We wi tink bɔt ADHD ( Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder ), bɔku pan wi kin tink bɔt di bad we aw yɔŋ pikin dɛn kin biev, di we aw dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ sidɔm, ɔ i nɔ kin izi fɔ dɛn fɔ pe atɛnshɔn to di wok we dɛn de du na skul. Bɔt yu no se ADHD kin gɛt big impak bak pan big pɔsin in pasɔnal rilayshɔnship, mɔ di mami ɛn dadi biznɛs? Pan ɔl we dis na tɔpik we at fɔ tɔk bɔt, i impɔtant fɔ mek yu ɛn yu patna no bɔt dis. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt am opin wan tide.
Wetin na di kɔnekshɔn bitwin ADHD ɛn mami ɛn dadi biznɛs?
Risach sho se lɛk 40% pan uman ɛn man dɛn we gɛt ADHD kin gɛt sɔm kayn we fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Bɔku rizin dɛn de we kin mek dis apin. Di men kwaliti dɛm fɔ ADHD kin ɛp bak fɔ mek dis apin.
Di impɔtant tin na dat, dis nɔto yu fɔlt. Na pat pan de sik insɛf. Ɛn, bɔku tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ bia wit am.
Lɛ wi luk us kɔmɔn prɔblɛm dɛn we ADHD kin kam wit na mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
| Prɔblɛm we pɔsin kin gɛt na mami ɛn dadi biznɛs | Aw dat kin apin? I simpul. |
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| Lɔs fɔ kɔnsɛntret we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs | Di men sayn fɔ ADHD na wae i nɔr kin izi fɔ pe atɛnshɔn. So, we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, kɔt kɔt, ɔ fɔ ple bifo tɛm, yu maynd kin rɔn wantɛm wantɛm to ɔda tin dɛn (e.g., wok na ɔfis, wetin yu fɔ du tumara). Dis kin mek yu patna fil lɛk se yu nɔ bisin bɔt dɛn ɔ yu nɔ intres. Sɔntɛnde, dis we aw yu nɔ de pe atɛnshɔn kin mek i nɔ izi fɔ gɛt ɔrgazm. |
| Di want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we de go ɔp ɔ dɔŋ wantɛm wantɛm (Libido) . | Sɔm pipul dɛm wae gɛt ADHD kin gɛt bɔrku mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Dis kin bi wae yu de tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɔltɛm ɛn tray fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɔltɛm. Dɔn bak, sɔm mɛrɛsin dɛn fɔ ADHD, mɔ di wan dɛn we dɛn kin yuz bak fɔ pwɛl at, kin mek i nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. |
| Di we aw pɔsin de fil ɛn di tin dɛn we i want, kin chenj wantɛm wantɛm | Bɔrku tɛm, pipul dɛm wae gɛt ADHD kin gɛt pwɛl hat ɛn dɛn kin fil pasmak. Dis min se fɔ tɔch wae nɔrmal fɔ pɔrsin wae gɛt ADHD kin tranga fɔ pɔrsin wae gɛt ADHD. Dis kin mek sɔntin we yu lɛk wan de nɔ go bi yu favrit di nɛks de. Wetin yu go ɛnjɔy fɔ kɔt wit tide kin fil lɛk se yu de mɔna yu di nɛks de. Dis kin tranga fɔ mek yu patna ɔndastand. |
| Inducement to risky seksual bihayvya | Pipul wae gɛt ADHD kin gɛt chenj na di lɛvɛl wae dɛn kin kɔl nyurotransmitta na dɛn bren. Na dɛn kemikal ya de kɔntrol di we aw wi de fil ɛn di tin dɛn we wi de du. If dɛn kemikal ya nɔ bɔku, dat kin mek pɔsin biev kwik kwik wan. Dis kin mek sɔm pipul dɛn kin du tin dɛn we de mek dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm, lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we nɔ gɛt protɛkshɔn (e.g., nɔ yuz kɔndɔm). |
| Fɔ avɔyd fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs bikɔs ɔf wamat ɛn fɔ de yu wan | ADHD kin mek yu fil strɛs, vɛks, ɛn de yu wan, ɛn dis kin mek yu taya pan yu bɔdi ɛn maynd. Dis kin mek i nɔ want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs igen. Dɔn bak, tin dɛn lɛk fɔ pul yu maynd pan yu we yu de tɔk to yu ɔ nɔ lisin to yu we yu de agyu kin mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm wit yu padi biznɛs, ɛn dis kin afɛkt yu mami ɛn dadi biznɛs layf bak. |
Okay, so wetin yu du abaut dis?
Ɔl dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya kin tan lɛk se i nɔ izi fɔ du. Bɔt di gud nyus na dat yu kin ebul fɔ bia wit dɛn prɔblɛm ya fayn fayn wan bay we yu de kɔntrol yu ADHD sayn dɛn. Na sɔm tin dɛn we yu go ebul fɔ du.
1. Tek di mɛrɛsin jɔs lɛk aw di dɔktɔ tɛl am.
Bɔku mɛrɛsin fɔ ADHD nɔ de ambɔg yu sɛks drayv. Infakt, dɛn kin rili du di kɔmɔn tin. Dɛn kin mek yu pe atɛnshɔn mɔ.Dis go ɛp yu fɔ ɛnjɔy mami ɛn dadi biznɛs mɔ. I kin ɛp yu bak fɔ kɔntrol mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we de mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin se we pɔsin tek di mɛrɛsin jɔs bifo yu du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, dat kin mek i izi fɔ lɛ yu pe atɛnshɔn pan sɔntin. Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt dis.
2. If yu gɛt kwɛstyɔn bɔt yu mɛrɛsin, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ.
If yu gɛt prɔblɛm wit mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn yu tink se di kɔz na mɛrɛsin we yu de tek, mek shɔ se yu tɛl yu dɔktɔ. Nɔ ɛva stɔp fɔ tek yu mɛrɛsin ɔ chenj di doz fɔ yusɛf. Yu dɔktɔ kin tɛl yu fɔ chenj to ɔda mɛrɛsin ɔ yu kin tɛl yu fɔ yuz ɔda mɛrɛsin.
3. Ɛksesaiz
Fɔ de aktif, we min fɔ du ɛksɛsayz ɛvride, nɔto jɔs de mek yu fɔs fɔs, bɔt i de ɛp bak fɔ mek di lɛvɛl dɛn we di nyurotransmitta dɛn na di bren we wi bin dɔn tɔk bɔt, go ɔp. Dis nɔr kin jɔs ɛp yu fɔ ɛnjɔy yu sɛks layf, bɔt i kin ɛp yu bak fɔ ridyus di risky bihayvya.
4. Infɔm yu patna.
Dis na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. Tɔk to yu patna bɔt dis opin wan. Ɛksplen se if yu de ambɔg yu maynd we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, nɔto bikɔs yu de bost wit am, bɔt na bikɔs na wan sayn fɔ ADHD. We una gɛt dis ɔndastandin bitwin una, bɔku prɔblɛm dɛn kin sɔlv.
5. Gɛt Tɔk Tɛrapi
Risach dɔn sho se tɔk tɛrapi, ɔ saykotɛrapi , kin ɛp fɔ ridyus di impak we ADHD gɛt pan yu mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Wan kwalifay tritmɛnt kin ɛp yu fɔ kɔntrol aw yu de fil ɛn tich yu aw fɔ tɔk to yu patna fayn fayn wan, we yu de na bed ɛn we yu nɔ de na bed.
6. Sho aw yu de fil we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
Bi dairekt bɔt aw yu want mek dɛn tɔch yu ɛn aw yu de fil. If yu tɔk tin dɛn lɛk, "I go lɛk fɔ lɛ dɛn tɔch mi da we de pas dis," i kin ɛp fɔ mek dɛn nɔ ɔndastand ɛn agyu. Dɔn bak, if yu nɔ rɛdi fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs da tɛm de, ɛksplen dat wit lɔv.
7. Ridyus di tin dɛn we de ambɔg yu
If yu kin lɛk fɔ gɛt tin dɛn we de ambɔg yu izi wan, du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs na say we nɔ gɛt bɔku tin dɛn we de ambɔg yu. Fɔ ɛgzampul, mek di layt dɛn we de na di rum nɔ bɔku ɛn ɔf di TV ɛn di fon. Dis go ɛp yu fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan yu patna insay di tɛm.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- ADHD na rial mεdikal kכ ndyushכn wae kin afekt yu sεks layf. Nɔto yu fɔlt, ɛn nɔto yu patna in fɔlt.
- I impɔtant fɔ tɔk opin wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan bɔt dis wit yu patna. We una de fɛt dis togɛda, dat kin mek una padi biznɛs strɔng.
- If yu gɛt kwɛstyɔn bɔt yu mɛrɛsin, nɔ ɛva stɔp fɔ tek am fɔ yusɛf. Mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ fɔ advays.
- Yu kin gɛt bɔku fridɔm we yu de du ɛksɛsayz, tritmɛnt, ɛn simpul chenj dɛn na yu layf .
- Nɔto yu wan de. Bɔku pipul dɛn de gɛt dɛn kayn prɔblɛm ya. Nɔ fred fɔ aks fɔ ɛp.
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