No ɛkspiriɛns nɔ de we gɛt lɔv ɛn fayn pas fɔ put yu smɔl pikin slip we yu de gi in bɛlɛ. di kכntakt bitwin di skin to di skin bitwin di mama εn di pikin de mek di tu bכdi strכng. di hεlth כmon dεm we dεn kin kכl dεm da tεm de εp bak fכ di pikin slip fayn. Bɔt as di pikin de gro, sɔntɛnde dis abit kin mek i gɛt smɔl prɔblɛm dɛn. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis, di pɔsibul ifɛkt dɛm fɔ dis ɛn aw wi kin dil wit dis situeshɔn wit lɔv.
Wetin na di rial tin we kin apin we pɔsin put pikin fɔ slip wit in mama in milk?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, bebi dɛn, lɛk wi ɔl, kin gɛt abit dɛn wit sɔm tin dɛn. Tink bɔt am, ivin we wi dɔn big, wi gɛt abit dɛn lɛk fɔ rid buk ɔ lisin to siŋ bifo wi go slip na nɛt, nɔto so? Na so i kin bi wit bebi dɛn. Dɛn kin bigin fɔ kɔmpia slip wit ɔda tin.
fכ sכk yu pikin fכ slip nכ denja, bכt we dis bi abit, di pikin kin bigin fכ asosiet slip εn bεlε as wan. dis dεn kכl am di ``Suck-to-sleep association''. Dis kin mek di pikin nɔ ebul fɔ slip fɔ insɛf, dat min se i nɔ de gi in bɛlɛ.
Na sɔm prɔblɛm dɛn we dis abit kin kam wit tumara bambay:
- Nid mama in milk fɔ go slip: We pikin bigin fɔ abop pan mama in milk fɔ go slip, i kin wek midul nɛt ɛn want fɔ slip bak. Dis kin mek di mama nɔ slip fayn. Dɔn bak, fɔ wef di pikin kɔmɔt na in mama in milk kin rili at wans di pikin dɔn big smɔl.
- I nɔ izi fɔ kia fɔ di pikin: Imajin if yu fɔ go bak na wokples, ɔ if yu fɔ go shɔt trip wit yu man. If di pikin jɔs de slip afta yu dɔn gi am in mama in bɛlɛ, i go bi big prɔblɛm fɔ ɔda pɔsin, lɛk di papa ɔ di grani fɔ put di pikin slip.
- Impekt pan di mama in maynd ɛn bɔdi wɛlbɔdi: Slip na big tin we mama dɛn kin wɔri bɔt afta dɛn dɔn bɔn nyu pikin. Pantap dat, we na di mama nɔmɔ gɛt di wok fɔ mek di pikin slip, dat kin rili afɛkt in maynd ɛn bɔdi. We una tu sheb dis wok, dat kin mek di mama nɔ strɛs ɛn i kin mek di wan ol famili fil fayn.
Aw yu go no we na tɛm fɔ lɛ yu lɛf dis abit?
As yu pikin de gro, sɔm sayn dɛn de we yu kin luk fɔ fɔ ɛp yu fɔ ɔndastand if na di tɛm fɔ chenj di we aw yu de gi pikin in bɛlɛ to slip. Lɛ wi tek wan luk pan wetin dɛn bi.
| Di sayn we yu de si | Wetin dis min? |
|---|---|
| Kɔmfɔt Nɔs | Sɔntɛnde, bebi dɛn nɔ kin gi pikin milk bikɔs dɛn angri, bɔt na jɔs fɔ mek dɛn gɛt kɔrej. Dis na wetin wi kin kɔl ``Kɔmfɔt nɔs''. I nɔ bad fɔ du dis we yu sik ɔ yu de gɛt tit. Bɔt if yu mek dis abit ɛvri nɛt bifo yu go slip, dat na sayn fɔ sho se na tɛm fɔ chenj am. |
| Fɔ gi pikin bɔbi pasmak fɔ go slip | If no ɔda we fɔ mek yu pikin slip wok, ɛn i jɔs de slip we yu gi am in bɛlɛ, dat min se i de dipen pan dat ɔltogɛda. If i wek na nɛt ɛn i nɔ ebul fɔ mek i slip we i nɔ gi am in bɛlɛ bak, dat na sayn bak fɔ sho se na tɛm fɔ chenj di abit. |
| Fɔ wek bɔku tɛm na nɛt | Bebi dεm kin slip sכt pas big pipul dεm. Na dat mek dɛn kin wek bɔku tɛm. Bɔt if dɛn nɔ no aw fɔ go bak fɔ slip fɔ dɛnsɛf ɛn wek ɛvri 45 minit fɔ it, na big prɔblɛm fɔ di mama. Insay dis kayn tɛm, fɔ introduks gud slip abit to di pikin (Slip trenin) kin rili ɛp. |
Mɛmba se ɔl pikin difrɛn. I go tek sɔm tɛm fɔ fɛn di we we go wok fayn fɔ yu ɛn yu pikin. Nɔ wɔri bɔt am. Aproch dis wit peshɛnt ɛn lɔv.
So, aw yu go mek yu pikin yus fɔ slip in wan?
Okay, so naw lɛ wi tɔk bɔt sɔm we dɛn fɔ chenj dis abit ɛn ɛp yu pikin fɔ slip wit pis fɔ insɛf.
1. Mek ples we kol at
Finish yu de wok kwik kwik wan. I impɔtant fɔ tek tɛm fɔ mek yu ɛn yu pikin rilaks bifo yu go slip na nɛt. If i pɔsibul, kɛr yu pikin go waka fɔ shɔt tɛm na di yad na nɛt, ɔ tinap nia di domɔt ɛn tek dip briz. Da fresh briz de go mek una ɔl tu kol. Kip di say we yu de na os kwayɛt na nɛt. Bɔt nɔ mek i nɔ tɔk natin. Nɔmal tɔk ɛn sawnd dɛn we yu sabi frɔm os kin ɛp yu pikin fɔ slip .
2. Mek yu pikin ɔndastand se fɔ gi pikin in bɛlɛ na it.
we yu de gi pikin in bεlε, as yu fil se yu pikin dכn gεt inof (bay tin dεm lεk di spid we i de sכk dכn, di limb dεm we de layt, εn כda tin dεm), pul di pikin jisno. Dɔn tɔn di pikin na in bak ɛn kɔl am. Dis na saful mɛsej to yu pikin, se, "Mama de rayt ya, bɔt naw na tɛm fɔ it."
3. Mek yu gɛt wan patikyula rutin bifo yu go slip
Start fɔ du sɔm tin dɛn di sem tɛm ɛn di sem we ɛvri nɛt. Wi de kol dis ``bedtime routine``.
- Fɔ klin di pikin in gam ɔ in tit wit wet klos.
- Una tu de luk wan buk togɛda (ilɛksɛf i gɛt pikchɔ dɛn).
- Fɔ siŋ di pikin in fav lullaby ɔ siŋ.
- Hol yu pikin klos to yu chɛst. Dis kin mek yu ɔl tu bɔdi gɛt ɔmon dɛn we de mek yu kol.
Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ du dɛn tin ya di sem ɔda ɛn di sem we ɛvride. If i pɔsibul, mek di papa tek pat pan dis. Dɔn nɔto di mama nɔmɔ, bɔt di papa bak go ebul fɔ put di pikin slip.
4. Tɔk to yu pikin ɛn du dis.
If yu pikin dɔn ol fɔ ɔndastand, yu kin tɔk to am bɔt wetin yu de du. Fid am fɔ sɔm tɛm, se, "Mama, a go gɛt da tin de," ɛn lɛf am. Bɔt nɔ ɛva brok yu prɔmis fɔ kam bak. Smɔl smɔl, yu fɔ ad di tɛm we yu de fa. Dis go ɛp yu pikin fɔ gɛt trɔst, ɛn i go izi fɔ mek i slip fɔ insɛf we yu de wet fɔ am.
Ɛksplen tin to yu pikin wit lɔv, lɛk, "Na nɛt naw, ɛn fɔ gi pikin in bɛlɛ dɔn dɔn. Yu go jɔs gi am wan tɛm na nɛt." Dɛn tin ya nɔ go wok wan de, bɔt if yu tray tranga wan, yu go mɔs gɛt rizɔlt.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Pan ɔl we fɔ put yu pikin fɔ slip we yu de gi in mama in bɛlɛ na tin we yu rili lɛk, if i bi abit, yu pikin kin dipen pan am fɔ mek i slip.
- If yu pikin jɔs de sok we i nɔ de swɛla milk (kɔmfɔt nɔs) ɔ i de wek bɔku tɛm na nɛt, i kin bi sayn fɔ se na tɛm fɔ chenj da abit de.
- Establish wan kol kol rutin bifo yu go slip (e.g., rid buk, sing sing) we yu de du di sem taim evri nait.
- Sheb di rispɔnsibiliti fɔ put di pikin slip wit di papa. I go rili mek yu fil fayn.
- Ɛni pikin difrɛn. Peshɛnt ɛn sho lɔv. If wan we nɔ wok, tray ɔda we.
- If yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt ɔ kwɛstyɔn bɔt dis, nɔ ɛva shem fɔ tɔk to yu midwayf ɔ dɔktɔ bɔt am.
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