Kev sib txuas lus nrog koj tus menyuam hnub nyoog 6-12 xyoos - cia peb kawm cov yam tseem ceeb no.

Koj tus menyuam tam sim no mus kawm ntawv lawm. Maj mam zuj zus, lawv pib ua haujlwm ntawm lawv tus kheej, siv sijhawm ntau dua sab nraum lub tsev, uas yog, ntawm tsev kawm ntawv, nrog lawv cov phooj ywg. Tej zaum koj xav tias, "Auj, tam sim no nws loj hlob tuaj, nws yuav nyob ib leeg xwb." Tab sis, txhawm rau kom muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm koj thiab koj tus menyuam, nws tseem ceeb heev rau kev sib pauv tswv yim, kev xav, thiab cov ntaub ntawv, puas yog? Los ntawm kev sib tham no uas tus menyuam tsim kev ntseeg siab uas nws tuaj yeem qhia txhua yam uas nyob hauv nws lub siab, nws txoj kev zoo siab, kev tu siab, thiab teeb meem nrog koj.

Koj yuav ua li cas thiaj txhim kho kev sib txuas lus nrog koj tus menyuam?

Yog li ntawd, muaj ob peb yam me me uas peb ua tau los ua kom kev sib tham nrog ib tug menyuam kawm ntawv muaj kev vam meej dua. Cia peb saib seb lawv yog dab tsi.

• Nrhiav sijhawm los nug txog koj tus menyuam hnub no: Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Thaum koj tus menyuam los tsev los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv, lossis thaum noj hmo, nug tias, "Koj hnub no zoo li cas?" Tsis txhob tsuas yog nug thiab tig mus rau lwm qhov. Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum xav tias koj txaus siab thiab mloog tiag tiag. Co taub hau rau qhov lawv hais, lossis teb nrog cov lus nug me me xws li, "Auj, puas yog?" lossis "Muaj dab tsi tshwm sim tom ntej?" tuaj yeem pab tau heev.

• Tham nrog koj tus menyuam, tsis txhob qhia rau koj tus menyuam: Qhov no yog ib yam dab tsi uas ntau tus niam txiv ua. Peb yuav muab ib lub hnab lus qhia rau peb tus menyuam hais tias "tsis txhob ua li no", "ua li ntawd". Tab sis, hloov chaw, tham nrog tus menyuam sib npaug zos. Cia nws muaj nws lub tswv yim. Xav txog, thaum Nimal rov qab los tsev kawm ntawv, nws tus tub Amal nug ntau lo lus nug xws li, 'Tus kws qhia lej hais li cas hnub no? Koj puas tau sau tag nrho koj cov haujlwm hauv tsev? Koj puas tsis tau tawm mus ua si?' Amal teb 'yog', 'tsis yog' thiab mus rau nws chav. Tab sis, yog tias Nimal nug hauv txoj kev sib txawv me ntsis, 'Tub, koj hnub no zoo li cas? Puas muaj dab tsi tshwj xeeb tshwm sim hauv tsev kawm ntawv?' nrog luag nyav, Amal kuj xav qhia nws cov khoom nrog nws txiv. Yog li ntawd peb yuav tsum tham nrog peb cov menyuam.

• Nug cov lus nug uas dhau ntawm "yog/tsis yog": Tsuas yog nug tias, "Hnub no tsev kawm ntawv puas zoo?" tsuas yog yuav tau txais cov lus teb "yog" lossis "tsis yog". Hloov chaw, nug cov lus nug uas ua rau koj tus menyuam xav piav qhia ntxiv me ntsis. Piv txwv li:
• "Dab tsi yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj plaws uas tau tshwm sim hauv tsev kawm ntawv hnub no?"
• "Koj nyiam zaj lus qhia twg tshaj plaws hnub no? Qhia rau kuv paub yog vim li cas."
• "Koj puas tau ntsib ib tug phooj ywg tshiab hnub no?"
• "Koj puas tau pab leej twg hnub no?"

Thaum koj nug cov lus nug zoo li no, tus me nyuam yuav xav qhia ntxiv, puas yog?

• Siv lub sijhawm me me los ua kom zoo dua: Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias, "Auj, kuv tsis muaj sijhawm nrog kuv tus menyuam tham." Tab sis tsis txhob xav li ntawd. Koj tuaj yeem tham nrog koj tus menyuam thaum tsav tsheb mus kawm ntawv, tos kab ntawm lub khw, lossis thaum ntxuav zaub. Cov sijhawm me me ntawd muaj nqis heev.

• Ua haujlwm thiab ua si ua ke:Mus koom koj tus menyuam lub tsev kawm ntawv cov kev ua si nawv thiab cov suab paj nruag. Sib sau ua ke hauv tsev thiab ua si me ntsis, kos duab, lossis ua noj. Thaum koj ua tej yam no, kev sib tham yuav tshwm sim. Koj tuaj yeem tham txog yam uas tab tom tshwm sim hauv ntiaj teb, txawm tias qee yam uas koj pom hauv ntawv xov xwm.

• Txhawb koj tus menyuam nyeem cov phau ntawv uas nyuaj dua li lawv lub hnub nyoog me ntsis: Kev cia lawv nyeem cov phau ntawv thiab cov dab neeg uas nyuaj dua li lawv qib kev nkag siab me ntsis yuav pab txhim kho lawv cov lus thiab kev txawj lus. Tab sis tsis txhob yuam lawv. Txhawb kom lawv nyeem nrog kev zoo siab.

Cov menyuam yaus thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no siv lo lus thiab cov qauv sib txuas lus hloov pauv li cas?

Thaum cov menyuam pib mus kawm ntawv, lawv lub peev xwm nkag siab thiab siv lus maj mam zoo zuj zus. Qhia meej dua, lawv cov lus hais yuav nyuaj dua thiab muaj laj thawj ntau dua.

Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no nkag siab ntau lo lus thiab lub ntsiab lus dua li lawv hais tau los ntawm kev hais lus. Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm piav qhia ib zaj dab neeg hauv ib txoj kev piav qhia , uas yog, piav qhia txog ib qho xwm txheej ua ntu zus txij thaum pib mus txog thaum xaus. Lawv kuj yuav tsum muaj peev xwm qhia lawv cov kev xav thiab kev xav kom meej thiab hauv txoj kev uas lwm tus nkag siab. Cov lus uas lawv siv kuj nce ntxiv, thiab lawv cov kab lus ntev dua me ntsis.

Thaum twg peb yuav tsum nrhiav kev pab? Peb yuav ua li cas thiaj paub tias muaj teeb meem?

Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam zoo ib yam. Muaj ib txhia menyuam hais lus tau zoo thiab qhia tau lawv tus kheej sai sai. Lwm tus siv sijhawm ntev me ntsis. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj qee yam uas peb yuav tsum ceev faj me ntsis.

Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog nrog koj tus menyuam tus xib fwb tham tsis tu ncua txog lawv cov txuj ci lus, uas yog, txoj kev uas lawv hais lus thiab nkag siab tej yam. Vim tias cov menyuam uas muaj teeb meem nkag siab thiab siv lus feem ntau yuav muaj teeb meem kev kawm .

Nyob twj ywm sib txuas lus nrog tus xib fwb.

Tus xib fwb yog tus uas pom ntau tshaj plaws txog koj tus menyuam tus cwj pwm hauv chav kawm, lawv sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus menyuam li cas, thiab lawv nkag siab cov lus qhia li cas. Yog li ntawd, nrog tus xib fwb tham tsis tu ncua txog koj tus menyuam cov txuj ci lus thiab kev nce qib. Yog tias muaj teeb meem, nws yuav pab txheeb xyuas nws thaum ntxov.

Koj puas xav tau kev pab los ntawm tus kws kho mob hais lus?

Qee zaum, yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj teeb meem hais lus tshwj xeeb, xws li hais lus tsis meej , lossis hais lus tsis meej, piv txwv li, tsab ntawv 's' suab zoo li 'th', lossis tsab ntawv 'r' nyuaj hais lus (lisp) , koj yuav tsum xa lawv mus rau tus kws kho mob hais lus hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Cov no yog cov kws tshwj xeeb uas soj ntsuam thiab kho cov teeb meem hais lus thiab lus. Lawv tuaj yeem nrhiav tau qhov teeb meem ntawm tus menyuam thiab sau cov kev kho mob thiab kev tawm dag zog kom raug.

Yog tias yog li ntawd, nrog tus kws kho mob tham tsis tu ncua txog lub hom phiaj ntawm kev kho mob, cov kev ua ub no hais lus twg yuav tsum xyaum hauv tsev, thiab koj tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob li cas. Koj txoj kev txhawb nqa tseem ceeb heev rau koj tus menyuam.

Cov xwm txheej uas yuav tsum tau kuaj xyuas kom meej

Yog tias koj tus menyuam tus xib fwb xav tias nws muaj teeb meem kev kawm lus , lawv yuav tsum tau ua ntau yam kev ntsuam xyuas kom paub qhov teeb meem. Cov no tuaj yeem pab txheeb xyuas koj tus menyuam lub zog thiab qhov tsis muaj zog. Cov no feem ntau suav nrog:

• Kev ntsuam xyuas kev hnov ​​lus: Qee zaum, ib tug me nyuam yuav muaj teeb meem hais lus lossis nkag siab vim lawv hnov ​​tsis tau zoo. Yog vim li ntawd qhov kev ntsuam xyuas no thiaj li tseem ceeb.
• Kev ntsuam xyuas kev kawm txog lub hlwb: Qhov no suav nrog kev tshuaj xyuas tus menyuam txoj kev kawm thiab cov txheej txheem kev txawj ntse los ntawm kev xeem txheem. Qhov no tuaj yeem muab daim duab meej txog tus menyuam lub zog thiab qhov tsis muaj zog.
• Kev ntsuam xyuas kev hais lus: Tus kws kho kev hais lus yuav ntsuam xyuas tus menyuam lub peev xwm hais lus ntau txoj kev.

Raws li cov ntaub ntawv tau los ntawm cov kev xeem no, kev txiav txim siab txog kev pab tshwj xeeb uas tus menyuam xav tau yog dab tsi.

Muaj teeb meem dab tsi uas pom tau hauv kev sib txuas lus?

Tam sim no cia peb saib qee qhov teeb meem uas ib tug me nyuam yuav muaj thaum nws los txog rau kev hais lus. Yog tias koj pom tias koj tus me nyuam muaj ib lossis ob qho ntawm cov no, nws yog ib lub tswv yim zoo kom txhawj me ntsis thiab tham nrog tus xib fwb lossis tus kws kho mob.

• Teeb meem hnov ​​lus.
• Nyuaj siab mloog thiab ua raws li cov lus qhia hauv chav kawm (piv txwv li, zoo li tsis mloog tus xib fwb hais).
• Qhov tsis muaj zog hauv kev nco qab tej yam uas hnov ​​​​thiab hais.
• Kev loj hlob ntawm cov lus tsis zoo heev, thiab tsis muaj kev txaus siab kawm cov lus tshiab.
• Teeb meem nrog cov qauv sau ntawv thiab cov qauv lus . Uas yog, nyuaj hais lus nrog cov kab lus kom raug.
• Nyuaj siab qhia tawm cov tswv yim lossis piav ib zaj dab neeg raws li txoj kev npaj (Kev piav qhia zaj dab neeg) . Thaum piav ib zaj dab neeg, nws raug piav qhia ntawm no thiab qhov ntawd yam tsis muaj kev txiav txim.
• Teeb meem nrog kev kawm, tshwj xeeb yog nyeem ntawv thiab sau ntawv.
• Zaj dab neeg tsis meej, ua rau lwm tus nyuaj nkag siab.
• Hais lus tsis meej los yog hais lus tsis meej tas li.

Yog tias muaj ib lossis ntau yam ntawm cov tsos mob no tseem muaj, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los nrhiav kev pab tswv yim los ntawm kws tshaj lij.

Peb puas yuav tsum txhawj xeeb txog cov teeb meem zoo ntawm lub suab?

Qee zaum koj yuav pom tias koj tus menyuam lub suab hloov pauv. Piv txwv li, lub suab yuav dhau los ua suab qaj (qaug zog) , ua pa nrov (ua pa tsis taus) , lossis suab tawg lossis ntxhib (raspiness).Nws yog ib qho ib txwm muaj tej yam zoo li no tshwm sim ib lossis ob zaug thaum koj mob khaub thuas. Tab sis yog tias koj lub suab hloov pauv tas li li no, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws mus ntsib kws kho mob pob ntseg thiab nrhiav kev pab kho mob. Vim tias nws yuav yog qhov teeb meem me me ntawm cov hlab suab.

Yog li ntawd, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov yog dab tsi? (Cov Lus Coj Mus Tsev)

Saib seb, yog koj pom tias koj tus menyuam muaj teeb meem hais lus, tsis txhob ntshai. Nws tsis yog qhov kawg ntawm lub ntiaj teb. Cov kws kho mob hais lus , lwm tus kws kho mob, thiab koj tus kws kho mob tsev neeg npaj txhij los pab koj thiab koj tus menyuam kov yeej cov teeb meem no.

Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom paub txog qhov teeb meem sai sai thiab xa mus rau tus neeg zoo. Tsis tas li ntawd, kev nrog koj tus menyuam tham nrog kev hlub, kev txaus siab, thiab kev ua siab ntev yog qhov tseem ceeb heev tsis yog rau lawv txoj kev loj hlob lus xwb, tab sis kuj rau lawv txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus cwj pwm tag nrho. Koj cov lus, koj txoj kev mloog tuaj yeem ua rau lub ntiaj teb ntawm tus menyuam zoo nkauj dua. Yog li, pib hnub no, cia peb tham nrog peb cov menyuam ntxiv me ntsis?

Kev sib txuas lus, menyuam yaus, kev sib tham, kev txhim kho lus, hnub nyoog kawm ntawv, kev kho kev hais lus, teeb meem kev kawm