Yu nɔ tink se na dat yu bin de go tɔk? Mek wi tok abaut dis ‘Freudian Slip’!

Wi ɔl dɔn mek i apin to wi, we wi tɔk wan tin ɛn afta dat wi yɛri ɔda tin. Imajin se yu de tɔk to yu padi ɛn insted yu yɛri dɛn nem, yu yɛri wan ol padi in nem. Ɔ, we yu bin de tɔk to yu ticha na skul, yu yɛri di nem "Mama." Yu go dɔn laf smɔl shem, bɔt yu dɔn tink bak se, "Wetin mek dis apin to mi?" Dis kin rili kɔmɔn. Tide wi go tɔk bɔt dis strenj, bɔt rili kɔmɔn ɛkspiriɛns.

Wetin na Frɔyd Slip?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, Freudian Slip na we wi aksidɛntli tɔk sɔntin we wi nɔ bin min, ilɛksɛf na we wi de tɔk ɔ rayt. Dis na wetin wi kin kɔl "slip of the tongue." Na wan rili kɔmɔn tin we kin apin to ɛnibɔdi, ilɛksɛf na in langwej.

Di mɛdikal wɔd fɔ dis na parapraxis . Di American Psychological Association difayn am as: "Di we aw pɔsin nɔ de tink bɔt di tin dɛn we pɔsin kin fil ɔ fil we i nɔ want, we kin brok di difens dɛn we de na di maynd we i de tink ɛn we kin kɔmɔt na di maynd we i nɔ no bay we i de tɔk, we i de du sɔntin, ɔ we i de rayt." I tan lɛk se i kɔmplikt smɔl? Mek wi brok am dɔŋ smɔl.

Aw dis bin gɛt in nem? Udat na dis Frɔyd?

Dɛn gi am in nem to Sigmund Freud , we na wan ɔstrian dɔktɔ we bɔku pipul dɛn sabi na di wɔl ɛn we dɛn kin tek as di papa fɔ saykoanalysis . Frɔyd bin biliv se dɛn kayn mistek ya na fɔ sho di tin dɛn we wi de tink ɛn fil we wi dɔn de ayd ɛn stɔp na wi maynd we wi nɔ no.

Frɔyd bin stɔdi dis fɔs wit wan yɔŋ man. We di yɔŋ man de rid wan layn pan Latin poem, i kin skip sɔm wɔd dɛn ɔltɛm. We Frɔyd bin yuz saykoanalysis, i kam fɔ no se di yɔŋ man bin gɛt wan ɛkspiriɛns we bin de mɔna am wit blɔd. Frɔyd bin kam fɔ no se we i de rid di layn we dɛn rayt di poem, i nɔ bin no se i de mɛmba da mɛmori de we nɔ fayn , ɛn i bin de skip dɛn wɔd dɛn de.

Leta, i go tɔk bɔt dis ditayli insay in buk we nem "The Psychopathology of Everyday Life." Frɔm da tɛm de, dɛn dɔn no dis tin as "Freudian Slip."

Aw dɛn tin ya go tan lɛk? Lɛ wi luk sɔm ɛgzampul dɛn.

Dɛn mistek dɛn ya difrɛn.Sɔntɛm bɔku rizin dɛn de . Sɔm pan di men kayn dɛn ɛn ɛgzampul dɛn de na di tebul we de dɔŋ ya.

Wetin mek dis kin apin to wi? Wetin na di saykolojik aspek?

Bɔku tiori dɛn de bɔt di tin dɛn we kin mek Frɔyd slip.

Di fɔs ɛn di tin we pipul dɛn lɛk pas ɔl na dat, tin dɛn we dɛn dɔn stɔp fɔ tink bɔt kin kɔmɔt na do . Imajin se wan pat na yu bren de tray fɔ ayd ɔ avɔyd fɔ tink bɔt sɔntin. Na di sem tɛm, ɔda pat na yu bren go chɛk, "A ayd am fayn?" Dɔn wetin kin apin na dat di tink we bin de tray fɔ ayd kin wok bak. So, di mɔ we wi de tray nɔ fɔ tink bɔt sɔntin, na di mɔ i go kɔmɔt na wi mɔt.

Di sɛkɔn we aw wi kin si tin na di we aw wi bren de prosɛs langwejSɔntin we gɛt fɔ du wit dis. Bifo wi put wi tinkin insay wɔd ɛn tɔk, wi bren kin du smɔl ‘sɛlf-ɛditin’ fɔ si if ɛni mistek de pan dɛn tink dɛn de ɛn if i fayn fɔ tɔk. Bɔt pan ɔl dat, pan avrej, pɔsin kin mek wan ɔ tu mistek fɔ ɛni 1,000 wɔd dɛn we i tɔk. Dat min se, if yu tɔk lɛk 150 wɔd dɛn insay wan minit, yu kin mek bitwin 7 ɛn 22 mistek dɛn ɛvride. So, dɛn kayn mistek ya na jɔs pat pan mɔtalman kɔmyunikeshɔn.

Apat frɔm dat, tin dɛn lɛk tin dɛn we de ambɔg yu maynd, we yu nɔ de slip, we yu taya pasmak, ɛn we yu strɛs kin mek dɛn mistek ya bak.

So, yu tink se dɛn Frɔyd slip ya rial? Yɛs, na so dɛn de. Bɔt nɔto ɛvri slip na di tɔŋ fɔ gɛt dip minin we ayd. I kin jɔs bi smɔl mistek.

Wetin wi go du fɔ ridyus dɛn kayn mistek dɛn ya?

If yu de mɔna yu fɔ mek dɛn kayn mistek ya ɔltɛm, na sɔm simpul we dɛn we pipul dɛn we de stɔdi bɔt pɔsin in maynd kin tɔk fɔ mek yu maynd klia ɛn ridyus dɛn.

1. Nɔ du bɔku wok.

We wi bren ful-ɔp wit bɔku wok wan tɛm, wi maynd kin skata. Dɔn, dɛn kayn mistek ya kin apin mɔ. So, pe atɛnshɔn pan wan wok wan tɛm. Gi yu bren smɔl rɛst bitwin dɛn.

2. Smɔl smɔl, fes di tin dɛn we yu de avɔyd (Smɔl smɔl fɔ ɛksplɔz) .

Yu gɛt tin dɛn we de mɔna yu ɛn we yu de tray fɔ avɔyd? We yu tray fɔ avɔyd dɛn, dat kin jɔs mek dɛn at pwɛl mɔ ɛn mɔ. Bifo dat, tray fɔ gri wit dɛn tin dɛn de we yu de tink bɔt. I kin tranga fɔs. Bɔt as yu de fes dɛn wit kɔntrol, smɔl smɔl, dɛn impak go stɔp ɛn yu maynd go fri. If yu nid ɛp fɔ du dis, i rili impɔtant fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ we yu biliv .

3. Fɛn sɔntin we go ambɔg yu

If yu nɔ rɛdi fɔ fes sɔntin we de mɔna yu, tray fɔ du sɔntin we go tek yu ful atɛnshɔn. I kin bi fɔ rid buk, wach fim, ɔ fɔ du ɛksɛsayz. Dis kin ɛp yu fɔ lɛf fɔ strɛs fɔ sɔm tɛm.

4. Put di tink bifo tɛm

If yu nɔ ebul fɔ pul wan tin na yu ed, sɛt smɔl tɛm ɛvride fɔ tink bɔt am. Fɔ ɛgzampul, tɛl yusɛf se, "A go tink bɔt dis prɔblɛm frɔm 6 to 6: 15 dis ivintɛm, dɔn a nɔ go tink bɔt am afta dat." Dis kin ɛp yu fɔ lɛf fɔ tink bɔt am ɔl di de.

5. Fɔ tink gud wan ɛn fɔ tink gud wan

Inkorporet meditashɔn ɛn mayndfulnɛs prɔsis insay yu ɛvride rutin. Dis go mek yu maynd kol, yu go ebul fɔ kɔntrol yu maynd fayn fayn wan, ɛn ɛp yu fɔ pe atɛnshɔn fɔ liv insay di tɛm we yu de naw. Dis go mek di tin dɛn we de ambɔg di we aw pɔsin de tink we nɔ nid fɔ de , nɔ go ambɔg am .