Yu de expekt twins? Ɔ yu de tink bɔt am? Twins na dabl blɛsin we kin kam na yu os wan tɛm. Bɔt yu tink se wi kin rili tɔk bɔt di prɔblɛm dɛn ɛn prɔblɛm dɛn we kin kam wit da gladi at de? Tide wi go tɔk bɔt di stori bɔt wan mama we nem Maureen we bin gɛt dis kayn ɛkspiriɛns. Tru in stori, wi go tray fɔ ɔndastand aw layf rili tan lɛk wit twins .
Maureen in stori: Twins afta IVF
Maureen Downey ɛn in man Bo Emerson bin dɔn gɛt tu pikin dɛn. Dɛn bin de tink bɔt fɔ bɔn di tɔd pikin, bɔt Mɔrin bin gɛt bɛlɛ fɔ bɔku tɛm. So dɛn disayd fɔ tɔn to nyu tritmɛnt fɔ bɔn pikin, we na IVF (In-Vitro Fertilization), fɔ bɔn pikin.
Maureen bin ol 42 ia da tɛm de. Dɔktɔ dɛn bin put tu embryo dɛn na in uterus. Dɛn nɔ bin rili want twins, bɔt dɛn bin tink se i go fayn if dɛn du dat. Maureen se, "Fɔ pɔsin we nɔ bɔn pikin bifo, i ɔndastand se dɛn go want twins bikɔs i kin bi di wangren chans we dɛn gɛt." "Bɔt wi bin jɔs want tɔd pikin. So a nɔ bin tink se a want twins. Bɔt a bin de op se ɔl tu di embryo dɛn go fayn."
Yu tink se fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ wit twins difrɛn pas aw yu bin de tink?
Maureen se in bɛlɛ bin go fayn, ɛn i nɔ bin gɛt ɛni big prɔblɛm. Dat min se i nɔ bin nid fɔ de na bed. Bɔt i bin gɛt fɔ lɛf in wok kwik kwik wan pas di tu bɛlɛ dɛn we i bin gɛt trade. I bin gɛt fɔ bia bak wit bɔku nyu tin dɛn we i nɔ ɛva ɛkspiriɛns bifo.
"A bin gɛt at bɔn we a nɔ ɛva gɛt bifo. Di fɔs tɛm we i apin, a bin tink se a de gɛt at atak. I bin so bad. A bin gɛt bɔku smɔl smɔl pen ɛn pen dɛn bak ɔlsay na mi bɔdi. Fɔ tɔk tru, di las mɔnt ɛn af we a bin gɛt bɛlɛ bin rili taya ɛn taya. A nɔ bin fil lɛk dis we a bin de bɔn mi fɔs tu pikin dɛn."
Bɔku tɛm, we yu gɛt twin pikin dɛn, di uterus kin big, ɛn dis kin mek di ɔgan dɛn na di bɛlɛ mɔ prɛshɔ. Dis kin mek yu chɛst pen, i nɔ kin izi fɔ blo, ɛn yu bɔdi kin at. If yu de gɛt dɛn kayn sik ya, i go fayn fɔ mek yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt am.
Wetin bin apin afta dɛn bɔn di pikin dɛn?
We Mɔrin bin ol 39 wik, we dɔn nia fɔ ful-ɔp, dɛn bin plan fɔ du sizarian sɛkshɔn.Dɛn bɔn Ribɛka ɛn Joy bay we dɛn bin dɔn sɛtul fɔ mek dɛn du C-section. Pan ɔl we i bin tan lɛk se ɔltin bin de go fayn, Mɔrin bin gɛt mɔ prɔblɛm dɛn pas aw i bin de tink afta we dɛn bɔn am.
In uterus nɔ bin de kɔntrakt fayn, so i bigin fɔ blɔd bɔku bɔku wan. Dɛn kɔl dis sik we dɛn kɔl Postpartum Hemorrhage .
"Tin afta di pikin dem born bin komplikayt pas aw a bin de tink. A tink se a los lek wan pat pan di blɔd na mi bɔdi. A bin go os tu wik fɔ waka, ɛn a bin gɛt siriɔs anemia."
Dis kayn we aw pɔsin kin blɔd bad bad wan na tin we pɔsin kin du fɔ mɛn pipul dɛn. Insay Sri Lanka, if dɛn kayn tin ya apin, dɛn kin admit pɔsin we sik wantɛm wantɛm na di Imejɛnsi Tritmɛnt Yunit (ETU) ɛn gi am di tritmɛnt we i nid.
Maureen se i tek am wan ful ia fɔ mek i gɛt trɛnk ɛn wɛlbɔdi bak, ɛn dis kin mek yu no aw i go dɔn wik.
Di fɔs ia: na tɛm we at pas aw dɛn bin de tink
Maureen se i nɔto novis fɔ mɛn pikin dɛn. Bikɔs i bin dɔn mɛn tu pikin dɛn bifo, i bin dɔn rɛdi ɔltin bifo i briŋ di twins dɛn na os. Di pikin in rum, in klos, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn we i nid, ɔl bin fayn.
"Di fɔs nɛt we wi kam bak na os frɔm di ɔspitul, wi bin tink se wi gɛt ɔl wetin wi nid. Dɛn bin arenj di klin klos dɛn fayn fayn wan na di drɔwa dɛn. Bɔt da fɔs nɛt de, di bebi dɛn bin so wet ɛn vɔmit bɔku tɛm dat wi bin gɛt fɔ kɔt di tag dɛn pan di nyu klos dɛn we de insay di bɔks dɛn ɛn put dɛn. Wi nɔ bin rɛdi fɔ dat atɔl."
I bin rili sɔprayz Mɔrin. I se, "A bin gɛt fɔ rayz mi bar bɔku fɔ aw dis wok bin at."
"Dat fes yie na laik drim fo mai memori. Na wan han, nobodi bin de fo helep mi. Na di oda han, na big big shok fo mai bodi, we bin don los plenti blɔd ɛn wik. Pan tap dat, i bin rili taya da tɛm de, wit fɔ gi wi ɔl tu bɛlɛ."
| Opportunity fɔ ɛkspiriɛns | Maureen in ɛkspiriɛns (wit twins) . |
|---|---|
| Di tɛm we uman gɛt bɛlɛ | Chɛst pen ɛn bɔdi pen we nɔbɔdi nɔ si yet. I kin taya pas fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ wan tɛm nɔmɔ. |
| Afta we dɛn bɔn pikin | Wan pat pan tri pat pan di bɔdi in blɔd kin lɔs bikɔs i kin blɔd pasmak (ɛmoraji) ɛn i kin gɛt siriɔs anemia. |
| Di tɛm we i tek fɔ mek di bɔdi wɛl | I tek wan ful ia fɔ mek i gɛt trɛnk bak. |
| Fɔs ia ɛkspiriɛns | Na tu tɛm pas di wok we yu de tink. Na tɛm we pɔsin kin taya atɔl ɛn nɔ slip, nɔbɔdi nɔ de fɔ ɛp, ɛn nɔbɔdi nɔ de fɔ tɔn to. |
Yu tink se layf wit twins tan lɛk ‘sɛrks’?
Maureen se i lɛk ples we nɔys ɛn we nɔ gɛt rɛst.
"If yu tink se na jɔs wan pikin nɔmɔ go ɛp yu famili , twins kin bi big chenj fɔ yu. Dɛn tan lɛk dɛn yon smɔl 'travlin sɛrks' ."
"Dem de rili lawd. Evritin komplikayt. Especially wen di bebi dem de yong, i de rili at fo go stoa, to put tu fo moto sit, to kip wi tu fo moto. Mi and mai man tu don yus likl to di nois. Bot wen padi we onli get wan pikin kom fo mai haus, a don si dem jomp. A tink se na bikos wi get fo pikin fo haus. Bot most of di nois." kɔmɔt frɔm di twins dɛn."
Maureen in stori sho wi se twin pikin dɛn na blɛsin ɛn na prɔblɛm we de tɛst mama ɛn papa dɛn fɔ peshɛnt, trɛnk, ɛn sɔpɔt dɛnsɛf to di ful wan.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- If yu de op fɔ gɛt twins, di bɛlɛ kin tranga yu bɔdi pas if yu bin de ɛkspɛkt fɔ gɛt wan pikin. Pripia yusɛf na yu maynd ɛn yu bɔdi fɔ dat.
- Risk de fɔ mek yu gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn lɛk we yu de blɔd pasmak afta yu bɔn pikin. So, i impɔtant fɔ fala di dɔktɔ in instrɔkshɔn dɛn di rayt we ɛn tɛl di dɔktɔ bɔt ɛnitin we nɔ kɔmɔn.
- Di fɔs ia fɔ mɛn twins kin tranga pas aw yu tink. If i pɔsibul, i go rili ɛp yu fɔ gɛt sɔpɔt frɔm yu fambul ɔ pɔsin we go ɛp yu.
- I rili impɔtant fɔ mek yu ɛn yu patna sɔpɔt unasɛf, peshɛnt, ɛn ɔndastand unasɛf insay dis tɛm. Dis tan lɛk tim spɔt.
- Ɛni ɛkspiriɛns difrɛn. Di tin we bin apin to Mɔrin na wan we. Yu ɛkspiriɛns kin bi ɔda tin. Bɔt i fayn fɔ no bifo tɛm bɔt dɛn prɔblɛm dɛn de.
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