Ke hoʻolālā nei ʻoe e hoʻouna i kāu pēpē i kahi mālama keiki? Eia nā mea e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike!

I kēia mau lā, me ke kumukūʻai o ke ola, ua lilo ia i mea maʻamau no nā mākua ʻelua ke hele i ka hana. No laila, i ka wā e hana ʻia ai kēlā, he pilikia nui ka mālama ʻana i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi ma ka home. Loaʻa i kekahi mau mākua laki ke kōkua mai nā kūpuna mai. Akā, ʻaʻole i loaʻa i nā kānaka a pau kēlā manawa kūpono. No laila, ʻo ka hopena maikaʻi loa no nā poʻe he nui i ia mau manawa, ʻo ia ke hāʻawi ʻana i kā lākou keiki i kahi kikowaena mālama keiki , a i ʻole e like me kā mākou e ʻike nei, he 'Day Care' . Akā, i ka wā e hāʻawi ai ʻoe i kāu keiki i kahi i ʻike ʻole ʻia e mālama ʻia e like me kou mau maka ponoʻī, he mea maʻamau loa ia no ka nui o nā mea e hiki mai ana i ka noʻonoʻo, a hiki paha iā ʻoe ke makaʻu a kānalua. No laila, inā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo nei i kahi mea e like me kēia, e kamaʻilio maopopo kākou e pili ana i kēia i kēia lā.

He aha kahi kikowaena mālama lā?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, he hale mālama keiki kahi ʻoihana e mālama ana i nā keiki ʻōpio i ka wā e hana ana ko lākou mau mākua. ʻO kēia mau ʻoihana maʻamau e mālama ʻia ana ma kahi hale ʻokoʻa. Maanei, ua māhele ʻia nā keiki i nā hui e like me ko lākou mau makahiki. ʻO ia hoʻi, nā keiki 1-2 makahiki ma kahi hoʻokahi, a me nā keiki 2-3 makahiki ma kahi ʻē aʻe. Hoʻokele ʻia kēia mau mea a pau e kahi luna hoʻokele a me kekahi mau limahana i aʻo ʻia.

Ma Sri Lanka, pono e hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻia kēlā mau kikowaena me ke aupuni a hoʻokele ʻia ma lalo o kekahi mau lula a me nā hoʻoponopono. Aia nā kūlana no nā mea e like me ka palekana o ke keiki, ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe, a me ka wahi. Akā ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻaʻole hana nā wahi āpau e like me kēia mau kūlana. No laila, ma ke ʻano he mau mākua, he mea nui e noiʻi pono kākou i kahi ma mua o ka hāʻawi ʻana i kā kākou keiki iā ia.

He aha nā ʻano mālama lā i laila?

ʻOiai ke ʻōlelo nei mākou he 'Day Care', aia kekahi mau ala e mālama ai i nā keiki. ʻAʻole kūpono nā ʻohana āpau i ke ʻano like. Pono ʻoe e koho i ka mea maikaʻi loa ma muli o kāu mau pono a me ke ʻano o kāu keiki. E nānā kākou i nā ʻano nui.

He aha nā pono o ka mālama maikaʻi ʻana i ka lā?

Aia kekahi mau pono o ka hoʻouna ʻana i kāu keiki i kahi kikowaena mālama keiki maikaʻi a maikaʻi hoʻi.

• Ke hoʻomohala ʻana i nā mākau pilikanaka: Aʻo ke keiki e pāʻani, kaʻana like, a hana pū me nā hoaaloha ʻē aʻe he nui o ka makahiki like. He mea hoʻoikaika nui kēia i nā mākau pilikanaka o ke keiki.
• Nā manawa kūpono e aʻo ai ma ke ʻano kūhelu: Me nā limahana i aʻo ʻia ma kēia kahua, hoʻokō ʻia nā hana, nā mea pāʻani, a me nā papahana kūpono i ka makahiki a kōkua i ka ulu ʻana o ka lolo.
• Ke kūpaʻa a me ka hilinaʻi: ʻO ka maʻamau, wehe ʻia kēia ʻano kikowaena i ka makahiki holoʻokoʻa (koe wale nō nā lā hoʻomaha i hoʻonohonoho ʻia). Inā maʻi nā limahana, aia kekahi e pani i ko lākou wahi, i hiki i nā mākua hana ke hana i kā lākou hana me ke keakea ʻole.
• Nā lawelawe ʻē aʻe: Hāʻawi kekahi mau wahi maikaʻi i nā papa mele, nā hana noʻeau, a pēlā aku. Hāʻawi pū lākou i nā hoʻokolohua olakino .

Aia kekahi mau pono a me nā hemahema?

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻae. E like me nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua o kahi ʻāpana kālā, hiki i kēia ʻano hana ke loaʻa nā pono a me nā hemahema. Aia nui ia i ka maikaʻi o ke kikowaena āu e koho ai.

Pehea e koho ai i kahi mālama maikaʻi no ka lā?

ʻAe, i kēia manawa ua ʻoi aku kou ʻike. No laila pehea mākou e koho ai i kahi kūpono loa no kā mākou keiki? Eia kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e kōkua iā ʻoe.

1. E hele pono e ʻike: Mai hoʻoholo wale ma muli o ka mea a kekahi e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe. E hoʻokaʻawale i hoʻokahi lā a hele i kahi nou iho. E ʻike i ke ʻano, ka maʻemaʻe, a me ke kauoha ke komo ʻoe i loko.

2. E nānā i nā kauā wahine:E nānā pono i ke ʻano o ke kamaʻilio ʻana a nā limahana ma laila me nā keiki a me ka mālama ʻana iā lākou. He ʻoluʻolu a aloha anei lākou? Pehea lākou e pane ai i ka wā e uē ai ke keiki? He mea nui loa kēia mau mea.

3. E nīnau e pili ana i ke kau inoa ʻana: Mai makaʻu e nīnau i nā nīnau e like me, "He wahi i kākau inoa ʻia e ke aupuni kēia?", "Loaʻa i kāu poʻe limahana kekahi aʻo ʻana i ka mālama keiki?"

4. E nīnau i nā mākua ʻē aʻe: Inā hiki, e kamaʻilio me kekahi mau mākua ʻē aʻe e hoʻouna mua nei i kā lākou mau keiki i kēlā wahi. He mea waiwai nui ko lākou mau ʻike iā ʻoe.

5. E noʻonoʻo i kāu mau pono: E hoʻohālikelike i nā mea e like me ke ʻano o kāu hana, kou mau hola i loaʻa, a me kāu kālā, a koho i kahi e kūpono loa iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki.

Inā he keiki kāu me nā pono kūikawā ...

Inā he mau pono kūikawā ko kāu keiki, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo ʻelua ma mua o ke koho ʻana i kahi. ʻO ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka nui o nā hola a kāu keiki e noho ai ma ke kula hānai ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomaikaʻi i ko lākou ulu ʻana. I kekahi manawa, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu keiki i ka manawa e aʻo ai e kāohi i kā lākou ʻano ma ka home a hiki i ka liʻiliʻi o hoʻokahi makahiki. I ia mau hihia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu kauka pediatric ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana.

ʻO ka mea hope loa, aia kekahi mea ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o kēia mau mea a pau.