Cancer i vei tih hriat a nih chuan i nun a rawn nuai ang mai a ni. Thla khat lek chhungin kan mumang zawng zawng chu a inthlak danglam vek a ni. Kan ngaih pawimawh ber chu enkawlna , surgery, leh damdawi lam a ni. Mahse heng zawng zawng hnung lamah hian kan ngaihtuah ngai loh thil a awm a, chhungril atanga min tikehsawm fo thin. Chu chu he zinkawng psychological lam chu a ni. Vawiin hian he emotional battle hi kan sawi dawn a, chutiang thil tawn tawh hmeichhe naupang pakhat chanchin atanga siam a ni.
Nun chu a inthlak danglam dan
Hei hi hmeichhe naupang pakhat Carissa-i chanchin a ni. Cancer a vei hma khan nang leh kei ang bawkin, kum sawmhnih vel a ni tawh. A inhual tawh a, beauty salon-ah hna a thawk a, a thiante nen hlim takin an khawsa bawk. A bialpa nen in tharah an insawn tawh a, a inneih tur chu a mumang a ni. Nun chu a kal tha hle mai.
Ni khat chu shower a lak laiin a hnuteah hian hnim hring a awm tih a hria a. Clinic pakhata a kal chuan kum 30 chauh a nih avangin thil pawi tak a ni lo tih an sawi a, thla 6 hnua lo haw leh tur thu an sawi bawk. Doctor-te chuan thau tumor, cancer ni lo ``(Lipoma)'' a ni mai thei niin an ngai.
Mahse thla 6 hnuah chuan a lump chu a lian chho zel niin a hria. COVID-19 vangin a hun takah doctor pawh a hmu thei lo . Hlauhna nasa tak nei tan mah se, a naupan lai leh a chhungte zingah tumah cancer vei an awm loh avangin harsatna a awm dawn lo tih a inringtawk ta a ni.
A tawpah chuan Doctor chuan thu a sawi a, a hriat duh loh chanchin chu a pe ta a. "Cancer i nei a ni." Chutih laia a mangang lutuk chu thuin a sawifiah thei lo. Minute 5 vel zet kan haw chu chatuan ang maiin ka hria. A inneihna tur a ngaihtuah lai chuan hnute cancer chi khat `(Stage II Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)` an tih chu a nei tih a hre nghal a.
"Engvangin nge hetiang thil hi ka chungah a lo thlen? Mi tha tak ka ni. Mi zawng zawng ka pui thin. Engvangin nge hetiang hi ka chungah a lo thlen?" He zawhna hi a rilruah a rawn ri chhuak ta a.
A tana harsatna lian ber chu a kum lama heng zawng zawng hi a hmachhawn a ngai ta a ni. Chemotherapy a tan tirh khan enkawl tura lo lut midangte chu kum 50, 60, 70 vel hmeichhia an ni. Chu pindan chhunga mipa naupang ber a ni. Anni chuan, ‘He naupang te hian hetah hian eng nge a tih?’ tih ang hian an en a. Chutiang bawk chu a ngaihtuah tak zet a ni.
Chu ni chu mumang ang maiin a liam ta a.
Enkawlna ka tan hnu chuan ka rilru a buai hle. Ka taksa pawn lam atanga ka in en ang mai a ni. Enkawlna te, surgery te, damdawi te... doctor ten damdawi chungchang min zirtir te, class kal ngai te, chhiar tur min pek te, leh hun siamna tur thil tam tak min zirtir thin. Heng zawng zawng hi COVID-19 laia thleng a nih avangin keimah chauhin engkim ka tih a ngai a ni.
Carissa-i sawi dan chuan chutih lai chuan rilru natna a nei lo tak zet a ni. Robot ang maiin.
Enkawlna hun chhunga harsatna dang an tawhte
- Naupang chungchang ngaihtuah: Chemo a tan hma hian nakin lawka fa neih theihna chance a hloh theih loh avangin a artui chu a vawt tir a. IVF process te, leh a tlangval hnen atanga a injection pek fo thin te chu phurrit lian tak a ni.
- Sam tlakchham: Hmeichhe tam tak ang bawkin Carissa pawhin a sam hloh chu a buaithlak hle niin a hria a. Cosmetologist a nih angin a lock sei leh sei tak chu a chhuang hle. A sam chu a hring chhuak tan chuan a sam chu a tan hun a ni tawh tih a hria. A bialpain a lu a melh lai chuan ding leh tap ang maiin a inhria. Inneihna tur a ruahman lai chuan sam tel lo inneih puan lei chu a harsa dawn tih a hrechhuak a.
Hêng hun khirh tak hi engtin nge kan hmachhawn ang
Enkawlna kan neih laia kan rilru hahna kha a bo chuan lungngaihna nasa tak a ni. Enkawlna kan neih lai hian ``survivor mode''-ah kan awm thin. Chu routine chu a tawp hunah chauh chuan kan hloh tawhte ngaihtuah a hun tawh. Kan nun hlui avanga lungngai ang mai a ni.
Mahse Carissa chuan pressure chu a hrethiam ta. Tunah chuan therapist a hmu mek a, mi tawnhriat ngah tak tak awmna support group member a ni. Chhungte leh thiante hi a chakna ber an ni.
Thil mak ber chu ka la tawn ngai loh mi hriat lohte hnen atanga min puihna kha a ni. "Cancer-in min zirtir pakhat chu midang tih lawm tumna bansan hi a ni. Ka mamawh ngaihtuah a, midangte tanpuina pawm hi thil dik lo a ni lo tih ka zir chhuak a ni."
Tunah chuan hormone therapy a ei ta a ni. Side effect a nei bawk. Hot flashes, mood swings, leh mut theih lohna te. Bathroom-a a tap ni a la awm. Mahse ni khat hnu ni khatah nun a zir mek a ni. Hla tha tak ngaihthlak te, a thianpa biak te, a hmalam hun atana a inneihna tur ruahmanna siam te hian a hlimna a thlen thin.
"Hei hi a harsa a, mahse a tha lam ngaihtuah ka tum fo thin. A chhan chu rilru put hmang hi engkim a ni tih ka hriat vang a ni."
| Emotional challenge a ni | Engtin nge a awm tih | Hrisel taka hmachhawn dan tur |
|---|---|---|
| Shock leh hnialna | "Hei hi ka chungah a thleng thei lo", "Engvangin nge keimah?" Engmah ngaihtuah thei lo anga inhriatna. | I rintlak tak nen inbia ang che. Thil awmdan i hriatthiam theih nan i doctor hnenah zawhna zawt rawh. |
| Enkawl laiin rilru hahna | Hriatna nei lo anga inhriatna. I taksa pawn lam atanga en reng anga inhriatna. | Ni khat khat chu ngaihtuah mai rawh. Vawikhatah engkim thunun tum suh. Thil tenawm takah chuan hlim takin awm rawh. |
| Lungngaihna leh lungngaihna | Enkawlna hnua nun hlui hloh tawh chu lungngai takin. Sam tlakchham ang chi thil avanga lungngaihna. | Lungngaihna hi thil pangngai a ni tih pawm rawh. Counselor hmu la, support group-ah tel ve rawh. |
| Beiseina leh hmalam pan zel | Ni tha leh ni tha lo a awm. Nakin hun atana ruahmanna siam hian hlimna a siam che a ni. | I duhzawng thilte tan hun siam rawh. Midang hnen atanga tanpuina dil hlau suh. Thil \ha ngaihtuahna hmang rawh. |
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- Cancer enkawlna hi taksa indona bakah rilru indona lian tak a ni. An pahnih tan hian inbuatsaih a pawimawh.
- Shock, hlauhna, lungngaihna, thinrimna, leh rilru hahna ang chi emotion te hi thil pangngai tak a ni . I rilru put hmang chu i hriat theih nan phalsak rawh.
- He zinkawng hi nangmah chauha kal tum suh. Chhungte, thiante leh a tul chuan professional (counselor ang chi) hnen atangin tanpuina la rawh. Chakna a ni a, chak lohna a ni lo.
- I nun hlui avanga lungngaih chu a pawi lo. Chu lungngaihna chuan i thil tak tak thar nen hmalam pan turin a pui ang che.
- I thunun theih thilte chu ngaihtuah rawh. Ni khat khatah la rawh. I taksa hriselna ang bawkin i rilru hriselna ngaihtuah bawk ang che.
- Nangmah emaw, i hriat emaw hian hetiang hi i tawk a nih chuan an rilru hriselna chungchang sawi la, a tul chuan doctor hnenah tanpuina dil rawh.
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