Na wɔndaful filin fɔ si yu smɔl pikin de kik ɛn wig insay yu bɛlɛ . Da tɛm de, yu go mɔs put yu an pan yu bɛlɛ ɛn se, "Mi pikin," saful wan. Dɔn yu go mɔs de wɔnda se, "Mi pikin rili yɛri wetin a de tɔk? I de fil mi lɔv?" Yɛs, bɔku mama dɛn kin gɛt dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya. Di gud nyus na dat di we aw yu de fil na tru. Tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis wɔndaful padi biznɛs.
Yu tink se di pikin we de na di bɛlɛ kin rili fil wi?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, yɛs! Yu pikin kin fil yu. Dis nɔto jɔs lay lay stori, na sayɛns dɔn pruv am. Masta sabi bukman dɛn we dɔn du risach bɔt dis, se pikin we de na in bɛlɛ kin ebul fɔ si, yɛri, fil, mɛmba, test, ɛn ivin tink. Imajin aw dat rili wɔndaful!
di pikin in filin εn filin dεm so sεnsitiv dat dεn kin sεns yu lεv, yu afekt, yu vכys, εn כda tin dεm So we yu tink bכt yu pikin εn tכk to am wit lכv, di pikin kin fil כl dat.
Dis bonding, ɔ wetin wi kɔl attachment, na di fɔs lɛsin we pikin kin lan bɔt di wɔl. Dis na impɔtant pat pan di pikin in pasɔnaliti divɛlɔpmɛnt. We dɛn mek wan wɛlbɔdi bon bitwin mama ɛn pikin , ɔ papa ɛn pikin, di pikin kin ɔndastand se "dis wɔl na sef ples fɔ mi." Na dis say di pikin kin bigin fɔ abop pan am, ɛn na dat i nid na layf.
Papa dɛnsɛf go ebul fɔ tek pat pan dis?
Fɔ tru, na yɛs! כltu, mama dεm kin bigin fכ fil dis bכnd kwik kwik wan, biכs di pikin de insay dεn. Bɔt i rili izi bak fɔ mek papa dɛn kɔnɛkt wit dis. Fɔ sɔm papa dɛn, dis filin kin tek sɔm tɛm fɔ kam, ɛn dat na nɔmal tin.
Di bɛst tin dɛn we yu kin du wit dis na:
- Go go si di dokta wit mi mama.
- Luk pan ɔltra saund skan pikchɔ dɛn wit intres.
- Put yu an pan yu mama in bɛlɛ ɛn ɛnjɔy di pikin in muvmɛnt.
Wan patikyula papa , we in gyal pikin bin de na di bɛlɛ, i bin de mek wan smɔl siŋ fɔ am ɛn siŋ am to am ɛvride, nia in bɛlɛ. Di wɔndaful tin na dat, ivin afta dɛn bɔn in gyal pikin, ɛnitɛm we i kray, we i de siŋ dis siŋ, i kin stɔp fɔ kray ɛn kol at. Bikɔs di pikin mɛmba da vɔys de, da myuzik de, we i yɛri we i bin de na in bɛlɛ.
Ɔda simpul we dɛn fɔ kɔnɛkt wit yu pikin
Sɔm rili simpul, fayn tin dɛn de we yu ɛn yu man kin du fɔ mek dis padi biznɛs tayt.
| We | Aw fɔ du am? |
|---|---|
| Fɔ tɔk to di pikin | Se "Gud mɔnin, bebi" jɔs lɛk aw yu wek na mɔnin. Say "Good night" bifo yu go bed nait. Tɛl yu pikin bɔt wetin yu bin de du insay di de. Afta we dɛn bɔn pikin, i kin no in mama in vɔys kwik kwik wan. |
| Fɔ kɔt kɔt yu bɛlɛ ɛn fɔ masaj yu | Put yu an dɛn pan di bɛlɛ ɛn rɔb am jisnɔ. We di pikin kik, yu kin ple smɔl gem bak bay we yu tap di ples saful wan. Di pikin go ansa da bak de. Dis kin tich di pikin bɔt aw mɔtalman de tɔch am. |
| Fɔ lisin to myuzik | di pikin dεm kin bigin fכ yεri arawnd 18 wik. Risach dɔn sho se bebi dɛn lɛk klasical myuzik lɛk Mozart ɛn Vivaldi, nɔsri raym, ɔ myuzik we de nia dɛn mama in at rit (lɛk 60 bit pan minit). Bɔt, bebi dɛn nɔ kin rili gladi wit lawd rɔk myuzik. |
| Fɔ de kol at | We yu de fred ɔ wɔri, yu pikin in at kin dubl bikɔs ɔf di chenj dɛn we di ɔmon dɛn de chenj na yu bɔdi. Semweso, we yu kol ɛn gladi, yu pikin sɛf go kol. Na nɔmal tin fɔ lɛ pɔsin vɛks ɔ fil bad wan wan tɛm. Bɔt we yu de strɛs ɔltɛm, dat kin afɛkt di we aw yu pikin bi. |
| Fɔ rayt wan dayari | Rayt yu op ɛn filin lɛk lɛta to yu pikin. Rayt di tin dɛm we yu bin fil we yu gɛt bɛlɛ. I go rili fayn fɔ lɛ yu pikin rid dɛn we i dɔn big! |
Di wɔndaful pawa we ɔltra saund skan gɛt
Ɔltrasɔund skan na wan pan di pawaful we dɛn fɔ mek yu gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit yu pikin. We yu rili si di pikin na skrin, di wan we yu bin jɔs ebul fɔ imajin na yu maynd, insay yu bɛlɛ, no we nɔ de fɔ put da filin de insay wɔd dɛn. We yu tink se , "Na de i de, na mi bebi dat," da bond de kin so strɔng.
Wit tide teknɔlɔji, nɔto 2D skan nɔmɔ de lɛk bifo, bɔt 3D ɛn 4D (moving 3D) skan dɛn de bak. wit dεn nyu skan dεm ya, yu kin si di pikin in ful chεk, in tכmb sכ k, in bכdi opin, εn twis muvmεnt dεm rili klia wan. Dis ɛkspiriɛns de mek di mama ɛn papa ɔl tu lɛk dɛn pikin ɛn gɛt mɔ wok fɔ du.
Nɔ fɔgɛt bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi bak
Wit ɔl dis, e fayn fɔ tink bɔt yu maynd wɛl bɔdi. Sɔntɛnde, pwɛl hat we yu gɛt bɛlɛ kin mek i nɔ izi fɔ mek yu gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit yu pikin. wan kכndyushכn de bak we dεn kכl postpartum depression, we kin apin afta dεn bכn di pikin.
If yu de fil bad ɛn taya wit ɔltin, duya tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt am. Nɔ ayd am. Bikɔs na if yu wɛl nɔmɔ yu go gɛt dis fayn padi biznɛs wit yu pikin. If nid de, yu dɔktɔ go tɛl yu di rayt tritmɛnt fɔ yu.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Di pikin we de na yu bɛlɛ de fil yu lɔv, yu vɔys, ɛn tɔch mɔ. Na sayɛns tru tin.
- Dis bon we dɛn kin gɛt bifo dɛn bɔn am, kin tich di pikin se di wɔl na say we sef ɛn na in de mek di fawndeshɔn fɔ mek i gɛt kɔnfidɛns.
- As papa, yu kin bi pat pan dis fayn fayn padi biznɛs frɔm di biginin bay we yu de tɔk to yu pikin, tɔch dɛn bɛlɛ, ɛn go fɔ skan.
- Simpul tin dɛn lɛk fɔ tɔk to yu pikin, fɔ rɔb in bɛlɛ, ɛn fɔ lisin to myuzik we de mek pɔsin fil fayn, kin mek dis padi biznɛs strɔng bad bad wan.
- If yu de fil bad ɔ yu de fil bad we yu gɛt bɛlɛ, i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɛn nɔ shem fɔ am.
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