Kan chungah a thleng vek tawh a, thil pakhat kan sawi hnua thil dang kan hriat hian. I thianpa nen in inbia a, an hming aiah i thian hlui hming i hre ta ang tih han ngaihtuah teh. A nih loh leh, sikula i zirtirtu nen in inbiak lai khan "Mom" tih hming i hre thin. Tlemte chuan mualpho takin i nui mai thei a, mahse, "Engvangin nge hetiang hi ka chungah a lo thlen?" Hei hi a hluar hle. Vawiin hian he thil mak tak, mahse thil tawn tlanglawn tak hi kan sawi dawn a ni.
Freudian Slip tih hi eng nge ni?
A awlsam zawngin sawi ila, Freudian Slip chu kan sawi tum loh thil kan sawi palh a, kan thusawi lai emaw, kan thuziak lai emaw pawh ni se, kan sawi palh hi a ni. Hei hi "slip of the tongue" kan tih tlangpui chu a ni. Mi tu chungah pawh a thleng thei a, an tawng eng pawh ni se, thil awmze nei tak a ni.
Hei hi medical term chu parapraxis tih a ni . American Psychological Association chuan heti hian a sawifiah a: "Thinlung hriatna invenna (defense) tichhia a, thusawi, thiltih emaw, ziak emaw hmanga hriat loha lo chhuak, tihduhdah, duh loh rilru put hmang emaw, rilru natna emaw, hriat loha lantir a ni. A buaithlak deuhin a ri em? Tlem han ti chhe deuh ila.
Engtin nge hei hian a hming a lo chhuah? He Freud hi tu nge ni?
Khawvel huapa Austrian doctor lar tak, psychoanalysis pa anga ngaih Sigmund Freud -a hming chawia sak a ni. Freud-a chuan heng thil tihsual chi hrang hrangte hi kan rilru hriat loha kan thup leh thup reng thin ngaihtuahna leh rilru put hmang lantir a ni tih a ring a.
Hei hi Freud-a chuan tlangval pakhat hnen atangin a zir hmasa ber a. Tlangval chuan Latin hla thu line khat a sawi chuan thumal thenkhat chu a skip fo thin. Psychoanalysis hmangin Freud-a chuan chu tlangval chuan thisen chungchangah thil buaithlak tak a tawng tih a hmuchhuak a. Freud-a chuan hla thu line a sawi hian a hriat lohvin chu hriatrengna nuam lo tak chu a hriat nawn tir tih a hrechhuak a, chu thute chu a skip ta a ni.
A hnuah chuan he thu hi a lehkhabu "The Psychopathology of Everyday Life"-ah chipchiar takin a sawi dawn a ni. Chumi hnuah chuan he thil thleng hi "Freudian Slip" tia hriat a ni ta a ni.
Chumi awmzia chu a châng chuan kan kâ aṭanga thu dik lo chhuak chu kan thinlung thuk taka thuruk thup a ni thei tihna a ni.
Chûngte chu eng ang nge ni thei ang? Entirna thenkhat han en ila.
Heng tihsual hi chi hrang hrang a ni.A chhan hrang hrang a awm thei . A chi hrang hrang leh entirnan a bulpui thenkhat chu a hnuaia table-ah hian tarlan a ni.
| A sawi dik loh chhan/type | Hrilhfiahna leh entirnan awlsam tak |
|---|---|
| Rilru lama tihsual a awm | I buai lutuk emaw, i ngaihtuahna i buai lutuk emaw, i theihnghilh lutuk emaw a ni thei. Hetah hian awmzia thuk zawk a awm lo. Entirnan: "Coffee ka duh" tih ai chuan "Coat ka duh" ti zawk rawh. |
| Hremna (repression) a ni | I rilru ti na thei thil rapthlak tak chu theihnghilh i tum a, mahse i chhehvela thil pakhat chuan chu hriatrengna chu a tichhuak leh a, a tawpah chuan thu dik lo i sawi ta a ni. Entirnan: Tuna i kawppui mek chu i bialpa/bialnu hlui hminga koh. |
| A pumpelh theih nan | Mi emaw, thiltih emaw, hmun emaw chu tumruh takin i pumpelh a ni. Mahse, subconsciously-a a tihbuai che avangin i beisei loh ber laiin i sawi chhuak ta a ni. Entirnan: I kal duh loh hna pakhatah "Ka lo kal ang" tih ai chuan "Ka lo kal dawn lo" tih i ni. |
Engvangin nge hetiang hi kan chungah a lo thlen? Psychological aspect chu eng nge ni?
Freudian slips awm chhan chungchangah hian theory engemaw zat a awm a.
Theory hmasa ber leh lar ber chu repressed thoughts a lo chhuak thin tih hi a ni . I thluak peng pakhatin ngaihtuahna pakhat thup emaw, pumpelh emaw a tum niin han ngaihtuah teh. Chutih rual chuan i thluak peng dang pakhat chuan, "Ka thup tha em?" Tichuan thil thleng chu ngaihtuahna thup tum chu a lo thawk leh ta a ni. Chuvangin, thil eng emaw ngaihtuah lo tura kan beih nasat poh leh kan kâ a\angin a lo chhuak \hin.
Ngaihdan pahnihna chu kan thluak hian tawng a process dan hi a niThil inzawm tlat. Kan ngaihtuahnate chu thu-in kan dah a, kan sawi hmain, kan thluak hian ‘self-editing’ tlem a nei a, chu ngaihtuahnaah chuan tihsual a awm em tih leh sawi a rem em tih a en thin. Mahse chuti chung pawh chuan, a vaiin mi pakhatin thumal 1,000 a sawi apiangin vawi khat emaw, vawi hnih emaw a tisual a ni. Chumi awmzia chu minute khatah thumal 150 vel i sawi chuan ni khatah vawi 7 leh 22 inkar i tisual thei tihna a ni. Chuvangin, hetiang tihsual hi mihring inbiakpawhna atanga lo chhuak mai a ni.
Chu bâkah, ngaihtuahna tihbuai, mut theih lohna, hah lutuk, leh lungkhamna ang chi thilte pawhin heng thil tihsualte hi a thlen thei bawk.
Chuti a nih chuan, heng Freudian slips te hi a tak tak em? Ni e, an ni. Mahse, lei slip tin hian awmzia thuk tak, thup a nei vek tur a ni lo. Thil tihsual tlemte chauh a ni thei.
Heng tihsual chi hrang hrangte tihziaawm nan eng nge kan tih theih ang?
Hetiang tihsual hi tihsual reng reng hian a tibuai che a nih chuan, psychologist-te’n i rilru fim taka vawn leh tihtlem dan awlsam tak takte chu hetiang hi a ni.
1. Multitasking tih loh tur.
Kan thluak hi vawi khata hna tam tak a tihbuai chuan kan rilru a darh zau thin. Tichuan, hetiang thil tihsual hi a thleng tam zawk a ni. Chuvangin hna pakhatah i rilru pe rawh . I thluak chu a inkar ah chawlh tlem pe rawh.
2. Zawi zawiin i pumpelh tur thilte hmachhawn rawh (Gradual exposure) .
I rilru tibuaitu leh pumpelh tumna ngaihtuahna i nei em? Anmahni pumpelh tumna chuan a ti lungngai zual sauh chauh a ni. Chu ai chuan, chu ngaihtuahnate chu pawm tum zawk ang che. A tir lamah chuan a harsa mai thei. Mahse thununna nena i hmachhawn poh leh zawi zawiin an nghawng chu a tlahniam ang a, i rilru pawh a zalen zawk ang. Hemi chungchangah hian tanpuina i mamawh a nih chuan i doctor rintlak tak nen inbiakna neih a pawimawh hle .
3. Distraction zawng rawh
I tibuaitu thil hmachhawn tûra i inpeih loh chuan, i ngaihvenna zawng zawng la thei thil tih tum ang che. Lehkhabu chhiar te, movie en te, exercise lak te pawh a ni thei. Hei hian hun engemaw chen chu stress tihziaawmna atan a pui thei che a ni.
4. Ngaihtuahna chu sawn hla rawh
I lu atanga ngaihtuahna i chhuah theih loh chuan nitin hun tlemte chu ngaihtuah turin dah la. Entirnan, "Vawiin tlai dar 6 atanga 6:15 thleng hian he harsatna hi ka ngaihtuah ang a, chumi hnuah chuan ka ngaihtuah tawh lo ang," tiin i inhriat tir ang che. Hei hian nilengin a ngaihtuah tawh loh nan a pui thei che a ni.
5. Ngaihtuahna leh ngaihtuahna fim
I nitin nunphungah hian meditation leh mindfulness practice te hi dah tel bawk ang che. Hei hian i rilru a ti thlamuang ang a, i rilru thununna a ti \ha ang a, tunlai huna nunnaah i rilru a pe ang che. Hei hian ngaihtuahna tul lo avanga ngaihtuahna tibuaitu chu a ti tlem ang .
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- Freudian slip hi kan zavaia kan chunga thil thleng tlangpui a ni. Ngaihtuah buai lutuk suh.
- A châng chuan hengte hian kan rilru thuk tak takte chu a rawn chhuah chhuak thei a ni. Mahse, chutiang chu a thleng ngai lo. A tam zawkah chuan thluaka thil tihsual tlemte chauh a ni.
- I chau emaw, i rilru hah emaw, i ngaihtuahna i tihbuai emaw hian heng thil tihsual hi i ti tam zawk thin.
- Chawlh hahdam tawk te, stress control te, leh meditation te ang chi thilte hian hengte hi a tihziaawm thei a ni.
- I rilru chhungril takah thil hrehawm tak tak i tawn avanga heng thilte hi a thleng fo nia i hriat chuan professional tanpuina dil a pawimawh hle. Hemi chungchang hi i doctor nen sawiho rawh.











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