Kei te whanoke tō tamaiti? Kei te takahi ture ia? Me kōrero tātou mō te Whanoke Whanoke!

Kāore rānei tāu tamaiti e whakarongo ana ki tētahi kupu āu e kōrero ana? Kei te whawhai tonu ia? Kei te tukino ia i ētahi atu tamariki, tae atu ki ngā kararehe? I ētahi wā ka whakaaro pea koe, 'He aha te hē o tēnei tamaiti? He aha ia i kino ai?' Inaa, ki te mau tonu tēnei momo whanonga mō ngā marama, ehara i te mea he whanoke noa iho . He tohu pea tēnei o tētahi mate hinengaro e kiia nei ko te "Whakahaere Mate". Me kōrero ngāwari tātou mō tēnei, i roto i tētahi huarahi e mārama ai koe.

He aha tēnei (Te Mate Whanoke)?

He whakarāpopototanga noa iho, ko te "Whakararuraru Āhuatanga" he mate hinengaro e kitea ana i roto i ngā tamariki me ngā taiohi (i waenga i te 10 me te 19 tau te pakeke). Ko te mea nui ko te whanonga pukuriri tonu a te tamaiti me te kore whakaaro ki ētahi atu , me te mahi i roto i te huarahi e kino ai te oranga me ngā tika o ētahi atu. Waihoki, he maha ngā wā ka takahia e ēnei tamariki ngā ture i te kāinga me te kura, ā, kāore e aro ki ngā tikanga pāpori.

Whakaarohia he rōpū mate whanonga. Kua rongo pea koe i tētahi āhuatanga e kiia nei ko te Mate Whakahē Whakahē (ODD). I roto i tēnei āhuatanga, ka kore te tamaiti e whakarongo ki ngā pakeke, ka tautohetohe pinepine, ā, ka whakapataritari āta i ētahi atu. I ētahi wā, ka kaha ake te kino o tēnei ODD, ā, ka huri hei Mate Whanoke.

Ko tētahi atu mea nui, ko ngā tamariki e pāngia ana e te "Haukino Āhuatanga" he nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia rātou e ētahi atu āhuatanga hauora hinengaro. Hei tauira:

• Te pouri .
• Mate Kore-Aro/Mate Kore-Hirahira (ADHD) .
• Ngā mate ako .

He aha te rerekētanga i waenga i te Mate Whanoke me te Mate Whaiaro?

Tērā pea kei te whakaaro koe, he mate hinengaro tēnei? He raruraru roa, he raruraru kino te mate hinengaro, e pā ana ki ngā whakaaro, ngā whanonga, ngā kare ā-roto, me ngā whanaungatanga ki ētahi atu. I te nuinga o te wā, ka tīmata ēnei mate hinengaro i te taiohitanga, i te wā e whanake tonu ana te tuakiri. Nō reira, ko te hunga neke atu i te 18 tau te pakeke ka kitea he mate hinengaro.

Heoi, kotahi te tūāpapa mō tēnei. Ko te āhua e kiia nei ko te (Antisocial Personality Disorder - ASPD). Tata ki te 80% o te hunga whai mate pēnei ka tīmata te whakaatu i ngā tohu i te 11 tau te pakeke. Inaa, kāore he rerekētanga nui i waenga i te (Conduct Disorder) e kitea ana i te tamarikitanga me te (ASPD) e kitea ana i te pakeketanga. Heoi, ko te (Conduct Disorder) he tātaritanga e hoatu ana ki ngā tamariki. Mena ka whakaatuhia e te pakeke ngā tohu e pā ana ki ēnei āhuatanga e rua, ka hoatu e te kaitohutohu hauora hinengaro he tātaritanga (ASPD) hei utu mō te (Conduct Disorder).

Ko wai ka pāngia e te Mate Whanoke?

Ka pāngia ngā tamariki me ngā taiohi e tēnei āhuatanga. I ētahi wā ka tīmata i te 10 tau te pakeke, e kiia ana ko te "tōmua wawe". Heoi, he mea noa i waenga i ngā taiohi (i waenganui i te 10 me te 19 tau te pakeke).

E ai ki ngā tatauranga, he nui ake te kitea o tēnei mate i roto i ngā tama i ngā kōtiro. I te nuinga o te wā ka tīmata ngā tohumate ki te puta i waenga i te 10-12 tau te pakeke mō ngā tama, me te 14-16 tau te pakeke mō ngā kōtiro.

He pēhea te noa o te Mate Whanoke?

E ai ki ngā tatauranga i te Hononga o Amerika, e 2% ki te 10% o ngā tamariki me ngā taiohi e pāngia ana e tēnei mate. E kitea ana hoki ngā āhuatanga rite i tō tātou whenua, engari he uaua ki te hoatu i ngā tatauranga tika.

He aha ngā tohu o te Mate Whanoke?

Ehara tēnei i te mea ka puta i te pō kotahi. Ka āta whanake haere ngā whanonga e pā ana ki te "Whakararuraru Āhuatanga" i roto i te tamaiti. He pakeke ēnei tamariki, he uaua ki te whakahaere, ā, te āhua nei kāore e aro ki ngā kare ā-roto o ētahi atu.

E whā ngā momo matua o te mate whanonga :

1. Te riri ki te tangata me ngā kararehe, me/te takahi rānei i ngā mana taketake o ētahi atu.

2. Te whakangaromanga o ngā taonga.

3. Tinihanga, teka me/te tahae rānei.

4. Te takahi nui i ngā ture me ngā whakaritenga.

Nā, kia tirohia tātou ia o ēnei whanonga me ētahi atu taipitopito.

1. Te riri ki ētahi atu me ngā kararehe

Ko ngā āhuatanga e whai ake nei:

• Te tukino i ētahi atu tamariki.
• I tukinotia (i te whakamahi pea i ngā patu koi ).
• He whawhai tonu tā rātou ki ngā kupu, he whakawehi hoki.
• Ka akiakihia rātou ki ngā mahi moepuku.
• Ka whakapae rātou i ētahi atu mō ā rātou hapa.
• Ka whara, ka whakamamaetia ngā kararehe.

Whakaarohia, kei te kura tētahi tamaiti ko 'Kasun' tōna ingoa. Ka patu tonu ia i ētahi atu tamariki i te akomanga, ka tahae i ā rātou kai, ka tawai hoki i a rātou. I ētahi wā ka whiua e ia ngā kōhatu ki ngā kurī i te huarahi. Ki te mahi tonu ia i ēnei mea, he mea hei āwangawanga māna.

2. Te whakangaromanga o ngā taonga

Kei roto i tēnei:

• He mea āta hanga te tahu ahi .
• Te whakakino, te whakangaro rānei i ngā taonga a ētahi atu. Hei tauira, te wawahi i ngā tēpu me ngā tūru o te kura, te tuhi tuhituhi rānei ki ngā pakitara.

3. Tinihanga, teka me te tahae

Ko ēnei āhuatanga ko:

• Ka teka tonu rātou hei whiwhi painga, hei karo rānei i ngā kawenga.
• Ka tahae rātou i ētahi atu tāngata, i ngā toa rānei.
• Ka ngokingoki rātou ki roto i ngā whare me ngā pakihi ki te tahae taonga.

4. Te takahi nui i ngā ture me ngā whakaritenga

Ngā mea kei raro i tēnei:

• Te takahi i ngā ture mō te kore take e kitea.
• Ko te kore haere ki te kura te mahi kore e haere ki te kura.
• Te oma atu i te kāinga.
• Ka takahi tonu rātou i ngā ture i whakatakotoria e ō rātou mātua.

Ētahi atu tohu noa o te Whanoke Whanoke

Haunga ēnei āhuatanga taketake, ka kitea anō hoki ētahi atu mea:

• Te nui rawa o te waipiro me/te whakamahi tarukino rānei.
• Ngā whanonga moepuku mōrearea auau.
• Ka hohoro te riri, ka pōrearea hoki.
• Kāore rātou e ngana ana ki te huna i ō rātou whanonga nanakia.
• Kāore rātou e whakaatu ana i te pouri mō ā rātou mahi hē.
• He uaua ki te kimi hoa, ki te pupuri hoki i te whanaungatanga.

Ko te mea nui, he mea noa te whanonga pakeke, te tutu hoki i ētahi wā i te wā o te tamarikitanga me te taiohitanga. Heoi, kia kitea ai he "Haukino Āhuatanga", me mau tonu ēnei āhuatanga, me whakararuraru i ētahi atu, ā, me puta tonu i roto i te tauira auau.

Ngā Tohu o te Mate Whanoke i roto i ngā Pakeke

I a ngā tamariki e pāngia ana e te Mate Whanoke, ka uaua pea ki a rātou te pupuri i tētahi mahi, te pupuri rānei i ngā whanaungatanga. Tērā pea ka uru atu rātou ki ngā whanonga ture kore, ki ngā whanonga morearea rānei. E ai ki te kōrero i mua ake nei, ki te whakaatu tētahi pakeke i ēnei āhuatanga, ka kiia pea ko te Mate Whanoke Ā-Iwi (ASPD).

He aha ngā pūtake o te Mate Whanoke?

Inaianei kei te whakaaro pea koe, "He aha rawa tēnei e pā ana ki taku tamaiti?" He tino uaua ki te tohu i te take kotahi. E ai ki ngā kairangahau he huinga uaua pea o ngā āhuatanga ira/koiora me ngā āhuatanga taiao .

Ngā āhuatanga ira/koiora:

• Kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau maha ko ētahi āhuatanga e pā ana ki te "Whakararuraru Whanoke" (hei tauira, te whanonga kore pāpori, te hiahia nui, te riri tere, te pukuriri, te kore aro ki te whiu) ka taea te tuku iho .
• Kua kitea ko te pikinga o ngā taumata o te homoni "Testosterone" i roto i te tinana e hono ana ki te riri.
• Ka taea hoki e te whara roro, te haurangi, me te kino ki te pūnaha io te whakaputa i te whanonga pukuriri.

Ngā āhuatanga mātua, whānau me te taiao:

• Tērā pea kei roto i ngā mātua o ngā tamariki nohinohi he Mate Pāwera ki te whakamahi i ngā matū, i ngā whanonga kore-pāpori rānei. Tērā pea kei a rātou anō ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te ADHD, ngā mate kare ā-roto, te mate hinengaro, te mate tuakiri kore-pāpori rānei.
• Mena he pōrearea te taiao o te kāinga, kāore he tirotiro tika, he maha rānei ngā pakanga a ngā mātua , ka pā ki te whanonga o te tamaiti. Ka arahi pea ēnei ki te "Whakararuraru Whanoke".
• Ko ngā tamariki e pāngia pinepine ana e te tutu ā-whare, ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia rātou e te "Whakararuraru Whanoke".
• Mā te noho i roto i te āhua rawakore, te nui rawa o te tangata i roto i te whare, me te kore mahi ka arahi pea ki te ahotea ōhanga me te pāpori. Ka uaua pea mā ngā mātua te tiaki tika i ā rātou tamariki. He nui ake te kitea o tēnei āhuatanga i waenga i ngā tamariki e noho ana i roto i te āhua rawakore.
• Mena he ngāwari te wātea o ngā raau taero i te taiao e noho ana te tamaiti, ā, ki te nui te hara , he nui ake te mōrearea o taua tamaiti ki te whakawhanake i te "Whakararuraru Whānui".

Engari kia maumahara ki tēnei: ​​Ahakoa ngā tamariki nō ngā whānau ora pai, ka pāngia pea e te "Haukino Āhuatanga." Nō reira kaua e whakaaro, "Kāore he he o tōku whānau, nō reira, nā te aha tēnei i puta ai?"

Me pēhea te mōhio ki te (Haukino Whanoke)?

Ka taea anake te tātaritanga i tēnei e te tohunga hauora hinengaro. Arā, he "Tohunga Hinengaro" he "Tohunga Hinengaro" rānei. Ka whakamahia e rātou ngā paearu mai i te pukapuka aratohu "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)" a te American Psychiatric Association.

E ai ki aua paearu, me whakaatu e te tamaiti, e te taiohi rānei e toru, neke atu rānei, ngā whanonga e whai ake nei i roto i ngā marama 12 kua pahure ake nei . Me whakaatu hoki kia kotahi te iti rawa o ngā tohu i roto i ngā marama 6 kua pahure ake nei :

• Te riri ki te tangata me/ranei ki ngā kararehe.
• Te whakangaromanga o ngā taonga.
• Tinihanga, teka, tahae rānei.
• Te takahi nui i ngā ture a ngā mātua.

Me whai pānga nui hoki ēnei whanonga ki ngā whanaungatanga o te tamaiti, ki tōna oranga kāinga, ki āna mahi kura, me/ranei ki tana mahi (mēnā he tamaiti nohinohi) .

Mena kei te whakaatu tāu tamaiti i ngā tohu o te Mate Pūmanawa, me tuku pea ia ki tētahi Kaimātai Hinengaro Tamariki me te Taiohi, ki tētahi Tākuta Hinengaro Tamariki me te Taiohi rānei. Ka whakamahia e ēnei tohunga ngā uiuinga me ngā taputapu aromatawai kua hangaia motuhake hei aromatawai i te tamaiti mō tētahi āhuatanga hauora hinengaro.

He maha ngā wā, ka kohia e ngā tohunga hinengaro me ngā tākuta hinengaro ngā kōrero mai i ngā mātua, i ngā tuākana, i ngā teina, i ngā hoa, me ngā kaiako o te tamaiti kia mārama ai te āhua o te whanonga o te tamaiti.

Me pēhea te rongoā i te Mate Whanoke?

Ko te maimoatanga matua mō te Whanoketanga Āhuahira he momo rongoā hinengaro . Me mahi ēnei me te tamaiti, te whānau, ā, i ētahi wā i te taumata hapori.

Ko ētahi o ngā tikanga maimoatanga matua ko:

• Whakangungu Whakahaere Mātua: Kei roto i tēnei ko te whakangungu i ngā mātua o te tamaiti ki te whakahaere i tā rātou tamaiti, te whakatakoto ture pumau, te utu me te whakatenatena i ngā whanonga pai, me te whakahaere i ngā whanonga kino. He māmā noa iho, ka ako rātou i a rātou ki te 'whakahaere' i tā rātou tamaiti.
• Hinengaro Whakaora: Ko te hinengaro whakaora he rōpū tikanga maimoatanga e āwhina ana i te tangata ki te tautuhi me te whakarerekē i ō rātou kare ā-roto, whakaaro, me ngā whanonga pouri. Mā te mahi tahi me te kaitohutohu hauora hinengaro, ka whiwhi te tamaiti me te whānau i te tautoko, te mātauranga, me te ārahi. Ko te hinengaro whakaora mō te mate whanonga e aro ana ki te oranga whānau me te oranga kura, e āwhina ana ki te whakapai ake i ngā whanaungatanga whānau, te angitu mātauranga, me te whanonga o te tamaiti i roto i ngā taiao rerekē.
• Whakangungu Whakahaere Riri: Ko te whāinga o tēnei he whakaiti i te whakaoho kare ā-roto me te tinana e pāngia ana e te tamaiti nā te riri. Nā te mea kāore e taea te karo katoa i ngā tāngata, i ngā mea rānei e whakapataritari ana i a rātou, ka akohia e tēnei whakangungu te tamaiti me pēhea te whakahaere i ā rātou tauhohenga.
• Te whakaora hinengaro takitahi, pērā i te whakaora whanonga hinengaro (CBT): Ko te whakaora takitahi mō te tamaiti he mate whanonga e arotahi ana ki te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga whakaoti rapanga, te whakatau i ngā pakanga me te whakapakari i ngā whanaungatanga, me te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga ki te whakakore i ngā awe kino o te taiao.
• Maimoatanga Hapori: Kei roto i tēnei ko ngā kura whakaora me ngā pokapū maimoatanga noho. Ka taea e ēnei te whakarato i tētahi kaupapa hanganga hei whakaiti i ngā whanonga whakararuraru a te tamaiti.

Kāore ngā tākuta e tuku rongoā tika ana mō te Whanoketanga Āhua. Heoi, nā te mea ka taea e tēnei āhuatanga te haere tahi me ētahi atu āhuatanga hauora hinengaro (hei tauira, te ADHD, te Pouri), ka whai hua pea te tamaiti i te rongoā hei whakahaere i aua āhuatanga.

Ka taea te ārai i te Mate Whanoke?

E ai ki tā mātou e mōhio ana, kāore he huarahi motuhake hei ārai i te (Whakahaere Mate). Nā te mea he maha ngā āhuatanga i puta mai ai. Heoi, ki te tīmatahia te maimoatanga i te wā tonu e puta ai ngā tohu , ka taea te whakaiti i te maha o ngā raruraru e pā ana ki tēnei. Mā te rapu āwhina wawe ka taea te whakaiti i te whakararuraru i te oranga o te tamaiti, i tōna whānau, me ōna hoa.

He aha te matapae mō te Mate Whanoke?

Ko te āhua o tēnei mate e whakawhirinaki ana ki te wawe o tōna whanaketanga me te mea kua rongoatia.

I te nuinga o te wā, ka memeha haere ngā whanonga whakararuraru e pā ana ki te Mate Whanoke Āhua i te tīmatanga o te pakeketanga. Heoi, i roto i te kotahi hautoru o ngā take, ka mau tonu ēnei whanonga. He maha o ēnei take e tutuki ana i ngā paearu mō te Mate Whanoke Āhua Hapori (ASPD).

Ko te tīmatanga wawe o te mate i mua i te 10 tau te pakeke e pā ana ki te ngoikore o te tirohanga. He hononga kaha anō hoki ki te ngoikore nui o te mahi kura.

Tērā pea ētahi tamariki me ngā taiohi e pāngia ana e te Mate Whanoke, he mate hinengaro anō hoki ō rātou. Hei tauira:

• Ngā mate hinengaro, ngā mate manukanuka rānei.
• Ngā tohu mate tinana.
• Te mate whakamahi waipiro me/te mate whakamahi matū rānei.
• Ngā mate hinengaro e pā mai ana i te tīmatanga o te pakeketanga.

Ka taea e ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te pouri me te mate hinengaro rua te puta i te wā o te taiohitanga me te wā tōmua o te pakeketanga.Ka taea e te whakaaro whakamomori te noho hei raruraru o ēnei āhuatanga. Mena kei te kōrero tāu tamaiti mō te whakamomori, kei te whakawehi rānei, he mea tino nui kia rapu awhina hauora tonu atu.

Me pēhea taku tiaki i taku tamaiti he mate whanonga tōna?

Mena he "Haukino Āhuatanga" tō tāu tamaiti, hei tāpiri atu ki te rapu āwhina ngaio, anei ētahi huarahi hei āwhina i a koe anō me tāu tamaiti:

• Akohia te (Te Mate Whanoke) me te noho mōhio ki ngā rangahau hou mō ngā maimoatanga whai hua.
• Kōrero ki tētahi kaitohutohu hauora hinengaro . Ki te taea, kimihia tētahi kua whakangungua ki te tautuhi me te rongoā i te Mate Whanoke.
• Tūhurahia ngā kōwhiringa maimoatanga e wātea ana. Me whakarite te maimoatanga kia rite ki ngā hiahia o te tamaiti, ā, me arotahi ki te whānau.
• Kimihia he rōpū tautoko whānau, he whakahaere rānei i roto i tō hapori.

Āhea ahau me toro atu ki te tākuta mō te (Mate Āhua) o taku tamaiti?

Mena kua tāpaetia tāu tamaiti he "Mate Āhuatanga" ā, kei te kino haere tana whanonga, kei te whakararuraru rānei i te oranga whānau, i ngā mahi kura rānei, kōrero ki tā rātou tohunga hauora hinengaro.

Ko te mea nui: Ki te whakaatu tāu tamaiti i ngā whanonga morearea ka whara i a ia anō, i ētahi atu, i ngā kararehe rānei, rapua tonutia te awhina hauora.

He wero nui pea ngā tamariki tutu, pukuriri hoki mō ngā mātua. Ahakoa he mea noa mō ngā tamariki nohinohi te whakaatu i ngā whanonga tutu i ētahi wā, ko te whanonga tonu, whakararuraru, pukuriri hoki he tohu pea nō te "Whakararu Whanoke".

He mea tino nui kia tīmata wawe te maimoatanga mō te Whanoketanga Āhua . Ko te taahiraa tuatahi ki te maimoatanga ko te kōrero ki te tākuta, ki te kaitohutohu hauora hinengaro rānei. Kaua e wehi ki te pātai ki tō tākuta. Kei reira rātou hei āwhina i a koe.

Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga

• He whanonga kino te Mate Whanoke e kitea ana i roto i ngā tamariki me ngā taiohi. Ehara tēnei i te whanoke noa iho.
• Ki te mau tonu ngā tohu pēnei i te riri, te takahi ture, te tinihanga, me te whakangaromanga taonga , me rapu tohutohu ngaio .
• Nā te huinga o ngā āhuatanga ira, koiora, me te taiao tēnei i hua mai ai.
• Mā te tautuhi wawe me te maimoatanga tika (ina koa ko te hinengaro whakaora me te whakangungu mātua) ka nui te whakamarie mō te tamaiti me te whānau.
• Kāore koe i te mokemoke. Kaua e wehi ki te tono āwhina. Mā te tautoko tika, ka taea te whakahaere i tēnei āhuatanga.