He kupu whakahāwea, he kupu taupatupatu rānei kei roto i tō kōrero? Me ako tātou mō ngā mate o te matatau!

Ka raru pea koe i ētahi wā ki te kōrero? Kāore rānei koe e mārama ki tāu e ngana ana ki te kōrero, ā, ka ahua pōrearea ō kupu? Tērā pea he uaua ki tāu tamaiti te tīmata i tētahi kupu, kua kite rānei koe he maha ngā wā e kīia ana e ia ētahi wāhanga o te kupu kotahi. Ehara ēnei i te mea noa iho, engari e kiia ana ko ngā mate matatau. Me kōrero tātou mō tēnei i tēnei rā, nā te mea he mea nui kia mōhio koe me ō whanaunga ki tēnei.

He aha te Mate Reo Matatau?

Ki te kī ngāwari, ko te matatau te huarahi maeneene e rere ai ngā kupu ina kōrero koe. Pērā i te awa wai e rere pai ana, e mārama ana hoki, ina kōrero tātou, ka kī tātou he matatau tātou ina rere mārama ana ngā kupu, kāore e mau, ā, e haere tonu ana. Ko te mate matatau te wā e mutu tonu ai te rere o ngā kupu ina kōrero koe.

Ina kōrero te tangata whai mate nei, ka pā pea ēnei mea:

• He maha ngā wā okioki i te wā e kōrero ana.
• Ka roa ake ētahi oro i te wā e tika ana .
• He maha ngā wā ka whakahuatia anō ngā oro, ngā reta, ngā kupu rānei.
• Ka rerekē te tere, te manawataki rānei o te kōrero .

He tino noa ēnei mate e kiia nei ko te matatau ki te reo. Heoi, nā te mea kāore te katoa e ripoata ana i tēnei mate, he uaua ki ngā kairangahau te mōhio tika ki te tokomaha o te hunga e pāngia ana e ēnei mate.

He maha ngā wā ka tīmata ēnei mate i te tamarikitanga . I ētahi wā ka ara ake tēnei ki ngā uauatanga ki te kimi hoa, ki ngā mahi mātauranga, tae atu ki te hauora hinengaro. Engari ko te rongo pai, mā te maimoatanga tika , ka taea e koe te ako ki te whakahaere i ēnei tohu.

E rua ngā momo matua o ēnei uauatanga kōrero:

Ka taea te wehewehe i ngā mate kōrero matatau ki ngā momo matua e rua:

1. Te Kōrero Pōturi : Koinei te wā e ngana ana koe ki te kī i tētahi reta, i tētahi kupu rānei, engari kāore e puta mai i tō waha. Me te mea kua mau te mea e ngana ana koe ki te kī.

2. Te Pōrearea : I tēnei āhua, ka tere rawa pea tāu kōrero. Ina pēnei tāu kōrero, ka honoa pea ngā kupu, ka tapahia rānei ētahi wāhanga o ngā kupu.

He mea noa ake te whanoke i te koretake. He mea nui kia maumahara ka pāngia ētahi tāngata e ngā āhuatanga e rua i te wā kotahi.

He aha ngā tohu o tēnei mate?

He rerekē ngā āhuatanga o te kupu taupatupatu me te kupu whakararuraru e whakararuraru ana i te rere o te kōrero. Me titiro takitahi tātou ki a rāua.

Ngā Tohu o te Kōrero

Mena he mate pākiki tōu, ka pā pea ēnei āhuatanga:

• I te tīmatanga o tētahi rerenga kōrero, me noho puku koe mō tētahi wā, kaua e puta te oro tuatahi.Ka tupu. Whakaarohia te whakama o te mea nei mēnā ka tupu tēnei i te wā e hiahia ana koe ki te kōrero wawe.
• Ko ētahi oro ka roa ake i te wā e tika ana . Hei tauira, "Ko taku i kite ai ko..."
• Ka tāruaruatia ngā reta, ngā kupu rānei . Hei tauira, "Homai taua pukapuka po-po-po" me "Ko wai-ko wai i kōrero?"

Ngā Āhuatanga o te Pūngāwerewere

Mena kei a koe tētahi āhuatanga e kiia nei ko te "Pōrearea", ka pā pea ēnei āhuatanga penei:

• Te whakakotahi i ngā kupu e rua, ka kīia hei kupu kotahi . Hei tauira, te kī "televisoff" hei utu mō te "whakaweto i te pouaka whakaata".
• Tērā pea ka tino tere, ka koretake, ka pōturi rānei te tere o te kōrero . Tērā pea ka uaua hoki ki te hunga whakarongo te mārama.
• I a rātou e kōrero ana, he maha ngā kupu kāore e hiahiatia ana e rātou pērā i te "um," "ah," "so," me te "you know".
• Te whakarerekē ohorere i te reo i waenganui o te rerenga kōrero. Hei tauira, te kī i ngā pātai e rua i te rarangi, pērā i te "E hiahia ana ahau ki te haere, ka taea e au te haere?"
• Ka kitea ngā "tauira maze" i roto i te pūrākau. Arā, te haereere noa kia tae ki te kaupapa, te whakararuraru i ngā mea. Hei tauira: "Me haere ahau ki te hoko kakahu... Ka haere ahau i te Paraire, ā, kāore he mea hei kakahu māku... Ka haere ahau ki te hokohoko hei tiki i tētahi mea hei kakahu mā tēnei rā."
• Te kōrero me ngā reta, ngā kupu rānei kua tangohia . Hei tauira, hei utu mō te kī "waimarie", me whakapoto ki "wasakata".
• Te whakamutu ohorere i te kōrero i waenganui o tētahi rerenga kōrero. Hei tauira, "Kei te hiahia koe ki te... haere mai ki te mātaki i te kiriata?"

Nā ēnei āhuatanga, ka taea e koe te mahi i ētahi mea hei huna i tō ārai kōrero. Hei tauira:

• Āta karohia ētahi kupu e whakaaro ana koe he mea whakapoauau, he mea whakararuraru rānei.
• Ka ngana rātou ki te whakararuraru i ētahi atu mā te mare, te horoi i ō rātou korokoro, te nekeneke rānei i a rātou e kōrero ana.
• Ka taupokina e rātou ō rātou waha, ka hurihia ō rātou kanohi, ka ruru rānei i ō rātou māhunga .
• E mahi ana rātou me te mea kua wareware rātou ki tā rātou e mea ai.
• Te karo i ngā whai wāhitanga ki te kōrero .

Ka taea e ēnei mea te whakararu i a koe i te ahotea hinengaro. Nō reira, he mea nui kia mōhio koe ki tēnei, ā, me rapu āwhina mēnā e tika ana.

He aha tēnei e tupu ai? He aha ngā āhuatanga mōrearea?

Ina hoki, kāore anō kia tino mōhiotia e ngā kaipūtaiao he aha te take o ēnei mate kōrero. Heoi, kua tautuhia e ngā tohunga ētahi āhuatanga mōrearea e whakanui ake ana i te mōrearea o te whakawhanake i ēnei āhuatanga. Ko te āhuatanga mōrearea he mea e whakanui ake ana i te tūponotanga o te whakawhanake i tētahi āhuatanga.

Anei ētahi o ngā āhuatanga mōrearea:

• Mena he mate kōrero tō tētahi o tō whānau tūturu , he mate tuku iho pea.
• Ki a koeMena he whakaroa whanaketanga, he hauātanga ako rānei.
• Mena kei a koe tētahi mate pūnaha io pērā i te 'ADHD' (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) te 'Autism Spectrum Disorder' rānei .
• Mena he tama koe (he nui ake te kitea o tēnei mate i roto i ngā tama i ngā kōtiro).

Engari, ehara i te mea ko te hunga katoa e pāngia ana e ēnei āhuatanga ka pāngia e te mate kōrero. Ki te whakaaro koe he raruraru kōrero tōu, tō tamaiti rānei, me toro atu ki tō tākuta tonu . Ka taea e ia te āwhina i a koe.

Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai ki tēnei?

Ka taea e ngā tākuta te tautuhi i ēnei mate kōrero mā te tirotiro i ō rātou tohu. Tērā pea ka pātai atu rātou ki a koe i ngā pātai pēnei i:

• "He mate kōrero tō tetahi o tō whānau?"
• "He aha te pānga o tēnei ārai kōrero ki tō oranga o ia rā?"
• "He aha ngā wero motuhake me whakaoti e koe?"
• "Kei te pēhea ō wheako ake?"

Tērā pea ka tukuna koe e tō tākuta ki tētahi Tohunga Mate Kōrero-Reo (SLP) . He tohunga ngā SLP ki te rongoā i ngā raruraru kōrero, reo, me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. Ka taea e rātou te wehewehe i waenga i ngā mate matatau me ētahi atu mate kōrero. Kātahi ka taea e rātou te whakawhanake i tētahi mahere maimoatanga e tika ana māu .

Mena kei te whakapaetia tō tamaiti kei te pāngia e tēnei mate, ka kōrero pea te SLP ki ngā kaiako o te tamaiti me ētahi atu mema o te whānau. Mā tēnei ka āwhina i a rātou ki te whakatau mena he pānga ki te ako a te tamaiti, ki ngā whanaungatanga pāpori, ki te hauora hinengaro rānei (pēnei i te manukanuka). Ka tūtohu pea rātou i te rongoā kōrero hei āwhina i te tamaiti ki te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto uaua ka pā mai ki te mate kōrero.

Me pēhea te rongoā?

Mā te whakaora kōrero ka rongoatia e ngā tākuta ēnei mate kōrero matatau. Kei roto i tēnei maimoatanga te whakaharatau i te kōrero me te whakawhanake i ngā rautaki maha ka taea te whakamahi i te wā kōrero.

Ka taea e te maimoatanga mō ngā mate kōrero matatau te āwhina i a koe ki ngā mea pēnei i:

• Whakahaerehia tō manawa hei tautoko i tō kōrero .
• Whakamahia ngā wā okioki tūturu i te wā e kōrero ana, hei āwhina i a koe ki te neke atu ki te wāhanga e whai ake nei o tētahi kupu, o tētahi rerenga kōrero rānei.
• Whakaititia ngā whanonga kē atu e pā ana ki tēnei mate, pērā i te maremare me te kimo kanohi.
• Whakaitihia te ahotea me ngā kare ā-roto kino e pā ana ki te kōrero.
• Whakaroahia te tere, ka arotahi ki ngā oro takitahi, ki ngā papakupu me ngā kupu .
• Kia matatau ake, kia māeneene ake hoki te kōrero .
• Kōrerotia ki a rātou me pēhea koe e hiahia ana ki te āwhina a ētahi atu i a koe kia pai ake ai tō whakawhitiwhiti kōrero (hei tauira, te tono atu kia hoatu he wā ki a koe hei whakaoti i ngā rerenga kōrero).
• Ētahi atuWhakamahia ngā rerenga poto, mārama hoki.

Kia maumahara, he tukanga e hiahia ana ki te manawanui me te whakapau kaha ki te whakaora kōrero. Tērā pea ka roa te wā e kitea ai ngā hua, engari kaua e ngākau māhaki!

Ka taea te ārai i tēnei āhuatanga?

I te mea kāore i te mōhiotia te tino pūtake o ēnei mate kōrero matatau, kāore he huarahi hei ārai katoa i a rātou . Heoi, e ai ki te kōrero i mua ake nei, ka taea e te maimoatanga te whakapai ake i te rere o tō kōrero.

Ka aha mēnā kei ahau tēnei āhuatanga?

He rerekē te pānga o ngā mate kōrero matatau ki te katoa. Ka rerekē ngā tohu mai i te ngawari ki te kino . Ka taea e te whakaora kōrero te āwhina i a koe ki te wikitoria i ngā wero kōrero katoa, tae atu ki te whanoke, te koretake rānei.

I ētahi wā, inā koa i ngā wā tino ahotea , ka hoki anō ngā tohu. Nō reira, he mea tino nui kia mau tonu te mahi i ngā rautaki i akohia i roto i te whakaora kōrero.

Āhea koe me rapu tohutohu hauora?

Mena he raruraru kōrero tāu e pā ana ki tō whakapono ki a koe anō, ki tō oranga o ia rā rānei , kōrero ki tō tākuta. Ka taea e ia te kōrero ki a koe mō ō whāinga whaiaro, me te āwhina i a koe ki te kimi i te wāhi hei tīmata.

Ki te whakaaro koe he raruraru kōrero tāu tamaiti, kōrero ki te tākuta tamariki o tāu tamaiti . Ka taea e ia te whakatau mēnā he tika te kōrero a tāu tamaiti mō tōna tau, ā, ka tukuna pea koe ki tētahi SLP mō te maimoatanga.

He aha ngā pātai me pātai atu koe ki te tākuta?

Mena he mate kōrero tōu, tō tamaiti rānei, anei ētahi pātai ka taea e koe te pātai atu ki tō tākuta:

• "He aha te momo mate matatau kei a au?"
• "He aha ngā mea ka whakararu i aku tohu?"
• "He aha te momo maimoatanga e taunaki ana koe?"
• "He aha ngā mea ka taea e au te tumanako atu i roto i aku wā whakangungu reo?"
• "He rauemi, he rōpū tautoko rānei hei āwhina māku?"

Kaua e wehi ki te pātai i ēnei pātai. Mā te nui ake o tō mōhiotanga mō tō āhuatanga, ka māmā ake te whakatau i tēnā.

Me pēhea tātou e āwhina ai i tētahi pēnei?

Mena he mate kōrero tō tētahi e mōhiotia ana e koe, anei ētahi huarahi hei tautoko i a rātou:

• Kia atawhai, kia manawanui . Hoatu he wā ki a rātou ki te whakaoti i ngā rerenga kōrero me ngā whakaaro. Kaua e whakahē, kaua hoki e tawai ki a rātou.
• Kimihia ngā rauemi hei āwhina . Hei tauira, ka whakaratohia e ngā kura tūmatanui ngā ratonga motuhake mō ngā tamariki he hauātanga kōrero.
• Āwhina ki te kimi rōpū tautoko , ahakoa he kanohi ki te kanohi, he ipurangi rānei. Nā te mea he mea noa ngā mate matatau, he rōpū kei reira hei āwhina i te hunga e pōturi ana te kōrero, te hunga e uaua ana ki te kōrero, me ō rātou whanaunga.

Ko te mea nui ko te mea kia mōhio te tangata kāore ia i te mokemoke. Ka waiho tō manawanui me tō māramatanga hei kaha nui mōna.

He tino uaua pea ina he mea kei roto i tōu mahunga hei kōrero engari kāore e taea te whakapuaki. Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te whakauru atu ki te kōrero, ka taea e tēnei te whakararuraru me te mataku i a koe. Ka pā nui tēnei momo ahotea ki tō hauora hinengaro me tō hauora kare ā-roto. Heoi, ka taea e te whakaora kōrero te āwhina i tēnei āhuatanga. Ki te whakaaro koe he mate kōrero tōu, tō tamaiti rānei, kia mōhio koe ki te kōrero ki tō tākuta. Mā rātou koe e ārahi ki te aha e whai ake nei.

Nā, me whakamahara tātou i a tātou anō ki ngā mea tino nui me kawe e tātou mai i tēnei pūrākau ki te kāinga? (Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga)

• Ko ngā mate o te matatau o te reo he mate e whakararuraru ana i te rere o te kōrero. Ko te haukū me te pōrearea ngā momo matua e rua.
• Ka tīmata pea ēnei i te tamarikitanga , ā, ka pā ki te oranga o ia rā, te ako, me te hauora hinengaro.
• Ahakoa kāore i te mōhiotia te tino take, ko ngā āhuatanga ira, ko te whakaroa whanaketanga, me ētahi mate pūnaha io he āhuatanga mōrearea pea.
• Ko te whakaora kōrero te tikanga maimoatanga matua. Ka taea e ia te whakapai ake i ngā pūkenga kōrero me te whakahaere i ngā wero.
• Mena kei a koe, kei tāu tamaiti rānei tētahi o ēnei tohu, kaua e whakaroa ki te rapu tohutohu hauora . He nui te rerekētanga ka puta mai i te kitenga wawe me te maimoatanga.
• He mea tino nui kia manawanui, kia atawhai, kia mārama hoki te tangata kua pāngia e tēnei mate.

Ko tāku tumanako he whai hua ēnei mōhiohio ki a koe. Kia maumahara, kāore koe i te mokemoke, ā, he huarahi anō hei tiki āwhina!

` Te kīkī, ngā mate kōrero, te whakaora kōrero, te kōrero pōturi, ngā uauatanga whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, ngā raruraru kōrero a ngā tamariki, te kīkī