Sɔntɛnde yu kin fil se pipul dɛn dis tɛm ya, mɔ di wan dɛn we de na soshal midia , kin jɔs tink bɔt dɛnsɛf ɛn mek dɛnsɛf luk fayn? Na laik se na wef of "mi", "mi achivment", "mi laif" de evriwia, no bi so? If yu luk TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram, i luk laik se di tren na to sho di wold evri likl ditel fo yu laif. Sɔm pipul dɛn kin kɔl dis ‘Nazism epidemic’. So wi ɔl de bisin bɔt wisɛf mɔ ɛn mɔ ɛn wi de tink bɔt wisɛf nɔmɔ? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis dip smɔl.
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, wetin na fɔ yusɛf nɔmɔ?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, narcissism na mental stet we pɔsin biliv se in "mɔ spɛshal pas ɔda pipul dɛm, se in yon nid pas ɔl ɔda tin," ɛn i valyu insɛf pasmak. Dis nɔ min se na gud tin ɔ bad tin. Fɔ gɛt smɔl kɔnfidɛns pan yusɛf ɛn fɔ prawd pan yusɛf na gud tin fɔ layf. Bɔt na we dis kin bɔku, na in prɔblɛm kin kam.
Dis kɔndishɔn de pan wan spɛktrum wae kin difrɛn frɔm pɔrsin to ɔda pɔrsin. Di wan dɛn we de na di ay ɛnd pan di spɛktrum, bitwin 1% ɛn 6% pan di pipul dɛn, kin gɛt wan sik we dɛn kɔl Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) .
Wi kin si dis Nazi biev tu men we dɛn. Fɔ ɔndastand dis, luk di tebul we de dɔŋ ya.
| Tayp fɔ Nazizm | Di kwaliti dɛn ɛn di we aw dɛn de biev |
|---|---|
| Grandiose Narcissism we de mek pipul dɛn biliv | Dis na di karakta dɛm we wi kin imajin we wi yɛri di wɔd ‘Nazism’. Dɛn kin rili gɛt kɔnfidɛns pan dɛnsɛf, dɛn kin tray fɔ mek ɔlman pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn, dɛn kin tink se dɛn big ɛn impɔtant. Dɛn sabi fɔ go bifo na sosayti ɛn tek lidaship. |
| Narcissism we nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ wɛlbɔdi | Dɛn pipul ya difrɛn frɔm aw dɛn tan lɛk. Dɛn kin rili fil bad, dɛn kin wɔri ɔltɛm. Dɛn kin de wɔnda ɔltɛm if ɔda pipul dɛn go gri wit dɛn ɔ dɛn go gladi fɔ dɛn. Dɛn kin fil spɛshal, bɔt dɛn kin fil bad we di wɔl nɔ no am. Dɛn kin rili fil fɔ kɔndɛm dɛn. |
| Di tin dɛn we kɔmɔn fɔ ɔl tu di kayn tin dɛn | Ilɛk uskayn pɔsin, tu tin dɛn we kin apin na we pɔsin nɔ kin fil sɔri fɔ ɔda pɔsin ɛn i kin fil se i gɛt rayt fɔ du am . |
Aw wi bin kam ya?
Risach pipul dɛn se bɔku rizin dɛn de fɔ dis inkris. Wan na di "self-esteem movement" we bigin na Wɛstɛn kɔntri dɛn insay di 1970s. Dɛn bin de tɛl pikin dɛn frɔm we dɛn yɔŋ se "yu spɛshal" ɛn "yu kin du ɛnitin." Pan ɔl we dɛn bin gɛt gud maynd fɔ du dis, sɔntɛnde i kin mek dɛn gɛt atifishal inflated, selfish maynd pas fɔ mek pikin dɛn ebul fɔ du mɔ. Risach dɔn ivin sho se we mama ɛn papa dɛn "ɔva-evalyu" dɛn pikin dɛn, dat na we dɛn prez dɛn pas wetin dɛn ebul fɔ du, pikin dɛn kin tek dɛn sem aidia dɛn de ɛn dɛn kin gɛt abit dɛn we de mek dɛn lɛk dɛnsɛf.
Dɔn, we rialiti TV sho dɛn kam ɛn soshal midia bin de bɔku, dis tin bin chenj mɔ ɛn mɔ. I bin kam fɔ bi kɔmɔn fɔ sho ɔltin bɔt in yon layf na pɔblik, tek selfi, ɛn pe atɛnshɔn pan aw pɔsin luk.
Bɔt masta sabi bukman dɛn se bifo dɛn tin ya de mek pipul dɛn gɛt mɔ Nazi abit dɛn, dɛn dɔn gi di wan dɛn we dɔn ɔlrɛdi gɛt dɛn abit dɛn de big ples fɔ sho dɛnsɛf.
Dat min se di nɔmba fɔ pipul dɛn we rili na Nazi na sosayti nɔ go dɔn bɔku. Bɔt dɛn vɔys ɛn pawa dɔn bɔku bikɔs ɔf soshal midia . So wi si se ɔlman tan lɛk dat.
Wetin na di rial impak we soshal midia gɛt?
Soshal midia na ples fɔ pipul dɛn we gɛt narcissistic traits. Risach dɔn sho se pipul dɛn we gɛt ay narcissistic traits kin spɛn mɔ tɛm na soshal midia, post mɔ, gɛt mɔ padi dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin gɛt adikshɔn to soshal midia.
Bɔt di we aw dis kin afɛkt ɔda pipul dɛn kin denja.
- Kɔmpia ɛn wɔri : Na di filin wae yu kin fil fɔ sɔri ɛn wɔri bɔt yu yone layf wae yu luk pan de "filta" ɛn wae tan lɛk se yu gladi fɔ ɔda pipul dɛm. Wi kin kɔl dis bak FOMO (Fear of Missing Out).
- Mental wɛl bɔdi prɔblɛm: Dis kɔmpiashɔn ɔltɛm dɔn mek yɔŋ pipul dɛn gɛt pwɛl hat, wɔri, ɛn de dɛn wan.
- Di rɔng we aw pipul dɛn de tink bɔt di bɔdi:Di "pafɛkt" bɔdi dɛm we dɛn kin si na soshal midia dɔn bi wan big tin we kin mek di bɔdi dismɔrfia bɔku, we na wan kɔndishɔn we yɔŋ gyal pikin ɛn bɔy pikin dɛn kin wɔri tumɔs bɔt aw dɛn bɔdi tan ɛn imajin fɔlt dɛm we dɛn nɔ gɛt.
Wetin De Apin to "Vulnerable Narcissists".
Soshal midia na ples we rili at fɔ "Vulnerable Narcissists." Dɛn si "Grandiose Narcissists" de sɛlibret dɛn sakrifays ɛn post fayn fayn foto dɛm, ɛn dɛn de fil jɛlɔs ɛn vɛks se dɛn nɔ de gɛt di sem rɛkɔgnishɔn. Dis kin gɛt bad bad impak pan dɛn maynd wɛl bɔdi.
Wan ɔda tin we sɔri na dat mama ɛn papa dɛn kin sheb dɛn pikin dɛn ɛvri muv, ɛvri smɔl tin frɔm di de we dɛn bɔn dɛn, na soshal midia. Na siriɔs kwɛstyɔn aw di bad tin dɛn we go apin if yu sho ɔltin to di wɔl we yu nɔ gi ɛni ples to di pikin in prayvet pat go afɛkt di pikin tumara bambay.
So, wetin wi de du bɔt dis?
Dis kin tan lɛk se i de mek yu fred. Bɔt gud nyus de. Risach dɔn sho se as wi de ol, as wi de tek mɔ rispɔnsibiliti (mared, pikin dɛn), ɛn as wi de gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn na layf, natin nɔ de fɔ mek wi nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ maynd igen. Dis na bikɔs dɛn de fos wi fɔ tink bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn pas wisɛf.
Bɔt if yu ɔ pɔsin we yu sabi de sɔfa wit dis sik, sɔm tin dɛn de we yu kin du.
- Limit yu soshal midia yus: Yu fɔ tink bɔt aw yu ɛn yu pikin dɛn de yuz soshal midia. Mɛmba ɔltɛm se nɔto ɔltin we yu de si na tru, ɛn na ples we jɔs de sho di bɛst tin na pipul dɛn layf.
- Lisin to yu insay reda: We yu de tɔk to pɔsin, if yu si se i de tɔk tumɔs bɔt insɛf, de put ɔda pipul dɛn dɔŋ, ɔ nɔ bisin bɔt aw dɛn de fil, no dɛn "narcissism vibes." If i pɔsibul, saful saful fɔ pul yusɛf kɔmɔt nia dɛn kayn pipul dɛn de.
- Fɔ go to pɔsin we sabi du in wok: Pipul dɛn we gɛt narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) nɔ kin admit se dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm. Na dat mek dɛn nɔ kin go fɛn tritmɛnt. Bɔt if yu fil se yu gɛt dɛn kayn tin ya na yu yone bihayvya, ɔr pɔrsin wae gɛt dis sik de afɛkt yu maynd wɛl bɔdi, i impɔtant fɔ nɔr shem ɛn aks fɔ advays frɔm kwalifay dɔktɔ ɔr mɛntɛl hεlth kɔlnɔ. Na di bɛst tin we yu go du fɔ yusɛf.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Narcissism na wan pɔrsin wae gɛt difrɛn kayn sik wae kin difrɛn frɔm pɔrsin to ɔda pɔrsin. Pan ɔl we i fayn fɔ biliv yusɛf smɔl, fɔ tink bɔt yusɛf nɔmɔ we yu nɔ tink bɔt aw ɔda pipul dɛn de fil, dat kin ambɔg yu.
- Soshal midia nɔ dɔn mek Nazi "epidemic." Bɔt dɛn dɔn gi di wan dɛn we gɛt dɛn abit dɛn de wan big ples fɔ sho dɛnsɛf.
- Nɔ kɔmpia yusɛf ɔltɛm to wetin yu de si na soshal midia. E kin gɛt siriɔs impak pan yu maynd wɛl bɔdi (diprɛshɔn, wɔri).
- If yu ɔ pɔsin we de nia yu de fil bad bikɔs ɔf dɛn kayn tin ya, go to pɔsin we sabi du in wok. Fɔ tɔk to yu famili dɔktɔ na fayn fɔs tin we yu fɔ du.
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