Kodi munayamba mwawonapo munthu mumsewu, m'basi, kapena muofesi ndipo munapanga chisankho chamaganizo chokhudza iye? Mwina munayang'ana momwe amavalira, momwe amalankhulira, momwe amagwiritsira ntchito foni yawo , ndipo munaganiza kuti, "O... munthu uyu ayenera kuti ali chonchi." Izi si za ife tokha, ndi zachibadwa kwa tonsefe. Lero tikambirana za chinthu chodabwitsa ichi chomwe chimabisala mkati mwa mitima yathu ndipo chimakhudza zisankho zathu.
Kodi tsankho losazindikira limeneli ndi chiyani?
Mwachidule, 'Kusankhana Zinthu Mosazindikira' kumatanthauza malingaliro, zikhulupiriro, ndi malingaliro omwe amasungidwa mu chikumbumtima chathu, omwe amatisankha popanda ife kuzindikira. Izi zimatchedwanso '(Kusankhana Zinthu Mosazindikira)'. Ganizirani ubongo wathu ngati chipinda chachikulu chosungiramo mafayilo. Chilichonse chomwe timawona, kumva, ndi zomwe timakumana nazo m'miyoyo yathu yonse chimasungidwa m'mafayilo omwe ali m'chipinda chino. Chilichonse chomwe tamva za munthu, fuko, chipembedzo, ntchito, zomwe tawona pa TV, chilichonse chomwe chakhala m'mutu mwathu kuyambira tili ana chili m'mafayilo awa.
Tikakumana ndi munthu watsopano, kapena tikakumana ndi vuto, ubongo wathu umapita mwachangu ku chipinda chosungiramo mafayilo, kufunafuna mfundo zoyenera, ndikupanga chisankho mwachangu m'masekondi ochepa popanda ife kuzindikira. Umu ndi momwe malingaliro monga "Munthu uyu ali chonchi," "Chinthu ichi sichili bwino," amabwerera m'maganizo.
Si makhalidwe onsewa (bi AS ) omwe ndi oipa. Mwachitsanzo, tangoganizani kuti mumakonda kwambiri agalu oyera, okhala ndi ubweya waukulu. Kulikonse komwe mukuona galu wotere, mumadzimva kuti muli ndi chikondi mumtima mwanu. Umenewo ndi khalidwe labwino mumtima mwanu.
Komabe, tsankho limeneli lomwe timapanga m'maganizo mwathu kutengera zinthu monga mtundu wa anthu, zaka zawo, kugonana kwawo, chipembedzo chawo, kapena ntchito zawo ndi lovuta kwambiri. Nthawi zina izi zimachokera ku chidziwitso chakale, cholakwika, kapena chofala kwambiri (malingaliro olakwika). Nthawi zina ngati izi, zochita zathu zimakhala zoipa. Mukasankha munthu wina pantchito, mukakumana ndi anthu atsopano m'gulu, komanso muzochita za tsiku ndi tsiku, tsankho limeneli losazindikira lingayambitse kupanga zisankho zolakwika komanso kuvulaza anthu.
Kodi inenso ndili ndi maganizo okondera ngati amenewa?
Inde, inde. Tonsefe tili ndi izi. Chifukwa chakuti zili mkati mwa chikumbumtima chathu, sizophweka kuti tizizindikire. Sitingangoganiza ndi kufunsa kuti, "Hmm... kodi tsankho langa ndi lotani?"
Chofunika ndichakuti kukhala ndi malingaliro amenewa mumtima mwanu sizitanthauza kuti muli ndi tsankho kapena kuti ndinu munthu woipa. Ndi gawo limodzi chabe la njira yachibadwa yomwe ubongo wa munthu umagwiritsira ntchito chidziwitso .
Tangoganizirani, inu mwanzeru, ndi maganizo anu ozindikira, mumakhulupirira mwamphamvu kuti aliyense ayenera kuchitiridwa mofanana. Koma mukakhala m'basi, ndipo wina atavala zovala zosawoneka bwino akubwera kudzakhala pafupi nanu, mosadziwa mungadabwe ndikumva kukhumudwa pang'ono. Umu ndi momwe tsankho la maganizo osadziwika limagwirira ntchito. Pakhoza kukhala mkangano pakati pa lingaliro lanu lozindikira ndi yankho lanu la maganizo osadziwika.
Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti malingaliro amenewa osazindikira zinthu kwenikweni sakhazikika. Amatha kusintha ndi zinthu zatsopano komanso chidziwitso chatsopano.
Ndiye mumasintha bwanji malingaliro awa osazindikira?
Izi zimatenga khama ndi nthawi. Koma n'zotheka ndithu. Akatswiri apeza njira zingapo zochitira izi. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe zili.
| Njira yotsatirira | Mwachidule... |
|---|---|
| Yang'anani anthu omwe amaswa malingaliro olakwika. | Samalani anthu ndi zitsanzo zomwe zimatsutsana ndi malingaliro omwe tili nawo m'maganizo mwathu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi chikhulupiriro chozama chakuti "akazi sangayendetse bwino galimoto," yang'anani makamaka akazi omwe amayendetsa bwino galimoto pamsewu. Dziwani anthu oterewa m'maseŵero a pa TV ndi m'manyuzipepala. |
| Kumanani ndi anthu atsopano. | Kukumana ndi kulankhula ndi anthu ochokera m'mabanja osiyanasiyana kungasinthe malingaliro athu omwe tinkawaganizira kale. M'malo mongoseka ndi kuseka, zimakhala zothandiza kwambiri kugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti tikwaniritse cholinga chimodzi pamalo ngati ofesi. Mukatero mutha kumvetsetsa bwino luso lawo ndi makhalidwe awo. |
| Dziwani izi. | Kudziwa kuti pali chinthu chonga ichi ndi sitepe yaikulu. Kuwerenga kwanu nkhaniyi ndi gawo la sitepe imeneyo. Tikazindikira izi, zimakhala zosavuta kuti tizindikire malingaliro ang'onoang'ono okondera omwe amabuka m'maganizo mwathu sekondi iliyonse. |
| Ganizirani momvera chisoni. | Musanapange chisankho chokhudza munthu kutengera lingaliro loyamba lomwe likubwera m'maganizo mwanu, imani kaye pang'ono ndi kuganiza kuti, "Nanga bwanji ndikanakhala m'malo mwawo?" Musanakwiyire munthu amene akufuula ndikulankhula pafoni m'basi, mutha kusintha maganizo anu poyamba poganiza kuti, "Mwina angolandira nkhani yofulumira kuchokera kunyumba." |
| Yesetsani kukhala osamala. | Kuganizira bwino ndi njira yosinkhasinkha. Kumatanthauza kungoyang'ana momwe zinthu zilili komanso malingaliro omwe amabwera m'maganizo mwathu nthawi imeneyo popanda kuwaweruza (popanda kuwatchula kuti ndi abwino kapena oipa). Kudzera mu chizolowezichi, sitidalira kwambiri mayankho omwe amabuka m'maganizo mwathu ndipo timatha kuyankha mwanzeru. |
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Tsankho losazindikira ndi lofala kwa tonsefe. Limamangidwa pa zokumana nazo ndi chidziwitso chomwe chasonkhanitsidwa kwa moyo wathu wonse.
- Kukhala ndi maganizo amenewa sikutanthauza kuti ndinu munthu woipa. Ndi mbali imodzi chabe ya momwe ubongo wa munthu umagwirira ntchito.
- Izi si zinthu zomwe sizingasinthidwe. Ndi chidziwitso, khama, ndi kuleza mtima, tikhoza kusintha zizolowezi zimenezi zosazindikira.
- Chofunika ndikutenga kaye kaye kaye musanachitepo kanthu pa zomwe mwachita poyamba chifukwa cha munthu kapena vuto linalake. Dzifunseni kuti , "Kodi lingaliro langa loyamba ili ndi lomveka? Kodi umu ndi momwe ndiyenera kuchitira?" Izi zithandiza kuti maganizo anu ozindikira apange chisankho cholondola komanso chomveka bwino.
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