Kodi munamvapo za anthu omwe amakhala pafupi ndi owaba? Izi zimatchedwa Stockholm Syndrome!

Kodi munamvapo za vuto limene munthu wina wagwidwa ndi kusungidwa m'ndende ndipo mumamvera chisoni, mwina ngakhale kukhala paubwenzi, munthu amene anakugwidwani? N'zachilendo, sichoncho? Koma kwenikweni likhoza kukhala vuto la maganizo lovuta. Lero tikambirana za vuto la maganizo losazolowereka, koma lofunika kwambiri. Ichi ndi chimene madokotala amachitcha kuti Stockholm Syndrome.

Kodi Stockholm Syndrome ndi chiyani?

Mwachidule, Stockholm Syndrome ndi njira imene munthu, akagwidwa ukapolo kapena kuzunzidwa kwambiri, amakhala ndi chikondi champhamvu komanso chifundo kwa wozunza kapena woba. Tangoganizirani momwe zimakhalira zodabwitsa komanso zovuta kukhala ndi ubale ndi chifundo kwa munthu amene akukuzunzani kapena kukuzunzani.

Ngakhale kuti vutoli linayamba kuzindikirika pa nkhani ya kuba anthu, madokotala tsopano akunena kuti likhoza kuonekanso pazochitika zina zoopsa kwambiri . Izi zikutanthauza kuti, ubale wachilendo komanso wovuta kuumvetsa umakhalapo pakati pa wozunza ndi wozunzidwayo.

Akatswiri ambiri azaumoyo wamaganizo amaona izi ngati njira yothanirana ndi mavuto yomwe munthu amene akukumana ndi zoopsazi amagwiritsa ntchito kuti apulumuke masiku, milungu, ndipo nthawi zina zaka za kuvulala ndi nkhanza . Ndi njira yachilendo kuti maganizo azolowere mkhalidwe woopsa ndikudziteteza.

Pali matenda ena amisala omwe ali ofanana ndi awa, komanso ofanana, omwe madokotala azindikira:

• Kugwirizana ndi zoopsa: Uwu ndi mgwirizano woipa womwe umayamba pakati pa wozunza ndi wozunzidwayo kudzera mu kuvulala kwakukulu.
• Kuphunzira kusowa chochita: Izi zikutanthauza kukhala wopanda chochita pokhulupirira kuti simungathe kuthawa vutoli ndipo palibe thandizo lomwe likupezeka.
• Matenda a munthu womenyedwa: Matenda a maganizo omwe amayamba chifukwa cha nkhanza zakuthupi kapena zamaganizo zomwe zimachitika nthawi yayitali ndipo zimayambitsidwa ndi nkhanzazo.

Kodi izi zinapeza bwanji dzina lakuti 'Stockholm'?

Dzina lake linadziwika chifukwa cha chochitika chapadera kwambiri chomwe chinakopa chidwi cha dziko lonse lapansi. Chinachitika mu 1973, mumzinda wotchedwa Stockholm, ku Sweden . Gulu la anthu linabwera kudzaba banki ndipo linagwira antchito angapo a banki kwa masiku asanu ndi limodzi. Izi zinachitika apolisi akuwazungulira. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti anthu ogwidwawo atamasulidwa mwanjira ina, ena mwa iwo sanafune ngakhale kupereka umboni kukhoti motsutsana ndi akuba a banki . Sikuti zokhazo, komanso zodabwitsa, adasonkhanitsanso ndalama zothandizira milandu kuti apulumutse akubawo!

Kotero, katswiri wa zaupandu ndi dokotala wa matenda amisala amene anafufuza mozama nkhaniyi anali oyamba kugwiritsa ntchito dzina lakuti 'Stockholm Syndrome' pofotokoza zaubwenzi wachilendo ndi chifundo chomwe ogwira ntchito ku banki anasonyeza kwa akuba. Ndiko kuti, matenda omwe adawoneka mumzinda wa Stockholm. Dzinali lakhala likugwiritsidwa ntchito pazochitika ngati izi kuyambira pamenepo.

Kodi zizindikiro za matenda a Stockholm Syndrome ndi ziti?

Ngati wina ali ndi Stockholm Syndrome, akhoza kusonyeza zizindikirozi. Koma kumbukirani kuti si aliyense amene ali ndi zizindikiro zonsezi, ndipo zimatha kusiyana malinga ndi munthu.

• Kumva bwino anthu amene akukugwirani ukapolo kapena amene akukuzunzani. Kutanthauza, kuwamvera chisoni, mwina chilakolako, kapena kufuna kuwateteza.
• Kugwirizana ndi zikhulupiriro zawo ndi makhalidwe awo, kuwamvera chisoni. Monga momwe zomwe amachita, malinga ndi momwe amaonera, zimaoneka ngati zabwino, kuyesa kuwamvetsa.
• Kukhala ndi malingaliro oipa kwa apolisi, akuluakulu ena, kapena omwe akuyesera kukupulumutsani. Izi zikutanthauza kutsutsa ndi kusakhulupirira omwe amabwera kudzakupulumutsani.

Kuwonjezera pa izi, zizindikiro zofanana ndi za Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) , matenda amisala omwe amachitika pambuyo pa chochitika choopsa, zitha kuwonekanso. Izi zikuphatikizapo:

• Kukumbukira zinthu zakale: Izi zikutanthauza kuti zinthu zomwe zinachitika zikuoneka ngati zikubwereranso m'maso mwanu, ndipo mawu, fungo, ndi momwe mukumvera zikuoneka kuti zilipo panthawiyo.
• Kusakhazikika maganizo, kukwiya nthawi zonse, mantha, komanso nkhawa. Kukwiya ndi zinthu zazing'ono.
• Kusatha kusangalala ndi zinthu zomwe zinkakubweretserani chimwemwe, kusatha kupumula.
• Kuvuta kuiwala zinthu. Kulephera kukumbukira zinthu kungabwerenso.
• Kusowa tulo, maloto oipa.

N’chifukwa chiyani anthu ena ali ndi vutoli?

Ndipotu, ofufuza sakudziwabe chifukwa chake anthu ena ogwidwa ukapolo kapena ozunza anzawo amakhala ndi Stockholm Syndrome, pomwe ena omwe adakumana ndi zoopsa samakhala nazo. Koma pali malingaliro angapo omwe angafotokoze chifukwa chake.

Lingaliro limodzi ndi lakuti iyi ndi njira yophunzirira yomwe idaperekedwa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo kuchokera kwa makolo athu . Tangoganizirani, kale, panali nkhondo pakati pa mafuko, ndipo nthawi zonse panali chiopsezo chogwidwa ndi kuphedwa ndi gulu lina la anthu. Kalelo, mukapanga ubale kapena ubwenzi ndi omwe adakugwirani, mwayi wanu wopulumuka umawonjezeka.Akatswiri ena a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti njira yakale imeneyi ingakhale khalidwe lachibadwa la anthu lomwe lathandiza anthu kupulumuka.

Lingaliro lina ndi lakuti munthu akagwidwa kapena kuzunzidwa, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri m'maganizo . Izi zikutanthauza kuti, kupsinjika kumakhala kwakukulu kwambiri moti maganizo sangapirire. Kenako, pakapita nthawi, ngati munthu amene akukuzunzaniyo akulandirani chifundo kapena chifundo pang'ono (monga kuwapatsa chakudya, kuwapatsa madzi, kulankhula nawo pang'ono), mutha kusintha malingaliro anu poyankha ndikukhala ndi chifundo kwa wokuzunzaniyo. Komanso, mungaganize kuti mutha kutsimikizira chitetezo chanu pogwirizana ndi wokuzunzaniyo, m'malo molimbana naye. Mukapanda kuvulala ndi wokuzunzaniyo, mumayesedwa kuti muyamikire munthuyo, ndipo mwina mumaona wokuzunzayo ngati "si munthu woipa kwenikweni." Iyi ndi njira yamaganizo yosazindikira .

Kodi madokotala amazindikira bwanji kuti izi ndi matenda?

Nayi chinthu chapadera chomwe muyenera kudziwa. Bungwe la American Psychiatric Association silinaphatikizepo Stockholm Syndrome ngati vuto lina m'buku lake laposachedwa la matenda - Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), buku lotsogola komanso lovomerezeka padziko lonse lapansi lozindikira matenda amisala ndi mikhalidwe.

Choncho, ena mwa ogwira ntchito zachipatala, monga madokotala ndi madokotala amisala, angazindikire kapena sangazindikire vutoli ndi dzina limenelo. Komabe, onse amadziwa bwino machitidwe omwe amachitika pambuyo pa chochitika choopsa kwambiri, kutanthauza zizindikiro zomwe wozunzidwayo amawonetsa. Njira zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pozindikira matenda opsinjika maganizo pambuyo pa zoopsa (PTSD) ndi matenda opsinjika maganizo , ndi njira zina zochiritsira, ndizofanana kwambiri ndi Stockholm Syndrome. Chifukwa chake chomwe dokotala amachita ndikukonzekera chithandizo kutengera zizindikiro ndi zomwe adakumana nazo.

Kodi mankhwala a Stockholm Syndrome ndi ati?

Matenda a Stockholm Syndrome satchulidwa mwalamulo ngati matenda amisala, kotero palibe chithandizo chokhazikika cha matendawa. Komabe, monga tanenera kale, Matenda a Stockholm amachiritsidwa mofanana ndi matenda a post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) . Izi zimachitika makamaka kudzera mu psychotherapy ndi/kapena mankhwala ngati pakufunika kutero.

Ngati inu kapena munthu wina wapafupi nanu ali ndi vutoli, nazi njira zabwino zothanirana ndi zoopsa zomwe mudakumana nazo.Mukhoza kuphunzira.

Chithandizo chingakuthandizeni ndi zinthu izi:

• Mvetsetsani zomwe zinakuchitikirani, zomwe zinakuchitikirani, komanso chifukwa chake munamva choncho.
• Dziwani kuti chifundo kwa omwe anakugwirani kapena amene anakuzunzani chinali luso loti mupulumuke panthawiyo kuti mupulumuke ndikulimbana ndi vutoli. Vomerezani kuti si vuto lanu.
• Phunzirani momwe mungapitirire patsogolo m'moyo wanu mwamphamvu ndikuyambanso mwatsopano pambuyo pa zovuta izi.

Ngati muli ndi zizindikiro monga kusowa tulo, nkhawa, kapena kuvutika maganizo, dokotala wanu angakulembereni mankhwala okuthandizani kugona bwino ndikuchepetsa nkhawa kapena kuvutika maganizo. Izi zitha kukhala zothandiza mukazigwiritsa ntchito limodzi ndi mankhwala amisala.

Kodi tingathe kutuluka mu mkhalidwe umenewu? Kodi tsogolo lidzakhala lotani?

Choyamba ndichakuti si aliyense amene wachitiridwa nkhanza, kuvulala, kapena kugwidwa ukapolo amene ali ndi Stockholm Syndrome . Izi kwenikweni ndi zochitika zachilendo kwambiri zamaganizo. Ndiko kuti, ndi chinthu chosowa kwambiri.

Komabe, ngakhale izi zitachitika, chithandizo chamaganizo ndi, ngati kuli kofunikira, mankhwala angakuthandizeni inu kapena wokondedwa wanu kuchira ku vutoli ndikupita patsogolo ndi moyo wabwinobwino komanso wachimwemwe. Choncho musataye mtima. Kuchira kungatenge nthawi, koma ndi chithandizo choyenera, kungatheke.

Kodi Stockholm Syndrome imachitika kokha ngati munthu wagwidwa ukapolo?

Ngakhale kuti dzina lakuti Stockholm Syndrome linachokera ku dzina la mzinda wa Stockholm, komwe kunachitikira kuba ndi kutenga anthu ogwidwa kubanki, makhalidwe ndi malingaliro ofanana amathanso kuwoneka mwa anthu omwe adakumana ndi zochitika zina zoopsa kwambiri. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sizimangokhala kwa anthu ogwidwa. Nazi zitsanzo zingapo:

• Nkhanza zogonana, zakuthupi komanso zamaganizo: Makamaka pazochitika monga nkhanza zapakhomo zomwe zimachitika nthawi yayitali.
• Nkhanza za ana: Mwana akhoza kupanga ubale ndi munthu wamkulu amene amamuchitira nkhanza chifukwa mwanayo alibe njira ina kapena chitetezo.
• Kuzunzidwa kwa mphunzitsi ndi wothamanga: Tangoganizirani, othamanga ena amavomereza kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi mopitirira muyeso, mwankhanza, komanso mopanda ulemu kuchokera kwa mphunzitsi wawo chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti mphunzitsiyo amadziwa zomwe zili zabwino kwa iwo ndipo angawapangitse kupambana.
• Kugulitsa anthu mwachigololo: Panonso, pakhala malipoti akuti anthu omwe akhudzidwa akupanga ubale wina ndi anthu omwe akuwagulitsa.
• Kudzipereka kwa anthu a m'zipembedzo zina kwa atsogoleri awo mopanda umboni kungayerekezeredwe ndi izi pamlingo wina.

Pazochitika zonsezi, Stockholm Syndrome ndi njira yothanirana ndi vutoli . M'malo mochita mantha, mantha, kapena chidani ndi wozunza wanu, mungayambe kumva chifundo ndi chifundo kwa iwo.

Chofunika kwambiri ndichakuti ngati inu kapena munthu amene muli naye pafupi adakumana ndi Stockholm Syndrome, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti malingaliro abwino omwe muli nawo pa womuchitira nkhanza si vuto lanu. Ndi njira yodziwira momwe mukumvera, momwe mukupirira zomwe zakuchitikirani, komanso momwe mukupirira nazo. Dokotala wanu kapena mlangizi wanu angakuthandizeni inu kapena wokondedwa wanu kuchira ku vutoli.

Pomaliza, zinthu zofunika kwambiri kukumbukira (Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba)

Chabwino, tsopano tikumvetsa bwino za Stockholm Syndrome. Ngakhale kuti ndi nkhani yovuta, ndikofunikira kuidziwa. Nazi mfundo zofunika kukumbukira:

• Matenda a Stockholm ndi vuto losowa, koma lotheka, la maganizo lomwe limachitika chifukwa cha kuvulala kwambiri kapena nkhanza zomwe zimachitikira wozunzidwayo, pomwe amamvera chisoni kapena kukonda womuzunzayo.
• Izi si vuto la wozunzidwayo , ndi njira yothanirana ndi mavuto yomwe malingaliro amagwiritsa ntchito kuti apulumuke, njira yopulumukira yosadziwa .
• Mkhalidwewu sumangokhala pa kutenga anthu ogwidwa ukapolo, komanso ungaonekere m'nkhanza zosiyanasiyana ndi zochitika zoopsa .
• Ngakhale kuti si matenda ovomerezeka, ali ndi zizindikiro zofanana ndi matenda ovutika maganizo pambuyo pa zoopsa (PTSD) , ndipo mankhwala ake ndi ofanana.
• Ndi chithandizo cha psychotherapy komanso, ngati kuli kofunikira, mankhwala, n'zotheka kuchira ku vutoli ndikubwerera ku moyo wabwinobwino.
• Ngati inu kapena munthu amene mumamudziwa akuvutika ndi vutoli, kapena adakumana nalo, ndikofunikira kwambiri kufunafuna upangiri woyenera wachipatala komanso thandizo la katswiri wodziwa bwino za matenda amisala .

Musamadzimve nokha, manyazi, kapena kudziimba mlandu chifukwa cha zomwe zachitika ngati izi. Musaope kupempha thandizo. Thanzi lanu la maganizo ndi lamtengo wapatali. Muli ndi ufulu woliteteza.

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