Wi go tɔk bɔt aw dɛn de trit pikin dɛn bad? Yu pikin sɛf nɔ de pan denja?

Tide wi go tɔk bɔt wan tɔpik we rili sɛnsitiv ɛn impɔtant. Dat na pikin abiuz, ɔ as wi kin se na Inglish, ``Child Abuse''. I at fɔ yɛri dis, bɔt if wi no bɔt dis, dat go ɛp wi fɔ protɛkt wi pikin dɛn bɔku. So lɛ wi si wetin i bi, aw i kin apin, ɛn wetin wi nid fɔ du.

Wetin na dis pikin abiuz?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin na fɔ du bad to pikin bay wilful ɔ fɔ nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to am . I sɔri fɔ no se bɔku tɛm, na pɔsin we di pikin sabi gud gud wan kin du dis abiuz. Dis kin bi mama ɔ papa, yu fambul we de nia yu, pɔsin we de kia fɔ am, ɔ yu famili padi. Insay bɔku kɔntri dɛn lɛk Amɛrika, di lɔ dɛn bɔt aw fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin dɛn se ɛnibɔdi we dɛn want fɔ du bad ɔ trit pikin we nɔ rich 18 ia yet, na fɔ du bad ɛn na kriminal ɔfens. Wan ɔda nem fɔ dis na Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). If dɛn nɔ trit dɛn kayn tin ya fayn, dɛn kin afɛkt di pikin in wɛlbɔdi ɛn wɛl-at fɔ di res ɔf in layf. Tink bɔt aw sɔntin we kin apin we dɛn smɔl kin afɛkt dɛn fɔ ɔl dɛn layf.

Sɔm statystik dɛn bɔt vaylɛns agens pikin dɛn

Dis kin apin mɔ pas aw wi kin tink. Fɔ ɛgzampul, dɛn se insay 2021, na Amɛrika nɔmɔ, na lɛk 600,000 pikin dɛn bin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit. Insay da sem ia de, 1,820 pikin dɛn bin day bikɔs dɛn bin de trit dɛn bad ɛn dɛn nɔ bin de kia fɔ dɛn. Dɛn statystik ya de mek pɔsin fred, nɔto so?

Yu tink se dis na siriɔs tin we de agens di lɔ?

Yɛs, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin na kraym ɔnda di lɔ. Dipen pan aw di kraym bad, di prɔsɛkyuta dɛn kin tek am se na misdemeanor ɔ as felony . Bɔt dɛn kin tek bɔku pan di kraym dɛn we dɛn kin du we dɛn de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin dɛn as siriɔs bad tin.

Us kayn fɛt-fɛt kin apin to pikin dɛn?

Di bad we aw dɛn de trit pikin dɛn kin kam difrɛn we dɛn. Lɛ wi luk di men kayn dɛn:

Di bad we aw dɛn de trit pikin dɛn wit bɔdi

Dis inklud fɔ bit, push, bit, kik, shek, ɛn bɔn pikin. I inklud bak fɔ nɔ gi pikin tin fɔ it ɔ drink, ɔ fɔ nɔ alaw dɛn fɔ yuz tɔylɛt. Imajin aw smɔl pikin nɔ go ebul fɔ du natin if dis apin to dɛn.

Abiuz pikin wit filin

Bɔku tɛm dis kin apin tru wɔd dɛn . Sɔm ɛgzampul dɛn na fɔ kɔl pɔsin ɔltɛm, fɔ blem pɔsin, fɔ fos pɔsin fɔ du tin dɛn we i nɔ ebul fɔ bia, fɔ trɛtin am, ɛn fɔ ala. Sɔntɛnde, ivin if wund na in bɔdi wɛl, i kin tek lɔng tɛm fɔ mek di wund dɛn we de na di at wɛl.

Dɛn kin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin dɛn

Dis na tin we rili siriɔs. Dis kin min fɔ rep pikin, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit in fambul, fɔ du bad bad tin to am, fɔ de nekɛd, fɔ yuz pikin fɔ wach rud rud pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn, ɔ fɔ mek pikin si rud rud pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn . Dɛn kayn tin ya kin tɔn pikin in wan ol layf ɔpsayd.

Medikal pikin abiuz

Dis kin tan lɛk se i strenj smɔl, bɔt i kin apin. Dat min se, fɔ tray fɔ mek pikin sik bay wilful, ɔ nɔ fɔ trit pikin in sik.

Pikin we dɛn nɔ de kia fɔ

Fɔ mek pikin nɔ gɛt di tin dɛn we i nid fɔ it, say fɔ slip, fɔ lan buk, fɔ kia fɔ am, ɛn fɔ sɔpɔt am pan aw i de fil, na abiuz bak . If pikin nɔ gɛt ivin dɛn tin ya we i nid, dat kin rili afɛkt in divɛlɔpmɛnt.

Fɔ spank pikin na abiuz bak?

Dis na tɔpik we pipul dɛn kin agyu bɔt bɔku tɛm. Difrɛn opinion dɛn de bɔt if fɔ spank pikin fɔ kɔrɛkt am na abiuz ɔ nɔto abiuz. Sɔm kɔntri dɛn gɛt difrɛn lɔ dɛn bɔt dis. Bɔt if di spank mek di pikin wund, brus, swel, ɔ pwɛl in skin, i go mɔs bi se na abiuz. Risach dɔn sho se we pɔsin de bit pikin, dat kin mek i nɔ ebul fɔ liv wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Mɔtalman, i kin mek pikin nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ rɛspɛkt fɔ insɛf, i kin mek i nɔ ebul fɔ lan buk, ɛn i kin mek dɛn nɔ gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit in famili wik. Bifo yu spank pikin, aks yusɛf dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya:

• A de du dis fɔ tich di pikin sɔntin ɔ fɔ mek i fred?
• Di pikin no se a lɛk dis pikin?
• Us lɛsin a de tray fɔ tich dis pikin?
• A go ebul fɔ gladi fɔ dis disayd leta?

Fɔ no mɔ bɔt aw fɔ kɔrɛkt pɔsin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi, tɔk to yu pikin in dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn.

Aw mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin kin afɛkt am?

Risach pipul dɛn dɔn no sɔm tin dɛn we kin apin to pikin dɛn we dɛn kin du bad to. Sɔm bihayvya kin izi fɔ notis, fɔ ɛgzampul:

• Tray fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs di we we nɔ fayn.
• Bɔrku tɛm fɔ kɔmplen na yu bɔdi lɛk bɛlɛ at ɛn ed pen .
• Fɔ bigin fɔ du tin dɛn we yu bin de du we yu bin smɔl bak, lɛk fɔ sok yu finga ɛn fɔ wet yu bed .
• Fɔ rɔnawe kɔmɔt na os.
• Fɔ du bad to yusɛf (e.g., fɔ kɔt yusɛf).
• Fɔ sho big chenj dɛn na di we aw pɔsin de biev.

Sɔm ɔda sayn dɛm kin at fɔ no smɔl:

• Fɔ wɔri ɛn pwɛl at .
• I nɔ izi fɔ lan ɛn fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan sɔntin.
• Sho di simptom dɛm fɔ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
• I nɔ kin ebul fɔ divɛlɔp di we aw pɔsin de fil.
• Nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ ɔnɔ fɔ yusɛf.
• Bad drim dɛn we pɔsin kin drim ɔltɛm .
• Tin fɔ tink bɔt fɔ kil insɛf ɔ fɔ tray fɔ kil insɛf.

If yu si sayn dɛm lɛk dis, yu fɔ wɔri.

Udat de pan denja pas ɔl fɔ lɛ dɛn buli am?

Sɔm pikin dɛn kin de pan denja fɔ mek dɛn trit dɛn bad ɛn nɔ de kia fɔ dɛn pas ɔda wan dɛn. Dɛn tin ya we kin mek pɔsin gɛt prɔblɛm na:

• Pikin dɛn we de liv na po (di rit we dɛn de du bad to pikin dɛn na fayv tɛm pas di pikin dɛn we kɔmɔt na famili dɛn we gɛt mɔni we nɔ pas di nashɔnal po lɛvɛl).
• Pikin dɛn we nɔ rich 4 ia yet .
• Pikin dɛn we gɛt spɛshal nid .

Dis nɔ min se dɛn nɔ de buli ɔda pikin dɛn, bɔt i min se pikin dɛn we de na dɛn kategori ya kin gɛt mɔ prɔblɛm.

Aw yu no se dɛn de trit pikin bad?

Sayn dɛn we de sho se dɛn de trit pikin bad nɔ kin klia ɔltɛm. Yu kin notis fɔs se yu pikin de biev chenj. Ɔ dɛn kin biev difrɛn we we sɔm tin dɛn apin. If di we aw pikin de biev ɔ di we aw i de biev chenj fɔ no rizin, dat kin bi sayn fɔ se dɛn dɔn trit am bad . Na sɔm ɔda sayn dɛn ya:

Di tin dɛn we pɔsin kin du wit in bɔdi:

• Wan we luk dɔti ɛn we dɛn nɔ de tek tɛm wit.
• Fɔ gɛt brus, kɔt, wund , ɔ prɔblɛm wit yu skin we nɔ de wɛl we yu nɔ ɛksplen.
• Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit mɛrɛsin ɔ dɛn tit we dɛn nɔ trit.
• Fɔ gɛt pen na di say we yu de bɔn.
• Blɔd we de kɔmɔt na di vagina pas we yu de gɛt mɔnt .
• Dischaj ɔ pen we nɔ kɔmɔn.

Di kayn we aw pɔsin de tink/bihayvya:

• Fɔ fred wan ɔ dɛn ɔl tu mama ɛn papa, ɔ fɔ di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ di pikin (e.g., pɔsin we de kia fɔ di pikin, di wan dɛn we de wok na di daykɛr sɛnta, ticha dɛn, kɔch dɛn).
• Fɔ fred fɔ wan patikyula wok ɔ ples.
• Kray ɔltɛm, ɔ kray di tɛm we nɔ fayn.
• Rigrɛshɔn na fɔ go bak to di we aw i bin de biev we i bin smɔl.
• Fɔ biev difrɛn frɔm ɔda pikin dɛn, mɔ if na chenj wantɛm wantɛm.
• Fɔ nɔ de na skul ɔltɛm.
• Fɔ de yu wan ɛn fɔ de fa frɔm ɔda pipul dɛn.
• Fɔ buli ɔda pikin dɛn ɔ di wan dɛn we yɔŋ pas dɛnsɛf, ɔ ɔda pipul dɛn de buli dɛn.
• I nɔ izi fɔ lan ɛn fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan sɔntin.
• Fɔ avɔyd fɔ tɔch big pipul dɛn, yu kɔmpin dɛn, ɔ pipul dɛn we dɔn ol pas yu bɔdi.
• Fɔ tray fɔ du tin tumɔs, ɔ fɔ tray fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn gladi tumɔs.
• Di we aw pɔsin de biev ɔ tɔk we nɔ kɔmɔn, we de mek pɔsin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, mɔ di wan we i tan lɛk se i machɔ pasmak ɔ i de tɔk bad bɔt am.

Wi nid fɔ rili tek tɛm we wi de si tin dɛn lɛk dis.

Udat de du dɛn bad bad tin ya?

Bɔku tɛm, di pɔsin we de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit di pikin na pɔsin we sabi di pikin ɛn we de nia di pikin. Fɔ ɛgzampul:

• Mama ɔ papa ɔ ɔda pɔsin na di famili.
• Wan famili padi.
• Sɔmbɔdi fɔ kia fɔ di pikin.
• Ɛnibɔdi we de nia di pikin (ticha, kɔch, rilijɔn lida).
• Pipul dɛn kɔmpin dɛn ɔ big pikin dɛn we dɛnsɛf dɔn buli ɛn afta dat dɛn kin falamakata dɛn tin dɛn de bak.

Dis na di pat we de mek wi at pwɛl pas ɔl pan dis. Dɛn tin ya kin apin to di sem pipul dɛn we trɔst di pikin.

Wetin mek pipul dɛn kin du dis to pikin dɛn?

Bɔku rizin dɛn de we mek pɔsin kin du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin:

• Fɔ gɛt istri bɔt aw dɛn bin dɔn du bad to dɛnsɛf: Mama ɛn papa ɔ ɔda big pipul dɛn we de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin dɛn, dɛn kin dɔn du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit dɛnsɛf we dɛn bin smɔl. Dɔn bak, bikɔs dɛn bin de trit dɛnsɛf bad, sɔm kin want fɔ wach we dɛn de trit dɛn pikin dɛn bad. Bɔt, nɔto ɔl pipul dɛn we dɛn de trit de trit ɔda pipul dɛn bad. Bɔku pan dɛn nɔ kin du bad to pikin dɛn.
• I nɔ kin izi fɔ kia fɔ pikin dɛn: Sɔm big pipul dɛn kin du bad to dɛn pikin dɛn bikɔs dɛn nɔ no aw fɔ kɔrɛkt dɛn ɔ bikɔs dɛn nɔ de tink se dɛn pikin go biev .
• Manejmɛnt fɔ vɛks: Sɔm pipul dɛn we de trit dɛn bad na pipul dɛn we kin vɛks we sɔntin nɔ apin. Dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn famili, mɔni, wok, ɔ padi biznɛs. Dat pwɛl at ɛn vɛks kin mek pɔsin biev lɛk fɛt-fɛt. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin si di pikin as di pɔsin we gɛt di prɔblɛm, so dɛn kin tɛmpt dɛn fɔ du tin agens di pikin.
• Mental hεlth kכndyushכn wae dεn nכ trit: Pipul dεm wae gεt pwεl hat, wae dεn de yuse sכbstεns, כ dεn gεt dεn pwεl hat sik dεm kin gεt bכku bכku wan wae dεn kin trit dεm wit pikin.

If yu dɔn du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin ɔ yu dɔn si sayn dɛn fɔ se dɛn dɔn du bad to pikin, duya go to ɛp frɔm wan lokal mental wɛlbɔdi ɛjɛnsy. Fɔ gɛt ɛp kin ɛp fɔ mek di pikin nɔ gɛt ɔ ridyus di trauma we go de fɔ lɔng tɛm.

Aw dɔktɔ kin no dɛn sik ya?

Di dɔktɔ go tek tɛm chɛk di pikin, ɛn luk fɔ sayn dɛn we de sho se dɛn dɔn du bad to am na in bɔdi ɛn aw i de biev. Distrikt ɔ provinsial ɔtoriti dɛn kin tek pat bak pan dis invɛstishɔn. Di diagnosis kin inklud:

• Fɔ chɛk yu bɔdi.
• Lab test (lɛk blɔd, urine test).
• X-ray ɔ ɔda tɛst dɛn we dɛn kin du fɔ tek pikchɔ.

Di tim fɔ diagnostik go bak:

• Aks bɔt di pikin in mεdikal εn divεlכpmεnt histri.
• Wach aw di pikin de biev ɛn aw i de tɔk to in mama ɛn papa ɔ di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ am.
• Tɔk wit mama ɛn papa ɔ di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn.
• If i pɔsibul, tɔk to di pikin.

Wetin na di tritmɛnt fɔ pikin we dɛn dɔn du bad to?

If pikin gɛt injury na in bɔdi, i tan lɛk se i nɔ no natin, ɔ i nɔ no natin, i kin nid fɔ go to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm . Fɔ fala yu dɔktɔ ɔ go to spɛshal dɔktɔ as nid de. Bɔku tɛm, pikin dɛn we dɛn dɔn du bad kin nid fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ kia fɔ dɛn maynd . Kɔnsul ɛn saykotɛrapi kin ɛp fɔ mek dɛn nɔ du bad to dɛn tumara bambay ɛn fɔ ridyus di damej we go de fɔ lɔng tɛm. We dɛn de du saykotɛrapi sɛshɔn, .Wan mental wɛlbɔdi advaysa de tich pikin dɛm fɔ gɛt kɔnfidɛns, bil dɛn sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt, ɛn tich dɛm wɛlbɔdi rilayshɔnship ɛn kɔnflikt mɛnejɛmɛnt strateji.

Mɛmba se, di tritmɛnt kin bɛnifit mama ɛn papa dɛn bak. I kin ɛp dɛn fɔ bia wit di tin we de apin, fɔ no di men tin dɛn we mek dɛn de trit dɛn bad, ɛn lan aw fɔ mɛn pikin dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi.

Aw yu kin ripɔt di we aw dɛn de trit pikin dɛn bad?

If yu si sayn dɛn we de sho se dɛn de du bad to pikin, ɔ if i de apin na yu os, tek akshɔn wantɛm wantɛm .

• Tɔk to yu pikin: Tɔk to yu pikin if yu notis se i dɔn chenj in abit, ɔ if i bigin fɔ biev nyu we we de mek i vɛks. Di kɔmyunikeshɔn opin, padi biznɛs (insay wɛlbɔdi bɔda) go mek yu pikin trɔst yu ɛn fil fayn fɔ tɛl yu if i fil se i nɔ sef. Tɛl yu pikin dɛn se dɛn nɔ fɔ fred fɔ tɛl yu tin dɛn, ilɛksɛf dɛn tink se i go mek pɔsin fil bad.

• Aks fɔ ɛp: Nɔ mek fred ɔ shem stɔp yu fɔ aks fɔ ɛp. We yu ripɔt di abiuz to di ɔfisa dɛn, dɛn nɔ go sheb yu nem wit yu fambul ɔ di pɔsin we gɛt fɔ du wit am. If yu tink se dɛn de trit pikin bad, kɔl ɔ kɔntakt:
• If di pikin de pan denja wantɛm wantɛm , kɔl 119 (Sri Lanka in polis imejensi nɔmba).
• Yu lokal pikin protɛkshɔn ɔtoriti, polis, ɔ ɔspitul .
• Di hotlayn nɔmba fɔ di Nashɔnal Child Rayt Promoshɔn Biuro (NCPA) na 1929. Dis de wok 24 awa ɛvride.
• Wan dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn kin rifer yu bak if dɛn du bad to pikin.
• Wan pɔsin we de advays pɔsin bɔt rilijɔn ɔ bɔt Gɔd biznɛs kin advays ɛn sɔpɔt am.

Yu fɔ du dɛn tin ya bak:

• Kip di pikin fa frɔm di pɔsin we de du am te dɛn tɛl di ɔfisa dɛn.
• Ɛni padi biznɛs wit da pɔsin de tumara bambay fɔ de ɔnda yu sɔpɔtishɔn.
• Nɔ ɛva trɛtin pɔsin we dɛn tink se de du bad ɔ tek di lɔ na yu yon an.

If yu biliv se yu dɔn du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pikin, ɔ yu de pan denja fɔ mek dɛn du yu bad:

• Tɔk to yu padi, yu fambul, ɛn pɔsin we sabi bɔt wɛlbɔdi biznɛs.
• Mek shɔ se di pikin sef ɛn de fa frɔm yu dis tɛm.
• Fɛn advaysa we go ɔndastand aw yu de fil ɛn ɛp yu fɔ wok wit dɛn.

Wetin na dis ‘child abuse clearance’? (Wetin na pikin abiuz kliarens?)

‘Child abuse clearance’ na prɔses we de ɛp pɔsin fɔ pruv se i nɔto kriminal. Insay sɔm kɔntri dɛn, mama ɛn papa dɛn we de mɛn pikin dɛn nid dis kayn kliarens. Dɔn bak, if yu want fɔ wok wit pikin dɛn ɔ fɔ volontia, yu kin nid dis ‘child abuse clearance’. Dis na pat pan di aplikeshɔn we de ɛp di wan dɛn we de gi dɛn wok fɔ pik di rayt wokman dɛn. Dɛn lɔ ya kin difrɛn frɔm wan kɔntri to ɔda kɔntri.

Wetin go bi di pikin dɛn we dɛn dɔn du bad to tumara bambay?

Pikin dɛn we dɛn de buli kin gɛt dɛn tin ya:

• Injury kwik kwik wan, lɛk fɔ kɔt, brus, ɛn brok bon.
• Injury dɛn we kin apin bɔku tɛm.
• Di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we pɔsin de lan.
• Prɔblɛm dɛn we de pan aw pɔsin de fil, aw i de fil, ɛn aw i de biev, lɛk fɔ fil bad.
• Wɔri ɛn prɔblɛm wit sɔshal skil dɛm.
• Fɔ fred sɔm big pipul dɛn ɔ sɔm ples dɛn.

If dɛn nɔ trit am, di bad we aw dɛn de trit pikin dɛn kin afɛkt pikin dɛn fɔ lɔng tɛm. Di big pipul dɛn we dɔn sev we dɛn du bad to pikin dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn soshal ɛn filin.

Dɛn:

• Yu kin mek ɔda pipul dɛn fil bad ɔ gri fɔ lɛ dɛn du yu bad.
• Yu kin tray fɔ kil yusɛf.
• Yu kin kia fɔ ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn nɔ wɔri bɔt yu yon wɛlbɔdi.
• Prɔblɛm dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we de mek i gɛt prɔblɛm, fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs pasmak, ɔ fɔ avɔyd fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs atɔl.
• I kin at fɔ lɛ wi abop pan pipul dɛn.

Di wan dɛn we dɔn sev kin gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn bak wit dɛn mɛrɛsin ɛn aw dɛn kin biev we dɛn big, lɛk:

• Pen we nɔ de dɔn, ed we de at ɛvride, Fibromyalgia, ɛn bɛlɛ pen.
• Pwɛl at.
• Nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ ɔnɔ fɔ yusɛf.
• Sɔbstans Yuz Disɔda ɔr prɔblɛm wit aw yu de drink rɔm.
• Pɔyzin strɛs kin afɛkt di bren divɛlɔpmɛnt ɛn i kin mek yu gɛt PTSD ɛn prɔblɛm wit aw yu de lan, pe atɛnshɔn, ɛn mɛmba.

Aw yu go ebul fɔ mek pikin we dɛn dɔn du bad to, wɛl fɔ lɔng tɛm?

Fɛn pɔsin we de advays yu bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi biznɛs . Tɛrapi kin ɛp pikin fɔ prosɛs wetin apin, lan fɔ bil wɛlbɔdi rilayshɔnship, ɛn ridyus di prɔblɛm dɛn we di abiuz kin gɛt fɔ lɔng tɛm. If yu manej di filin we di abiuz gɛt kin ɛp bak fɔ mek pikin dɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi fɔ lɔng tɛm.

Aw yu kin ɛp pikin we dɔn tɛl yu bɔt buli?

If pikin tɛl yu bɔt aw dɛn de trit yu bad, tek am siriɔs . Nɔ dismis am as sɔntin we nɔ impɔtant ɔ tek am se dɛn de akt ɔ lay. Du dɛn tin ya fɔ protɛkt yu pikin:

• Ɛnkɔrej yu fɔ tɔk to am opin wan, lisin to yu pikin we i de tɔk, mek i ɛksplen wetin apin insay dɛn yon wɔd, kɔrej am, ɛn mɛmba am se yu de de fɔ tɔk ɔ lisin.
• Mɛmba di pikin se nɔto dɛn fɔlt ; dɛn nɔ gɛt ɛni ripɔt fɔ di abiuz.
• Separet di pikin frɔm di pɔsin we de du am bad ɛn mek shɔ se di pikin sef.
• Kɔntakt dɔktɔ we go gayd yu fɔ du di nɛks tin dɛn we yu fɔ du.
• Gɛt ɔda sɔpɔt, lɛk fɔ advays, tritmɛnt, ɔ sɔpɔt grup.
• Bi peshɛnt - pikin dɛn kin wɛl pan difrɛn spid; sɔpɔt yu pikin ɔl di tɛm we i de wɛl.

Us kwɛstyɔn dɛn yu fɔ aks yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn?

If dɛn dɔn du bad to yu pikin, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn. Aks dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya:

• Us fizik tritmɛnt mi pikin nid naw?
• Us kayn tritmɛnt go ɛp mi pikin?
• Yu tink se famili tritmɛnt go bɛnifit wi?
• Aw a go ɛp mi pikin fɔ wɛl?
• Tin dɛn de we wi nɔ fɔ du ɔ tɔk?
• Aw ɔda we a go protɛkt mi pikin?

Fɔ dɔn, di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl

Bɔt i sɔri fɔ no se, na kɔmɔn tin fɔ du bad to pikin dɛn. Pikin dɛn we dɛn kin du bad to kin gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm dɛn we dɛn gɛt naw ɛn we dɛn go gɛt tumara bambay. Bɔt op de fɔ mek i wɛl . Lan fɔ no di sayn dɛn we de sho se dɛn de trit pikin bad, lɛk we pikin de biev strenj ɔ difrɛn we. If yu tink se dɛn de trit yu pikin bad, protɛkt yu pikin frɔm di pɔsin we de du yu bad ɛn go to pɔsin we sabi du in wok. Fizik ɛn maynd wɛlbɔdi savis kin ɛp fɔ ridyus di lɔng tɛm ifɛkt dɛm we pikin kin gɛt. Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ (ɔ yu pikin in dɔktɔ) bɔt aw fɔ stɔp ɛn mek dɛn nɔ du bad to pikin. Wi pikin dɛn na wi tumara bambay, ɛn na wi wok fɔ protɛkt dɛn.

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