He tangata koe e pai ana ki te noho tahi me te katoa? Ko wai te tangata e hiahia ana ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero?

Kāore koe e hiahia ki te kī 'kāo' ina tonoa koe kia haere ki tētahi pāti, ki tētahi huihuinga rānei? He nui te harikoa me te kaha e puta mai ana i te tūtaki ki ngā tāngata hou me te huihui ki tētahi rōpū tāngata? Mena koinā, he nui te tūponotanga he tangata koe e hiahia ana ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero . He rerekē ngā āhua o tātou katoa, arā, ō tātou āhuatanga. He uaua pea te tautuhi i ēnei āhuatanga i ētahi wā. Me kōrero taipitopito atu tātou mō tēnei i tēnei rā.

Ko wai tēnei tangata hihiko ki te kōrero whānui?

I te whakarapopototanga, ko te tangata e aro nui ana ki waho ko te tangata e whiwhi ana i tōna kaha me tōna hiahia mai i te ao o waho, arā, mai i ngā mahi pāpori me ētahi atu tāngata. Ko ēnei kupu e rua ko '(Extrovert)' me '(Introvert)' i whakaurua tuatahitia e Carl Jung, he tangata e kore e warewaretia ina kōrero ana mō te hinengaro. I mea ia ka taea te wehewehe i te tangata kia rua ngā momo i runga i te huarahi e tukuna ai e rātou tōna kaha.

He tangata kōrero nui, he tangata whakahoahoa, he tangata pukumahi, ā, he tangata atawhai ki te tangata. Whakaarohia kei roto i tō tari tētahi tangata e menemene ana, e kōrero ana ki te katoa, e mōhio ana ki te katoa, ā, ki te whakarite koe i tētahi haerenga tari, i tētahi pāti rānei, ko rātou te tuatahi ki te whakarite. Tērā pea he tangata kōrero nui taua tangata. He nui ā rātou hoa, ā, he tino pai hoki rātou ki te kimi hoa hou.

Ka rerekē pea tō tātou āhua puta noa i ō tātou oranga. Tērā pea he tangata tino marino, he tangata whakamā koe i tō tamarikitanga. Engari ināianei, kua pakeke koe, he tangata tino pāpori, he tangata whakawhanaunga koe. Ko ō tātou ira, ko tō tātou whanaketanga, me te taiao i tipu ake ai tātou, ka whai wāhi katoa ki tō tātou āhua ahurei.

Te tangata whakahihi me te tangata mārire: He aha te rerekētanga i waenganui i ngā mea e rua?

Mā te mārama ki tō momo tuakiri ka āwhina i a koe ki te kimi huarahi hou hei whakaoti rapanga, hei whakapai ake i ō whanaungatanga, me te mārama ki ō kaha me ō ngoikoretanga. Ko te rerekētanga matua i waenga i ngā mea e rua ko te huarahi e whiwhi ai koe i tō pūngao. Ka whiwhi te tangata tuwhera i te pūngao mai i te taunekeneke ki te tangata me te noho tahi. Ka whiwhi te tangata māhorahora i te pūngao mai i te noho mokemoke me te arotahi ki tōna ake āhua.

Ka taea te mārama ake ki ēnei huringa mai i te ripanga i raro nei.

He maha ngā wā ka puritia e te tangata whakamā te whakaaro me te kare ā-roto o te tangata, ā, ka pai ake tana mahi ina noho ko ia anake. Engari ko te tangata whakamā te whakaaro, ina pāngia e te raruraru, ka kitea e ia he otinga mā te kōrero ki tētahi atu me te whakaputa i aua whakaaro. I te wā e whakahaere ana i te ahotea me te manukanuka, ko te pai o te tangata whakamā te noho puku he painga. Waihoki, ko te kaha o te tangata whakamā te whakaaro me te kaha ki te mahi tahi me te rōpū ka tū motuhake ia hei kaiārahi pai.

Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai he tangata hihiri koe?

Ehara i te mea he pūtaiao tuturu te whakatau mēnā he tangata whakahihi koe, he tangata huna rānei. Kāore he ine kotahi. Engari he maha ngā huarahi ka taea e koe te whakamahi hei whakatau i tō momo tuakiri. Ko tētahi huarahi ko te whakamātautau tuakiri ipurangi pērā i te Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). Mēnā rānei, ka taea e koe te kite mēnā he rite ō āhuatanga ki tētahi tangata whakahihi.

Anei ētahi āhuatanga pēnei:

• Ina noho tahi koe me ētahi atu, ka rongo koe i te hihiko, i te hou hoki .
• Ki te roa rawa tō noho mokemoke , ka pau tō kaha , ka kore koe e ora, ā, ka hoha koe.
• He pai ki a koe te noho hei pokapū o te aro, ā, kāore koe e wehi ki te aro atu ki ngā āhuatanga tauhou.
• He pai ki a koe te tīmata kōrero, ahakoa ki tētahi kāore koe i te mōhio . I te nuinga o te wā, ka kōrero koe kia tika ai ō whakaaro.
• Ko koe tonu te kaiwhakarite i ngā haerenga me ngā pāti hei huihuinga mō te iwi.
• Kāore i te maha ngā wā ka whakahē koe i tētahi pōwhiri ki tētahi pāti, ki tētahi huihuinga rānei.
• Ka taea e koe te urutau ki tētahi taiao, ki tētahi āhuatanga rānei. Ka hari tō koiora i ngā whakatau ohorere.

Ehara tēnei i te mea pango, mā. Tērā pea he tangata tino māhorahora koe i te mahi, ka taea e koe te ārahi i tētahi hui me te kore he ngangau. Engari ina hoki koe ki te kāinga, tera pea he tangata koe e pai ana ki te pānui pukapuka, ki te mātaki kiriata rānei ko koe anake. Ko te tikanga he "(Ambivert)" ōu āhuatanga. Ko te huarahi pai ki te kimi i tō tuakiri ko te whakaaro ki a koe anō. Whakaarohia pono ō wheako , ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe. He huarahi pai hoki ko te pātai ki tētahi hoa e whakawhirinaki ana koe, ā, e tata ana ki a koe.

Ngā painga me ngā huakore o te noho hei tangata whakawhanaunga

He maha ngā āhuatanga pai e pā ana ki te tangata e aro nui ana ki te ao whānui. He tino pai rātou ki te hanga whanaungatanga pāpori. Mā ēnei pūkenga pāpori pai ka āwhina i a rātou ki te pupuri i ngā whakahoahoa me te whai taumata tiketike o te makona ki ō rātou oranga. Waihoki, mā te kaha ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou whakaaro ka tino pai rātou ki te kōrero i te aroaro o te marea me ngā mahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero nui.

Engari kāore e kore he wero. He tino uaua te noho mokemoke i ngā wā katoa mō te tangata e hiahia ana ki te kōrero whānui. Waihoki, he maha ā rātou kōrero i mua i te whakaaro, ā, ka puta pea ētahi raruraru. Ko rātou te hunga e whakahaere ana i te kōrero i roto i te rōpū, nō reira he uaua pea ki a rātou te whakarongo pai.

He kaha, he ngoikore hoki ō te hunga whakamā, me te hunga tuwhera. Ko te tangata whakaaro kore whakaaro, ko ia te mea pai rawa atu mō ngā mea e rua, tera pea ka nui ake tōna painga. Ko te mea nui kia mōhio koe ki ngā wero e pā ana ki tō momo tuakiri, me te mahi i ngā whakarerekētanga e tika ana kia tino whakamahia ai ō kaha.