Dokotala wanu akakuuzani kuti muli ndi khansa ya m'mawere, mungamve ngati moyo wanu wonse wasintha mwadzidzidzi. Zimenezo ndi zachilendo. Koma sizimangokhudza inu nokha. Zimakhudzanso banja lanu ndi anzanu apamtima omwe amakukondani ndipo ali nanu pafupi. Angamve mantha, kukwiya, chisoni, komanso opanda thandizo, monga inu. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti inu ndi okondedwa anu mumvetsetsane, kulankhulana, ndi kuthandizana paulendo wovutawu.
Tiyeni tiphunzire za izi pamodzi.
Pamene munayamba kudziwa za vutoli, mwina munafufuza zambiri zokhudza vutoli. Munafufuza pa intaneti, m'mabuku, ndi madokotala kuti mudziwe momwe mungathanirane nalo. Monga inu, banja lanu ndi anzanu akufufuzanso zambiri. Akufufuzanso zambiri zokhudza momwe angakuthandizireni bwino komanso zomwe mungayembekezere mtsogolo.
Choncho, chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungachite ndikuwaphatikiza paulendowu.
- Kambiranani nawo za matenda anu, kutanthauza kuti muli ndi khansa ya m'mawere .
- Auzeni chithandizo chomwe chikuperekedwa komanso zomwe angayembekezere. Kukhala omasuka mwanjira imeneyi kudzawathandiza kuthana ndi mantha aliwonse osafunikira omwe angakhale nawo.
- Nthawi iliyonse ikatheka, mukapita kukaonana ndi dokotala, tengani munthu wapafupi nanu . Munthuyo akhoza kufunsa dokotala mafunso ndikulemba zinthu zofunika m'buku. Kenako, ngati mwaiwala chinachake, munthuyo akhoza kukukumbutsani. Komanso, iye akhoza kufotokozera ena izi.
Izi zili ngati masewera a timu . Aliyense akasonkhana pamodzi ndipo amadziwa, zimakhala zosavuta kukumana ndi vutoli.
Khalani okonzeka kusintha malinga ndi kusintha.
Pamene mukulandira chithandizo, kusamalira ntchito za tsiku ndi tsiku kunyumba kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Mwamuna wanu, mkazi wanu, amayi anu, abambo anu, kapena mnzanu wapamtima angakuthandizeni kugawana zina mwa zolemetsazo panthawiyi.
Ngati wina akufuna kukuthandizani, ganizirani zinthu zomveka bwino komanso zenizeni zomwe angakuchitireni. M'malo mongonena kuti, "Ndikufuna thandizo," mungapemphe zinthu monga:
- "Kodi mungamutenge mwana kusukulu masana ano?"
- "Kodi mungandiphikire chakudya kunyumba tsiku limene ndidzapita kukatenga mankhwala anga ?"
- "Ndikufunika kulankhula pang'ono, muli ndi nthawi?"
Komanso, kumbukirani kuti si aliyense amene angathe kuchita chilichonse. Aliyense ali ndi luso lake lapadera. Taganizirani izi, anzanu ena ndi aluso kwambiri pomvetsera chisoni chanu. Ena ndi aluso kwambiri pokusekani ndi nthabwala. Ena ndi aluso kwambiri pophika, kusamalira ana, komanso kugwira ntchito zapanja. Choncho, yesani kusankha munthu woyenera ntchito yoyenera.
Ngati mukuona kuti wina akukuchitirani zinazake zomwe zimamuvuta, perekani kwa wina nthawi ina. Mukhozanso kulemba mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe mukufuna thandizo nazo ndikuwapempha kuti asankhe zomwe akufuna kuchita. Pakadali pano, musaiwale kuyamikira omwe akukuthandizani ndikuwakumbutsa kuti azisamalira miyoyo yawo komanso thanzi lawo.
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kukhala ndi kulankhulana kwabwino.
Pamene mukulandira chithandizo, zosowa zanu zingasinthe tsiku ndi tsiku komanso sabata ndi sabata. Masabata ena mungafunike thandizo lalikulu. Masabata ena mungakhale bwino kwambiri moti mungathe kuchita zinthu nokha. Ndikofunikira kukambirana momasuka ndi banja lanu za kusintha kumeneku.
Zinthu zina zimakhala zovuta pang'ono komanso zosasangalatsa kuzikamba, koma ndi bwino kuzikamba mwachangu, zisanakhale nkhani zazikulu.
Gome ili m'munsimu likufotokoza mitu ina yomwe inu ndi banja lanu muyenera kukambirana.
| Mutu woti ukambidwe | Kufotokozera ndi kufunika kwake |
|---|---|
| Kugawana maudindo | Muyenera kuzolowera njira zatsopano zochitira zinthu monga ntchito zapakhomo, kusamalira ana, ndi kulipira mabilu. Dziwani bwino lomwe yemwe akuchita chiyani. Mwanjira imeneyi, mavuto osafunikira sangabuke mosavuta. |
| Chiyembekezo | Aliyense ali ndi malire pa zomwe angathe kuchita. Kambiranani zomwe mungathe ndi zomwe simungathe kuchita kutengera momwe thupi lanu lilili, momwe ena alili, komanso nthawi yomwe muli nayo. |
| Ndalama ndi zofunika | Ndikofunikira kukambirana momasuka za zinthu monga ndalama zogulira kuchipatala komanso kutayika kwa ndalama. Ngakhale kuti nkhaniyi ndi yovuta, zimakhala zosavuta kupeza mayankho mukakumana nayo limodzi. |
| Zisankho zokhudza chithandizo | Inu ndi mnzanu mungakhale ndi maganizo osiyanasiyana pa chithandizo chomwe mungatsatire. Ndikofunikira kumvetserana. Ngakhale chisankho chomaliza chili chanu, kugawana malingaliro kumalimbitsa. |
| Malingaliro | Panthawiyi, inu ndi banja lanu mungamve chisoni, mantha, mkwiyo, ndi kupsinjika maganizo. Kulankhula zinthu monga "Muli bwanji?" "Ndikuvutika lero" kungakuthandizeni kumva bwino komanso kukuthandizani kumvetsetsana bwino. |
Poyamba zingakhale zovuta kulankhula za izi, koma zidzakhala zosavuta pakapita nthawi. Kumbukirani kuti aliyense ali m'gulu limodzi. Nthawi zina mawu olakwika anganenedwe, zinthu zolakwika zingachitike. Koma khalani oleza mtima wina ndi mnzake.
Pezani thandizo lakunja ngati kuli kofunikira.
Ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti simuyenera kudutsa ulendowu nokha. Mukawona kuti katunduyo ndi wolemera kwambiri kwa inu kapena munthu wina m'banja mwanu, ndi bwino kufunafuna thandizo lakunja.
- Uphungu: Mutha kukumana ndi mlangizi monga banja. Funsani dokotala wanu ngati pali akatswiri azaumoyo wamaganizo kapena alangizi kuchipatala komwe mukulandira chithandizo. Angakuthandizeni kupanga zisankho limodzi.
- Magulu Othandizira: Pali anthu ena padziko lapansi omwe akukumana ndi vuto lomweli ngati lanu. Funsani ogwira ntchito kuchipatala za magulu othandizira omwe anthu ngati inu angalowe nawo. Mabungwe ena a khansa amayendetsanso magulu othandizira pa intaneti. Kulowa nawo kungakuthandizeni kumva ngati simuli nokha.
Zinthu ngati izi zikupatsani inu ndi okondedwa anu mphamvu zambiri kuti muthane ndi nthawi yovutayi.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Khansa ya m'mawere ndi vuto lofala kwa inu, banja lanu, komanso anzanu. Musavutike nokha, limbanani nalo limodzi.
- Kambiranani momasuka za matenda anu, chithandizo chanu, ndi momwe mukumvera. Pitani ndi munthu amene mumamudalira kuti mukaone dokotala.
- Musaope kupempha thandizo. Pemphani thandizo pazinthu zinazake monga kusamalira ana, kugwira ntchito zapakhomo, kapena kupita kusitolo.
- Lemekezani malingaliro a aliyense. Nthawi zina izi zingakhale zovuta kwa inu ndi okondedwa anu kuthana nazo. Khalani oleza mtima wina ndi mnzake.
- Ngati mukumva kutopa kapena kupsinjika maganizo, musazengereze kufunafuna uphungu wa akatswiri kapena gulu lothandizira.
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