Doctor-in hnute cancer i nei tih a hrilh che chuan thil sangkhat chu i rilruah a lo lang mai thei. Enkawlna chungchanga zawhna te, chhungkua te, sum leh pai chungchang te, leh i hnathawh tur thlengin zawhnate hi i rilruah a lo lang thin a ni lawm ni? Heng zawng zawng nena kan rilrua zawhna lian ber chu, "Ka office ka hrilh em? Ka boss hnenah ka hrilh em? Ka thiante ka hrilh em?" Hei hi thutlukna lian tak a ni tak zet a ni. He thutlukna hi nangmah chauhvin i siam thei a, i tana tha nia i hriat chu a ni tur a ni.
He thu hi i sawi duh em, i sawi duh lo em ni? Thutlukna chu i ta vek a ni.
A awlsam zawngin, hei hi i mimal damdawi lam chanchin a ni. Chuvangin tu hnenah mah i hrilh tur a ni tih dan a awm lo. Mahse, a châng chuan he thil hi i hnathawhna hmuna i hriattîr chu i tân a hlâwkpui thei a ni.
Ngaihtuah teh, enkawlna atan chawlh ni i mamawh a, in atanga hnathawh ang chi facility i mamawh mai thei. Chutiang hunah chuan i boss emaw HR emaw hnenah he thil hi i hrilh a nih chuan chutiang facility te chu hmuh a awlsam zawk ang. Tin, i thian tha ber berte chu office-ah an awm a nih chuan, hrilh hian rilru chakna leh thlamuanna nasa tak a pe thei che a ni.
Mahse, private taka dah i duh chuan chu chu i dikna vek a ni. Mi thenkhat chuan hetiang hian an sawi chuan mi thenkhat chuan khawngaih takin an en ang tih an ngaihtuah a, an hnathawhnaah pawh an thiam lo niin an ngai bawk. Chuvangin chutiang a nih chuan thuruk vawn reng a tha ber.
Tunah hian he thutlukna siamtu hmeichhe engemaw zat tawn tawhte han thlir ila. Chûngte chuan i dinhmun nêna thu tlûkna dik siam tûrin a ṭanpui thei che a ni.
Hmeichhe hrang hrangin he harsatna hi an hmachhawn dan
1. "Ka boss leh ka thian hnai tak tak tlemte chauh ka hrilh" - Nilmini chanchin
Nilmini hian hnute cancer stage III a nei a ni. Chemotherapy tan tura ruahman a ni. Enkawlna a tan veleh a hmel a danglam dawn tih a hria a, a sam chu a tla chhuak ang a, hnathawhna hmuna a rawn kal theih loh ni a awm dawn tih a hria a ni. Chuvang chuan he thil hi a hnathawhna hmunah hriattir a tum ta a ni.
"Ka direct supervisor hnenah ka hrilh hmasa ber a. Tichuan kar khat vel hnuah office-a ka thian hnai ber tlemte hnenah email ka thawn a, a chipchiar zawng ka hrilh a ni." A supervisor hnenah pawh team dangte hrilh turin phalna a pe bawk. Tichuan mi zawng zawng hnenah chuan thawnthu chu a sawi nawn leh a ngai tawh lo.
A thutluknaah chuan a lawm hle. "Ka supervisor leh ka thiante dangte chuan min ngilnei hle a, min hrethiam hle bawk. Ka hrilh hi nuam ka ti hle a, ṭhenkhat chuan cancer an tawn dan min hrilh bawk. Chu thawnthu ka hriat chuan chakna nasa tak min pe a ni," a ti.
Nilmini office-a ṭhiante chu an inkhawm a, chemo a tih ni chhungin chaw pawh an buatsaih sak a. Chu chu a chhungte tan pawh tanpuina lian tak a ni. Mahse mi zawng zawng hian hetiang puihna dawn theihna tur boruak kan nei vek lo.
2. "Office-ah tumah ka hrilh lo" - Deepa chanchin
Deepa hi hmeichhe pakhat a ni a, a PR agency a nei a. Hnute cancer a vei tih a hriat chuan a thup ta a ni.
"He thil hi ka thawhpui te hnenah ka hrilh duh lo. Min khawngaih se, ṭul lo taka lungkham se ka duh lo. Tin, ka hna hi ka thawk ṭha thei lo nia an ngaih pawh ka duh lo," a ti.
A client te pawh a hrilh lo . "Ka sumdawnna ah hian thil ka tih theih loh chuan midang sang tam tak ti thei an awm. Ka client-te hian min kalsan ka duh lo."
Hetianga thuruk vawn hian a mimal takin a pui a ni.
"He cancer hlauhna atanga ka chhuah theihna tur leh thil dang lama ka rilru ka dah theihna tur hmun tha ber chu hnathawh hi a ni."
He thil hi a mimal nunah a thiante hnai ber berte chauh a hrilh a ni. Hnathawh hmuna a sawi loh avangin midangte mitmeng khawngaihthlak tak leh zawhna mak tak takte chu a hmachhawn a ngai lo. Kum tam tak a liam hnua a ngaihtuah kir leh chuan, a thutlukna siam chu a tân a dik hle tih a sawi.
3. "Engkim chu tlang takin ka sawi chhuak" - Sanduni chanchin
Sanduni hian hnute cancer chungchang a hriat khan startup tenau takah marketing director hna a thawk a. A chhungkuaah hnute cancer vei tawh a nih avangin screening neih a ngaihtuah fo thin. Hemi chungchang hi a team hnenah a sawi tawh a ni.
Chuvangin, natna a vei tih hriat a nih veleh a CEO hnenah a kal nghal a, a hrilh ta a ni. "Tlem chuan mak ka ti hle a, mahse ka sawi hnuah chuan keimah chauhvin ka awm lo," a ti.
A boss chuan puih a rawt a. "A ngilnei hle. Ka mamawh chu a hre lo a, ka inah pawh thil lei tur bag khat pawh a rawn keng tel bawk. Chu chu ka tan chuan thil lian tak a ni."
Team dangte hnenah, "Team tenau tak angin kan thawk a. Chuvangin ka nunah thil thlengte chu anmahni hnenah ka sawi duh a ni," a ti.
Surgery an neih zawh chuan cancer a darh tawh tih a hriat chuan chemotherapy a neih a ngai ta a ni. Disability leave a lak chhan chu enkawlna atan kum khat vel a daih a beisei vang a ni.
"Ka boss hian ka awm loh chhungin ka health insurance pawh a pe a. Hna ka thawh leh khan ka tan dinhmun thar min siamsak a, a chhan chu enkawl hnua ka hriatna lama harsatna leh ka hahna vangin a hma ang bawkin hna ka thawk harsa tih a hriat vang a ni.
Sanduni chuan hetianga tlang taka thu a sawi hian "miten eng nge an ngaihtuah ang" tih ngaihtuahna rilru hahna chu a paih chhuak thei niin a sawi.
Engtin nge i duh ber thu tlûkna i siam?
Heng thawnthute hian mi tinte dinhmun leh thutlukna siam dan a inang lo zia a tarlang a ni. Thu tlûkna siam tûra ṭanpui tûrin, a ṭhatna leh ṭha lote chu i lo en ang u.
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A tawp berah chuan Christina, psychotherapist chanchin hi a pawimawh hle. Mahni eizawnna a nih avangin thawhpui sawi tur a nei lo. Mahse hei hi a damlote hnenah a hrilh a ni. Chutianga a tih chhan chu mi dangte hnênah mahni chauhin engkim i ti thei lo tih pawm a pawimawhzia leh i hrisêlna atâna hun hman a pawimawhzia lantîr nân a ti a ni.
Ani chuan, " I chakna avanga lawmman tih hi a awm lo ." Chumi awmzia chu i mamawh huna tanpuina dil hi chak lohna a ni lo tihna a ni. Ṭanpuina mamawh i tih loh chuan tumahin an pui thei lo che. Chuvângin, i dinhmun chu ngaihtuah la, i hnathawhna hmuna i nunphung ngaihtuah la, i tâna ṭha nia i hriat thu tlûkna siam rawh. I enkawlna tur ruahmanna leh chawlh hun i mamawh apiang chu i doctor nen sawiho hmasa phawt ang che.
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- I hnathawhna hmuna i damdawi lam dinhmun hrilh leh hrilh loh tur thutlukna chu 100% i ta a ni. Chutiang ti tur chuan tumahin an thunun thei lo che.
- Thu tlûkna i siam hmain i hnathawhna hmun, i boss nêna in inlaichînna te, leh i thawhpui te ngun takin ngaihtuah hmasa phawt ang che.
- In luah tur i mamawh a nih chuan, enkawlna atana chawlh emaw, hnathawh hun inthlak emaw ang chi te chu i boss emaw HR department emaw hriattir hi a hlawkthlak tak zet a ni.
- Ṭanpuina dîl hi chak lohna chhinchhiahna a ni lo. Chakna chhinchhiahna a ni. Hnathawhna hmun atanga tanpuina i beisei theih loh chuan i chhungte leh i thiante hnen atanga tanpuina nghet tak i neih ngei ngei tur a ni.
- I hnathawh dan leh i mamawh tanpuina chungchang chu i doctor nen zalen takin sawipui rawh. Thurawn tha ber ber an pe thei che a ni.











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