yu no aw yu 1-3 mכnt pikin "tכk" to yu (Bebi Kכmyunikεshכn)?

as yu sכm pikin de kכmכt sכmtεm frכm di nyu bכbi stej, wan fayn fayn "kכnvכshכn" de bigin bitwin yu εn yu pikin. Dat min se, una bigin fɔ tɔk to unasɛf tru laf ɛn sawnd. As yu pikin de ple smɔl ɛn want fɔ no mɔ, i kin bigin fɔ gɛt in yon spɛshal pɔsin. Yu nɔ tink se dis na rili swit tɛm?

Aw una de tɔk to wi, smɔl pikin dɛn?

Pan ɔl we bebi dɛn nɔ de tɔk wit wɔd dɛn lɛk wi, dɛn kin tɔk bɔku to wi insay dɛn yon we. Lɛ wi si aw dat kin wok.

Kray - dɛn men langwej!

Kray na di men we aw pikin dɛn kin tɔk to dɛnsɛf we dɛn bigin. Dɛn kin kray we dɛn nid sɔntin, we dɛn angri, we dɛn de slip, we dɛn nɔ kin fil fayn (sɔntɛm dɛn daypa wet, ɔ dɛn kin wam). Sɔntɛnde dɛn kin kray we ɔltin na dis wɔl, di nɔys, di layt, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn, kin tan lɛk se dɛn tu bɔku smɔl fɔ dɛn, dat na, dɛn kin ``ɔvawɛl``. Tink bɔt aw bɔku nyu tin dɛn de apin to smɔl pikin wan tɛm! So fɔ kray da we de na nɔmal tin. As mama, yu go ebul fɔ no wetin de apin to yu pikin afta sɔm tɛm bay di we aw i de kray.

Di we aw dɛn de ansa yu vɔys ɛn smayl

We yu de tɔk, yu pikin go tɔn in ed fɔ luk yu, luk yu fɔ sɔm tɛm ɛn afta dat i go kwayɛt, sɔntɛm i go smayl, ɔ jɔs tinap de wit in an ɛn leg dɛn we opin big big wan wit gladi at. We yu smayl, di pikin kin smayl bak to yu. Yu nɔ tink se dat na fayn ɛkspiriɛns? We yu si da smɔl smayl de, yu fɔgɛt bɔt di wan ol wɔl, nɔto so?

Di sawnd fɔ ‘Koo’, di sawnd fɔ ‘Guru Guru’... dɛn yon wɔd dɛn!

Bebi dɛn de kam fɔ no smɔl smɔl se dɛn kin mek sawnd. We yu de wach, yu os go tan lɛk smɔl mashin we de mek ‘ku’, ‘guru guru’, ɛn ɔl kayn sawnd! Dɛn go "tɔk" to yu wit ɔl kayn sawnd. Sɔm pikin dɛn kin ivin bigin fɔ mek vaybul sawnd lɛk ‘a-a’, ‘u-u’, ɛn ‘o-o’ dis tɛm. Dis na di fɔs tin dɛn we dɛn kin du fɔ lan langwej.

So wetin a fɔ du as mama?

Bɔku tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ mek yu smɔl pikin ebul fɔ tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn mɔ ɛn mɔ. Dis na tin dɛn we rili simpul ɛn we gɛt lɔv.

• Tɔk to yu pikin bɔku tɛm, ple. Yu pikin lɛk yu vɔys. So insay dis fכs mכnt dεm, tכk to yu pikin, rid buk (i nכ mata if na pikchכ buk, dεn lεk di ritm we yu de rid, di chenj dεm na yu vכys), sing sing, εn sing 'coo'. Rispɔnd to di sawnd ɛn laf we yu pikin de mek wit intres. Se tin dɛn lɛk, ‘Luk mi pikin we de smayl’, ‘Wetin yu de se to Mama?’. We yu de tɔk to yu pikin, siŋ siŋ, ɛn rid buk, yu nɔ jɔs de spɛn tɛm. εvri wכd, εvri sawnd, εvri laf de εp yu pikin in bren divεlכpmεnt. Ivin if dɛn nɔ no wetin di wɔd dɛn min da tɛm de, dɛn kin lan fɔ no di ritm, di sawnd patɛn, ɛn difrɛns pan di vɔys dɛn na wan langwej. Dis na di fawndeshɔn fɔ mek dɛn tɔk fayn leta ɛn ɔndastand wetin ɔda pipul dɛn de tɔk.

• Tεl yu pikin wetin i de luk, wetin i de du, εn wetin yu de du. Se di nem dεm fכ di tin dεm we yu sabi as yu de tכch dεm כ gi yu pikin dεm. Se tin lɛk, ‘Luk dis rɛd bɔl,’ ‘Mama go mek milk fɔ di pikin naw,’ ‘Luk, mi bɔy pikin/ gyal pikin, wan fayn bɔd sidɔm na di winda.’ Dis kin ɛp dɛn fɔ mek kɔnekshɔn bitwin wɔd ɛn tin dɛn.

• "Tɔk" to yu pikin. If yu pikin mek sawnd, se am bak ɛn wet fɔ mek dɛn ansa am. fכ egzampl, if yu pikin mek "woof," se "woof" εn wet fכ sכm tεm. Sɔntɛm i go mek ɔda sawnd. Dis we ya, yu de tich yu pikin valyu lɛsin dɛn bɔt aw i de tɔk, aw i de waka, ɛn aw i de tek in turn. Dis kin tich yu pikin se i impɔtant fɔ lisin to am. Nɔ ambɔg ɔ luk ɔdasay we yu pikin de "tɔk." Mek i no se yu intres ɛn yu smɔl pikin kin abop pan yu.

• Yuz fɔ rid yu pikin in ‘bɔdi langwej’. Sɔmtɛm dɛn go gi yu clues bɔt wetin dɛn want ɛn aw dɛn de fil tru di we aw dɛn de muv dɛn an, mek fes, ɔr luk yu. we yu כndastand dεn ‘nonverbal cues’ ya, i go mek di bond bitwin yu εn yu pikin strכng bak.

• Ɔndastand se tɛm dɛn de we bebi dɛn nid fɔ kwayɛt. Sɔntɛnde, bebi dɛn nɔ kin fil fɔ tɔk ɔ mek nɔys. Dɛn de gɛt tumɔs stimulation frɔm di tin dɛm wae de arawnd dɛm, di sawnd dɛm, ɛn di layt dɛm, ɛn dɛn nid fɔ blo. Dɛn kayn tɛm dɛn de, pikin dɛn kin luk ɔdasay, lɔk dɛn yay, ɔ jɔs vɛks ɛn bigin fɔ kray. If dat apin, mek yu smɔl pikin rɛst fɔ sɔm tɛm, ɛn tray fɔ ol am if i want. Nɔ tray ɔltɛm fɔ ɛnkɔrej am fɔ ple.

Di we aw yu de sho yu fes bak rili impɔtant to di pikin!

Bebi dɛn lɛk fɔ luk yu fes jɔs lɛk aw dɛn lɛk fɔ yɛri yu vɔys. Dɛn kin wach yu fes we yu de smayl, we yu sɔprayz, we yu de luk dɛn wit lɔv. Dis na ɔda we fɔ mek dɛn ɔndastand aw dɛn de fil ɛn lan wetin na fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf. So we yu de tɔk to yu pikin, we yu de rɔk am, nɔ fɔgɛt fɔ luk am wit lɔv ɛn gi am big smayl. Yu fes na im fes ‘buk’!

Mi pikin de kray tumɔs? Lɛ wi lan bɔt kɔlik.

כl di pikin dεm kin gεt "fussy period" na di sem tεm evride, כltεm na ivintɛm. Dis na nɔmal tin. Bɔt sɔntɛnde dis kray kin tranga smɔl.

pan ɔl we i nɔmal fɔ mek ɔl di pikin dɛn we dɛn jɔs bɔn kray ɛn fus, if pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi kray fɔ pas 3 awa insay di de, pas 3 dez insay di wik, ɔ fɔ at le 3 wiks insay wan row, wi kin kɔl da kɔndishɔn de `(Kɔlik)`.Fɔ tɔk klia wan, dɛn kin kɔl dis bak di ‘rule of threes’. Bebi we gɛt kɔlik kin rili at fɔ kɔrej am. We dɛn de kray, dɛn kin tɔn rɛd ɛn ol dɛn leg te to dɛn bɛlɛ.

Dis kin rili mek dɛn mama ɛn papa dɛn at pwɛl ɛn taya. Bɔt di gud nyus na dat fɔ bɔku pikin dɛn, dis sik go stɔp fɔ insɛf bay di tɛm we dɛn ol 3 ɔ 4 mɔnt. So, fɔ di bɔku pat, na fɔ shɔt tɛm nɔmɔ. Bɔt if yu rili dawt if yu pikin de kray, ɔ if yu tink se ɔda tin de apin to am, i go fayn fɔ mek yu go to dɔktɔ.

Ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

If yu gɛt ɛni dawt ɔ wɔri bɔt yu pikin in kɔmyunikeshɔn skil ɔ yɛri, fɔ tru, tɔk to yu famili dɔktɔ ɔ pikin dɔktɔ. Dat na di bɛst tin fɔ du. I rili impɔtant fɔ pul ɛni dawt we de na mama in maynd.

arawnd dis tεm, arawnd 3 mכnt, bכku pikin dεn kin bigin fכ du dεn tin ya:

• I de ansa to lawd nɔys (e.g., bigin fɔ kray, stɔp fɔ kray, luk na di say we di sawnd de).
• Mek ɔda sawnd dɛn (lɛk fɔ kuk, gurgling, laf) apat frɔm kray.
• We yu de tɔk to am, i de luk yu ɛn smayl.
• We yu smayl to dɛn, dɛn de smayl bak to yu.

Bɔt di impɔtant tin fɔ mɛmba na dat, bɔku bɔku tin dɛn de we dɛn kin tek as ‘nɔmal’. Dis min se sɔm bebi dɛn kin du dɛn tin ya smɔl bifo tɛm, ɛn ɔda wan dɛn kin du dɛn smɔl leta. Ɛni pikin difrɛn. Sɔntɛm yu pikin nɔ de du wetin yu padi in pikin de du di sem ej. So nɔ wɔri we yu nɔ nid, ɛn nɔ kɔmpia yusɛf to ɔda pipul dɛn. Bɔt if yu kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt dawt, i go fayn fɔ mek yu tɔk to dɔktɔ.

So, wetin na di tin dɛn we wi nid fɔ mɛmba frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt?

Evri sekond we yu spend wit yu 1-3 mun pikin na presho. Tray fɔ ɔndastand wetin dɛn de tray fɔ tɛl yu tru dɛn kray, laf, ɛn kɔw.

Yu vɔys we gɛt lɔv, yu smayl, yu kɔrej na di big tin na bebi in wɔl. Na di big big tin we de mek dɛn ebul fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf.

• Tɔk to yu pikin bɔku tɛm, siŋ siŋ, ɛn laf. Di we aw yu de ansa rili impɔtant to dɛn. Mek dɛn no se nɔto dɛn wangren de.
• Start fɔ "tɔk" bay we yu de falamakata di sawnd dɛm we yu pikin de mek. Dis go ɛp dɛn fɔ lan bɔku tin bɔt langwej ɛn fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf.
• If yu pikin nid fɔ blo, lɛ dɛn. Yu nɔ nid fɔ ple ɔltɛm. Ɔndastand di tin dɛn we dɛn de sho.
• If yu sɔspɛkt se yu gɛt wan sik lɛk kɔlik , ɔ if yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt aw yu pikin de gro, nɔ ɛva delay fɔ go to dɔktɔ.
• Mɛmba se ɛni bebi spɛshal. Nɔ kɔmpia yusɛf to ɔda bebi dɛn. Yu pikin go lan bay in yon pawa.

We yu lɛk ɛn pe atɛnshɔn lɛk dis, yu go ebul fɔ wach yu smɔl pikin we de bigin fɔ tɔk fayn fayn wan wit di wɔl smɔl smɔl! Na da kayn majik waka de.

Bebi Kɔmyunikeshɔn, 1-3 Mɔnt Bebi, Bebi Kɔmyunikeshɔn, (Bebi Kɔmyunikeshɔn), (Kɔlik), Bebi Kray, Bebi Divɛlɔpmɛnt, Advays fɔ Mama ɛn Papa