Aw fɔ tren yu smɔl pikin fɔ tɔylɛt? (Toilet Training) Mek wi tok abaut dis!

As yu smɔl pikin de gro, bɔku nyu prɔblɛm dɛn de we yu go gɛt as mama ɔ papa, nɔto so? Wan pan dɛn na fɔ mek yu smɔl pikin yus fɔ go tɔylɛt, dat na fɔ tich am fɔ kɔntrol in urine ɛn fes . Bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin fred smɔl we dɛn tink bɔt dis, ɛn bɔku kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk, ‘O mi gɔd, ustɛm a fɔ bigin?’ ɛn ‘Mi pikin dɔn rɛdi fɔ dis?’ kam na yu maynd. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw ɛksaktɔli dɛn de du dis tin we dɛn kɔl ‘Toilet Training’, ustɛm wi fɔ bigin, ɛn wetin wi nid fɔ tek tɛm wit.

Aw yu go no if yu pikin dɔn rɛdi fɔ go na tɔylɛt?

Bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin tink se, ‘O, mi padi in pikin bigin fɔ yuz tɔylɛt we i ol 18 mɔnt, so mi yon fɔ bigin di sem ej.’ Bɔt di tru tin na dat, nɔto ɔl pikin dɛn na di sem. Wan pikin kin rɛdi difrɛn tɛm pas di ɔda wan. So i nɔ rayt fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin bay di ej nɔmɔ. Wetin impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ luk di sayn dɛm we de sho se yu pikin dɔn rɛdi fɔ dis na in bɔdi ɛn in maynd. I tan lɛk se yu lan fɔ rid lɛta dɛn ɛn no di kɔlɔ dɛn bifo yu go skul.

Imajin, yu dɔn ɛva si yu smɔl pikin stɔp wantɛm wantɛm wetin i de du we i de ple, luk yu fɔ sɔm tɛm, sɔntɛm i ivin tɔch in dayapɛt? Na tru smɔl smɔl jes lɛk dat wi kin ɔndastand se ‘O... i tan lɛk se i de gɛt bɔdi muvmɛnt naw, i de fil am’. Dis na di fɔs ɛn impɔtant sayn.

So, e impɔtant fɔ pe atɛnshɔn to dɛn sayn ya pas fɔ ol. Lɛ wi si wetin na ɔda sayn dɛn we de sho se ‘bebi dɔn rɛdi’.

Pe atɛnshɔn bak to dɛn sayn ya we de sho se yu pikin dɔn rɛdi:

If yu pikin de du dɛn tin ya, i kin bi sayn fɔ se i de rɛdi fɔ bigin fɔ tren fɔ tɔylɛt:

• Abiliti fɔ ɔndastand simpul instrɔkshɔn: We yu gi simpul instrɔkshɔn lɛk ‘bring di bɔl’ ɔ ‘gi mi yu sus’, si if i ɔndastand am ɛn du am akɔdin to dat. Dis abiliti nid bak fɔ tɔylɛt trenin fɔ ɔndastand tin dɛn lɛk ‘lɛ wi go na di pɔt’ ɛn ‘sit’.
• Ɔndastand ɛn yuz wɔd dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit tɔylɛt: I ɔndastand wɔd dɛn lɛk ‘ urine ’, ‘potty’, ‘wet diaper’? Yu tink se i kin ivin tray fɔ tɔk dɛn? Ivin if i nɔ ebul fɔ se ‘mama pee ’, i kin tray fɔ tɛl yu sɔm we (sɔntɛm bay we i de pɔynt to di pɔt ɔ mek nɔys we nɔ fayn) we i fil se i nid am?
• Fɔ ɔndastand di kɔnekshɔn bitwin fɔ pis /poo ɛn fɔ yuz tɔylɛt: Di aidia se ‘A de pis , so a nid fɔ go na di pɔt’ nid fɔ go insay in smɔl ed smɔl smɔl. Dis nɔ kin apin fɔs, bɔt afta sɔm tɛm i go no dis kɔnekshɔn.
• Yu tink se di daypa dɔn wet fɔ tu awa ɔ mɔ? Dis min se in blad kɔntrol dɔn bɛtɛ smɔl, ɛn i de pis mɔ urine wan tɛm.Na fɔ ebul fɔ ol wan patikyula wet. If di pikin de wet fɔ af awa bifo, i nɔ rɛdi fɔ dis yet.
• Fɔ ebul fɔ go na di pɔt fɔ dɛnsɛf, sidɔm pan am fɔ sɔm tɛm, dɔn grap bak: Fɔ sidɔm pan di pɔt na prɔblɛm bak fɔ smɔl pikin dɛn. Dɛn nid fɔ gɛt trɛnk na dɛn bɔdi ɛn peshɛnt fɔ am.
• Fɔ ebul fɔ pul dayapɛt dɔŋ , trenin pant, ɔ ɔndawea: If yu ebul fɔ pul klos dɔŋ fɔ yusɛf, dat na big ɛp. If nɔto dat, yu go gɛt fɔ ɛp ɔltɛm.
• Fɔ sho se yu want fɔ yuz di pɔt ɔ wɛr ɔndawea: Sɔm bebi dɛn kin want fɔ yuz di pɔt ɔ wɛr ɔndawea we dɛn si dɛn mama ɛn papa de go tɔylɛt. Dɛn kin se, "A want fɔ go bak," ɔ "A want dayapɛt lɛk dat." If dis intres de, na gud taim fo stat.

Impɔtant: Nɔto ɔl pikin dɛn kin sho ɔl dɛn sayn ya di sem we ɔ di sem tɛm. Bɔt if yu pikin de sho bɔku pan dɛn tin ya, dat min se na tɛm fɔ bigin sloslo.

Bɔku pikin dɛn kin bigin fɔ sho dɛn sayn ya bitwin 18 ɛn 24 mɔnt. Bɔt sɔm pikin dɛn kin sho sayn dɛn leta, sɔntɛm as dɛn ol 3 ia. Natin nɔ bad wit dat. Mɔ bɔy pikin dɛn kin bigin smɔl pas gyal pikin dɛn ɛn dɛn kin tek lɔng tɛm fɔ ajɔst. So nɔ tink se yu bɔy pikin go ajɔst di sem ej we yu padi in gyal pikin gɛt. Gi am in tɛm.

Wetin na di bɛst tin dɛn fɔ du if a delay fɔ stat fɔ tren fɔ tɔylɛt?

Ivin if yu pikin sho sayn dɛm fɔ se i dɔn rɛdi fɔ go na tɔylɛt, tɛm kin de we i bɛtɛ fɔ delay fɔ stat dis wok. Bikɔs sɔntɛnde lɛk dis, yu pikin nɔ kin pe atɛnshɔn ɛn peshɛnt fɔ yus to nyu tin. Ɛn yu nɔ go gɛt bɛtɛ tɛm ɛn tray bak fɔ yuz dis.

Imajin if yu bigin fɔ tren tɔylɛt we yu de rɛdi fɔ big trip, ɔ we yu gɛt nyu pikin na os? Na ekstra strɛs fɔ di pikin, ɛn fɔ yusɛf. So i fayn fɔ delay fɔ stat fɔ tren tɔylɛt pan dɛn tin ya:

• We yu de travul: If yu de go na do ɔltɛm ɔ yu de travul fɔ lɔng tɛm, fɔ put nyu tɔylɛt kin bi prɔblɛm fɔ yu ɛn yu pikin. I nɔ kin fayn if yu fɔ luk fɔ pɔt ɔlsay, ɔ if yu pikin nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol di tin dɛn we i want fɔ du.
• We nyu pikin jɔyn di famili ɔ i de kam jɔyn: We nyu brɔda ɔ sista kam, di big pikin dɔn ɔlrɛdi fil big difrɛns. Di we aw i kin pe atɛnshɔn nɔ kin gɛt wanwɔd, ɛn i kin ivin jɛlɔs smɔl. Na dis kayn tɛm, ɔda big chenj, we na fɔ tren fɔ tɔylɛt, kin at fɔ am fɔ du.
• We yu de muf pikin frɔm di bed fɔ go na bed:Fɔ muf frɔm krib to bed na big nyu ɛkspiriɛns bak fɔ bebi. I bɛtɛ fɔ wet te i yus to am bifo i bigin fɔ tren fɔ tɔylɛt. I at fɔ mek pikin ebul fɔ du tu ɔ tri big chenj dɛn wan tɛm.
• We yu de muf go na nyu os: Fɔ muf go na os na big tin we de mek yu wɔri. I kin tek tɛm fɔ mek di pikin yus to di nyu say we i de. Nɔ bigin dis wok na tɛm lɛk dat.
• We yu pikin sik (especially if i gɛt dayarɛa ): Nɔ tray nyu tin dɛn we yu pikin sik wit fiva ɔ kol. Nɔ bigin fɔ tren fɔ tɔylɛt if yu pikin gɛt dayarɛa. I kin at fɔ mek dɛn kɔntrol dɛn urine ɛn stɔl da tɛm de, ɛn dɛn nɔ kin fil fayn.

Mɛmba se: Fɔ tren fɔ tɔylɛt nɔto sɔntin we pɔsin fɔ rɔsh ɔ fos fɔ du. Di bɛst tin kin apin we yu pikin gladi ɛn yu kol. If nid de, go to yu famili dɔktɔ ɔ dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn bɔt dis.

Sɔm ɔda advays dɛn fɔ mek yu tren yu tɔylɛt fayn fayn wan

Okay, naw yu no aw fɔ chɛk if yu pikin dɔn rɛdi ɛn ustɛm yu nɔ fɔ bigin. Neks, lɛ wi luk sɔm smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we go mek dis wok izi ɛn mek i go bifo.

• Kɔntinyu fɔ tink gud wan: Dis na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. If yu vɛks ɔ kɔs yu pikin, i go fred mɔ ɛn nɔ want fɔ du dis wok. Tɔk fɔ ɛnkɔrej, lɛk, "Okay, bɔy pikin/dɔta, lɛ wi tray," ɔ "I nɔ bad if wi nɔ ebul fɔ du am tide, wi go si tumara."
• Pik pɔt: Pik pɔt we izi fɔ yu pikin fɔ yuz, ɛn we dɛn go lɛk. Sɔm pɔti dɛn gɛt siŋ ɛn layt. We yu pikin lɛk wan, dɛn go want fɔ yuz am mɔ. Di pɔt fɔ de usay yu pikin go ebul fɔ go izi wan, na say we i kin hang ɔut bɔku tɛm. I nɔ nid fɔ de na di bafa insay di fɔs tɛm.
• Tek yu pikin go na di pɔt bɔku tɛm: Tek yu pikin go na di pɔt mɔ we i wek na mɔnin, afta i dɔn it, afta i dɔn slip, ɛn bifo i go slip na nɛt. Dis na we i kin gɛt mɔ chans fɔ pis /poo.
• Aksept ‘aksidɛnt’ lɛk aw i nɔmal: We di pikin bigin, i nɔ kin ebul fɔ go na di pɔt fayn ɛn i kin pis /poo pan dɛn klos. Dɛn kɔl dɛn tin ya ‘aksidɛnt’. Nɔ kɔl ɔ pɔnish di pikin dɛn kayn tɛm dɛn de. Bifo dat, tɔk wit kol at se, ‘Ei, yu jɔs pis smɔl, nɔto so? I nɔ bad, wi go go na di pɔt nɛks tɛm,’ ɛn klin am.
• Prez ɛn gi smɔl gift: We yu pikin yuz di pɔt fayn, prez am wit wɔd dɛn lɛk, ‘Wow... mi gyal pikin/bɔy pikin so smat!’, ‘Gud bɔy/gayl!’. Yu kin gi am bak sɔntin lɛk smɔl stika ɔ smɔl tɔys we i lɛk. Bɔt nɔ mek dis bi yu abit. Di men tin na fɔ sho am yu gladi at.
• Yuz to ɔndawea:Afta sɔm tɛm, we yu pikin yus fɔ go na di pɔt, pul di daypa ɛn put am insay fayn ɔndapant. Da we de, i go fil lɛk se na big bɔbɔ naw. Dɔn bak, di we aw i nɔ kin fil fayn we i wet in ɔndapant kin mek i want fɔ go na di pɔt mɔ.
• Peshɛnt: Dis nɔto sɔntin we pɔsin kin du insay wan ɔ tu dez. Sɔm pikin dɛn kin tek sɔm wiks, ɔ ivin sɔm mɔnt fɔ mek dɛn ebul fɔ ajɔst to dis. So du dis wit peshɛnt ɛn lɔv.

Nɔ fɔgɛt: ɔl pikin difrɛn. Jɔs bikɔs yu padi in pikin lan fɔ yuz di pɔt insay tri dez nɔ min se yu pikin sɛf go du am. Ɛp yu pikin fɔ go wit in yon pawa.

Di tin dɛn we impɔtant pas ɔl fɔ mɛmba (Take-Home Message) .

Okay, so lɛ wi mɛmba yu bak di impɔtant pɔynt dɛn frɔm wetin wi tɔk bɔt tide.

• No patikyula ej nɔ de fɔ bigin fɔ tren fɔ tɔylɛt. I impɔtant fɔ luk fɔ sayn dɛn we de sho se yu pikin dɔn rɛdi.
• If di pikin ɔndastand instrɔkshɔn, tɔk wɔd bɔt urine /poo, de dray fɔ pas tu awa, ɛn intres pan di pɔt, dat na gud sayn.
• Bɔy pikin dɛn kin tek smɔl tɛm fɔ yus to dis.
• Nɔ bigin fɔ tren yu tɔylɛt we big chenj de na di os (nyu pikin, we de muf os), ɔ we di pikin sik.
• Peshɛnt, gud abit, ɛn ɛnkɔrejmɛnt na yu bɛst padi dɛn na dis waka.
• Aksidɛnt na nɔmal tin fɔ dis prɔses. Nɔ wɔri bɔt dɛn.
• If yu gɛt dawt, nɔ fred ɔltɛm fɔ aks yu famili dɔktɔ ɔ dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn advays .

A de wish yu ɛn yu smɔl pikin ɔl di bɛst fɔ win dis nyu chalenj!

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