Yu smɔl pikin stil gɛt finga na in mɔt pan ɔl we i dɔn big smɔl? Sɔntɛm i kin notis dis abit we i de wach TV, we i de bost, ɔ we i de slip. Bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin wɔri smɔl bɔt dis. ‘O, na dis wangren abit we mi pikin gɛt? Yu tink se dis go bi big prɔblɛm?’ Sɔntɛm yu go de tink. Nɔ wɔri. Dis na rili sɔntin we bɔku pikin dɛn kin si . Lɛ wi tɔk klia wan bɔt dis tide.
Wetin mek yɔŋ pikin dɛn kin sok dɛn big an? Dis na nɔmal tin?
Infakt, fɔ sɔk di big an na tin we nɔmal ɛn i kin bɛnifit pikin dɛn we rili yɔŋ. Dɔktɔ dɛn se i nɔ fayn fɔ fos pikin we nɔ rich fayv ia yet fɔ lɛf dis abit.
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, na we fɔ mek bebi dɛn mek dɛnsɛf fil fayn . We dɛn bost, taya, ɔ sɔri ɔ fred, dɛn kin put dɛn finga dɛn na dɛn mɔt ɔtomɛtik wan. Jɔs lɛk aw wi kin du sɔntin fɔ mek wi at kol we wi at pwɛl. Yu go dɔn notis se sɔm bebi dɛn kin twirl dɛn ia, tɔch wan yes, ɔ rɔb dɛn smɔl blanki we dɛn de sok dɛn finga dɛn. Dis na ɔl tin dɛn we de mek dɛn fil sef ɛn fil fayn.
Di impɔtant tin na dat di pikin in big an nɔ min se i gɛt prɔblɛm wit in maynd, ɛn i nɔ min se i go kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt dis abit we i dɔn big. Bɔku pikin dɛn kin lɛf dis abit ɔtomɛtik we dɛn bigin fɔ go skul (kindagarten).
So, ustɛm wi fɔ wɔri bɔt dis?
As pikin dɛn de ol ɛn pas di ej we dɛn nɔ de go skul, di nɔmba fɔ di pikin dɛn we de sok dɛn big an kin go dɔŋ smɔl smɔl. Bɔt sɔv dɛn sho se na lɛk wan pan ɛvri fayv pikin dɛn kin kɔntinyu fɔ du dat afta dɛn dɔn ol 5. Dis na di tɛm we wi nid fɔ tek tɛm smɔl. Bɔku rizin dɛn de fɔ dis:
- Sɔshial kwɛshɔn: Dis na di ej we ɔda pikin dɛn kin bigin fɔ tiz ɛn pul dɛn kɔmɔt. We padi dɛn se, "I stil de sok in big an," i kin rili mek pikin vɛks. So, ɔda pikin dɛn kin lan fɔ avɔyd fɔ ple wit dɛn ɛn avɔyd dɛn.
- Damej to tit: Dis na tin we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin wɔri bɔt. di pikin dεm dεn tit dεm we de pεrmanεnt de bigin fכ kam insay arawnd di ej 5. If dεn kכntinyu fכ sכk dεn tכmb dεm insay dis tεm, chans de fכ mek dεn tit dεm pul kכmכt εn kכmכt fכ fכd ( ovabayt ) .
- I nɔ kin izi fɔ tɔk: Sɔm pikin dɛn kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ kɔl sɔm lɛta dɛn bikɔs ɔf difrɛns na dɛn tit, mɔ di tɔng-tip sawnd dɛn lɛk "s".
- Prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin na yu bɔdi:If yu kɔntinyu fɔ sok di finga, dat kin mek di skin na di finga dray ɛn krak. Sɔntɛnde, kɔlɔs kin kam, di nel dɛn nɔ kin gro fayn, ɛn di finga nel kin gɛt infɛkshɔn.
Aw a go ɛp fɔ stɔp dis abit? - Wit lɔv ɛn peshɛnt
If yu pikin stil de sok in big big bɔdi we i ol 5-6 ia, wi fɔ tink bɔt aw fɔ ɛp am fɔ stɔp. Bɔt mɛmba se i nɔ fayn fɔ fos dɛn fɔ stɔp wan tɛm.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat, fɔ kɔl yu pikin, fɔ blem am, ɔ fɔ tray fɔ fos yu pikin fɔ pul in finga na in mɔt, dat kin jɔs mek yu ɛn di pikin gɛt pawa . If dat apin, di pikin go want fɔ du di sem tin mɔ ɛn mɔ we i nɔ tek tɛm.
Infakt, afta dɛn dɔn ol 6 ia, bɔku pikin dɛn kin want fɔ lɛf dis abit, bɔt dɛn nid smɔl ɛp. Yu nid fɔ put di pikin insay dis.
| Stɛp-by-stɛp plan fɔ lɛf di abit | |
|---|---|
| Step dɛn we yu fɔ du | Wetin fɔ du |
| Step 1: Stɔp di stori | Nɔ tɔk bɔt thumb-sucking fɔ lɛk wan mɔnt so. Sɔntɛm di abit go stɔp jɔs bay we yu nɔ de pe atɛnshɔn to am. |
| Step 2: Wan Prɔgrɛs Chat | Gɛt wan posta bɔd ɛn mek wan fayn ‘prɔgrɛs chɔt’ wit yu pikin. Mek dɛn put stika pan ɛvride we dɛn nɔ pik dɛn finga. Prɔmis wan smɔl gift fɔ wan wik, ɛn big gift fɔ wan mɔnt. |
| Step 3: Smɔl smɔl tin dɛn fɔ mɛmba | Ɛspɛshali na nɛt, put sɔntin we bita pan di nel dɛn. Liquid dɛn de fɔ dis na famasi dɛn. Ɔ yu kin yuz sɔm sɛnt we yu gɛt na os. Mek di pikin pik di swɛt ɛn put am smɔl na di tip na dɛn finga. |
| Step 4: Ɔda trik dɛn | Wear mitin/glov we yu de slip na nɛt. Ɔ yu kin put smɔl bandej na yu finga. |
Yu pikin nid yu lɔv bad bad wan insay dis tɛm!
We yu de tray fɔ lɛf dis abit , prez yu pikin bɔku. Ivin if i sho smɔl sakrifays, se, "Dat na big tin, bɔy pikin/dɔta." Ɔg am, kɛr am go na ples we i lɛk, ple togɛda. Yu fɔ no di tɛm dɛn we i kin fil lɛk fɔ sok in big an, lɛk we i de wach TV ɔ we i de rayd insay motoka. Da tɛm de, mek yu pikin nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to ɔda tin. Gi am tɔys, tɛl am wan stori, ɔ mek i du sɔntin fɔ mek in an dɛn bizi.
Wetin fɔ du if dɛn we ya nɔ go wok?
If yu nɔ bin dɔn lɛf di abit afta yu dɔn du ɔl dɛn tin ya, nɔ wɔri. Sɔm abit dɛn kin tek sɔm tɛm fɔ lɛ dɛn lɛf dɛn ɛn dɛn kin nid mɔ ɛp.
If na so i bi, di fɔs tin we yu fɔ du na fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt dis. I kin chɛk yu pikin ɛn gi yu di bɛst advays. Dɛn kin rifer yu bak to dɛntist.
Dɛntist dɛn kin se yu fɔ yuz smɔl tin we dɛn kin yuz fɔ it , we dɛn kɔl ‘palatal bar’ ɔ ‘crib’. Dɛn kin yuz dɛn tin ya fɔ mek di big big bɔdi nɔ sok we dɛn put dɛn na di mɔt.
If yu nɔ ebul fɔ lɛf di abit pan ɔl we yu de tray tranga wan, dat kin bi sayn fɔ se yu pikin in maynd gɛt dip tin . Fɔ ɛgzampul, i kin bi strɛs frɔm famili prɔblɛm ɔ skul prɔblɛm. If na so i bi, i go fayn fɔ mek yu go to pɔsin we sabi bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi biznɛs , pan di advays we dɔktɔ gi yu .
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Na nɔmal tin fɔ mek pikin we nɔ rich 5 ia sok dɛn tumbu. Na we we dɛn kin yuz fɔ mek dɛnsɛf kol.
- If dis abit kɔntinyu afta yu dɔn ol 5 ia, i kin mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm wit yu tit ɛn aw yu de wit ɔda pipul dɛn.
- Nɔ pɔnish ɔ kɔl yu pikin fɔ ɛp am fɔ lɛf di abit. Bifo dat, ɛp dɛn wit lɔv, peshɛnt, ɛn ɛnkɔrej dɛn.
- Yuz fayn fayn we dɛm lɛk ‘prɔgrɛs not’ ɛn smɔl smɔl gift dɛm, ɛn involv di pikin pan dis prɔses.
- If yu tray nɔ wok, nɔ panik ɛn go to yu dɔktɔ fɔ advays.
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