Makaʻu anei nā keiki i nā ʻino? (Storm Stress) E kōkua kākou iā lākou!

He mea ʻē maoli ke ʻano o ke aniau a puni ka honua i kēia mau lā, ʻeā? Nui aku nā hekili koke, nā ʻino nui, a me nā makani ʻino ma mua o ka wā ma mua. No laila, i ka manawa e like me kēia, ke ʻike mākou i nā nūhou ma ke TV, lekiō, nā pāpili kaiapili, a i ka wā e pā mai ai kahi ʻino, hiki ke paʻakikī iki i kā mākou poʻe liʻiliʻi ke lawelawe. Makaʻu a hopohopo paha lākou. No laila, i kēia lā, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i nā mea hiki iā kākou ke hana e hōʻemi i ka makaʻu a me ke kaumaha i loko o ka noʻonoʻo o kā mākou mau keiki a hoʻomau iā lākou i ka mālie i ka manawa e like me kēia.

Pehea e hoʻomākaukau ai i kāu keiki liʻiliʻi ma mua o ka pā ʻana mai o ka ʻino?

Inā pilikia kou wahi i nā hekili i kekahi mau manawa o ka makahiki, e like me nā hekili kauwela a i ʻole nā ​​makani ʻino, he mea nui e kamaʻilio me kāu mau keiki e pili ana iā lākou ma mua. E wehewehe i ke ʻano o ka ʻino a me kāna mea e hiki ai ke hana ma ke ʻano kūpono i ka makahiki a maʻalahi hoʻi e hoʻomaopopo. ʻAe, e nānā kākou pehea e hiki ai iā kākou ke hana.

Eia kekahi laʻana, e noʻonoʻo:

• E pili ana i nā makani ʻino: He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ke 'hoʻoneʻe ʻana' (ʻo ia hoʻi ka haʻalele ʻana i kou home i ka wā e hiki mai ana ka ʻino a me ka hele ʻana i kahi palekana, malia paha he hale mālama ʻino i mālama ʻia e ke aupuni) a me ke 'pale ʻana ma kahi' (ʻo ia hoʻi ka noho palekana ʻana ma ka home i ka wā o ka ʻino).
• E pili ana i nā makani ʻino: E wehewehe i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka nānā ʻana i ka makani ʻino (ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki i kahi makani ʻino ke hele mai i kou wahi) a me kahi ʻōlelo aʻo makani ʻino (ʻo ia hoʻi, aia mua kahi makani ʻino i kou wahi).
• E pili ana i nā ʻino hekili: E like me nā Tornadoes, e wehewehe i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o kahi kiaʻi ʻino hekili nui a me kahi ʻōlelo aʻo ʻino hekili nui. Hiki i nā keiki ke makaʻu i ka uila a me ka hekili, ʻoiai inā lohe lākou iā ia ma kahi kokoke. Akā e haʻi iā lākou hiki iā lākou ke noho palekana ma ka noho ʻana i loko. Inā hiki ke loaʻa ka huahekili a me nā makani ikaika, e haʻi mua iā lākou i kona ʻano a me kona leo.

I ke kamaʻilio ʻana me nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi, e noʻonoʻo i kēia ʻano. ʻO ka noho ʻana i loko o ka hale i ka wā ʻino, ua like ia me ke ʻano o ka noho ʻana o nā holoholona hihiu e like me nā ʻiole a me nā manu i loko o ko lākou mau lua a me nā pūnana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i kekahi mea e like me, "E nānā, e ke keiki, e noho palekana kākou i loko o ko kākou hale e like me ka noho ʻana o kēlā ʻiole liʻiliʻi i loko o kona hale." E like me ka hōʻiliʻili ʻana o kēlā mau holoholona i ka meaʻai no nā manawa e like me kēia, hiki i kāu keiki ke koho i kahi meaʻai punahele e ʻai ai a i ʻole kahi mea pāʻani punahele e pāʻani ai i ka wā ʻino.

E haʻi aku i kāu mau keiki i kāu mea e hana nei e noho palekana ai. E wehewehe, "Ke noho mākou i loko i ka wā ʻino, ʻaʻole mākou e hele kokoke i nā puka, nā puka makani, a i ʻole nā ​​kukui o ka lani, no ka mea hiki iā lākou ke haki i ka makani." Inā he "lumi palekana" kou home hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i ka wā ʻino, e like me ka hale lua a i ʻole kahi lumi me nā puka makani ʻole, e kuhikuhi iā ia i kāu keiki a ʻōlelo, "ʻO kēia kahi e noho ai mākou i ka wā ʻino. He palekana loa ia ma ʻaneʻi."

Inā makaʻu kāu mau keiki, e nīnau iā lākou e pili ana i ia mea a paipai iā lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ko lākou manaʻo. ʻO ka haʻi ʻana aku i ko lākou mau makaʻu iā ʻoe hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻoluʻolu nui no lākou. ʻO ka ʻōlelo wale ʻana e hoʻolohe ana ʻoe iā lākou e hoʻouna mai ana i kahi leka nui. Ua maopopo iā ʻoe?

Pehea e hoʻomaha ai i nā keiki i ka wā ʻino?

Hiki i nā hekili a me nā makani ʻino ke mau no kekahi manawa. No laila, hiki i kēia mau mea ke kōkua i kāu mau keiki e mālie a hiki i ka mālie ʻana o nā mea āpau. E nānā i kēia mau mea:

• E hoʻāʻo e kaupalena i nā mea a kāu mau keiki e ʻike ai a lohe ai e pili ana i ka ʻino. ʻO nā moʻolelo a me nā kiʻi e pili ana i ka ʻino ma nā pūnaewele, nā pāpili kaiapili, ke TV, a me ke lekiō hiki ke hoʻoweliweli hou aku iā lākou. Inā ʻike ʻoe i kāu mau keiki e nānā ana, e nānā pū a e ʻae iā lākou e nīnau. Akā inā weliweli loa ka nūhou, hiki iā ʻoe ke kālele wale iā ia a kuhikuhi i kāu mau keiki i kahi mea ʻē aʻe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo i kahi mea e like me, " E , e ke keiki, hiki iā mākou ke nānā i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni i kēia manawa?"
• E lawe koʻikoʻi i nā hopohopo o kāu keiki. Hiki i nā moeʻuhane o nā keiki ke hoʻonui i ko lākou mau makaʻu. E hōʻike iā lākou ua maopopo iā ʻoe ko lākou mau manaʻo. I ka manawa like, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea e hiki ke hana maoli a pehea e mākaukau ai kou ʻohana e mālama i nā mea a pau. E ʻōlelo i nā mea e like me, "ʻAe, e ke keiki, maopopo iaʻu ua makaʻu ʻoe. Akā, aia mākou a pau i loko o kēia pū, no laila ʻaʻohe mea e makaʻu ai."
• Eia kekahi, e nānā i kou ʻano. Nānā nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua , ʻike lākou i kou ʻano, pehea ʻoe e pane ai. No laila e hoʻonoho i kahi kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi, e hoʻāʻo e noho mālie. Inā hopohopo ʻoe, e ʻoi aku ka makaʻu o nā keiki.
• E hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi hana liʻiliʻi. E ʻimi i nā hana liʻiliʻi e kūpono i ka makahiki o kāu keiki e hana ai e hoʻomākaukau no ka ʻino. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i mea e like me ka mālama ʻana i kahi kukui uila ma kahi maʻalahi e loaʻa ai i loko o ko lākou lumi, e hoʻopiha i ka ʻauʻau me ka wai (e wehewehe e hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia kēia wai no nā mea e like me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka lua inā pono), a i ʻole e mālama i kahi holoholona. Hiki i kahi mea liʻiliʻi ke waiho i kāna mau mea pāʻani a mālama paha i ka mimi o ka pōpoki. Ke mālama lākou i kahi hana, manaʻo nā keiki he mana ko lākou.
• E hāʻawi i nā manaʻo no nā hana e hoʻomālielie ai i ka noʻonoʻo.Inā hopohopo kāu keiki, e hoʻopaʻa iā lākou a kokoke iā ʻoe a i ʻole kahi holoholona. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhikuhi iā lākou e kākau e pili ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo, kaha kiʻi, a hoʻolohe paha i nā mele. E mālama i kahi kukui uila i hiki iā lākou ke heluhelu i nā puke, pāʻani i nā pāʻani, hana i nā puzzles, a hana i nā hana lima inā pio nā kukui.
• E hoʻāʻo i nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa hanu. E aʻo i kāu mau keiki pehea e lawe ai i kekahi mau 'hanu ʻōpū': E hanu i loko ma kou ihu, e hoʻonui i kou ʻōpū e like me ka pōpō ke piha. A laila e hanu i waho ma kou ihu, e hoʻopālahalaha hou i kou ʻōpū. ʻO ka hana ʻana i kēia i kekahi mau manawa hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e mālie.

Pehea e hoʻomaha ai i kahi keiki ma hope o ka makani?

Inā e hiki mai ana kahi ʻino i kou wahi, hiki ke paʻakikī iki ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāu mau keiki e pili ana i ia mea. E hoʻāʻo i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo:

• E haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. E haʻi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i ka mea i hana ʻia, akā, mai komo i nā kikoʻī e makemake ʻole ai kāu keiki. E hoʻomau i nā mea kumu. E wehewehe i nā mea e like me ko lākou mau makahiki a me ko lākou oʻo ʻana. I ka pōkole, e ʻōlelo ma ka ʻōlelo a lākou e maopopo ai.
• E nīnau i nā nīnau. Inā ʻaʻole e kamaʻilio ana nā keiki e pili ana i ka ʻino, hiki i ka nīnau ʻana ke kōkua iā lākou e komo. Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i nā nīnau e like me, "He aha kou manaʻo i ka wā i hiki mai ai ka ʻino?" Hiki paha iā lākou ke lōʻihi e hōʻike i ko lākou manaʻo, no laila e hoʻomanawanui a hoʻolohe.
• E kākoʻo i nā manaʻo o kāu keiki. Mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka manaʻo o nā keiki. Inā haʻi lākou iā ʻoe ua huhū a makaʻu paha lākou, e hana hou i kā lākou ʻōlelo: "ʻAe, maopopo iaʻu ua huhū nui ʻoe no kēia." E hōʻike kēia iā lākou e hoʻolohe ana ʻoe iā lākou a ua maopopo iā ʻoe. E hōʻoia iā lākou ua pau ka ʻino a ua palekana lākou i kēia manawa.
• E hoʻolilo i kēia i manawa kūpono e aʻo ai. Inā ua ʻoi iki aʻe kāu mau keiki, e kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ka ʻepekema ma hope o ka ʻino. A laila hiki iā lākou ke ʻike iā ia he mea nui. Hiki i kēia ke kōkua i ka hōʻemi ʻana i ko lākou makaʻu i nā ʻino e hiki mai ana. E hele pū ma ka pūnaewele a aʻo e pili ana i nā ʻino, a i ʻole e kiʻi i nā puke aniau mai ka hale waihona puke. Hiki i nā keiki ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia me kā lākou kumu ʻepekema.

Pehea ʻoe e hoʻi ai i ke ola maʻamau ma hope o ka ʻino?

Hiki ke lōʻihi ka manawa e hoʻōla ai mai kahi ʻino, ʻoiai inā ua hōʻino ʻia kou home a i ʻole kou kaiāulu. Eia kekahi mau mea e hiki ke kōkua:

• E hoʻi i nā hana maʻamau. ʻO ka mālama ʻana i nā hana maʻamau, e like me ka ʻai ʻana a me ka wā hiamoe, kōkua i nā keiki e noho maʻamau. Hāʻawi kēia iā lākou i kahi manaʻo palekana.
• E hōʻike i nā keiki e kōkua ana.E kuhikuhi i nā poʻe o kou kaiāulu e kōkua ana, e like me nā mākaʻi, nā mea kinai ahi, nā limahana lawelawe, nā hoalauna, a me nā malihini. E ʻōlelo i nā mea e like me, "E nānā i ka ikaika o kēlā poʻe e hana nei e hoʻihoʻi iā mākou i ko mākou mau wāwae."
• Kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Inā palekana, e ʻimi i nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe a me kāu keiki ke kōkua i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma kou kaiāulu ma hope o ka ʻino. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻoikaika i nā keiki a hoʻomau iā lākou i ka hana. No ka laʻana, ʻo kahi mea liʻiliʻi e like me ke kōkua ʻana i kahi hoalauna e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ko lākou pā hale hiki ke hana i kahi ʻokoʻa nui.

He aha hou aʻe kā mākou e pono ai e ʻike?

Inā hōʻike kāu keiki i nā loli i ke ʻano (e like me ka hiamoe ʻole a ʻai maikaʻi ʻole paha, ʻaʻole makemake e noho kokoke i nā kānaka, a i ʻole ka hopohopo mau), e kāhea i kā lākou kauka a i ʻole kekahi mea mālama ola kino. Hiki iā lākou ke kōkua i ka hoʻokele ʻana i ka hopohopo o kāu keiki a kōkua iā lākou e ʻoluʻolu e pili ana iā lākou iho.

ʻAʻohe hewa o ke noi ʻana i ke kōkua i ka manawa e like me kēia. Hōʻike ia i kou aloha nui i kāu keiki.

Inā pilikia kāu keiki i ke aʻo ʻana a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ma hope o ka ʻino, hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me nā kākāʻōlelo kula, nā limahana, a me nā kumu . Hiki iā lākou ke hōʻoia e loaʻa ana i kāu keiki ke kākoʻo e pono ai lākou ma ke kula.

ʻO ka mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai kākou

E noʻonoʻo, ʻaʻole wale kahi ʻino nui he kaumaha no nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi, akā no kākou pū kekahi. Akā me ko kākou aloha, ka nānā ʻana, a me ka hoʻomākaukau maʻalahi, hiki iā kākou ke hōʻoluʻolu i ka makaʻu i loko o kā kākou mau keiki. ʻO ka hoʻolohe ʻana i ko lākou mau manaʻo, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā lākou, a me ka noho pū ʻana me lākou ka mea nui loa. E hoʻomanaʻo, hele mai nā ʻino a hele aku, akā ʻo ka ikaika a me ka lokahi o ko kākou ʻohana ka mea waiwai nui ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. Inā he mau nīnau hou kāu e pili ana i kēia, mai makaʻu e nīnau i ke kauka a i ʻole he loea ma kēia wahi. ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi!

ʻO ke kaumaha no ka ʻino, ke olakino noʻonoʻo o nā keiki , ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana no ka ʻino, ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻana i nā keiki, nā pōʻino o ke aniau, nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka makua, ka hopohopo