Wi ɔl lɛk fɛstival tɛm dɛn lɛk Nyu Ia ɛn Krismas, nɔto so? Na fayn tɛm we dɛn kin dekɔret os dɛn fayn fayn wan, fambul ɛn padi dɛn kin gɛda, ɛn ɔlman kin gladi . Bɔt fɔ mama ɔ papa we gɛt pikin we gɛt ɔtizm, dis tɛm kin tranga smɔl. Dɛn pikin ya kin at fɔ bia di nɔys dɛn we kin apin wantɛm wantɛm, di layt dɛn we kin shayn, ɛn di ples dɛn we pipul dɛn kin bɔku. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw fɔ kip wi pikin kol ɛn sef insay dis fɛstival sizin.
Wetin mek di ɔlide dɛn nɔ kin izi fɔ dɛn pikin ya?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, di bren fɔ pikin dɛn we gɛt ɔtizm kin prosɛs di infɔmeshɔn difrɛn we pas wi yon. Dɛn kin gɛt spɛshal sɛns fɔ fil . Dat min se, tin dεm we wi nכmal fכ si - wan sawnd, wan layt, wan smεl, wan tכch - kin rili strכng, nכ kin bia fכ dεm. Imajin, insay di ɔlide sizin, we di myuzik we de ple na di shɔp dɛn, di brayt layt dɛn, di sawnd we pipul dɛn de tɔk, ɔl dɛn tin ya go insay dɛn bren wan tɛm, dɛn kin fil big prɛshɔn, wet. Wi kin kɔl dis sɛns ɔvalod . Dɛn kayn tɛm dɛn de, di pikin kin vɛks, kray, ala, ɔ nɔ tɔk natin.
Mɛmba se yu pikin nɔ de mek pɔsin ambɔg am bay wilful. Dis na pat pan dɛn kɔndishɔn. Dɛn de tray fɔ pul prɛshɔn we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ bia.
Wetin wi fɔ du? Sɔm advays dɛn we go ɛp wi
Okay, so aw wi go fes dis chalenj? Nɔ wɔri, bay we wi de plan smɔl smɔl tin dɛn, wi kin mek dis tɛm izi fɔ di pikin ɛn fɔ wisɛf.
1. Ɔndastand gud gud wan wetin di pikin nɔ ebul fɔ du
Nɔto ɔl pikin dɛn na di sem. Aw bɔku nɔys yu pikin go ebul fɔ bia? Aw lɔng dɛn go ebul fɔ de na say we bɔku pipul dɛn kin de? Yu nid fɔ ɔndastand dɛn tin ya gud gud wan. Fɔ ɛgzampul, fɔ kɛr yu pikin go na big shopin mal na siti lɛk Kɔlɔmbɔ ɔ Kandi na midulnɛt insay di sɔmma mɔnt dɛn, i nɔ go fayn fɔ dɛn. Bifo dat, plan fɔ go ali mɔnin insay di wik, we pipul dɛn nɔ go bɔku.
2. Pripia ples we kwayɛt na say dɛn we nɔys de
If yu de go pati na yu fambul in os, tɔk to di famili bifo tɛm ɛn si if yu kin rɛzɛv wan kwayɛt rum ɔ kɔna na di yad fɔ mek yu pikin kwayɛt. As yu notis se yu pikin de fil strɛs so, gi am di chans fɔ go de ɛn ple wit wan tɔys we i lɛk, rid buk, ɔ jɔs de de. Dis go rili ridyus di strɛs we de na in maynd.
3. We yu de dekɔret yu os, du am smɔl smɔl.
Bifo yu put layt ɛn dɛkɔreshɔn ɔlsay na di os wantɛm wantɛm ɛn mek i tan lɛk "winter wonderland," du dɛn tin ya smɔl smɔl. Bring di Krismas tik wan de ɛn dɛkɔret am di nɛks de. Mek yu pikin put an pan dɛn tin ya. Gi am chans fɔ tɔch di dɛkɔreshɔn dɛn ɛn yus to dɛn. Dis go ɛp am fɔ lɛ i nɔ fred nyu tin dɛn.
4. Tek sef tin fɔ mek yu pikin nɔ lɔs.
Sɔmtɛm pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm kin rɔnawe ɛn waka waka na say dɛm wae dɛn nɔr no. Dis kin rili denja.
- Infɔm neba dɛm: I rili impɔtant fɔ tɛl yu neba dɛm we de nia yu bɔt yu pikin in kɔndishɔn ɛn dis kayn we aw i de biev.
- Wear ID: Put ID breslɛt na yu pikin in an. Rayt di pikin in nem ɛn yu fon nɔmba klia wan pan am.
- Yu fɔ wach ɔltɛm: Yu fɔ wach yu pikin ɔltɛm na say dɛn we pipul dɛn kin gɛda.
5. Kip di tin dɛn we yu pikin kin du ɛvride, nɔ chenj as yu ebul.
Rutin tan lɛk ankɔ fɔ dɛn pikin ya. I de mek dɛn fil sef. Nɔ chenj dɛn ɔspitul rutin tumɔs jɔs bikɔs na ɔlide.
- Fɔ it ɛn slip: Tray fɔ mek tin nɔ chenj as yu ebul, lɛk fɔ it yu pikin di sem tɛm ɛvride ɛn put am na bed di sem tɛm ɛvri nɛt.
- Nɔ mek chenj wantɛm wantɛm: Nɔ jɔs se, "Wi de go pati, rɛdi." Bifo dat, yuz wan schedule we yu kin si . Dat min se, sho am pikchɔ dɛn bɔt di tin dɛn we i fɔ du da de de (e.g., pikchɔ we i de it, pikchɔ fɔ in fambul in os) na di wɔl. Da we de, i go ebul fɔ no aw di de go tan lɛk.
| Di chalenj fɔ di fɛstival sizin | Wetin yu go ebul fɔ du |
|---|---|
| Kraud ɛn nɔys we pasmak | Pik tɛm we pipul dɛn nɔ go bɔku. No bifo tɛm fɔ no usay kwayɛt ples. Di pikin kin yuz ɛdfɔn we de kansel nɔys. |
| Chenj di tin dɛn we yu kin du ɛvride | Nɔ chenj di tɛm fɔ it ɛn fɔ slip. Sho yu pikin wan vishɔnal schedule fɔ di de bifo tɛm. |
| Nyu it dɛn | Tek sɔm it dɛn we yu sabi go na di ples we yu de go. Nɔ fos yu pikin fɔ it nyu it dɛn. |
| Fɔ gɛt gift dɛn ɛn fɔ opin dɛn | Introdyus wan patikyula tɛm ɛn we fɔ opin gift (e.g., we ɔlman de togɛda, tek turn). |
6. Briŋ tin dɛn we go mek di pikin gɛt kɔrej.
If yu de go sɔmsay, pak sɔm tin dɛn we yu sabi ɛn we yu lɛk na yu pikin in bag. I kin bi tɔys we dɛn lɛk, buk, fon we gɛt siŋ dɛn we dɛn lɛk fɔ lisin to, ɔ snek dɛn we dɛn lɛk fɔ it. If yu gɛt dɛn tin ya na yu an we dɛn de fil strɛs, dat kin rili kɔrej dɛn.
7. Tek tɛm we yu de pik ɛn gi gift.
We yu de pik gift fɔ yu pikin, tink bɔt if i nɔ go jɔs fayn fɔ am, bɔt i go ɛp am bak fɔ mek i sabi du tin. Fɔ ɛgzampul, tɔys dɛn we de ɛnkɔrej pipul dɛn fɔ tɔn to ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn fɔ lan langwej rili valyu.
Sɛt sɔm lɔ dɛn fɔ opin gift dɛn bak. Tɛl yu pikin bifo tɛm se na we ɔlman de togɛda nɔmɔ dɛn go opin gift. Sɔntɛm yu pikin nɔ go ebul fɔ bia di gladi gladi we ɔlman kin gɛt we dɛn de opin gift dɛn wan tɛm. So, yuz sɔntin lɛk smɔl bɔl we pɔsin kin pas frɔm wan pɔsin to ɔda pɔsin, ɛn mek di pɔsin we ol am opin in gift.
Fɔ dɔn, i nɔ bad if ɔltin nɔ go lɛk aw dɛn bin dɔn plan. Nɔ wɔri bɔt am. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ valyu ɛvri tɛm we yu spɛn wit yu pikin insay dis fɛstival sizin. If yu gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ kɔntrol yu pikin in bihayvya ɔ yu nid ɔda advays, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn ɔ dɔktɔ we de mɛn dɛn maynd .
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Fɔ pikin dɛm wae gɛt ɔtizm, di fɛstival sizin kin strɛs bikɔs ɔf di ayt sɛns sɛnsitiviti dɛm.
- Mek di tin dɛn we yu pikin kin du ɔltɛm as yu ebul. I go mek di pikin gɛt sef.
- Nɔ go na say dɛn we pipul dɛn kin ful-ɔp ɛn we gɛt nɔys. Ɔ go we pipul dɛn nɔ bɔku. Set wan kwayɛt ples we yu de go.
- Tek sef tin dɛm lɛk fɔ wɛr ID kad ɛn pe atɛnshɔn ɔltɛm fɔ mek yu pikin nɔ lɔs.
- Tek tɔys, buk, ɔ it dɛn we yu sabi we go mek yu pikin fil fayn ɛnisay we yu go.
- Ivin if ɔltin nɔ pafɛkt, valyu ɛn gladi fɔ di smɔl smɔl tɛm dɛn we yu de spɛn wit yu pikin. If yu gɛt ɛnitin we de mɔna yu, go to yu dɔktɔ.
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