I naute thla 1-3 mi hian engtin nge a "biak" che tih i hria em (Baby Communication)?

I fa te chu nau piang thar stage atanga a lo chhuah zauh zauh chuan nang leh i naute inkarah "inbiakna" mawi tak a intan ta a ni. Chu chu nuih leh thawm hmangin in inbiak tan tihna a ni. I naute chu tlem a khelhpui leh thil hriat duhna a neih deuh deuh chuan a mize danglam tak a nei tan ta a ni. Hei hi hun duhawm tak a ni lo maw?

Naupang tête u, engtin nge min biak?

Naute hian keimahni angin tawngkam hmang lo mah se, an duh danin min la inbiak nasa hle. Chu chu engtin nge a thawh tih i en ang u.

Tap - an tawngpui ber!

Tap hi naute inbiak dan bulpui ber a ni a, a tir lamah chuan tap hi a ni. Thil an mamawh lai te , an riltam lai te, an muthilh lai te, an rilru hahdam loh lai te (an diaper a hnim emaw, a lum emaw pawh a ni thei). A châng chuan he khawvela thil awm zawng zawng, thawm ri, êng, etc. te hi an tan chuan a tam lutuk deuh niin an lang a, chu chu ``an buai`` tihna a ni. Vawi khata naupang tê tê chungah thil thar engzat nge thleng tih hi han ngaihtuah teh! Chuvangin chutianga tap chu thil pangngai a ni. Nu i nih angin i naute tap dan atang hian rei vak lo hnuah a chunga thil dik lo awm chu i hre thei tawh ang.

I aw leh nuihzatthlak tak takte an chhan dan

I thusawi lai hian i naute chuan a lu a hawi ang che a, rei vak lo a en ang che a, chutah a ngawi reng ang a, a nuih a za mai thei, a nih loh leh hlimna avanga a kut leh ke zau taka phar chungin a ding mai mai ang. I nuih chuan naute hian a nuih let leh duh zawk che a ni. Chu chu thil tawn mawi tak a ni lo maw? Chu nuihzatna te tak te chu i hmuh chuan khawvel pum hi i theihnghilh vek a ni lawm ni?

‘Koo’ thawm, ‘Guru Guru’ thawm... an thusawi ngei!

Naute hian zawi zawiin aw an siam thei tih an hmuchhuak ta a ni. I en lai chuan i in chu machine te tak te, ‘coo’, ‘guru guru’, leh thawm chi hrang hrang siam ang mai a ni ang! Aw chi hrang hrang hmangin an "inbia" ang che. Naute \henkhat phei chuan hetih lai hian ‘a-a’, ‘u-u’, leh ‘o-o’ tih ang chi vowel ri an siam \an \hin. Hengte hi tawng zir tura an hmalakna hmasa ber a ni.

Chuti a nih chuan nu angin eng nge ka tih ang?

I fate inbiakpawhna thiamna tipung lehzual turin thil tam tak i tih theih a ni. Chûngte chu thil awlsam tak, hmangaihna nei tak a ni.

• I naute nen inbia fo la, khel rawh. I naute chuan i aw chu a hmangaih hle. Chuvangin heng thla hmasa berah hian i naute nen inbia la, lehkhabu chhiar la (picture book pawh nise a pawi lo, i chhiar dan rhythm, i aw inthlak danglamna te hi an duh em em a), hla sa la, ‘coo’ sa rawh. I naute thawm leh nuihzatthlak tak takte chu ngaihven takin chhang rawh. ‘Ka naute nuihzatthlak hi en teh’, ‘Mommy hnenah eng nge i sawi?’ tih ang chi te sawi rawh. I naute i biak hian, hla i sak a, lehkhabu i chhiar hian hun i hmang mai mai lo. Thumal tin, aw tin, nuih tinreng hian i naute thluak thanlenna a pui thin. Khatih hunlaia thumal awmzia hre lo mah se, tawng pakhata a thluk, aw ri leh aw inang lote hriat thiam an zir thin. Hei hi nakin lawka thu tha taka an sawi theihna tur leh midangte thusawi an hriatthiam theihna tur lungphum a ni.

• I naute chu eng nge a en, eng nge a tih, leh eng nge i tih tih hrilh rawh. Thil hriat lar tak takte chu i khawih emaw, i naute hnena pek emaw angin sawi rawh. ‘He ball sen hi en teh,’ ‘Tunah hian Mommy hian naute tan bawnghnute a siam dawn a,’ ‘En teh, ka fapa/fanu, tukverh-ah sava mawi tak a thu a,’ tih ang chi te hi sawi rawh. Hei hian thumal leh thil inzawmna siam turin a pui a ni.

• I naute nen chuan "Inbia" rawh. I naute hian thawm a chhuah chuan sawi leh la, chhanna nghak rawh. Entirnan, i naute hian "woof" a siam a nih chuan "woof" ti la, rei vak lo nghak rawh. Aw dang a siam leh maithei. Chutiang chuan i naute chu aw tone, pacing, leh inthlak danglamna chungchangah zirlai hlu tak tak i zirtir a ni. Hei hian i naute chu ngaithla turin a pawimawh tawk tih a zirtir a ni. I naute "a thusawi" lai hian thu titawp emaw, hawisan emaw suh. I ngaihven tih leh i naupang tê pawhin a ring thei che tih hriattir rawh.

• I naute ‘body language’ chhiar thiam rawh. A châng chuan an kut an tihchet dân, an hmai an siam dân emaw, an en dân emaw hmangin an duhzâwng leh an rilru put hmang chungchâng clues an pe ang che. Heng ‘nonverbal cues’ te hi hriatthiamna hian nang leh i naute inzawmna a tichak bawk ang.

• Naute chu ngawi renga awm a ngaih chang a awm tih hrethiam rawh. A châng chuan naute hian thusawi emaw, thawm ri emaw an nei lo. An chhehvela thil awm, thawm leh eng atang hian stimulation an hmu nasa lutuk a, chawlh hahdam an mamawh a ni. Chutiang hunah chuan naute chu an hawi sawn thei a, an mit an chhing thei a, a nih loh leh an thinrim a, an tap mai mai thei bawk. Chutiang a nih chuan i fate chu rei vak lo chawl la, a duh chuan chelh tum ang che. Inkhelh tura fuih tum reng reng suh.

I hmel lan dan pawh naute tan a pawimawh hle!

Naute hian i aw hriat an duh ang bawkin i hmel en an duh hle. I nuih lai te, mak i tih lai te, hmangaihna nena i en lai te hian i hmel lan dan an en reng thin. Hei hi an rilru put hmang hriatthiamna leh inbiakpawhna chu eng nge ni tih an hriat theihna kawng dang a ni. Chuvangin i naute i biak lai te, i rock lai te, hmangaihna nena en a, nuihzatthlak tak tak pe thin kha theihnghilh suh. I hmel hi a ‘lehkhabu’ hmasa ber a ni!

Ka naute hi a tap lutuk em? Colic chungchang hi i zir dawn teh ang.

Naute tam zawk chuan nitin hun inang deuhah "fussy period" an nei a, a tlangpuiin tlai lamah an nei thin. Hei hi thil pangngai a ni. Mahse, a chang chuan he tap hi tlem a nasa zawk thei.

Nausen piang thar zawng zawng tap leh buai hi thil pangngai tak ni mah se, naute hrisel tak chu ni khatah darkar 3 aia tam, kar khatah ni 3 aia tam, a zawnin kar 3 tal a tap a nih chuan chu natna chu `(Colic)` kan ti a ni.A dik tak chuan hei hi ‘rule of threes’ an ti bawk. Naute colic nei chu thlamuan a harsa hle. An tap chuan an sen a, an ke chu an pum thlengin an vawn thei a ni.

Hei hi nu leh pa pahnih tan chuan lungngaihna leh hahthlak tak a ni thei. Mahse thu lawmawm tak chu naute tam zawk tan chuan thla 3 emaw thla 4 emaw an tlin hunah chuan he natna hi a reh mai ang. Chuvangin, a tam zawkah chuan hun eng emaw chen atan a ni. Amaherawhchu, i naute tap hi i ringhlel em em a, a nih loh leh a chungah thil dik lo a awm nia i hriat chuan Doctor pan a tha ber.

Engtikah nge Doctor ka hmuh ang?

I naute inbiakpawhna emaw, hriatna emaw chungchangah rinhlelhna emaw, ngaihtuahna emaw i neih chuan i chhungkaw doctor emaw, naupang enkawltu emaw nen inbiakna neihpui ngei ang che. Chu chu a tha ber a ni. Nu rilruah rinhlelhna awm apiang tihbo a pawimawh hle.

Hetih lai vel hian thla 3 vel hian naute tam tak chuan heng thilte hi an ti tan thin:

• Thawm ri nasa tak (e.g., a tap tan, a tap tawh lo, aw ri lam hawi) a chhang thin.
• Tap bakah ri dang (cooing, gurgling, laughing ang chi) a siam bawk.
• I biak chuan a en che a, a nui suk bawk.
• Anmahni i nuih chuan an nuih let che a ni.

Mahse hriat reng tur pawimawh tak chu ‘normal’ tia ngaih thil chi hrang hrang a awm tih hi a ni. Chumi awmzia chu nausen thenkhatin heng thilte hi tlem a hma deuhin an ti a, thenkhat erawh chuan an ti tlai deuh tihna a ni. Naute tin hi a danglam vek. I naute hian kum inangah i thianpa naute tih ang kha a ti lo mai thei. Chuvangin tul lova lungngai suh la, midang nen tehkhin suh. Amaherawhchu, rinhlelhna i neih chhunzawm zel chuan Doctor biak hi a finthlak hle ang.

Chuti a nih chuan, kan sawi tawh atang hian eng thil nge kan hriat reng tur?

I fa thla 1-3 inkar nen second i hman apiang hi a hlu a ni. An tap, nuih leh cooing hmangin an hrilh tum che chu hriatthiam tum ang che.

I hmangaihna aw, i nuihzatthlak, i fawhna te hi naute khawvela thil ropui ber a ni. An inbiakpawhna lama hmasawnna lian ber a ni.

• I naute nen inbia fo la, hla sa la, nui rawh. I chhannate hi an tan a pawimawh hle. Anmahni chauh an ni lo tih hre rawh se.
• I naute aw ri te entawn hmangin "inbiakna" tan rawh. Chu chuan ṭawng leh inbiakpawhna lam thil tam tak zir turin a pui ang.
• I naute hian chawlh a mamawh a nih chuan phalsak rawh. I khelh reng a ngai lo. An cues te chu hrethiam rawh.
• Colic ang chi natna i rinhlelh chuan, emaw, i naute hmasawnna chungchangah ngaihtuahna i neih chuan, damdawi lam thurawn lak chu tihkhawtlai ngai suh.
• Naute tin hi an danglam bik tih hre reng ang che. Naute dang nen tehkhin suh. I naute hian a duh angin a zir ang.

Hetianga hmangaihna leh ngaihsak taka i awm chuan i fate chuan zawi zawiin khawvel nena mawi taka an inbiak dan chu i en thei ang! Chutiang zinkawng mak tak chu a ni.

Nausen Inbiakpawhna, Thla 1-3 Naute, Nausen Inbiakpawhna, (Nausen Inbiakpawhna), (Colic), Nausen Tap, Nausen Hmasawnna, Nu leh Pa Thurawn