Kei te pāngia tō whaea, tō pāpā, tō whanaunga rānei e te mate wareware, he mate pēnei i te mate a Alzheimer? He mea nui, he kawenga nui hoki te pupuri i a rātou ki te kāinga, me te tiaki i a rātou me te aroha. Engari i ētahi wā ka uaua ki a koe te mahi i ēnei mea katoa ko koe anake. Me whai wā okiokinga anō hoki koe. Nō reira, kei te whakaaro pea koe ki te kimi i tētahi hei āwhina i a koe ki ēnei mahi, he kaitiaki. He whakatau tino nui tēnei. Kia kite tātou me pēhea te mahi i tēnei.
Ki te whakarapopoto, e rua ngā momo ratonga tiaki kāinga matua. Ko tētahi e whakaratohia ana e te hunga whai whakangungu hauora, ko tētahi he ratonga e āwhina ana i ngā mahi o ia rā.
- Tiaki Hauora Kāinga: Ko tēnei mō te hunga e hiahia ana ki te āwhina a tētahi kaimahi hauora ngaio, pērā i te nēhi. Hei tauira, i muri i te noho hōhipera, ki te horoi i ngā patunga, ki te hoatu rongoā, ki te whakarato whakaora tinana rānei. Ko te tikanga he tohu nēhi, he tohu ōrite rānei tō ēnei tāngata.
- Te Manaaki Whānui i te Kāinga: Kei roto i tēnei ko ngā mahi pēnei i te kaukau, te whakakakahu, te taka kai, me te āwhina ki te wharepaku. Ka āwhina anō hoki rātou ki te haumarutanga nā te mea kāore e taea te waiho ko rātou anake. Kei roto pea i tēnei ko ngā mahi pēnei i te mahi i ngā mahi iti i te whare, te haere rānei ki te toa ki te tiki kai.
He mea tino nui kia whakatauhia e koe te momo ratonga e hiahiatia ana e koe i te tuatahi.
Me pēhea te kimi i tētahi hoa e rite ana ki ō hiahia?
I mua i te utu i tētahi hei āwhina i a koe i roto i te whare, tuhia he rārangi o ngā mea e tumanakohia ana e koe mai i a rātou. Pātai atu ki a koe anō i ēnei pātai:
- Kei te hiahia āwhina koe ki te kaukau, ki te whakakakahu, ki te whāngai, ki te kawe rānei i tō hoa aroha ki te wharepaku?
- Me hoatu e koe te rongoā i te wā tika, me tirotiro hoki i ngā tohu ora, pēnei i te toto toto tiketike? (Mō tēnei āhuatanga, me kimi e koe tētahi tangata whai mātauranga hauora).
- Me mahi anō hoki koe i ngā mahi o te whare, te māra, me te tunu kai?
- Kei te hiahia koe ki te haere ki te tākuta, ki te kawe rānei i a ia ki ētahi atu haerenga?
- Kei te rapu koe i tētahi hei hoa hei kōrero ki tō hoa aroha, hei āwhina i a rātou kia kore e noho mokemoke?
Kia mārama ki te tangata e uiuitia ana e koe ēnei hiahia. Whakaarohia hoki te momo tangata e pai ana ki tō hoa aroha. Hei tauira, whakaarohia mēnā he pai ki a ia ngā wāhine, ngā tāne rānei, me mēnā he reo e pai ana ki a ia.
Muri iho, me whakatau koe mēnā ka utua e koe tētahi tangata mā tētahi umanga, ka kimi tika rānei koe i tētahi.
Te whiriwhiri i tētahi kaiawhina mā tētahi tari me te utu ā-tinana
He painga, he ngoikoretanga hoki ō ēnei tikanga e rua. Me titiro tātou ki a rāua.
| Tikanga | Ngā Painga | Ngā ngoikoretanga |
|---|---|---|
| Tari |
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| Takitahi |
Ngā pātai hei pātai atu ki tētahi tari
- Kua rēhitatia tō tari?
- Me pēhea te tirotiro i te papamuri o āu kaimahi?
- He aha ngā whakangungu kua riro i a rātou? E mōhio ana rātou ki te āwhina tuatahi?
- Ka taea e tātou te uiui i te kaimahi e tonoa ana e tātou i mua i te wā?
- Ka taea e koe te tuku i taua kaimahi anō i ia rā?
- Ki te kore e taea e te tangata e haere mai ana te haere mai, ka tonoa atu e koe tētahi hei whakakapi mōna? He utu tāpiri anō mō tēnā?
- He aha te tukanga mō te ripoata i tētahi raruraru?
Ngā pātai hei pātai motuhake ki tētahi tangata
- He aha ō wheako? Kua tiaki koe i tētahi tangata e pāngia ana e te mate wareware i mua?
- He aha ngā whakangungu kei a koe? E mōhio ana koe ki te āwhina tuatahi?
- Ka taea e koe te mahi manawanui ahakoa te noho tahi me te tangata e kore e okioki, e āwangawanga ana?
- He aha ngā rā me ngā wā ka taea e au te mahi?
- He aha te utu e tumanakohia ana e koe?
- Ka taea e koe te whakarato mai i ngā taipitopito e hiahiatia ana hei tirotiro i tō papamuri?
- Ka taea e au te tiki tohutoro mai i ngā wāhi mahi o mua?
I muri i te kimi i te tangata tika, me te tīmata i te mahi...
Ahakoa kei te whiriwhiri koe i tētahi mā roto i tētahi tari, mā roto rānei i tētahi tūmataiti, me whai wā koe ki te tirotiro mēnā he hoa pai taua tangata mō tō hoa aroha.
Tikina he tohutoro mai i te iti rawa i te rua o ngā whānau kua mahi tahi koe i mua, ka pātai atu ki a rātou mō ā rātou mahi. He mea tino nui tēnei.
I te wā uiuinga, kia tino aro ki te āhua o te kōrero me te whanonga a te tangata ki tō hoa aroha. He manawanui rātou? E mārama ana rātou ki te āhua o te mate? Ki te taea, whakaaetia he whakamātautau mō te kotahi ki te rua wiki i mua i te hainatanga i tētahi kirimana wā roa.
Kia tīmata koe ki te mahi, hoatu he rārangi mārama , tuhituhia hoki ki tō kaiawhina hou, ngā mea me mahi, me ngā mea kāore e tika ana. Me mārama hoki kāore koe e mahi i ngā mea pēnei i te tae mai pōturi, te whakamahi rānei i tō waea pūkoro i te wā mahi. Me whakaako hoki tō kaiawhina hou mō ngā whanonga a tō hoa aroha, ngā mea e pai ana ki a ia, me ngā mea kāore e pai ki a ia, me ngā huarahi hei whakamarie i a ia.
Ka aha koe mēnā he raruraru tāu, he whakapae rānei kei te tūkinotia koe?
Ki te puta he raruraru, kōrero tika ki tō hoa mahi mō taua mea i runga i te marino me te whakaute. Mahi tahi ki te whakatakoto i tētahi mahere hei whakatau i te raruraru. Ki te mea i utua koe mā tētahi tari, kōrero ki te kaiwhakahaere o te tari.
Heoi, ki te whakapae koe i tētahi tukinotanga, whakahāweatanga, tahae rānei, kaua e whakahawea.
- Ki te pāngia tō whanaunga e tētahi aituā, waea atu ki te 119 tonu atu ka whakamōhio atu ki ngā pirihimana.
- Mena kāore he āhuatanga ohorere, engari kei te whakapae koe kei te tūkinotia, kei te kore rānei e arohia, me ripoata ki tō pirihimana ā-rohe, ki ngā ratonga hapori rānei. Ka taea hoki e koe te kōrero ki tō tākuta whānau mō ngā tohutohu me pēhea te mahi.
Ki te mea he ruarua āu, kaua e mutu noa. Whakawhirinaki ki ō kare ā-roto. Kaua e whakaroa ki te kimi hoa hou mēnā e tika ana. Ko te haumaru o tō hoa aroha te mea nui ake i tetahi atu mea.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Tuatahi, tautuhia mārama ngā ratonga e hiahiatia ana e koe mai i tētahi kaiawhina (te horoi, te whāngai, te āwhina hauora).
- Whakaarohia ngā painga me ngā huakore o te utu i tētahi kaiawhina mā tētahi tari, mā te tūmataiti rānei, ka whiriwhiri i te tikanga e pai ana ki a koe.
- I mua i te utu i tētahi, kia tirohia ō rātou papamuri me ngā tohutoro mai i ngā wāhi mahi o mua.
- Mā te whai kirimana tuhituhi e whakauru ana i ngā mahi me ngā ture e tika ana kia mahia, ka āwhina i te karo i ngā raruraru.
- Ki te mea he ruarua āu mō te haumaru o tō hoa aroha, whakawhirinaki ki ō kare ā-roto, ā, mahi tonu. Ki te tika, rapua te āwhina a ngā pirihimana, a tō tākuta rānei.











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