Kāore he mea nui atu i te harikoa me te hauora o ā tātou tamariki. Engari i ētahi wā, ina titiro tātou ki ō rātou raruraru me ngā huringa whanonga, ka pā mai he taumahatanga nui ki ō tātou ngākau. Tērā ētahi wā ka whakaaro tātou, 'He aha te hē o taku tamaiti?' Kāore? Ko te tohunga hinengaro tamariki he tangata ka taea te āwhina i a tātou i ngā wā pēnei.
Ko wai tēnei tohunga hinengaro mō ngā tamariki?
Ki te kī māmā noa, he tangata whai whakangungu motuhake me ngā pūkenga haumanu te tohunga hinengaro tamariki hei aromatawai me te rongoā i ngā raruraru hauora hinengaro, kare ā-roto, pāpori, me te whanonga o ngā tamariki, mai i ngā pēpi ki ngā tamariki pakeke ake, tae atu ki ngā taiohi.
He māramatanga pai tō rātou ki ngā matea hinengaro taketake o ngā tamariki, tae atu ki te awe o tō rātou taiao pāpori, pērā i te whānau, te kura, me ngā hoa, ki ēnei mea. Ko ēnei awe ka uru atu ki:
- Te whakatikatika pāpori me te kare ā-roto
- Ngā tukanga whanaketanga
- Te urutau whanonga
He mōhiotanga hōhonu anō hoki tō rātou ki ngā āhuatanga hinengaro me ngā whanonga e pā ana ki ngā tamariki.
He aha te mahi a te tohunga hinengaro tamariki?
He maha ngā tikanga me ngā pūkenga e whakamahia ana e te tohunga hinengaro tamariki ina mahi tahi ana me ngā tamariki. Whakaarohia ngā mea pēnei i:
- Ka whakahaerehia ngā whakamātautau maha ('whakamātautau me te aromatawai') hei aromatawai i ngā raruraru hinengaro, hinengaro, hinengaro, me ngā whanonga o te tamaiti.
- Ka whakamahia ngā tikanga maimoatanga pēnei i te "Psychotherapy" - arā, te "talk therapy " - me te "whanonga whakahaere".
- Kei te waihangahia ngā kaupapa ārai hei ārai i te tukino, te waranga ki ngā raau taero, me te hapūtanga taiohi i roto i ngā tamariki i ngā kura.
- Ka kōrero rātou ki ētahi atu tohunga me ngā tākuta e mahi ana me ngā tamariki, ka hoatu hoki i ngā tohutohu ki a rātou.
I ētahi wā, ina pāngia te tamaiti e tētahi mate hauora, hei tauira, mēnā he uaua ki te moe, he mamae roa rānei, mēnā rānei he mate mau tonu tō rātou, ka uru atu hoki ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki ki te āwhina i aua tamariki.
He rerekē te manaaki i ngā tamariki i ngā pakeke nā te mea he rerekē ō rātou tau, ō rātou taumata hinengaro, me te pakeketanga. Nō reira, ka whakamahia pea e ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki ngā tikanga whakaora rerekē i runga i te tau o tāu tamaiti me tōna āhuatanga. I ētahi wā, i runga i te tau me ngā hiahia o tāu tamaiti, ka kōrero pea te tohunga hinengaro tamariki ki a koe (ki ngā kaitiaki rānei) ko koe anake hei matapaki i ngā pūkenga mātua, i te huarahi pai rānei hei whakahaere i ngā whanonga a tāu tamaiti.
He aha ngā maimoatanga e whakamahia ana e rātou?
Anei ētahi o ngā maimoatanga ka taea e rātou te whakamahi:
- 'Whakaora toi' (maimoatanga mā roto i ngā mahi pēnei i te tuhi, te mahi uku, me ētahi atu)
- `Whakaora whanonga` (maimoatanga hei whakarerekē i ngā tauira whanonga)
- `Te rongoā tākaro e aro ana ki te tamaiti`
- 'Whakaora i te whanaungatanga tamariki-mātua'
- 'Te rongoā whakahaere riri o te tamaiti' (he maimoatanga hei āwhina i ngā tamariki ki te whakahaere i ō rātou riri)
- 'Te whakaora i ngā mamae o te tamaiti' (te rongoā i ngā wheako mamae e pā ana ki te tamaiti)
- Te rongoā whanonga hinengaro (CBT) (he rongoā e āwhina ana ki te whakarerekē i ngā whakaaro me ngā whanonga)
- Te rongoā whanonga whakawhitiwhiti kōrero (DBT) (he maimoatanga hei āwhina i te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto kaha)
- `Whakaora hinengaro-arotahi`
- `Whakaora ā-rōpū, ā-whānau rānei`
- `Whakaora puoro`
- Te whakaora mahi (āwhina ki ngā mahi o ia rā me te whakawhanake pūkenga)
- `Whakaora taunekeneke mātua-tamaiti`
He aha te rerekētanga i waenga i te tohunga hinengaro tamariki me te kaiwhakaora tamariki?
He pātai tēnei a te tini tāngata. He rerekētanga paku noa iho i waenganui i te "Kaiwhakaora Tamariki" me te "Kaimātai Hinengaro Tamariki".
I te whakarapopototanga, ko te kaiwhakaora tamariki he tangata whai tohu paerua i roto i tētahi mara e pā ana ki te hauora hinengaro, pērā i te hinengaro, te hinengaro tohutohu, te whakaora marena me te whānau rānei. He tohunga te kaiwhakaora tamariki ki te aromatawai i te hauora hinengaro me te whanonga o ngā tamariki, me te whakamahi i ngā tikanga whakaora, pērā i te whakaora kōrero. Ko te nuinga o te wā ka aro nui rātou ki te whakaoti rapanga.
I tētahi atu taha, ko te tohunga hinengaro tamariki he tangata kua whiwhi tohu tākuta (he tohu pēnei i te PhD, te PsyD rānei) ā, he maha ngā wā he nui āna whakangungu ki te rangahau hinengaro, ki te mahi haumanu rānei. Ko te mea nui, ka taea e ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki te mahi i ngā whakamātautau maha e kore e taea e ngā kaiwhakaora hinengaro. Ka taea e ēnei whakamātautau te āwhina i te tautuhi i ngā raruraru hauora hinengaro me te ako pēnei i te ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder), te Autism Spectrum Disorder, me ngā rerekētanga ako.
Me hiahia taku tamaiti ki tētahi tohunga hinengaro, ki tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro rānei? Me pēhea taku whiriwhiri i te mea tika?
Āe, kei te whakaaro pea koe, 'Ko wai rā te mea e hiahiatia ana e taku tamaiti?' Ahakoa he maha ngā āhuatanga ōrite o te mahi a ngā kaiwhakaora tamariki me ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki, he rerekētanga mārama anō hoki o ngā ratonga e tukuna ana e rātou ki a koe me tāu tamaiti.
Āhea ahau me toro atu ki tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro?
Ka taea e te kaiwhakaora hinengaro te āwhina i tāu tamaiti ki te ako i ngā pūkenga arotau ki ngā āhuatanga uaua, ki te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto kaha, me te hanga whanaungatanga hauora i roto i te whānau.
He mea pai pea kia rapu āwhina tāu tamaiti i tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro i roto i ēnei āhuatanga e whai ake nei:
- Kōrero ki tāu tamaiti mō ōna kare ā-roto, mēnā e hiahia ana ia ki te tautoko kare ā-roto.
- Mena kei te raru te tamaiti i te manukanuka, te pouri, te riri, ngā huringa nui rānei o te ao.
- Mena kei te hiahia āwhina koe mō te whakahaere pai i tāu tamaiti, me te whakahaere i ngā whanonga uaua a tāu tamaiti.
- Ki te hiahia koe kia kite tāu tamaiti i tētahi atu i ia wā, i ia wā, ā, kāore koe e tumanako ki te rongoā, ki te āwhina rānei mō ngā āhuatanga hauora hinengaro uaua.
Heoi, ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi "tātaritanga" mō ngā mahi kura a tāu tamaiti, hei tauira, mō tētahi "IEP" (Mahere Mātauranga Takitahi), kāore pea he kaiwhakaora hinengaro e pai mō tēnā. He maha ngā wā ka tono ngā kura kia mahi tahi koe me tētahi tohunga hinengaro mō tēnei momo mahi.
Āhea ahau me toro atu ki tētahi tohunga hinengaro?
Nā te mea he maha ngā whakamātautau ka taea e te tohunga hinengaro te mahi kāore e taea e ngā kaiwhakaora hinengaro, ka tino āwhina rātou ki te kimi i te tino pūtake o ngā raruraru o te tamaiti, mehemea rānei e hiahiatia ana e te tamaiti tētahi mea pēnei i te 'IEP'.
He mea pai pea kia rapu āwhina tāu tamaiti i tētahi tohunga hinengaro i roto i ēnei āhuatanga e whai ake nei:
- Ki te whakaaro koe he āhuatanga tō tāu tamaiti e pā ana ki tana ako, ki ana taunekeneke pāpori rānei, hei tauira, he ADHD, he rerekētanga ako, he Mate Autism Spectrum rānei.
- Mena kei te hiahia āwhina te tamaiti ki te whakahaere i ngā raruraru kare ā-roto, whanonga rānei.
- Mena kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi tātaritanga taipitopito ake mō tāu tamaiti.
- Ko tētahi o ngā whāinga o tō maimoatanga he kimi i ngā huringa ka taea te mahi i te kāinga, me ngā huringa ka taea te mahi i te kura o tāu tamaiti hei tautoko i tāu tamaiti.
Ka taea e koe te hoatu rongoā ki a rāua tokorua?
He mea tino nui anō hoki tēnei. Pērā i ngā kaiwhakaora tamariki, kāore e taea e ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki te tohu rongoā. Mena e hiahia ana tāu tamaiti ki te rongoā hei whakahaere i tētahi mate hinengaro uaua, me kawe ia e koe ki tētahi tohunga hinengaro tamariki . Ko te tohunga hinengaro he tākuta hauora e tohunga ana ki te tātaritanga, te rongoā, me te ārai i ngā mate hinengaro, ngā mate kare ā-roto, me ngā mate whanonga. Ko rātou te hunga ka taea te tohu rongoā.
He aha ngā mate e rongoatia ana e te tohunga hinengaro tamariki?
Ka taea e ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki te rongoā i ngā momo raruraru whanonga, kare ā-roto, pāpori, me te hinengaro o ngā tamariki me ngā taiohi. Ka taea hoki e rātou te āwhina i ngā ahotea me ngā raruraru e puta ake ana i te kura, i te whānau, me te ao whānui.
Anei ētahi āhuatanga me ngā wā ka āwhina i a rātou:
- Ko te tukino, arā, ko te tukino tinana, kare ā-roto, me te taatai, te whakahāwea rānei i te tamaiti.
- Ngā take riri.
- Te aro atu ki tētahi mate hou, te noho rānei me tētahi mate pūmau.
- Te whakatau i te whakarere a ngā mātua, i ētahi atu raruraru whānau rānei.
- Ngā ngoikoretanga whanaketanga me te ako, hei tauira, ko te `ADHD` (mate aro nui), ko te `hauātanga hinengaro`, ko te `Autism Spectrum Disorder`, ko te `Dyslexia` (ngā uauatanga pānui) me ngā `mate whakawhitiwhiti kōrero`.
- Ngā mate whanonga whakararuraru, pērā i te mate whanonga me te mate whakakeke ā-whakahē.
- Ngā mate kai, hei tauira ko te Anorexia, te Bulimia me te mate kai nui.
- Te pouri me te mate.
- Ngā take tuakiri me te whakaaro nui ki a koe anō, pērā i te Body Dysmorphic Disorder (he āwangawanga rerekē mō te āhua o te tinana).
- Ngā āhuatanga hauora hinengaro, hei tauira, te pouri, te manukanuka, te mataku, te Mate Whakararuraru-Āwangawanga (OCD) (ngā whakaaro me ngā mahi kāore e hiahiatia) me te Mate Āwangawanga Muri-Whara (PTSD) (te ahotea e puta ana i muri i te whara).
- Ngā raruraru i roto i ngā horopaki pāpori.
- Ngā mate moe, pērā i te kore moe, te moemoeā kino, me te manukanuka moe.
- Te ahotea e pā ana ki ngā huringa nui o te ao.
Me pēhea taku mōhio mēnā e hiahia ana taku tamaiti ki te āwhina a tētahi tohunga hinengaro tamariki?
Koinei te pātai nui rawa atu a te tini o ngā mātua. He mea tika kia pātai, 'Me āwhina taku tamaiti i tētahi tohunga hinengaro?' Inaa, he taputapu whai hua te rongoā hinengaro mō ngā pakeke me ngā tamariki, he wāhi haumaru hoki hei kōrero me te whakatau i ngā ahotea o te ao, ngā raruraru hauora hinengaro, ngā uauatanga rangitahi rānei.
Ko koe te mea tino mōhio ki tāu tamaiti. Ki te mea kei te raru tāu tamaiti i ngā mahi kura, i ngā whanaungatanga ki ngā hoa, i te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto, i ngā whanonga, me/ranei te ako, he pai ake pea te rapu āwhina mai i tētahi tohunga hinengaro tamariki.
Anei ētahi āhuatanga me ngā whanonga noa ka taea e koe te tirotiro hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau mēnā me toro atu tāu tamaiti ki tētahi tohunga hinengaro tamariki, ā, āhea hoki:
- Mena kei te pāngia tāu tamaiti e tētahi huringa nui, e tētahi āhuatanga ahotea rānei, hei tauira, te tukino i te kura, tētahi mate hauora, te wehenga o ngā mātua, te neke rānei ki tētahi tāone hou, ki tētahi kura hou rānei.
- Kāore ngā raruraru hinengaro, kare ā-roto, me/ranei ngā raruraru whanonga o te tamaiti e pai ake i roto i te wā.Ki te mea kei te kino haere te āhua.
- Mena kua pāngia tāu tamaiti, tētahi atu rānei o tō whānau e tētahi wheako mamae (trauma), hei tauira, he matenga, he aituā, he tukino rānei.
- Ki te kite koe i ngā panonitanga nui o te āhua me/ranei te whanonga o tāu tamaiti. Whakaarohia tāu tamaiti, he tangata kōrero nui, he ataata hoki i mua, inaianei kei roto tonu i tōna rūma, kāore hoki e kōrero ki tetahi.
- Mena he uaua ki te tamaiti te kimi hoa me te pupuri i ngā whanaungatanga pai ki a rātou.
- Mena kei te heke ngā māka o tāu tamaiti i te kura, kei te raru tonu rānei ia i ngā whanonga i te kura.
Me pēhea te noho hei tohunga hinengaro tamariki?
Ehara i te mea ngāwari te noho hei tohunga hinengaro tamariki. He nui te whakapau kaha me te mātauranga e hiahiatia ana. He māmā noa iho, me whakaoti e koe ēnei mahi:
- He tohu paetahi ('tohu paetahi') e whā tau te roa mai i tētahi whare wānanga.
- Kātahi ka whiwhi i te tohu paerua e whā ki te ono tau, te tohu tākuta rānei (PhD, PsyD rānei). E aro nui ana tēnei ki te hinengaro o te tamaiti.
- He mahi tauira wā-katoa mō te tau kotahi i te wā o te tohu paerua.
- Me puta i te whakamātautau taumata-motu me ētahi atu whakamātautau e tika ana mō te whenua/rohe e mahi ana koe.
- I te nuinga o ngā wāhi, me whakaoti e koe tētahi atu tau o te mahi tirotiro i mua i tō raihana hei tohunga hinengaro tamariki. He maha ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki ka haere tonu ki ngā whakangungu anō kia whiwhi tohungatanga.
- Me whakaoti hoki e ngā tohunga hinengaro tamariki whai raihana ngā kaupapa mātauranga tonu, pērā i ngā huihuinga, ngā rangahau, me ngā akomanga, i ia tau puta noa i ō rātou oranga ngaio kia mau tonu ai ki ngā whanaketanga hou i roto i tā rātou mara.
Nō reira, ka taea e koe te kite i te nui o te whakapau kaha e hiahiatia ana. Koia rātou te tohungatanga ki te āwhina i tāu tamaiti. E waru ki te tekau mā rua tau te roa, neke atu rānei, hei whiwhi raihana hei tohunga hinengaro tamariki.
Hei whakamutunga, ko te mea tino nui!
I te mutunga, he uaua pea ki te whakaae kei te raru tō tamaiti i te hinengaro, i te kare ā-roto, i te pāpori, i te whanonga rānei, engari he mea nui kia rapu āwhina ngaio.
Ka taea e te tohunga hinengaro tamariki te whakarato i tētahi taiao haumaru, tautoko, ā, kāore e whakahēngia e tāu tamaiti kia kōrero ai ia mō ōna kare ā-roto, kia mārama ai hoki ki aua kare ā-roto. He tohunga rātou i roto i tā rātou mara, ā, e mārama ana ki ngā rangahau me ngā maimoatanga hou hei āwhina i tāu tamaiti.
Kia maumahara, ka mahi tahi te tohunga hinengaro o tāu tamaiti me koe me tāu tamaiti ki te whakawhanake i tētahi mahere maimoatanga e pai ana mō tāu tamaiti. Kāore koe i te mokemoke, ā, kāore i te roa rawa te tono āwhina.
` Te tohunga hinengaro mō ngā tamariki, te hauora hinengaro, te whanonga o ngā tamariki, te whakaora hinengaro, te tohutohu, te ADHD, te autism











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