Fɔ bi mama ɔ papa na di big tin we bɔku pipul dɛn kin drim na dɛn layf. Bɔt sɔntɛnde, bikɔs ɔf difrɛn rizin dɛn, i kin at smɔl fɔ mek wi no da drim de. Na da tɛm de bɔku pipul dɛn kin tɔn to IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ) tritmɛnt. Dis na blɛsin fɔ tru pan mɛrɛsin. Bɔt dis waka nɔ simpul lɛk aw yu tink. Ɛspɛshali fɔ di wan dɛn we de tink se, "O, aw i go fayn if wi gɛt twins wan tɛm," wan sayd de we wi nɔ de si pan dis joyn. Tide, wi de tok abaut am, wit di rial ekspiriens fo wan uman we nem Spring, we de liv fo Amerika.
Di Stori bɔt Spring: Op ɛn Rial
Spring na wan uman we ol 32 ia. In ɛn in man dɔn de tray fɔ gɛt bɛlɛ fɔ 4 ɛn af ia, ɛn dɛn dɔn tɔn to IVF tritmɛnt. Di fɔs tɛm we dɛn tray fɔ yuz IVF nɔ bin wok. Bɔt di sɛkɔn tɛm, di dɔktɔ dɛn put tri embryo dɛn na in uterus.
Fɔs, di dɔktɔ bin se dɛn de op fɔ gɛt twins. Bɔt afta sɔm dez, dɛn gɛt sɔprayz nyus - dɛn bin de ɛkspɛkt fɔ gɛt tɔd pikin! Bɔt di gladi at nɔ bin las fɔ lɔng tɛm. Di tɔd bɛlɛ bin miskɛr. Fɔ dɔn, Spring de kɛr twins naw.
As i se, di wan ol prɔses tan lɛk we pɔsin de rayd rɔla kɔsta. Wan ɔltɛm miks fɔ ay ɛn lɔw, gladi at , sɔri-at, fred, ɛn op.
"Wi nɔ bin rili ɛkspɛkt twins. Bɔt bikɔs wi ɔl tu famili gɛt twins, wi bin gɛt smɔl aidia se wi go laki fɔ gɛt dɛn. Bɔt we i kam pan IVF, wi wangren op na fɔ sɔm kayn we fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi pikin . Wi bin rili gladi we wi kam fɔ no se wi de gɛt twins."
"A want twins tu" - dis tinkin rili tru?
We bɔku pipul dɛn kin tink bɔt IVF, dɛn kin tink se, "I go fayn if wi kin bɔn tu pikin dɛn fɔ di sem kɔst ɛn tray." Dat na tin we pipul dɛn kin tink bɔt. Bɔt Spring tɛl wan rili impɔtant stori bɔt dis.
"If pɔsin kam to dis tritmɛnt wit di maynd fɔ want twins, na di rɔng maynd. Dis na rili kɔmpleks, siriɔs prɔses. I de afɛkt yu, yu man, yu famili, ɔlman pan maynd ɛn bɔdi. Dis joyn nid fɔ bigin frɔm di ples we dɛn se, 'A want famili, a go gladi fɔ aksept ɛni pikin we Gɔd gi mi.'"
As i se, pikin na blɛsin. IVF kin bi tin we at fɔ disayd, bɔt i kin bi di bɛst tin bak fɔ yu famili. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ put di gol fɔ pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn mama we gɛt wɛlbɔdi fɔs pas di aidia fɔ gɛt twins.
Wetin mek dis rili impɔtant?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, fɔ kɛr tu ɔ mɔ pikin dɛn instead fɔ kɛr wan (bɔku bɛlɛ) kin mek sɔm prɔblɛm dɛn apin to di mama ɛn di pikin dɛn. Dis nɔto sɔntin we wi fɔ fred, bɔt i impɔtant fɔ mek wi no bɔt am.
| Risk Factor | Tɔk bɔt |
|---|---|
| Leba we dɛn kin bɔn bifo tɛm | mכr dan 60% pan di twins dεm we dεn bכn bifo tεm, we de put di pikin dεm pan bכku risk fכ gεt hεlth prכblεm. |
| Lɔw Wet we dɛn bɔn am | Bɔku twin pikin dɛn kin bɔn wit smɔl wet we dɛn bɔn, we kin nid fɔ gɛt tritmɛnt na spɛshal neonatal intensive care unit (NICU). |
| Sɔm prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin to di mama | di risk de fכ kכndyushכn dεm lεk gestational diabetes εn prε-eklampsia we uman bεlε. Risk de bak fɔ mek dɛn nid sizarian sɛkshɔn (C-section). |
| Bed Rɛst | Lɛk Spring, bɔku mama dɛn we de kɛr twins dɛn kin gɛt fɔ rɛst na bed sɔm tɛm we dɛn gɛt bɛlɛ. |
So wetin wi de du?
Dis stori nɔ de se nɔ du IVF, ɔ se twins nɔ gud. I de se fɔ bi rial, fɔ no gud gud wan, ɛn fɔ rɛdi yu maynd fɔ dis joyn.I min fɔ fes am .
1. Tɔk wit yu dɔktɔ opin wan: Bifo yu bigin fɔ tek IVF tritmɛnt, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt wetin yu op, wetin yu de fred, ɛn ɔltin. Di dɔktɔ kin disayd ɔmɔs embryo dɛn fɔ transfa insay di uterus, ɛn i kin tink bɔt yu ej, yu wɛlbɔdi, ɛn bɔku ɔda tin dɛn. Tek tɛm tɔk bɔt am ɛn ɔndastand am.
2. Fɔ pripia fɔ yu maynd: IVF na wan waka we nɔ izi fɔ yu bɔdi ɛn yu maynd. Di ɔmon injɛkshɔn, fɔ skan ɔltɛm, ɛn wet fɔ di rizɔlt, ɔl kin mek yu strɛs. So kip yu maynd kol ɛn aks fɔ advays if nid de.
3. Gɛt sɔpɔt : Yu patna in sɔpɔt impɔtant pan dis joyn. Dɔn bak, tɛl yu famili ɛn padi dɛn we yu kin abop pan. Di sɔpɔt we dɛn go gi yu, go mek yu gɛt bɔku trɛnk.
4. Klarify yu gol: Yu fɔs ɛn di wangren gol fɔ bi fɔ bɔn pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi . Fɔ gɛt twins na tu blɛsin. Bɔt nɔ mek dat na yu wangren gol.
IVF na wan fayn fayn tin we dɔn ɛp bɔku bɔku mared pipul dɛn we nɔ ebul fɔ bɔn pikin. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ mek yu, as yu de bigin da waka de, no aw i fayn ɛn bak di prɔblɛm dɛn we i gɛt, ɛn yu fɔ go tru am wit trɛnk.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- IVF tritmɛnt na valyu chans fɔ mek yu drim fɔ bɔn pikin kam tru, bɔt na joyn we nɔ izi fɔ yu bɔdi ɛn maynd.
- I nɔ fayn fɔ go insay IVF tritmɛnt wit di wangren tin we yu want fɔ "gɛt twins." Yu men gol fɔ bi fɔ gɛt pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn mama we gɛt wɛlbɔdi .
- I rili impɔtant fɔ no di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin to di mama ɛn di pikin dɛn we dɛn gɛt bɔku bɛlɛ.
- Kɔmyuniket klos ɛn opin wan wit yu dɔktɔ ɔl dis ɔl di prɔses. Tɔk to dɛn bɔt di tin dɛn we yu de dawt ɛn di tin dɛn we yu de fred.
- Di sɔpɔt we yu patna ɛn famili go gi yu go bi big trɛnk fɔ yu ɔlsay na dis joyn.
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