Yu smɔl pikin de bit ɔda pipul dɛn? (Biting) - Mek wi tok abaut dis annoying habit!

No wɔd nɔ de fɔ tɔk bɔt di gladi at we yu kin gɛt we yu de wach yu smɔl pikin de du fayn fayn tin dɛn, nɔto so? We i rɔn kam nia yu wantɛm wantɛm ɛn ɔg yu, we i laf lawd wan, we i kɔl yu we i taya... lɔv de bɔyl. Bɔt as mama ɔ papa fɔ smɔl pikin dɛn, yu no se along wit dɛn fayn fayn tin ya, sɔntɛnde dɛn pikin ya kin du tin dɛn bak we kin mek wi vɛks ɛn dɛn kin naf smɔl. Fɔ kik, ala, ɔ... bit ɔda pipul dɛn . Dis chewing na sɔntin we dɛn kin si bɔku tɛm pan pikin dɛn we gɛt dis ej. Bɔt we yu si am, ɔ we yu de fes am, i nɔmal bak fɔ fil bad bad wan ɛn fil bad. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis abit fɔ it ɛn wetin wi go du fɔ kɔntrol am.

Wetin mek smɔl pikin dɛn kin chew lɛk dis? Wetin na di rizin dɛn?

Fɔs, wi nid fɔ ɔndastand se we smɔl pikin bit ɔda pɔsin, i nɔ kin du am wit bad tin. Dɛn stil de na di prɔses fɔ ɔndastand di wɔl. So, difrɛn rizin kin de fɔ dis bit.

• Fɔ want fɔ no mɔ ɛn fɔ fɛn ɔda tin dɛn: Smɔl pikin dɛn kin lan bɔt di wɔl we de arawnd dɛn bay we dɛn de put tin dɛn na dɛn mɔt ɛn tɔch dɛn. So sɔm tɛm dɛn kin chew bikɔs dɛn want fɔ no mɔ, dɛn kin wɔnda se, "Wetin go apin if a chew?", jɔs lɛk fɔ put tɔys na dɛn mɔt.
• Tit pen: We yu de tit, di it ɛn pen na di gɔm kin mek dɛn want fɔ it ɛnitin we dɛn kin gɛt dɛn an pan. Dɛn kin ivin bit pɔsin we de nia dɛn da tɛm de.
• Sho aw dɛn de fil: Smɔl pikin dɛn nɔ no aw fɔ sho aw dɛn at pwɛl, vɛks, ɔ pwɛl at wit wɔd dɛn lɛk wi. So we dɛn vɛks, we ɔda pɔsin tek tɔys, ɔ we dɛn nɔ gɛt sɔntin we dɛn want, dɛn kin chew as we fɔ pul dɛn filin dɛn de.
• Gɛt atɛnshɔn: Sɔntɛnde, pikin kin no se we i de it am, i go mek mama ɔ papa pe atɛnshɔn to am bɔku. Ivin if da atɛnshɔn de na fɔ kɔl, i kin fil lɛk "atɛnshɔn" to dɛn, mɔ we dɛn de fil se dɛn de wan ɔ dɛn de bost.
• Fɔ falamakata : If dɛn si big brɔda ɛn sista na os ɔ ɔda pikin na daycare de chew, i go mɔs bi se dɛnsɛf go falamakata am.
• Fɔ protɛkt dɛnsɛf: Sɔntɛnde, pipul dɛn kin bit as we fɔ protɛkt dɛnsɛf, ilɛksɛf na pikin we big pas dɛn ɔ we dɛn fil se dɛn de pan denja.
• Taya, angri , ɔr nɔr de fil fayn: If pikin taya pasmak, angri, ɔr de sɔm kayn diskɔmfɔt (e.g., wet klos), dɛn kin sho am bay we dɛn de chew bikɔs dɛn nɔ ɔndastand aw fɔ tɔk am.

Tink bɔt am, sɔntɛnde smɔl pikin kin vɛks we ɔda pikin tek dɛn tɔys, ɛn dɛn nɔ kin no aw fɔ put am na wɔd dɛn. So dɛn kin pul dɛn wamat bay we dɛn de bit di ɔda pikin. I tan lɛk se dɛn de ala se, "A vɛks! Gi mi mi tɔys!"

Wetin mek wi kin fred we wi si pɔsin de it? Na nɔmal tin dat?

Infakt, i nɔmal fɔ mek yu shɔk, shem, ɛn vɛks we yu si yu pikin de bit ɔda pɔsin. Tin dɛn lɛk, "Di ɔda pikin bin gɛt bad bad tin?" ɛn "Wetin di ɔda mama ɔ papa go tink?" kam na yu maynd. Bɔt mɛmba se fɔ it na tin we kin apin to pikin dɛn we ol bitwin 1 ɛn 3. Sɔntɛnde dɛn kin tek am se na stej we dɛn de divɛlɔp. Dat nɔ min se ɔl pikin dɛn kin bit, bɔt i nɔ kin sɔprayz if dɛn bit am. Di impɔtant tin na aw wi de biev to am ɛn aw wi go ɛp wi pikin fɔ lɛf dis abit.

Wetin wi fɔ du we pikin de it? Wetin na di bɛst we?

Aw wi kin biev we pikin bit rili impɔtant. Na di we aw wi ansa di pikin kin lan if dis na gud tin ɔ bad tin, ɛn if dɛn fɔ du am bak ɔ nɔ fɔ du am bak.

Fɔs, mek yu at kol as yu ebul!

Dis kin izi fɔ tɔk pas fɔ du. Bɔt if yu vɛks ɔ ala, yu pikin kin fred mɔ ɔ tray fɔ bit yu fɔ mek dɛn pe atɛnshɔn to yu. Tek dip briz ɛn gi yusɛf sɔm tɛm.

Se "nɔ" klia wan ɛn tranga wan.

As yu pikin bit so, luk dɛn stret na in yay ɛn se, nɔto lawd wan, bɔt wit klia, strɔng vɔys, "Nɔ, nɔ bayt. I de at." Yu fɔ sho bak da nɔ want de na yu fes. Bɔt nɔto di we we go mek pɔsin trɛtin.

Pe atɛnshɔn to di pikin we de bit.

Di nɛks tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ go to di pikin we bit ɛn kɔrej dɛn. Se sɔntin lɛk, "Yu wund? A sɔri," ɛn luk di wund. Dis kin sɛn mɛsej to yu pikin se fɔ bit i kin mek ɔda pipul dɛn fil bad ɛn na tin we kin mek pɔsin fil bad.

Rimov di pikin we de bit am frɔm de fɔ sɔm tɛm.

Rimov di pikin we de bit am na di say we i bin de ple ɔ na di aktiviti fɔ sɔm tɛm. Dis na lɛk "taym-ɔut." Bɔt dɛn nɔ fɔ yuz dis as pɔnishmɛnt, bɔt na fɔ gi di pikin chans fɔ tink bɔt wetin i du ɛn mek in at kol. Se, "Yu bit, so a go de ya fɔ sɔm tɛm," ɛn lɛf am in wan fɔ wan ɔ tu minit na ples usay i nɔ gɛt natin fɔ ple wit ɛn i de bost (di tɛm fɔ difrɛn dipen pan di pikin in ej. Bɔku tɛm, na lɛk wan minit pan ia we i ol).

Ɛksplen am simpul wan.

Sכmtin we simpul, we fit di pikin in ej εn di lεvεl we i כndastand, lεk "Wi nכ de bit כda pipul dεm. We wi de bit, i de at wi padi dεm. I nכto gud tin." Nɔ gi lɔng lekchɔ.

Tich ɔda we dɛn fɔ du tin

Tich yu pikin ɔda we dɛn fɔ sho se i vɛks, in at pwɛl, ɔ i nid fɔ du sɔntin we i nɔ go bit. Tich dɛm tin dɛm lɛk, "We yu vɛks, se 'A vɛks,'" "If yu want tɔys, aks fɔ am, 'Gi am to mi,'" ɛn "If yu vɛks, tɛl mama/papa." Yu kin tich dɛn tin ya bak tru siŋ ɛn stori dɛn .

Prez gud abit.

We yu pikin de ple fayn wit in padi dɛn we i nɔ de chew, ɛn we i de sho aw i de fil wit wɔd, mek shɔ se yu prez am. Ɛnkɔrej am bay we yu se sɔntin lɛk, "Mi bɔy pikin/giti bin ple fayn fayn wan tide. I nɔ bin de chew, nɔto so? I gladi bad bad wan." Dɛn kɔl dis pɔsitiv riinfɔsmɛnt .

Nɔ gi dɛn tin ya nem! Wetin na di rɔng we dɛn?

Sɔntɛnde, tin wae wi kin du wae wi nɔr kin no kin mek dis abit wae wi kin chew, wɔs. So, nɔ mek dɛn mistek ya.

• Chewing bak pan yu pikin: Se, "Naw yu ɔndastand aw i de at?" go jɔs tich yu pikin se fɔ it na tin fɔ sɔlv prɔblɛm. I go jɔs kɔnfyus yu pikin mɔ. Nɔ ɛva du dis.
• Harsh pɔnishmɛnt, ala ala, hit: Dɛn tin ya go jɔs mek di pikin fred ɛn mek i nɔ ɔndastand se wetin dɛn du nɔ rayt. Dɛn kin mek bak di pikin vɛks ɛn ɛnkɔrej yu fɔ du dɛn tin ya sikrit wan.
• Shem di pikin: Shem di pikin bifo ɔda pipul bay we yu de tɔk tin lɛk "Dis na di wan we hit Raya. Wetin na bad pikin" go jɔs pwɛl dɛn sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt.
• Label pikin as "bad": We yu se tin lek "yu na bad pikin," "yu naughty," di pikin kin bigin biliv am. Wi nid fɔ pe atɛnshɔn pan di we aw wi de biev, nɔto di pikin. big difrεns de bitwin fכ se "chewing is bad" εn fכ se "yu na bad pikin."

Wetin bak wi go du fɔ lɛ wi lɛf fɔ it?

Apat frɔm di ansa kwik kwik wan we wi dɔn tɔk bɔt, ɔda tin dɛn de we wi kin du fɔ ridyus dis abit fɔ lɔng tɛm.

• Tray fɔ no di rizin: Ustɛm yu pikin kin it mɔ? We i taya? We i angri? We i dɔn lɔs wan tɔys? Ɔ we i de nia spɛshal pɔsin? If yu pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn tin ya (Observe for triggers ) , yu kin avɔyd dɛn tin dɛn de ɔ ɛp yu pikin dɛn tɛm dɛn de.
• Gi di chans fɔ ple aktif wan: I rili impɔtant fɔ gi pikin dɛn di chans fɔ rɔn rawnd ɛn ple, fɔ rilis dɛn ɛnaji. Dis go mek dɛn nɔ fil bad ɛn nɔ go rɛst.
• Rɛst ɛn slip fayn: Mek shɔ se yu pikin slip fayn. Ivin we dɛn taya ɔ slip, smɔl pikin dɛn nɔ kin rɛst ɛn it.
• Tɔys fɔ tit: We yu de mek yu tit, gi yu pikin wan sef, klin tɔys fɔ tit fɔ it, lɛk karɔt we dɔn kol ɔ kɔkumba slais. Bɔt mek shɔ se yu de nia yu we yu de gi dɛn dɛn tin ya, bikɔs dɛn kin mek dɛn chok.
• Di we aw pɔsin kin ple di rol:We yu de ple, yuz dɔl ɔ animal fɔ akt tin lɛk, "Padi nɔ de bit, wi fayn lɛk dis," ɛn "Na dis wi kin se we wi vɛks."
• Rid buk: Rid buk wit yu pikin we de tɔk bɔt aw i de fil ɛn aw fɔ de wit in padi dɛn.

Ustɛm wi fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

Bɔku tɛm, dis abit fɔ it go stɔp fɔ insɛf as di pikin de ol ɛn ebul fɔ tɔk wetin i tink. Bɔku tɛm, i go dɔn we i ol 3-4 ia. Bɔt sɔm kes dɛn de we wi fɔ go to dɔktɔ ɔ dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn we gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn maynd fɔ advays.

• If di pikin de chew bɔku tɛm ɛn i de agresiv .
• If dis abit kɔntinyu afta yu dɔn ol 3 ɔ 4 ia.
• If dis chewing de kɔz prɔblɛm fɔ di pikin te i gɛt fɔ pul am na daycare.
• If yu notis ɛni ɔda tin we de mɔna yu bihayvya ɔr divɛlɔpmɛnt delay wit di chewing, lɛk fɔ delay fɔ tɔk ɔr sɔshal prɔblɛm.
• If yu fil se yu nɔr kin ebul fɔ kɔntrol dis sityueshɔn ɛn yu fil bɔrku prɛshɔn bɔt am.

Mɛmba se i nɔ kin ɛva bad fɔ go to dɔktɔ. Dɛn kin ɛp yu fɔ fɛn di rayt tin ɛn gi yu sɔlv we go bɛtɛ fɔ yu pikin.

Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os

Okay, so a op se wetin wi tɔk bɔt tide go ɛp yu fɔ mɛmba sɔm pan di impɔtant tin dɛn.

• Na kɔmɔn tin fɔ it na smɔl pikin dɛn , bɔt dɛn kin kɔntrol am. Nɔ wɔri.
• Peshɛnt ɛn kɔnsistɛns na di men tin. Sɔntɛm yu nɔ go ebul fɔ stɔp dis insay wan de. Bɔt nɔ giv ɔp. Rispɔnd di sem we ɛvri tɛm.
• Pe atɛnshɔn fɔ tich yu pikin, nɔto fɔ pɔnish am. Tich dɛn wetin rayt ɛn wetin rɔŋ, ɛn aw fɔ kɔntrol di we aw dɛn de fil .
• Dis na prɔblɛm we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gɛt. Nɔto yu wan de. If nid de, tɔk to ɔda mama ɛn papa dɛn ɛn tɛl dɛn bɔt yu ɛkspiriɛns dɛn.
• Nɔ ɛva shem fɔ aks fɔ ɛp. If i nɔ izi fɔ yu fɔ bia wit dis fɔ yusɛf, go to pɔsin we sabi du di wok.

Wi op se i nɔ go te igen yu smɔl pikin go lɛf dis abit ɛn di de go kam we wi go jɔs si dɛn kiut bak!

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