Chimodzi mwa zovuta zazikulu kwa munthu amene akusamalira mwana kapena wamkulu yemwe ali ndi autism ndi kusamvetsetsa momwe amamvera dziko lapansi. Autism ndi vuto lomwe nthawi zambiri limamusiya yekha. N'kovutanso kwambiri kwa munthu wakunja kumvetsetsa zizindikiro izi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake lero tikambirana izi mosavuta, ngati kuti ndife bwenzi lanu.
Makiyi awiri akuluakulu omvetsetsa autism
Malinga ndi akatswiri, chinsinsi choyamba chomvetsetsa autism ndi kuvomereza kuti vutoli limasintha kwathunthu momwe munthu amaonera dziko lapansi, kutanthauza momwe amaonera dziko lapansi.
Taganizirani izi motere. Zili ngati munthu amene ali ndi vuto la autism ali ndi vuto la kusalinganika kwa mphamvu ya kumva. Zili ngati kuti mphamvu zina zamva mmwamba kwambiri ndipo zina zamva pansi kwambiri . Chifukwa chake, chidziwitso chomwe chimabwera muubongo nthawi zambiri chimasokonekera. Chifukwa chake, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti amvetse bwino malo omwe ali.
Kwa ife omwe si a autistic, kutanthauza kuti, omwe ali ndi "dongosolo labwino la mitsempha" (lomwe limadziwika ndi mitsempha ), tili ndi luso lachibadwa lotha kusefa zinthu zosafunikira m'malo mwathu ndikusankha zofunikira zokha. Mphamvu zathu zonse zimagwirira ntchito limodzi kuti zitithandize kuyang'ana kwambiri zomwe zili zofunika.
Tangoganizani mulowa m'chipinda chodzaza ndi anthu. Mwamsanga mumazindikira omwe ali pamenepo, zomwe akuchita, komanso momwe mumachitira ndi izi. Ndi chinthu chomwe chimatichitikira.
Koma ngati munthu amene ali ndi vuto la autism alowa m'chipindamo, chidwi chake chingakhale pa phokoso lomwe lili kunja kwa zenera, kapangidwe kake pa kapeti, kapena babu loyatsa ndi kuzimitsa. Amasowa zinthu zofunika kwambiri panthawiyo, monga zomwe anthu akunena komanso momwe amachitira zinthu. Kotero dziko lonse lapansi likuwoneka losokoneza komanso losokonezeka kwa iwo.
Chinsinsi chachiwiri ndikumvetsetsa kuti anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la autism akuyesera kwambiri kumvetsetsa chisokonezo ichi, chisokonezochi, ndikuchimvetsa. Makhalidwe awo ambiri, omwe kwa ife kunja amaoneka achilendo komanso ovuta kumvetsetsa, kwenikweni ndi kuyesa kulankhulana kapena kulamulira dziko losokonezekali.
Kodi zizindikiro zimenezi zikutanthauza chiyani kwenikweni?
Kodi ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zingakhale zovuta kwa munthu amene ali ndi vuto la autism kuchita pa moyo wake? Tiyeni tiwone. Mukamvetsetsa zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa makhalidwe amenewa, mutha kuzimvetsa bwino.
| Khalidwe/Khalidwe | Kodi zikutanthauza chiyani? |
|---|---|
| Kusamva phokoso kwambiri | Phokoso lalikulu lingakhale lopweteka kwa iwo. Sangathe kupirira phokoso la magalimoto pamsewu kapena phokoso la m'masitolo. Nthawi zina ngati izi, amatseka makutu awo . Ena amachita zinthu monga kugwedeza kapena kugwedeza manja kuti achepetse kuthamanga kwa magazi. |
| Kukhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kukhudza | Ngakhale zinthu zomwe sitiziona, monga kukhudza zovala zathu kapena mphepo yamkuntho pang'ono, zingakhale zosasangalatsa kwa iwo. Ana ena amamva ngati tsitsi lomwe limakhudza khungu lawo akameta tsitsi lawo likuwabaya ndi singano. |
| Mavuto olankhulana | Kuchedwa kulankhula ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zoyamba. Koma sizikutanthauza kuti ndi anzeru pang'ono. Amavutika kumvetsa momwe chilankhulo chimagwirira ntchito. Amakhumudwa kwambiri akalephera kunena zomwe akufuna. Anthu ena sangathe kuzindikira kapena kufotokoza momwe akumvera. Choncho akamavutika maganizo, amayamba kuchita zinthu mobwerezabwereza m'malo mongolankhula za izo. |
| Mavuto mu ubale ndi anthu | Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi autism ndi anthu omwe amakonda kukhala okha. Zimenezo n'zolakwika. Amafunadi kukhala ochezeka, koma sadziwa momwe angachitire . Malamulo osanenedwa a anthu ndi chinsinsi kwa iwo. Chifukwa chake, ubale wa anthu ndi chinthu chomwe chimawabweretsera nkhawa zambiri. Anthu ena amanena zoona kuposa momwe ayenera kukhalira. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zina zimatha kuvulaza malingaliro a ena. |
Njira zomwe amachitira ndi dziko losokonezekali
Anthu omwe ali ndi autism amagwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe enaake kuti akhazikitse bata pa chisokonezo chomwe amamva.
"Kusangalatsa"
Ngakhale izi zingawoneke zachilendo kwa ife kuchokera kunja, kwenikweni sizisiyana kwambiri ndi zizolowezi monga kuluma misomali kapena kugogoda miyendo. Kulimba kwa machitidwe awa mwa anthu omwe ali ndi autism ndi kwakukulu. Anthu ambiri amati "kulimbikitsa" kumeneku kumawabweretsera chisangalalo. Kwa ena, kumawathandiza kutuluka mumkhalidwe wopsinjika. Kumawathandizanso kuyang'ana kwambiri.
Kufunika kokonza chilichonse bwino (Bungwe lokakamiza)
Mwana amene ali ndi vuto la autism angabwere kunyumba kuchokera kusukulu ndipo mkati mwa mphindi 15 zidole zake zonse za dinosaur zitayikidwa pamzere umodzi m'chipinda chake. Izi zitha kudabwitsa makolo.
"Timakonda dongosolo," akutero mnyamata wina wodwala autism. "Ana ena amasankha zoseweretsa zawo malinga ndi kukula kwake. Ena malinga ndi mtundu wake. Amachita chimodzimodzi tsiku lililonse."
Dongosololi lingakhudzenso ndondomeko yawo ya tsiku ndi tsiku. Amazolowera kuchita ntchito zawo za tsiku ndi tsiku pa ndondomeko yomweyi . Ngati isintha pang'ono, akhoza kukhumudwa kwambiri komanso kukhala achisoni. Ngati buku limodzi pa shelufu lili mozondoka, angamve ngati shelufu yonse ya mabuku ili m'mavuto. Uku ndi kuyesa kwawo kubweretsa dongosolo ku dziko losokonezeka.
Kukonda kwambiri zinthu zanzeru
Ichi ndi chinthu chofala chomwe chimapezeka mu autism. Akhoza kukhala ndi chidziwitso chodabwitsa komanso chozama pa nkhani imodzi. Zingakhale ziwerengero za osewera a cricket, mafotokozedwe a anthu ojambula zithunzi, kapena mitundu ya magalimoto.
Chidwi chimenechi chili ngati nangula kwa iwo. Chidziwitsochi chimawathandiza kuti asasocheretsedwe m'dziko losokonezeka. Ndipo, kuti inu mulisamalire, ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yolowera m'dziko lawo.
"Ngati mwana wanu amakonda kwambiri katuni ya 'SpongeBob', phunziraninso za SpongeBob. Chifukwa ndi momwe mungalankhulire naye," akulangiza munthu wina yemwe ali ndi vuto la autism.
Mwana wanu akakhumudwa, kukambirana nkhani yomwe amakonda kungathandize kuti mtima wake ukhale pansi. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ndikofunikira kuyesa kulumikizana naye pamlingo wake .
Zimene makolo ndi osamalira angachite
Kusamalira munthu amene ali ndi vuto la autism kungakhale kovuta, koma nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti ndi chithandizo choyenera komanso njira zothandizira, mutha kusintha kwambiri.
Chabwino kwambiri n'chakuti, pali zinthu zambiri zomwe anthu omwe ali ndi autism sazimvetsa mwachibadwa.Malangizo olunjika angagwiritsidwe ntchito pochita. Zinthu zomwe mwana wabwinobwino angaphunzire, mwachitsanzo, kumvetsetsa zochitika pagulu ndi kuwerenga mawonekedwe a nkhope, angaphunzitsidwe pang'onopang'ono.
Pali njira zosiyanasiyana zochizira izi. Mwachitsanzo, ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis), Floortime, ndi zina zotero. Koma njira imodzi si yoyenera aliyense. Chofunika kwambiri ndikulankhula ndi dokotala wanu ndikusankha njira yomwe ili yoyenera mwana wanu .
Udindo wanu monga kholo ndi wofunika kwambiri. Kudzipereka kwanu ndi kupirira kwanu zimatsogolera tsogolo lawo. Ngakhale mukupanga malo otetezeka kwa mwana wanu kunyumba, muyeneranso kuyesetsa kukulitsa malire awo pang'onopang'ono.
"Monga kholo kapena wosamalira, choyamba muyenera kulowa m'dziko la munthu amene ali ndi autism. Pokhapokha mungam'tulutsemo."
Choncho, m'malo mowakakamiza kulowa mu "dziko lenileni," yesani kuliona kaye monga momwe iwo akuonera. Chikondi chanu, kuleza mtima kwanu, ndi kumvetsetsa kwanu ndiye mankhwala abwino kwambiri omwe angapeze.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Matenda a Autism si matenda, ndi njira yosiyana yowonera dziko lapansi. Mphamvu zawo zimagwira ntchito mosiyana kwambiri ndi zathu.
- Makhalidwe awo omwe amaoneka achilendo kwa ife (kulimbikitsa, kuyesetsa kusunga zinthu bwino) ndi njira zomwe amagwiritsa ntchito pothana ndi dziko losokonezeka.
- Anthu omwe ali ndi autism amafuna kukhala ndi anthu ena, koma sadziwa momwe angachitire. Amafunika thandizo pa izi.
- Njira yabwino yolowera m'dziko lawo ndikukhala ndi chidwi ndi zinthu zomwe amakonda. Lumikizanani nawo kudzera m'mitu imeneyo.
- Onetsetsani kuti mwaonana ndi dokotala wanu kapena dokotala wa ana kuti akupatseni chithandizo choyenera komanso upangiri woyenera kwa mwana wanu.
- Monga kholo, kuleza mtima kwanu, chikondi, ndi kumvetsetsa kwanu ndizo mphamvu zazikulu zomwe mwana angakhale nazo.
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