Kua rongo kē koe i ētahi tāngata e tata ana ki ō rātou kaipahua? Ko te Stockholm Syndrome tēnei e kiia nei koia!

Kua rongo kē koe i tētahi āhuatanga e tahaetia ana, e puritia ana, ā, ka aroha koe, ka aroha pea ki te tangata nāna koe i tahae? He mea rerekē, kāore? Engari he āhuatanga hinengaro uaua tonu. I tēnei rā ka kōrero tātou mō tētahi āhuatanga hinengaro rerekē, engari he mea tino nui. Koinei te mea e kīia ana e ngā tākuta ko te Stockholm Syndrome.

He aha te Matepukupuku o Stockholm?

Ki te kī māmā noa iho, ko te Stockholm Syndrome te tukanga e whakawhanake ai te tangata i te hononga kare ā-roto me te aroha ki te kaitukino, ki te kaipahua rānei, ina puritia, ina tukinotia rānei. Whakaarohia te mīharo me te uaua o te whakawhanake i te hononga me te aroha ki te tangata e whakatoi ana, e whakamamae ana rānei i a koe.

Ahakoa i kitea tuatahitia tēnei āhuatanga i roto i ngā take tāwhana tangata, e kī ana ngā tākuta ināianei ka kitea anō hoki i roto i ētahi atu huihuinga mamae kino . Arā, ka puta he hononga rerekē, uaua ki te mārama i waenganui i te kaitukino me te tangata i tukinotia.

He tokomaha ngā tohunga hauora hinengaro e kite ana i tēnei hei tikanga āwhina e whakamahia ana e te tangata e pāngia ana e te huihuinga mamae hei oranga mō ngā rā, ngā wiki, me ētahi tau o te mamae me te tukino . He huarahi rerekē tēnei mō te hinengaro ki te urutau ki te āhuatanga morearea me te tiaki i a ia anō.

Tērā atu anō ētahi atu āhuatanga hinengaro e rite ana ki tēnei, ā, e pā ana hoki, kua tautuhia e ngā tākuta:

• Te hononga whara: He hononga kino tēnei e whakawhanakehia ana i waenganui i te kaitukino me te patunga i roto i te whara kino.
• Te kore āwhina i akohia: Ko te tikanga tēnei ko te kore āwhina mā te whakapono kāore e taea e koe te mawhiti i tēnei āhuatanga, ā, kāore he āwhina e wātea ana.
• Te mate o te tangata i tukinotia: He āhuatanga hinengaro e puta mai ana i te tukino tinana, hinengaro rānei mō te wā roa, ā, ka hangaia e taua tukino.

Nō te aha i huaina ai tēnei ko 'Stockholm'?

I tapaina tēnei ingoa nā tētahi kaupapa tino motuhake i arohia e te ao katoa. I tupu i te tau 1973, i tētahi tāone ko Stockholm te ingoa, Huitene . I haere mai tētahi rōpū tāngata ki te pahua i tētahi peeke, ā, i puritia ētahi kaimahi peeke mō ngā rā e ono. I tupu tēnei i te wā e karapotia ana rātou e ngā pirihimana. Ko te mea whakamiharo, i muri i te tukunga o ēnei herehere, kāore ētahi o rātou i hiahia ki te whakaatu taunakitanga i roto i te kōti mō ngā kaipahua peeke . Ehara i te mea koinā anake, engari he mea miharo, i kohia hoki e rātou he moni hei āwhina i ngā tukanga ture hei whakaora i ngā kaipahua!

Nō reira, ko tētahi tohunga taihara me tētahi tohunga hinengaro i rangahau hōhonu i tēnei kaupapa, ko rāua te hunga tuatahi ki te whakamahi i te ingoa 'Stockholm Syndrome' hei whakamārama i tēnei āhua atawhai me te aroha rerekē i whakaaturia e ngā kaimahi peeke ki ngā kaipahua. Arā, ko te mate i kitea i te tāone o Stockholm. Mai i taua wā tonu, kua whakamahia tēnei ingoa mō ngā āhuatanga pēnei.

He aha ngā tohu o te Stockholm Syndrome?

Mena kei te pāngia tetahi e te Stockholm Syndrome, tera pea ka kitea ēnei tohu. Engari kia maumahara, ehara i te katoa ka pāngia e ēnei tohu katoa, ā, ka rerekē pea i ia tangata, i ia tangata.

• Te kare ā-roto pai mō te hunga e pupuri ana i a koe, mō te hunga rānei e tukino ana i a koe. Arā, he kare ā-roto aroha mō rātou, he hiahia pea, he kare ā-roto hiahia ki te tiaki i a rātou.
• Te whakaae ki ō rātou whakapono me ā rātou whanonga, te aroha ki a rātou. Pērā i tā rātou mahi, mai i tā rātou tirohanga, te āhua tika, e ngana ana ki te mārama ki a rātou.
• Te whai whakaaro kino ki ngā pirihimana, ki ētahi atu mana whakahaere, ki te hunga rānei e ngana ana ki te whakaora i a koe. Ko te tikanga o tēnā ko te whakahē me te kore whakawhirinaki ki te hunga e haere mai ana ki te whakaora i a koe.

Haunga ēnei, ka kitea anō hoki ngā tohu e rite ana ki ērā o te Mate Ahotea Muri-Tūkino (PTSD) , he mate hinengaro e puta ana i muri i tētahi huihuinga mamae. Kei roto i ēnei:

• Ngā Whakamuri: Ko te tikanga tēnei, ko ngā kaupapa i tupu te āhua nei kei te ora anō i mua i ō kanohi, ā, ko ngā oro, ko ngā kakara, me ngā kare ā-roto te āhua nei kei reira tonu i taua wā.
• Te āwangawanga, te riri tonu, te wiri, me te manukanuka. Te riri me te riri mō ngā mea iti noa.
• Kāore e taea te pārekareka ki ngā mea i hari ai koe i mua, kāore e taea te whakangā.
• Te uaua ki te arotahi. Tērā pea ka ngaro te mahara.
• Te kore moe, ngā moemoeā kino.

He aha i pāngia ai ētahi tāngata e tēnei āhuatanga?

Ina hoki, kāore anō kia tino mārama ngā kairangahau he aha i pāngia ai ētahi herehere, ētahi kaitukino rānei e te mate Stockholm Syndrome, ko ētahi kua pāngia e te mamae nui kāore. Engari tera pea ētahi ariā hei whakamārama i te take.

Ko tētahi ariā he tikanga ako tēnei i tukuna iho i tētahi whakatipuranga ki tētahi whakatipuranga mai i ō tātou tūpuna . Whakaarohia, i ngā wā o mua, i reira ngā pakanga i waenganui i ngā iwi, ā, i reira tonu te tūponotanga ka mauheretia koe, ka mate rānei i tētahi atu rōpū pāpori. I taua wā, i te wā i hanga ai e koe tētahi momo hononga, i tētahi hoahoa rānei ki te hunga i hopu i a koe, ka piki ake ō tupono ki te ora.E whakapono ana ētahi tohunga hinengaro whanaketanga, he āhuatanga tūturu pea tēnei rautaki tawhito kua āwhina i te tangata kia ora.

Ko tētahi atu tirohanga, ina mauheretia, e tukinotia ana rānei tētahi, he āhuatanga kare ā-roto tēnei. Arā, he nui rawa te pēhanga mō te hinengaro. Kātahi, i roto i te wā, ki te whiwhi koe i ētahi atawhai iti, i ētahi aroha rānei mai i te kaitūkino (hei tauira, te hoatu kai ki a rātou, te hoatu wai ki a rātou, te kōrero ki a rātou), ka taea e koe te whakarerekē i ō kare ā-roto hei whakautu me te whakawhanake i te aroha ki te kaitūkino. Waihoki, tera pea ka whakaaro koe ka taea e koe te whakarite i tō haumaru mā te mahi tahi me te kaitūkino, kaua ki te whawhai ki a ia. Ki te kore koe e whara i te kaitūkino, ka whakamatautauria koe ki te whakawhetai ki taua tangata, ā, tera pea ka kite koe i te kaitūkino "ehara i te tangata kino." He tukanga hinengaro koretake tēnei.

Me pēhea te mōhio o ngā tākuta he mate tēnei?

Anei tētahi mea motuhake me mōhio koe. Kāore anō te American Psychiatric Association kia whakauru mana i te Stockholm Syndrome hei mate motuhake i roto i tana pukapuka tātaritanga hou – te Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), te aratohu matua o te ao, e whakaaetia whānuitia ana mō te tautuhi i ngā mate me ngā āhuatanga hinengaro.

Nō reira, ko ētahi kaiwhakarato hauora, pērā i ngā tākuta me ngā tohunga hinengaro, tērā pea ka mōhio, kāore rānei e mōhio ki tēnei mate mā taua ingoa. Heoi, e mōhio ana rātou katoa ki ngā tauira whanonga e puta ana i muri i tētahi huihuinga nui whakaharahara, arā, ko ngā tohu e whakaatuhia ana e te patunga. Ko ngā paearu e whakamahia ana hei tautuhi i te mate ahotea muri-whara (PTSD) me te mate ahotea whakapeka , me ētahi o ngā tikanga maimoatanga, he tino rite ki te Stockholm Syndrome. Nō reira, ko tā te tākuta he whakarite maimoatanga i runga i ngā tohu me ngā wheako.

He aha ngā maimoatanga mō te Stockholm Syndrome?

Kāore te Stockholm Syndrome i te whakarōpūtia mana hei mate hinengaro, nō reira kāore he maimoatanga paerewa mōna. Heoi, e ai ki te kōrero i mua ake nei, ka rite te maimoatanga o te Stockholm Syndrome ki te mate ahotea muri-traumatic (PTSD) . Ko te nuinga o tēnei ka mahia mā te hinengaro hinengaro me/ranei te rongoā mēnā e tika ana.

Mena kei a koe, kei tētahi rānei e tata ana ki a koe tēnei mate, anei ētahi huarahi hauora hei whakatau i te wheako mamae kua pā ki a koe.Ka taea e koe te ako.

Ka taea e te rongoā te āwhina i a koe ki ēnei mea:

• Kia mārama ki tō wheako, ki ngā mea i pā ki a koe, me te take i pērā ai ō kare ā-roto.
• Kia mārama koe ko ngā kare ā-roto o te aroha ki ō kaiherehere, ki te kaitūkino rānei, he pūkenga ora i a koe i taua wā hei oranga mōu, hei whakatau hoki i te āhuatanga. Whakaaetia ehara i te mea nāu te he.
• Akohia me pēhea te anga whakamua i roto i tōu ao me te kaha ake, me te tīmata hou i muri i tēnei wheako uaua.

Mena kei a koe ngā tohu pēnei i te kore moe, te manukanuka, te pouri rānei, ka tohua pea e tō tākuta he rongoā hei āwhina i a koe kia pai ake te moe me te whakaiti i tō manukanuka, i tō pouri rānei. Ka whai hua pea ēnei ina whakamahia tahitia me te hinengaro hinengaro.

Ka taea e tātou te puta atu i tēnei āhuatanga? He aha ngā mea ka pā mai i te heke mai?

Ko te mea tuatahi hei kī , ehara i te mea ko te hunga katoa e tukinotia ana, e whara ana, e puritia ana rānei, ka pāngia e te Stockholm Syndrome . He tino onge tēnei tauhohenga hinengaro. Arā, he mea tino onge.

Heoi, ahakoa tēnei ka tupu, ka taea e te hinengaro whakaora , me te rongoā hoki, ki te tika, te āwhina i a koe, i tō hoa aroha rānei, kia ora mai i tēnei mate, kia anga whakamua ai me te oranga noa, harikoa hoki. Nō reira, kaua e mutu te tumanako. Tērā pea ka roa te wā e ora ai, engari mā te tautoko tika, ka taea.

Ka puta noa rānei te Stockholm Syndrome i ngā āhuatanga herehere?

Ahakoa i tapaina te ingoa o te Stockholm Syndrome i muri i te tāone o Stockholm, i reira i puta ai te tahae peeke me te tango herehere, ka kitea anō hoki ngā whanonga me ngā kare ā-roto rite i roto i te hunga kua pāngia e ētahi atu āhuatanga kino. Ko te tikanga, kāore i te herea ki ngā herehere anake. Anei ētahi tauira:

• Te tūkino ā-ira tangata, ā-tinana me te ā-hinengaro: Ina koa i ngā take pēnei i te tūkino ā-whare mō te wā roa.
• Te tukino i te tamaiti: Ka hanga pea te tamaiti i tētahi hononga ki tētahi pakeke e tukino ana i a ia nā te mea kāore he kōwhiringa, he tiakitanga rānei a te tamaiti.
• Te tukino a te kaiako me te kaitākaro: Whakaarohia, ka whakaae ētahi kaitākaro ki ngā whakangungu tino kino, nanakia, tae noa ki te tukino mai i tā rātou kaiako nā te mea e whakapono ana rātou e mōhio ana te kaiako ki te mea pai mō rātou, ā, ka taea e ia te mea kia toa ai rātou.
• Te hokohoko tangata mō te moepuku: I konei anō hoki, kua puta ngā pūrongo mō ngā tāngata i pāngia e te hononga ki ā rātou kaihokohoko.
• Ka taea te whakarite i te aroha matapo o ngā mema o ētahi karakia ki ō rātou kaiārahi ki tēnei i tētahi taumata.

I ēnei āhuatanga katoa, ko te Stockholm Syndrome he tikanga hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau i tō raruraru. Engari i te mataku, i te mataku, i te mauahara rānei ki te tangata tukino i a koe, ka taea e koe te tīmata ki te rongo i te aroha tangata me te ngākau aroha ki a rātou.

Ko te mea nui, mēnā kua pāngia koe, tētahi rānei e tata ana ki a koe e te Stockholm Syndrome, he mea nui kia mārama koe ehara i te he ōu kare ā-roto pai mō te tangata tukino i a koe. He huarahi tēnei ki te mārama ki ō kare ā-roto, ki tō āhua e pā ana ki ngā mea i pā ki a koe, me tō āhua e pā ana ki a ia. Ka taea e tō tākuta, e tō kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro rānei te āwhina i a koe, i tō hoa aroha rānei kia ora mai i tēnei mate.

Hei whakamutunga, ko ngā mea tino nui hei maumahara (Karere hei tango ki te kāinga)

Āe, kua mārama kē tātou ki te Stockholm Syndrome. Ahakoa he kaupapa uaua, he mea nui kia mōhio tātou ki tēnei. Anei ētahi kōrero matua hei maumahara:

• Ko te Stockholm Syndrome he tauhohenga hinengaro onge, engari ka taea, ki te whara kino, ki te tukino rānei, e whakawhanake ai te tangata i te aroha, te piri rānei ki te tangata nāna i tukino.
• Ehara tēnei i te he o te patunga , he tikanga āwhina tēnei e whakamahia ana e te hinengaro hei oranga, he rautaki oranga kore mohio .
• Kāore tēnei āhuatanga e herea noa ki te tango herehere, engari ka kitea anō hoki i roto i ngā mahi tukino me ngā huihuinga mamae .
• Ahakoa kāore i te whakarōpūtia mana hei mate, he rite tonu ngā tohu ki te mate ahotea muri-traumatic (PTSD) , ā, he rite tonu ngā maimoatanga.
• Mā te hinengaro whakaora, me te rongoā mēnā e tika ana, ka taea rawa te ora mai i tēnei mate me te hoki ki te oranga noa.
• Mena kei te pāngia koe, tetahi atu rānei e mōhio ana koe e tēnei āhuatanga, kua pāngia rānei e tēnei āhuatanga, he mea tino nui kia rapu tohutohu hauora tika me te tautoko a tētahi tohunga hauora hinengaro whai tohu .

Kaua rawa e māharahara, e whakama, e hara rānei mō tētahi wheako pēnei. Kaua e wehi ki te tono āwhina. He mea utu nui tō hauora hinengaro. Kei a koe te tika ki te tiaki i tēnei.

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