Yu man, yu wɛf, ɔ pɔsin we de nia yu dɔn bigin fɔ fɔgɛt smɔl smɔl tin dɛn arawnd di ej we yu ol 50 ia? Yu kin fɔgɛt naw tin dɛn lɛk dairekshɔn, impɔtant deti, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn we yu bin de mɛmba gud gud wan? Dis go mɔs bi sɔntin we de rili wɔri yu ɛn mek yu fred. Tide wi de tɔk bɔt Early-Onset Dementia , na wan sik wae kin mek pɔrsin nɔr de mɛmba fayn wae i yɔŋ, dat na bifo i ol 65 ia.
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, wetin na Early-Onset Dementia?
Dimɛnshɔn na wan sik wae de mek di bren nɔr de ebul fɔ tink klia wan, fɔ tɔk fayn fayn wan, ɛn mɛmba infɔmeshɔn. Bɔrku tɛm, e kin afɛkt pipul dɛm wae dɔn ol, bɔt e kin afɛkt pipul dɛm bak wae nɔr rich 65. Dɛn kin kɔl dis dis maynia sik wae kin bigin kwik kwik wan . I kin apun pan pipul dɛm wae dɔn pas 30 ia, bɔt e kin pasmak pan pipul dɛm wae dɔn pas 50 ia.
Jɔs tink bɔt aw dis kayn tin kin apin we yu yɔŋ, di prɔblɛm dɛn we yu kin gɛt kin rili difrɛn. Bikɔs we yu ol da ej de:
- Sɔntɛm da pɔsin de gɛt wok.
- Yu kin gɛt pikin dɛn we dɔn rich skul ej we de dipen pan yu.
- Sɔntɛm big big tin dɛn de we yu fɔ du wit mɔni, lɛk fɔ lɛnt mɔni fɔ bil os ɔ fɔ lis motoka.
So, we dɛn de kia fɔ pɔsin lɛk dis, dɛn fɔ pe spɛshal atɛnshɔn to famili layf, wok, lɔ ɛn mɔni biznɛs. Dɔn bak, di chenj wae de kam pan aw pɔrsin de biev ɛn aw pɔrsin de fil kin kam wit dis sik kin gɛt bɔrku impak pan famili, soshal rilayshɔnship ɛn woke.
Aw yu nid ɛp fɔ du wok dɛn we yu de du ɛvride?
As tɛm de go, i nɔ kin izi fɔ di pɔsin we yu lɛk fɔ du dɛn wok dɛn we dɛn de du ɛvride fɔ dɛnsɛf. Da tɛm de, yu ɛp go rili impɔtant. Di tebul we de dɔŋ ya sho sɔm pan di tin dɛn we kin apin we yu go nid fɔ ɛp yu.
| We dɛn nid ɛp | Wetin yu go ebul fɔ du |
|---|---|
| Mɛmba | Mɛmba dɛn pipul dɛn nem, dɛn fes, impɔtant ples dɛn, ɛn rod dɛn. |
| Impɔtant tin dɛn | Mɛmba yusɛf bɔt tin dɛn lɛk dɔktɔ apɔntinmɛnt ɛn pikin dɛn skul mitin, ɛn tek dɛn wit yu. |
| Mɛrɛsin | Ɛp dɛn fɔ tek dɛn mɛrɛsin di rayt tɛm. If nid de, put di mɛrɛsin insay bɔks ɛn rayt lɛbl pan am. |
| Pɔsin in yon klin | Ɛp wit tin dɛn lɛk fɔ drɛs, was, ɛn fɔ brus yu tit. |
| Fɔd ɛn mɔni | Fɔ ɛp fɔ mek it dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn fɔ ɛp fɔ yuz mɔni. |
Yu fɔ mɛmba dɛn tin ya we yu de kia fɔ dɛn
- Sef na di fɔs tin: Bifo yu pɔsin we yu lɛk du ɛnitin in wan, chɛk di say we de rawnd am fɔ mek shɔ se i sef ɛn nɔ gɛt ɛni bad tin we go apin. Fɔ ɛgzampul, mek shɔ se yu dɔn ɔf di gas stov ɛn lɔk di domɔt dɛn.
- Fɛn ɔda tin dɛn we de mek dɛn strɛs: Ɔndastand wetin de mɔna dɛn pas ɔl ɛn mek dɛn strɛs. Fɔ ɛgzampul, if fɔ go na di stoa fɔ bay di tin dɛn we dɛn nid fɔ it fɔ di wik na bɔku strɛs fɔ dɛn, mek wan list fɔ bay tin dɛn togɛda.
- Nɔr kin tink se "dɛn nɔr kin ebul": Nɔr kin tink se pɔrsin wae gɛt dis maynia sik nɔr kin ebul fɔ du sɔmtin. Fɔs, si if dɛn go ebul fɔ du am sef wan. Na if dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ ɛp nɔmɔ.
- Divεlכp signal fכ aks fכ εp: Tכk to dεm εn mek wan simpul wכd כ signal we dεn kin mεmba fכ se we dεn rili nid yu εp.
- Tɔk ɔltɛm: Tɔk ɔltɛm fɔ si if di we aw yu de ɛp dɛn stil de wok fɔ dɛn, if dɛn gɛt ɛni nyu prɔblɛm, ɛn aw yu go ɛp dɛn mɔ.
Aw fɔ plan tin dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit lɔ ɛn mɔni biznɛs?
Dis na pat we rili impɔtant. We dɔktɔ dɔn kɔnfirm di mɛdikal kɔndishɔn , i impɔtant fɔ mek una ɔl tu mit wit lɔya ɛn mek wan Pawa fɔ Atɔ (POA) . Dis dɔkyumɛnt de gi yu, ɔ pɔsin we yu pik fɔ bi yu pɔsin we yu lɛk, di rayt fɔ disayd fɔ dɛn mɔni, prɔpati ɛn pɔsin in yon.
Mɛmba se, i rili impɔtant fɔ tek dɛn ligal step ya bifo di sik kam tranga, dat na we di pɔsin de na di maynd we ebul fɔ disayd bɔt in yon biznɛs.
Dɔn bak, aks lɔya fɔ ɛp yu fɔ pripia impɔtant ligal dɔkyumɛnt dɛn, lɛk las wil.
Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit wok ɛn mɔni
As tɛm de go, as di we aw pɔsin de mɛmba tin ɛn di we aw i de tink, i nɔ kin izi fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ wok. Dis kin mek yu lɛf yu wok. Dis na big big prɔblɛm to di famili in mɔni. So, i impɔtant fɔ plan bifo tɛm fɔ tin dɛn lɛk:
- Aks di pɔsin we de gi yu wok: Yu tink se i pɔsibul fɔ ritaia kwik ɛn if di kɔmni de gi ɛni ɔda program fɔ ɛp di wokman dɛn?
- Gɔvmɛnt sɔbsidi: Chɛk if di Sri Lanka Dipatmɛnt fɔ Sɔshial Savis de gi ɛni alawɛns ɔ rilif to pipul dɛn we gɛt dɛn kayn mɛrɛsin ya. Pripia di mɛdikal rɛkɔd dɛn we yu nid fayn fayn wan.
- Fɛn ɔltin bɔt EPF/ETF: Aks if yu kin pul mɔni frɔm di Employees’ Provident Fund (EPF) ɔ ɛni ɔda fund kwik fɔ mɛrɛsin. Gɛt di dɔkyumɛnt dɛn we yu nid frɔm yu dɔktɔ .
- Limit expenses: Tɔk bifo tɛm bɔt di famili in mɔni nid ɛn tɔk bɔt aw fɔ stɔp di spɛns we nɔ nid fɔ spɛn.
Aw dis kin afɛkt di famili, mɔ di pikin dɛn?
E kin bi rial prɔblɛm if yɔŋ pikin dɛn de na os we dɛn no se yu gɛt dis sik. Pikin dɛn kin gɛt difrɛn filin bɔt dis chenj, ilɛksɛf na frɔm dɛn mama ɔ papa.
- Yɔŋ pikin dɛm: Dɛn kin fred ɛn wɔri, de aks se, "Wetin mek mama/papa fɔgɛt tin?"
- Tin dɛn: Dɛn kin fil di sem tin bak ɛn dɛn kin wɔri bɔt fɔ du mɔ wok na os.
De tin wae impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ tɔk ɔnɛs wit di wan ol famili, inklud di pikin dɛm, bɔt dis sik ɛn wetin fɔ ɛkspɛkt fɔ go bifo. Ɛksplen di tru tin to ɔlman di we we fit di ej. Pan ɔl we i kin sɔri fɔ lan di trut fɔs, di pikin dɛn go fil bad bad wan we dɛn no se na dis na di rizin we mek dɛn mama/papa in bihayvya chenj.
Wit ol dis, hau yu de tek kia of yusef?
Di sakrifays we yu mek fɔ mek yu pɔsin we yu lɛk gɛt bɛtɛ layf, rili valyu. Bɔt, na big big wok. Yusɛf kin vɛks, sɔri, ɛn strɛs sɔntɛnde. I rili nɔmal. Klose to ɔlman wae de kia fɔ pɔrsin lɛk dis kin gɛt dɛn kayn filin ya.
Yu kin jɔs kia fɔ di wan dɛn we yu lɛk gud gud wan if yu wɛl. So, tink bɔt yusɛf bak.
- Nɔ tray fɔ du ɔltin yu wan:Aksept di trut se yu nɔ go ebul fɔ du ɔltin yu wan. If sɔmbɔdi tɛl am fɔ ɛp, gri fɔ ɛp am. Ɛn nɔ fred fɔ se "nɔ" if yu nɔ ebul.
- Tɔk bɔt aw yu de fil: Nɔ kip yu filin insay bɔtul insay. Tɔk to yu padi ɔ yu fambul we yu kin abop pan bɔt am. If sɔpɔt grup dɛn de we de briŋ pipul dɛn we dɔn pas di sem kayn ɛkspiriɛns togɛda, fɔ jɔyn dɛn kin bi fayn we fɔ ɛp yu fɔ fil fayn.
- Tek dip briz: Ɛksesaiz na wan pan di bɛst we fɔ ridyus strɛs. Go waka, rɔn, du sɔntin we yu lɛk. I go ɛp yu fɔ slip fayn ɛn mek yu fil fayn.
- Yu fɔ no bɔt dis: Lan bɔku tin bɔt dis sik ɛn di chenj dɛn we go apin tumara bambay. Dis go ɛp yu fɔ rɛdi mɔ fɔ tumara bambay. Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt dis ɛn gɛt kɔrɛkt infɔmeshɔn.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- If yu notis se di pɔsin we yu lɛk dɔn chenj in mɛmori ɔ di we aw i de biev, go to dɔktɔ we sabi du di wok wantɛm wantɛm ɛn mek dɛn no di kɔrɛkt tin bɔt di sik.
- As dɛn dɔn kɔnfyus di sik so, mek ligal ɛn faynɛns arenjmɛnt (lɛk Pawa fɔ Atɔ, Las Wil ɛn Tɛstamɛnt) we nɔ go te.
- Na fɔ peshɛnt. Fɛn nyu, simpul we dɛn fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn. Tray fɔ ɔndastand aw dɛn de fil.
- Ɛksplen di tin we de apin to yu famili, mɔ di pikin dɛn, ɔnɛs wan ɛn insay langwej we dɛn ɔndastand.
- Di tin we pas ɔl na fɔ kia fɔ yusɛf. Tek kia ɔf yu bɔdi ɛn maynd wɛlbɔdi. Aks fɔ ɛp we yu nid am.
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