiki . I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i kēia mau mea a pau.
He aha kēia mālama lā?
I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo kahi mālama keiki kahi e hiki ai i nā mākua ke mālama i kā lākou mau keiki ʻōpio i ko lākou wā e hana ana. ʻO kēia mau ʻoihana i hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻia e hana ana ma kahi hale ʻokoʻa. ʻO lākou kahi e hui pū ʻia ai nā keiki o ka makahiki like a mālama ʻia e nā limahana i aʻo ʻia.
I kēia mau lā, ʻoi aku hoʻi no nā ʻohana kahi e hana ai nā mākua ʻelua, ua lilo kahi kikowaena mālama keiki i mea pono. Koho kekahi mau mākua i kahi kikowaena mālama keiki ma ke ʻano he wahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke hāʻawi i kā lākou mau keiki i ka ʻike a me nā mākau e pono ai lākou ma mua o ka hoʻouna ʻana iā lākou i ke kula. Eia kekahi, i kekahi manawa, inā he pono ulu a pono pilikanaka paha ke keiki, paipai nā kauka e hoʻouna i kahi keiki i kahi kikowaena mālama keiki.
Akā, ʻaʻole like kēia mau wahi a pau. Aia nā kikowaena mālama keiki i ʻae ʻia e ke aupuni ma Sri Lanka. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa nā wahi e hana ana me ka ʻole o ke kau inoa ʻana. Eia kekahi laʻana:
- Nā kula kamaliʻi i mālama ʻia e nā wahi hoʻomana.
- Nā kikowaena no nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi i mālama ʻia e nā kula.
- Nā papahana pōkole e like me nā kula kamaliʻi a me nā kula hānai.
- Nā lawelawe mālama ma mua a ma hope o ke kula no nā keiki hele kula.
He aha nā ʻano mālama lā i laila?
ʻEkolu mau koho nui āu e hālāwai ai i ke koho ʻana i kahi mea mālama keiki. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kona mau pono a me nā hemahema. ʻO ke kī, ʻo ke koho ʻana i ka mea kūpono loa i nā pono o kou ʻohana a me ke ʻano o kāu keiki.
| Ke ʻano mālama | He wehewehe maʻalahi | ʻO wai ka mea kūpono? |
|---|---|---|
| Mālama kikowaena | ʻO kēia ke kikowaena mālama keiki a mākou e ʻike mau ai. Loaʻa iā ia nā limahana i aʻo ʻia, kahi papahana kūhelu, a me nā lula a me nā hoʻoponopono e pili ana i ka palekana a me ke olakino. | No nā mākua e makemake ana e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kā lākou keiki i kahi ʻano i hoʻonohonoho pono ʻia a hoʻolālā ʻia a makemake iā lākou e noho pū me nā keiki ʻē aʻe. |
| Mālama keiki ʻohana | Pili kēia i kekahi e mālama ana i kekahi mau keiki ma ko lākou home ponoʻī. He mea maʻamau loa kēia ʻōnaehana ma Sri Lanka. | He kūpono ia no ka poʻe makemake i kahi ʻano home ma mua o kahi kikowaena nui a makemake e hoʻouna i kā lākou mau keiki i kahi wahi i emi iki ka poʻe. |
| Mālama keiki ma ka home | Maanei, hele mai kahi mea mālama (Nanny/Babysitter) i kou home a mālama i kāu keiki. He ʻohana paha kēia kanaka nou. | He kūpono loa ia no ka poʻe e makemake ana i kā lākou keiki e loaʻa ka nānā pilikino i loko o ka ʻoluʻolu o ko lākou home ponoʻī. Eia nō naʻe, hiki ke kiʻekiʻe aʻe ke kumukūʻai. |
He aha nā pono o ka mālama maikaʻi ʻana i ka lā?
Nui nā pono o ka hoʻouna ʻana i kahi keiki i kahi mālama keiki maikaʻi a kiʻekiʻe hoʻi.
- Nā manawa kūpono e launa pū ai me nā keiki ʻē aʻe: Loaʻa i ke keiki ke pāʻani, kaʻana like, a aʻo e hana pū me nā hoaaloha he nui o ka makahiki like. He mea nui loa kēia no ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā mākau pilikanaka o ke keiki.
- Nā limahana i aʻo ʻia: Loaʻa i nā hale mālama keiki maikaʻi ka poʻe i aʻo ʻia i ka noʻonoʻo keiki a me ka ulu ʻana o ke kamaliʻi. Ua ʻike lākou i nā mea pāʻani a me nā hana e kūpono i ka makahiki o ke keiki.
- Ka maʻamau a me ke kūlike: Ua wehe ʻia nā kikowaena e like me kēia i ka makahiki a puni me ka ʻole o ka pani ʻana no nā lā hoʻomaha a i ʻole ka hoʻomaha maʻi, he mea kūpono loa ia no nā mākua.
- Nā lawelawe hou aʻe: Hāʻawi kekahi mau wahi maikaʻi i nā lawelawe keu i nā keiki, e like me nā huakaʻi kula, nā papa mele, a me nā hoʻokolohua olakino .
Hoʻomaikaʻi ka mālama maikaʻi i nā mākau ʻōlelo a ke keiki, nā mākau noʻonoʻo, a me ka hiki ke kūkulu i nā pilina maikaʻi me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Nā mea e noʻonoʻo ai ma mua o ke koho ʻana i kahi mālama lā
Me nā pono, aia kekahi mau hemahema o kahi mālama keiki a i ʻole nā mea e pono ai mākou e makaʻala.
ʻO ka maʻamau, wehe ʻia ka mālama keiki mai ka hola 7am a i ka hola 6pm. Inā ʻoe e hana ana i ka hana hoʻololi, hiki ke paʻakikī ke loaʻa kahi e mālama ai iā ʻoe i ka pō a i ʻole nā hopena pule. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke uku wale no nā hola āu e pono ai, pono ʻoe e uku no ka lā holoʻokoʻa a i ʻole ka pule.
ʻO kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, he ʻano hoʻonohonoho pono a hoʻonohonoho pono ʻia kēia mau kikowaena. No laila, i kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi i ka nānā kūikawā i nā pono a me nā makemake o kāu keiki. Eia kekahi, inā ua maʻa ke keiki i hoʻokahi mea mālama, inā loli pinepine lākou (ka huli nui ʻana), hiki nō hoʻi i kēlā ke hoʻopilikia i ke keiki.
ʻO ka mea nui loa, hiki i nā kikowaena mālama keiki maikaʻi ʻole ke hoʻopilikia maikaʻi ʻole i ke keiki.
- Ka emi ʻana o ka hiki o ke keiki ke ʻōlelo.
- Hoʻonui ʻia nā pilikia o ka nohona.
- Ua emi nā hiki ke aʻo.
- Ka emi ʻana o ka mākaukau no ke kula.
No laila, pono ʻoe e makaʻala nui i ke koho ʻana i kahi mālama lā.
Pehea e koho ai i ka mea mālama lā maikaʻi loa?
ʻAe, pehea lā mākou e koho ai i kahi kūpono loa no kā mākou keiki? Eia kekahi mau kuhikuhi ʻanuʻu hiki iā ʻoe ke hahai.
1. E kipa mua: Ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e hoʻokomo i kāu keiki ma kahi, e kipa aku iā ia i kekahi mau manawa. E makaʻala pono i ke ʻano o ke kamaʻilio ʻana a nā limahana ma laila me nā keiki a me ka mālama ʻana iā lākou. ʻO kā lākou hoʻohana ʻana i ka ʻōlelo e pili pono ana i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki.
2. E nānā i ka maʻemaʻe a me ka palekana: Ua maʻemaʻe anei ka wahi? Ua maʻemaʻe anei nā mea pāʻani? E nānā i nā ʻoiʻoi, nā wahi plug i hōʻike ʻia, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe e hiki ai ke hoʻoweliweli i nā keiki.
3. E hōʻoia i ke kau inoa ʻana: E hōʻoia ua kākau inoa ʻia ke kikowaena me ka ʻaha kūkā panalāʻau a i ʻole kekahi keʻena aupuni pili. E nānā i nā palapala hōʻoia.
4. E nīnau i nā mākua ʻē aʻe: E kamaʻilio me nā mākua ʻē aʻe e hoʻouna mua ana i kā lākou mau keiki i kēlā wahi. He waiwai nui ko lākou mau ʻike iā ʻoe.
5. E nānā i nā limahana: Loaʻa i nā limahana ke aʻo ʻia i ka mālama keiki? Ehia mau keiki e mālama ʻia ana no kēlā me kēia limahana? (lakio limahana-i-keiki) he mea nui loa nō hoʻi. Inā he emi nā keiki no kēlā me kēia limahana, e loaʻa i ke keiki ka nānā nui ʻia.
6. Inā he mau pono kūikawā ko kāu keiki: Inā he mau pono kūikawā ko kāu keiki, e kamaʻilio ākea me ke alakaʻi mālama keiki e pili ana i ia mea. E hōʻoia e hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi i nā pono a me ka nānā e pono ai kēlā keiki. E hōʻoia e kamaʻilio me ke kauka o kāu keiki ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana e pili ana i kēia.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka nui o nā hola i hoʻolilo ʻia ma ke kula hānai ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomaikaʻi pono i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki. I kekahi manawa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noho ʻana ma ka home no hoʻokahi makahiki a hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka manawa e aʻo ai e kāohi i kā lākou ʻano ma ka home.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, inā paha e hele ana kāu keiki i ka hale mālama keiki a i ʻole, ʻo ka mea nui loa a koʻikoʻi hoʻi i ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka home a me ke aloha a me ka nānā ʻana mai iā ʻoe. ʻO ka manawa a ke keiki e noho ai me ko lākou mau mākua, nā kaikaina, nā kamaʻilio ʻana, a me ka manawa pāʻani me lākou e hoʻoholo ai i ka wā e hiki mai ana o ke keiki.
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- He hoʻoholo nui ke koho ʻana i kahi mālama keiki no kāu keiki. No laila, mai wikiwiki, e hana i kāu noiʻi a koho i kahi maikaʻi loa.
- Ma mua o ke kākau inoa ʻana i kāu keiki ma kahi, e kipa aku iā ia iho i kekahi mau manawa. E nānā pono i ke kaiapuni a me ke ʻano o nā limahana.
- E hōʻoia e hōʻoia i ka hoʻopaʻa inoa aupuni o ke kikowaena, nā hōʻoia o nā limahana, a me ka palekana.
- E hoʻolohe i nā manaʻo a me nā ʻike o nā mākua ʻē aʻe.
- E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻoiai ke ʻano maikaʻi o ka hale mālama keiki, ʻo ka mea nui no ka ulu ʻana o ke keiki, ʻo ia ke aloha, ka mālama, a me ka manawa maikaʻi āu e hoʻolilo ai me kāu keiki ma ka home.











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